One of my close friends is mad at me for getting pregnant. Last year she aproached me about having a sexual relationship and I told her no. I thought things we're ok and I have been with the same guy since before she asked. Since I told her she is off. Bought a puppy as soon as I told her. Told me to "get over that shes getting baby stuff for her dog"(I dont care?) And has told our other close friends "she will have to get her own room when we go on trips cause I wont be around a crying baby"(I already told them before i would) my other close friends want to be aunts ans told her to get jer own room if it bugs her that much. I don't want to lose my friend but is it even worth it is she keeps getting like this?

Next year I'll be a sophomore in college and I'm living with 3 other girls. These girls are already really close friends with each other. When we found out we were living together they were really nice and invited me to dinner and we pre-gamed and went to a few parties together. But the last time we went to a party I messed up. I got accidently got way too drunk. I made a fool of myself and was too loud and oversharing info and I embarrassed myself with this guy they know. I apologized a lot and no one said anything like "it's ok" and I can't interpret though text if they are mad. They invited me out again like 2 weeks later but when it was time to go out they didn't respond (but I saw on snap that they got really high and stayed inside I think, so i can understand why they wouldn't respond) I just worry they don't want to be friends anymore. They stopped inviting me to parties though I did see one at a party and when I went up to her and said hi, she hugged me but maybe she just didn't want to be rude. Also, she blocked my main account on her finsta today (I don't have a finsta) but she still follows me on her main account. Maybe it's just bc my account isn't a finsta and we aren't close friends but then why did she even follow me in the first place when we first met? She still follows on her main insta though. I really want us to be friends but there isn't really anything I can do to fix this over the summer w/o looking crazy. Any advice??

Karen owes me $20, my friend Jayden told me that Karen won $200 on the pokies at the Stokes Valley bar. And she said Don t tell Karen, I owe her $20 bucks! Why I need the money doesn t matter, I just want my $20 bucks back. Asking for a friend I live in CA if it helps

I'm a 26 year old female and I have this friend much older than me and awhile back me and her were talking on the phone and she told me that I mean the world to her. Does that mean she likes me more than a friend?

Six weeks ago I called a friend, and left a message saying I just wanted to chat. She emailed me a week later saying sorry I didn't call. I've been busy. Hope you are well. I wrote back saying there is no deadline for answering phone calls. Call when you can. That was six weeks ago. I Haven't heard a thing and that's not normal for us. I have noticed that she's been more distant lately, and doesn't seem very happy with what I'm doing with my life. She doesn't come right out and say that but she gets impatient when I talk about my goals. I have had that other experiences where people just stopped communicating, and I'm afraid to find out that it's happening again. I wonder if I should write her letter, but again I'm afraid that she might not answer it. What would you do?

Hardly ever show interest? When I speak to them they are so dry and send one word messages If a girl is rude or not showing interest shall I forget her

I remember wedgies in my school, but not once was I wedgied and I can't recall other girls doing it to each other in school, I only recall how much fun I had with my friends doing a friendly wedgie war outside of school.

