My husband and I are expecting our 3rd child in August, and I feel like I'm at my breaking point. A few months ago, my husband lost his job due to his company's branch unexpectedly closing. He's since found another, but it's a dip in pay. My mom let us live with her until we got back on our feet, and I'm grateful for that. However, she has no central air and relies on units. The unit in the kitchen is broken, so we only have a small fan. I cook all 3 meals in that very hot kitchen, daily, and sometimes feel sick from the heat. My mom is home everyday since she's retired, and while I love her so much, I never thought I'd be living in my childhood home again. She means well, but often interferes in what I'm doing with our toddlers. She's also depressed and since I'm a sensitive person, can pick up on that energy and feel like it's rubbing off on me. Her room is a mess as a result, and despite my attempts to clean it, it always ends up messy again. My husband works from 3 a.m. to noon, and turns in around 7 pm. The 100° heat is getting to me and I feel like I'm losing it. I keep losing my patience with my toddlers and I know they can sense it. On top of this I have an autoimmune disease that's been flaring up lately. With the girls getting ready to start school, our finances are going to be stretched more and we may have to stay here longer! My husband is giving me a hard time about wanting to work as well. He wants me to finish school first, but I know I can do both . Help!

My fiancé and I are recent college graduates and he still can't figure out what he wants to do. That's fine to me, I have a job and am settling into it nicely and I know he doesn't need to have everything figured out right away. We want a long engagement so we have time to figure this stuff out. The problem is he keeps changing his mind to really crazy, not practical things. One day he wants to train to become an Olympic bobsledder, the next he wants to make movies (not so unrealistic), after that he wants to become an EDM artist, now he wants to become a goalkeeper for a danish football club. Am I a horrible fiancée for thinking that some of those sound ridiculous? I don't voice my concerns to him because I want to sound supportive, but he changes his mind so frequently and so often that I'm now worrying he'll never settle on something he wants to do and find a job he loves. Whenever he tells me these ideas I try to sound as supportive as possible but in my head I'm also trying to be realistic but I don't want to discourage him if it's what he really wants. But I mean, cmon, how realistic is it for him to become a goalkeeper overnight when he hasn't ever played the sport before? Idk what to do. Are these red flags that I should dump him? I don't want that to happen but I'm scared hell never find a job and stick with it.

He casually flirts with me and my husband isn't aware of it. They're like best friends and grew up together. The other night he came over to celebrate his birthday and my husband was passed out. His friend was drunk and he tried to kiss me and i pushed him away. I'm very uncomfortable with this. I didn't tell my husband because I didn't want to ruin his relationship with his best friend. They're like brothers. What do I do? He also sends really weird innapropriate texts and blames it on alcohol.

I recently got married , as soon as my wife's ex (they were never married) found out. He decided to fight for custody of my wife's child. My wife placed all her assets (lands ect) under my name the day we got married and before her ex decided to fight for custody. Can he touch those assets if they are no longer under my wifes name? Will child support be considered with my income combined or just hers if custody is given to him? Any information would help thanks!

I broke up with someone... a year ago. It's still on my mind because I'm not the type to rebound and heal from more body counts. (Plus marriage was part of our discussion). We actually still wanted to be together when we broke up, but something inside of me knew it wasnt right. I couldn't put my finger on what the bad feeling was until now. My ex, I believe is emotionally attached to the women in his family. In particular one member, who became a social media celebrity as a teen last year, and who I felt he was comparing me with periodically. For example, "she pays for me when we go out. Do you want that gift, well shes selling hers. Do you have any money for this date, I'm sorry I gave all of mine to her." I've been hurt in my past badly. Career, spirit, love, you name it. The failures of my relationships always result in my partner leaving me for something "better." And I am not imagining this. I am angry and hurt over him in particular because we were friends for over a decade before crossing over to dating. Now, he is happy, and seems to be doing all the things I could never get him to do when we were together. He seems to be taking pride on building his self worth through the success of his family members, and treats that one member the same way he treated me when we were friends. It's odd in my opinion, but to each there own. There's way more to the story than this... but was I right for leaving? or am I just insecure? Is this emotional incest?

I am not sure how to address this issue. My husband does not carry his weight around the house. We both work full time. But I come home and buy the groceries, cook, clean, do laundry... all while he watches tv. I asked him to trim some bushes in the yard and a month later they are still not done. He said he didn't have the money for the $35 tool that was needed for the job. When he got paid he still didn't buy the tool. He wined and dined himself with his check. Said he didn't have money for bills and that he will pay some bills with his next check. I finally went and bought this tool myself and did the bushes. What's the best way to handle this? Oh and he doesn't gas my car or wash my car or take it to the shop when it has a problem. When I tell him my car is squeaky he gives me the phone number to the car shop. A guy at work heard my car squeak and took it to get looked at, and my husband is offended that I let a guy take my car to the shop. I have told him that I wish he knew his role around the house. I've told him what I need from him but he won't do it.

I'm married woman from the middle east .I have no rights to divorced .Moeover ,my kids and family refuse this idea.I'm not happy at all. Even if I decited sepration..I'll becme completely separated from my community .What should I do?

My fiance and I lived together for over a decade and has never had this problem before. I had a phone interview in the morning and our apt isn't that big so I shut the bedroom door to not wake him up while on the phone. For some reason he wakes up with an attitude and told me not to shut the door and that he didn't care if I was on the phone. Then of course gets upset when I ask why, what do y'all think is the deal here I'm curious?

Hello, my wife is in bootcamp about to graduate in less than 2 weeks. I graduated college back in decemeber in Game Art and Design, I'm 23 and my wife is 25 and im about to start my dream job in about a week. i live in NYC. My wife wants me to quit my job when she comes back so we can move into a house together wherever she is stationed. I told her 3D jobs are very hard to get and i spent my entire life learning different art going to art schools since middle school and I've been working so hard to get to where i am. She said that im an unsupportive wife and any wife would give up their dreams for their spouse thats in the military and that i shouldn't put my personal goals before her, and that i dont love her because location shouldnt determine happiness and that im a terrible person and a *****. And has threatened divorce/taking away my health insurance since im her dependent. I've been trying to find remote jobs but it just isnt really a thing in the 3D art world. If there are remote jobs for 3D its extremely rare... I dont really know what to do? I found my dream job finally, i dont really wanna give that up, its apart of me. I know alot of military marriages are long distance because of spouse careers(?) And anytime i try to talk to a military spouse they say i should give up my dreams to support my spouse.... Okay so me and my wife talked about all of this before she enlisted and before we got married. She told me the military would give me money to live wherever i can get a job at, and we could visit eachother while she supports me from whatever distance there will be between us. But then after she enlisted and after we got married she fliped the script and said that im a horrible wife and person for not going with her wherever she will be stationed, threatened divorce, called me names and etc.

My father is 57 and I accidentally went through his phone and found that he had Snapchat with my best friend as a contact .. when I confronted him he said he is having a midlife crisis and feeling unwanted so he chatted with other women ranging from age 19 to 50s , all of them are legal adults . He had never had any physical contact but has sent and received nudes including from my friend . I'm angry with my friend and my dad . Should I tell mom ? He blames her that she never appreciates him ever and treats him like a atm. I don't know how to side now

Asking for a friend Her parents were divorced when she was 2 and hadn't seen her dad or brother until she was 20 . Now that both grew in different families and don't have any relationship . Is it still incest if they have sexual relationships.

He writes her at 10 in the afternoon and she writes him back at 9pm to 11pm at night. It makes me uncomfortable should it? He is a good man and I don t think he will cheat but what is she doing?