My bf is a resident & found out a month ago that he has to move to another state to finish residency bcuz they are not keeping him at this uni. He was DEVASTATED & shocked. He is now moving in 1 week. We have had long talks about if we want to pursue long-distance & he insists he does & will put in any effort necessary to make it work. He left his FB open yesterday & i saw multiple convos of him raving to his family, friends, & even an ex-gf about me. I felt pretty good about us! Until this..I have been staying @ his apartment for the last week to utilize every day he is still here. Last night, I was studying & he says he is going to leave around 9 to go for drinks with a nurse that he worked with all year to say goodbye. He saw i felt a little weird so he invited me to come with him, but he knew VERY well i wouldnt cuz of my exam. To improve it, he continues how "she's a rly good person & has been a huge friend/help @ work" I was aware of her already/ had seen them texting tons of times, but never looked into it cuz I assumed it was just work..& based on her FB pics she SEEMED harmless He left around 8:45 and 12:30 hits. I text him "hey coming home? Im so tired-want to sleep" he replies "come out to the bar!" (again..knowing i cant) I text again at 1 & he replies off topic about my exam & his cat Text him @ 1:30, 2, 2:30....to no responses! I got so mad that I finally texted him that Im going home. It was 2:30 when i left..no response. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN HE EVEN GOT HOME. Weve been seeing each other for 1 yr & in a serious relationship for ~5 months of it. I am still finishing up school here so i cant move w/ him until i am done in 1 year. i know I have no real proof of him doing anything w/ the nurse or any1 else, but even the principal of what happened is not ok w/ me Even if i confront, its not like hes going to be like "yeah ur right-i hooked up with a girl i met at the bar" He would never admit anything! And this is just cuz i caught him. I love him, but idk I did not get any texts or calls all morning/afternoon today so I called him cuz i actually got a little worried.... & see that his phone is dead. I have the key to his apartment so i went over around 12 pm & i see him in bed sleeping, he hears me and wakes up acting like nothing even happened..all like "hey babe!" I was SO mad that I just ran out. He tried to run after me, but he was in his sleeping boxers. He called me 5 times & texted acting like he has NO idea why im mad, I haven't responded He is 28 and I am 22. Is it ok for you to know ur girlfriend is at home & go out with a girl coworker from 9 pm- the morning hours (God knows the real time)? and never get back to my later texts..not even care to charge ur phone when your home when u see I have left to see where I am? Plus this girl is a working nurse with a young son.. i really dont even believe she was able to stay out till beyond like 12:30 am? That makes me even more uncomfortable bcuz what do u in a bar alone.

I'm 16 just finishing grade 10. We have grades 8-12 schools here in Canada. The seniors are not the stereotypical ones who bully freshmen, but they're still annoyed in a more subtle way. People told me that I'd understand when I'm not a younger grade anymore. However, grade 10 is the transition between junior and senior here. I still don't get it. I don't find them generally annoying at all (as a group of people). Yet school is closing in three days for me so I'm practically finished this year.

I m friends with a guy named David and I was thinking I d invite him to go to Starbucks with me. But I m afraid that he ll think I m asking him out, especially since I know he s romantically attracted to me. I only like him as a friend. What do I do?

If one person puts/forces another person's hands behind their back and forces them out of a room, does this count as wrestling them?

Last summer I went on a trip to Chicago with 3 other friends. Friend 1 was a really good friend for 2+ years. Friend 2 was like my best friend, I was only going on the trip for her. I wasn t really close with friend 3 (and she irritated me). During the trip Friend 1 micromanaged everything and didnt want to do anything I wanted to do (basically a dictator), he and friend 3 wrote up a strict to-do schedule. Friend 2 just went along with the other 2, and friend 3 was a know it all and attention seeker. I had a good time in Chicago, but not with them and because they acted like this, I stopped talking to them on the trip. I mean why would I if they wouldn t listen to me and basically ignored me too. I just felt like they didnt want me there. It didnt help anyway they seemed to only notice a few times (but could tell that I was upset). I left the trip a day early to go to a college orientation and the night I left they seemed to have so much more fun, went to eat at a fancy place, drank and partied without me. So I got upset and left the group chat and didnt talk to them. (The rest is in the comments)

trying to figure out why some people like my brother and his son and his friend have said when we are in a conversation and i say yea i can get that or yea i can do it , then they say oh because you are "MYNAME" is it suppose to come off sarcasticaly but it doesnt it sounds mean like they think i am better than them or something when im not by any means nor trying to be better - just saying yea i can do it and know how to do it. either jealous but to hear it come out of a 12 year old is really repulsive and weird. they are the only ones who say it too to me. I dont have a great relationship with them because i feel they are better than other people and they act like their crap does not stink or they are in a perfect little world.

I recently ended a friendship with this guy because he was getting too clingy. We've talked about it for a couple times and he still act the same, so I finally got fed up. We used to work together but he got fired for lying about something about his parents, and is currently looking for jobs. He has asked me to be his reference and I said yes unwillingly. I really don't want to do it because I feel like it would be his way of still keeping contact with me. I have blocked his number, only way is email me and call my work phone. I really don't want to have anything to do with him anymore but I also want him to be able to get a job. I feel really bad if I said no to that one request. Should I not have done that?

I just feel a little discomfort by them when we talk at school, but I won't show it. I'm just not use to homosexuals. Is that normal for a 16 year old?

Background: I met a new potential friend at work & thought she was cool. Started hanging out and introduced her to my bestie. My bestie didn't really care for her & felt she was annoying. I'm now in a relationship and noticed the chick's behavior is a lil questionable... she's been constantly checking for my man (we all work in the same building), started having conversations with him about me and telling him things (bs stuff like what I ate for lunch). I thought it was suspicious and an excuse to speak to him. She doesn't know him except through me & we work on different floors. Anyway, I've been telling my bestie several things that I thought was questionable and have been trying to give her the benefit of doubt. One day I'm at my bfs desk & she comes strolling over and shocked when she saw me. I kept my cool and sent her on her way and then asked my BF wtf is up. He then tells me that she wants to help plan a surprise bday party and that my bestie gave her his info and she looked him up and figured she'd come talk & plan. My problem is why would she give the one b*** I said I was suspicious of my mans info... now this chick is constantly over his at his desk, texting him one on one (outside the planning chat), all claiming it's for the party. He told me because he didn't want me to think the worst... however I'm still mad at my friend. Am I wrong or is my best friend wrong?

This is the 5th day that he has blown my off. On Friday, I called him and asked him to hang out. He said he could in a little bit but he took too long so I made other plans. He called me after I had made the other plans, I told him I was busy at the moment and that I would call him in a bit. After a few hours, I called and texted him but he ignored me. The next day, (Saturday) I called him and he claimed to be up north. He said he would come back home on Sunday and we would definitely be able to hang out. On Sunday, he said that he actually wouldn't be home until later in the night and he would call me then. He never called me though. On Monday, he ignored most of my calls for a few hours. Finally, he called back and said he was "busy" but he could hang later and he would "let me know." He never called! I found out he was hanging with some other people that I know. On Tuesday (today) I texted his ***** *** and he has ignored it for hours now. What should I do? It's fine if he just doesn't want to hang, I just want him to be honest with me.

I am a 16 year old girl with horribleeee social anxiety. It got so bad to the point where I had to leave public school and be homed schooled. Unfortunately, I had a bad reputation at my old school and everyone thinks I'm a creep. I have to study for the SAT this summer and this is the only summer school my parents can afford. I'm really scared because I heard that there will be people from my old school and I even saw 2 girls who hate my guts. . Also I can't make friends at all and everyone that I meet hates me. I'm not ugly and I don't have bad hygiene. I'm just very socially awkward :( I don't want to be bullied or ostracized. However I have to study for the SAT because I'm not satisfied with my score. What do I do???

Me My crush and our mutual friend are going out to eat and mini golfing this weekend. Well I wanna ask my crush to something alone like go to a museum in the city so I plan on asking her to do that with me very casually this weekend when we eat and golf. Our mutual friend is sorta helping me get her so I plan on getting my crush alone before I drop her off at her house and asking if she has any more plans this weekend and then saying if she wants to go somewhere with me, somewhere interesting. I wanna ask her on a date but I wanna take things slow and not put pressure on her I wanna ask her to something alone very casually first and just let things happen but at the same time show her I have interest in her.

and ofcourse they're friendly to me. I am not going to the same school as them but, i know that 3 of them are kind of more bonded because it happened for me to change school for some reasons. It doesnt mean we are not friends, we sure are friends but sometimes it happens for them to hang out only them, or also the only 2 of them. Should i worry about this?

I added his ex on facebook, but only cause she and i were cool while he dated her in 2014. I deleted her to protect him.....i added her a few weeks ago just to see how shes doing. SHe has a new bf etc. I can tell from convos with her and him that they still hate each other. Shes cool with me. He is mad at me for talking to her but he says he doesnt care but i can tell from our recent conversations hes pissed.

So my daughter wants to go on holiday with her best friends to Los Angeles in the summer. We live in the UK so it would be a long plane ride. She and her best friend would be going alone but they are very trustworthy. Her best friend's family will meet them when they get off the plane and she would be staying with them for a week. I'm debating whether to let her go and I'm just wondering if you would let your 15 year old daughter go on holiday with her best friend.

When I saw a young blonde woman outside, I greeted to her. Would she be friendly to me as well ?

I like to playful flirt with my lady friends (I'm a girl) they know I'm joking around. They do the same thing for me. (Calling me their lesbian lover-they are straight) I playful flirt with my friend she knew I was joking, but she told other people I like her more than a friend. I NEVER told her I liked her more. We were planning a trip, my dad wanted to help us find a good decent price hotel. My dad asked me how I would feel to have one bed hotel room. I asked my friend, she knew it was my dad's question and she knew I didn't want to. But she told other people I wanted to share a bed with her Is she two faced?

So recently my friends and I discussed things we found dumb about school such as the dress code. Anyways, we all started doing youtube recently and I was wondering if it was possible for the school I go attend to punish me for something I post online. Lets say in the instance if I or one of my friends blows up over the internet and suddenly they have over 100k followers(Of course that's just a random number I pulled out but on wards!) and we post something like a rant about a teacher or drama that happened with another student or petty events such as a breakup. If I posted something such as a rant and lets say I cussed in it(I normally don't cuss but still asking anyways) could I get in trouble for it at school? Could I also get in trouble for calling someone out? What if I posted a life story for instance, a classmate gets run over or a fight breaks out at school?

I'm gonna be hanging with a friend I have a crush on this weekend and a mutual friend who is her best friend is coming along too. I plan on going golfing then eating after, when we all are leaving I plan on asking my crush to do something alone with me instead of always with other people not necessarily a date just something me and her can do, idk what yet maybe go eat but is that a good idea? Her friend says to do it. Where would I go from there? I plan on asking her on a date sometime in the future but Idk if I should just let things happen and if I feel like she's interested then ask her on a date

I am a uni student. I have a classmate and I always feel that he avoids my questions related to the subject or when we solve questions together and get different answers, then he says that you must be right without thinking that I might have made a mistake. I told him that I am thinking of doing maths major as I am intrigued by the idea of infinity and I enjoyed the maths unit a lot. I always initiate the conversation with him. Does he hate me?

I'll start with my first story. When I was about nine or ten I knew this boy. We became pretty okay friends. I'll call him John. He was in our group of friends that would hang out once in a while. A while after I met John he told me he had feelings for me. I plainly told him I wasn't interested in him but we could still be friends. A few days later he started making me uncomfortable. He tried kissing me, he ran his hands up my legs, he staired at me a lot, and would tell everyone that we were dating which ruined my reputation and I got made fun of by some of my friends. I just stayed quiet. A year later we moved away to a small town. One day I was at my new friends house for a party and she went to bed early. I sat by my friends dads friend. We never talked but I always kind of felt like he was watching me. We talked a bit and made a prank phone call. Afterwards I was just sitting near him with my hand on the couch. He put his hand on top of mine holding it. I felt weird so I put my hand on top of his and said 'topped ya'!' But he just smiled and didn't move. So I moved my hand onto my knee and he put his hand on mine I moved my hand out from under his and said again 'topped ya'!' But he just sat there. I felt so uncomfortable and then even worse when he started rubbing my knee. I just got up and went to the restroom. I never told anyone this because I felt like he was just being friendly and I dramatic and with John I felt like I would get in trouble. Should I tell someone?

A friend of mine and I went out drinking earlier after he had a huge fight with his dad about Uni. About an hour in he was super wasted so I called another friend to help me take him home. Barely conscious we managed to convince him to go home but on the way he started apologizing for random things about his life and got really upset and emotional. We reached his apartment and put him in the tub tryna to get him to throw up (didnt work). so we ran water over him for a while and took him out. then he went ballistic and started throwing a breaking things telling us to get out. In the moment we got fed up with him and left but i both felt bad and wanted to tear into him for how he was acting so I went back up, our other friend waited in the car. When i got upstairs he was holding razor against his wrist in the sink, crying. When he noticed I walked in, he put it down and just sat on the bathroom floor. I called our other friend and told him to leave and I just sat with him till he fell asleep then moved him to his bed. This morning he woke up like normal (aside from being hungover) and said he didnt remember what all happened last night but quote: "thanks for bringing me home and sorry for the craziness that is my life". I genuinely dont think he remembers what all happened and I'm kinda scared to tell him or anyone else but I don't fell right pretending it never happened. I wanna believe it was just drunk stupor but I'm also scared I might be wrong. What should I do?

My friend and I have been friends since freshmen year and we're about to be seniors. It's the summer right now and I texted her over 5 days ago and she read my message as soon as I sent it but still hasn't replied. I don't really care, but at the same time I do. Sometimes I wouldn't reply for a couple of days but it's because I'm busy and she'll do the same exact thing to me. And the thing is she lives really close to me but we've never hung out together I would be the one asking and she would literally always say no so I don't see the point anymore especially if she doesn't even try but I know she'll try to talk to me when the new school year starts. What should I do? I wanna text her back especially since we've been friends for so long but what's the point? It seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me.

The young girl is a male friend's relative. Her mom is struggling to raise three kids by herself. Her dad went overseas to work in 2015 and won't come back till 2020. The money is apparently saved up. Her mother can be overworked and bitter and the children are unhappy because things aren't the way it used to be. The 15 year old made "friends" with a girl online who says she has the same problems. She's addicted to talking with this person. Discussions about meeting up are frequently talked about. I'm worried about who this person MIGHT be. I'm also considering that she's emotionally vulnerable at this point. Missing her father and being upset with her mom. Lots of conflict at home and doesn't have any close friends. She even said herself that she hangs out by herself all the time. It could mean that she is a manipulated individual.

Okay, first a little background, so I am in h.s and I have this friend who is my closest friend at school, but happens to be flakey and forgetful. We never hang outside out of school bc she claims she is always busy, even though we are only in high school and we have more free time than we ever will. She does this to everyone though so I try not to take it too personally. However, I once tried to talk to her about it and got nowhere, but instead she would start suggesting we do things even more and never following through. Anyways, summer has started and I txted her and she told me she was bored, so I suggested we hang out and let her pick out a date a few days later nd she says she'd let me know. I text her the day before and despite us having no school and that she is not even taking the SATs this summer she says she is swamped with SAT work, as if she is booked the ENTIRE summer with this. Anyways, so the next day on her snap story I see that she is hard at work making jam? Why I️ don't know, and then later she is at a birthday/ sleepover. If she had other plans it would be fine, but her lying to me was wrong, I️ felt. Also when she flaked on me she said she'd get me back to me and she still hasnt. Should I️ confront her/ or stop being friends with her?

I dont feel like going over too much of the stuff I went through when I was younger but to sum it up,I was abused from my father,forced to live with my aunt,still poor,etc I'm going into senior year with all my "friends" graduating alongside my crush (who now has a bf since I was too scared and late) They used to invite me to things but stopped,they kicked me out their group chat. And honestly it feels like other people treat me like one of those special ed kids where they just gas me up, are either kind to me or just ignore me, etc (I'm not sure how to describe it but it definitely feels different). I asked my "friends" why they didn't invite me and one lied and said they never had one After I told him I saw the snap of them hanging out together he just said "why don't you ask?" there was an argument between me and one of them in the group and I remembered him saying "The only reason youve been even in the chat is bc we pity you,basically look down on you cuz youre embarrassing" "Thats why we dont invite,talk,or hangout with you unless it's forced like one of us have to share a class with you" "...everyone feeds you to make you believe that they actually like you" (This is all from text) He later apologized saying only a select handful hated me and that I did not have to worry about them but at this point I think what he said before does have a lot of truth to it Even though I still dont know if they truly are my friends they are still the people Ive had the most fun with

My friend and I were playing a truth or date type game and she revealed really creepy things about herself. She told me that when she was basically molested when she was really little but that she can remember it. She left it at that but I was concerned so I asked more about it and if she'd be ok to talk about it: it lead to an extremely long conversation. But it seemed like she was trying to confide in me. She told me that she was very sexual as a child and asked if I thought it was because of the incident?? Then she told me that she used to have fantasy's about hurting children and making them cry and then making it "all better." I asked her if she still had these thoughts and she said no and that it stopped years ago. She seems like a decent person and is always kind to children and animals etc. but she can be extremely mean and rude to people she's close to. She basically mentally abuses them (only sometimes.) I don't know if I should still be friends with her or not. I want to be there for her but I'm honestly scared of her thoughts. I haven't told anyone. Besides random people on the internet lol I just want some opinions. Is everything she does now all because of the thing that happened when she was a child? She said that she never thinks about it. Imjust so confused on what to do.

I'm 23, in college, and always hang with the same people. Two of my friends are roommates and they basically let friends hang at their place whenever. Recently, there's been this quiet girl who hangs with the crew but doesn't talk to anyone, just looks at her phone and seems isolated. (I'll call her Ruby.) According to my friends she comes over a lot because her family life is rough, and she never causes trouble so they don't mind. After a couple weeks of seeing her around, smiling at her, she approached me one night. It was late and people were crashing in various rooms at my friend's house. Without saying a word, Ruby took my hand and led me down to the basement, and we started making out. Didn't know why, but decided not to question it. We ended up having sex and spending the night on the couch downstairs. We didn't talk to each other, or use protection. ( I've had a vasectomy, but she doesn't know that) When I woke up she was getting dressed. (I think the basement is almost like her makeshift bedroom at their house.) Since then, well, it's happened a few more times. She's just as quiet and by herself as ever, but when the party winds down she comes up to me and leads me downstairs and we sleep together. We never speak, either, or use condoms. Like I'm not complaining, but I just don't get it. My friends say she's super shy around guys. What's her deal though? How can I figure this out? I don't really know how to talk to her but why has she been doing this?

I won't go into major detail. I've known my friend for 2 years, we've been friends for a year. We used to work together, he was my boss and he invited me to his church after he got a new job and left. We became decently close, but more like brother and sister. He knows I think of him as a big brother type or at least I think he knows I do. I have called him "bro" and have told him he's a big brother type to me (he's 38, I'm 27). Granted, I will admit I may be rather clingy and emotionally attached/dependent on him lately, but it isn't on purpose. I am cool with his wife and kids. She and I are not friends, but she hugs me from time-to-time. Anyways, as I said, he's been avoiding me a lot lately by not messaging me back when I've messaged him. We've always gone to the same service at church. He almost never works Sundays. I got baptized a few weeks ago and his wife was there, but he wasn't so I figured he just had to work that day. Yesterday when I went to church, the earlier service let out late and when I got in and sat down, his wife was already in there (she's almost never in there, but especially not before me) and talking to friends and then she left before that service started. This leads me to believe they went to the earlier service and he had already left to get the kids from daycare. I am also sure she saw me, but she never came over and spoke to me after she got done talking to her friends. Why is my friend avoiding me or better yet, why are him and his wife ? It could just be a big coincidence that they went to the earlier service, but he should've known I wanted to wish him a Happy Father's Day in person. I doubt he had to work yesterday on Father's Day, so I can't imagine why they'd go to the earlier service other than to avoid me. To the one who told me to get a life, maybe you should get a life...sitting here stalking my questions. I'm not egotistical, I have anxiety. You need to learn how to talk to people, seriously. This is a forum for people to help one another, but all you're doing is hurting me and putting me down. Are you really that miserable? Do your insults make YOU feel better?

So I called my friend who I like and we talked and I asked her to hang this Friday, she agreed. Our mutual friend is coming too who is her best friend. Well her best friend is trying to help me get her so this Friday we made plans to go do stuff out in town. And I plan on asking my friend who I like to do something alone. How should I say it to where it'll make it seem like I'm interested but in the same time not putting to much pressure on her. Her friend agrees I should do this she wants me to ask her to do something alone

I have a friend who I've gotten help for but wont try to fix herself. So I'm trying to reason with her using science, about when she could die (from heart attack or smth else). She's getting treatment but wont try to help herself. She's currently 104 lbs, 5' 3" and eats only 300 ish calories a day she said she's been losing a pound every two days. If she keeps this up, how long will it be before she ends up in the hospital? Thanks, please keep her in your prayers.

Ive been talking to this girl for 6 months. We hooked and stuff and she told me she liked me to my face multiple times. Im not sure exactly what she wanted but now shes starting to distance herself from me. Like 4 months ago when I was drunk I told her "you know this is just casual right?" And she she just nodded her head. Then the next day we had a talk and I told her I was drunk last night and what I said i dont really mean. I asked if were together and she said no. Then I brought up the idea of freinds with benefits and she just laughed. It was only like 1 month in of talking. since then we basically hung out and did a bunch of together while in school. She would always rest her head on me in public and hold my hand. Im not sure what else she wanted. Its weird too because shes not experienced sexually. Even she told me that. She doesnt even want to give oral and cant ride. But I still like her a lot, Im just so confused on whether or not she wanted to me to ask her out. Because now she is definitely starting to pull away and it makes no sense.

I hear a lot about bullying when special needs kids do try to interact with non special needs kids and they end up getting socially rejected and lots of times, they isolate themselves from everyone.