I got married in a different state than which I reside in. The child custody agreement is also in said state. (I have sole legal and physical custody.) It's time to divorce now. The other party wants 50/50 custody. Should I get a lawyer in the state our kids and I reside in? Or the state everything originated in?

My wife for 10 years having affair to a man who treated me to stay away from my wife?

My wife 25 years old having affair with a minor 20 years old man can I charges them as adultery?

They are doing the unity candle. She just wants her mom n dad to come up there with her future husband s parents they light one then the other parents lighting one. Than her and her husband will light the middle. Here s my question, should I be mad, hurt, jealous? I have no biological kids of my own. I just wish I could have been involved some how with the wedding plans, party, something...

Young, female employees? In the evening and all weekend? He just bought one a Halloween costume bc he said that she couldn't afford it. Should I be concerned?

I started dating a man I met on a pen-pal site a few years ago. He comes and sees me for vacations and some of his business takes place in the US. He lives in Sydney Australia and I live in Oklahoma so we do not get to see each other often. He finally came clean a year ago that he was married and had 2 kids. I tried to cut it off with him but he told me that he was not in love with her anymore and that he was going to leave her. But it was hard because he had two kids and one of them had autism. His wife was bipolar and he didn't just want to leave her without making sure she was okay for his kids sake.....and they own a business in Australia together. He also said he told her about me 4 months ago and she asked that he wait to leave her until they got counseling for the kids. But I don't know if that is even true. We found out I was pregnant 6 months ago and he promised he would end it soon then he would buy his own house and I would come live with him in Sydney. However, he always has an excuse...the kid with autism is having issues. His business is not doing well and he is losing employees so he has to work harder and she is helping... its always something. I always use to believe that he wasn't playing me but now I am starting to believe that he was actually playing me. Do I just end this relationship and sue him for child support or should I wait a bit longer to see if he really does leave his "loveless marriage"?

I think I'll start with, If I were you, I'd hope someone would tell me. What do you think? And what do I say next?

I set up my business 20 years ago, I got into stocks and made a little money from that, I bought my first car, started paying the folks rent and then moved out, I started buying merchandise from overseas and selling them here. It was a success and I made enough money to pay off my mortgage. I worked so damn hard, all I did was work, I had no friends and just moved out of my parents house, finally I met a girl and we settled down and had kids, time went on i continued working, my mom died soon after and this hurt me a lot as I wasn't around enough because of work, my dad then had to go into a home because he had parkinsons so I paid for that until he died, I then ran into money problems when the recession hit, so I had to work extra hard to keep my business going but I had to sell shares, this was my downfall as I just kept working and working, my wife wanted a divorce so I decided to spend more time with her to fix it but the judge said she got the house and I got my business and I had to pay her to help raise my 17 and 13 year old sons, I moved into my parents house and 2 weeks later got pushed out of my business by the board, I lost everything I worked for and I'm here in a very lonely house reminding me my parents are gone and I see myself in the mirror and it's a nightmare, I spend time with my kids and my ex wife is my friend still, but I actually struggle to breath and tears flood when I think of all I sacrificed for nothing. I didn't think it would end like this.

OK, so my husband has been planning for our funerals, and included in that is buying cemetery burial plots and tombstones, etc. So, we have been going to various cemeteries and looking around, reading the tombstones, etc. One thing we have noticed and find disturbing is seeing the grave of someone and not seeing the grave of his wife beside his. We assume that this is because they did no preplanning and their relatives simply bought any plot that was available. One for dad and 10 years later, one for mom. My husband and I think that of this as horribly sad. Sad enough to ask why. So the question is does this happen because most people refuse to preplan or is it because they simply have no desire to be buried in adjacent graves? Do most people never think about such things until it is too late? Or they just don't care?

I got a call from an attorney's office that they were probating the estate of my former husband Bill's grandmother, a person I really liked and admired. They said she had left me $400,000 in her will. I was shocked. She had told me I was in her will when I was married to Bill but I never gave it much thought. I thought there must be some mistake so I called Bill and asked him about. I thought perhaps she forgot to change her will when Bill and I got a divorce. Bill assured me that she loved me VERY MUCH and she wanted me to have the money as did he. He said that I had given her a lot of happiness during her life and I deserved the money in her will. Bill said she knew about our divorce but that did not change her love for me. I got another surprise when my current husband told me he does not want me to take the money. He says it is "tainted" because it is coming from my ex husband's family. I told my husband that this transaction HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. Bill's grandmother was my friend and she wanted me to have the money and I am taking it. It will provide me (and him) with a life time of financial security and he is going to have to accept it and get on with his life or else. Did I make the right decision in this matter? Gals, what would you do in this situation? YOUR ADVICE PLEASE.

I think in most countries it is now legal and fairly common for Guys to occasionally get to wear pretty and fun Lingerie and Dresses like women do, especially at home where only the wife might notice .

Okay so my boyfriend of 8 years drives me nuts! I own a small business and recently got burnt out. I changed the operating hours and decided to keep my kids home from daycare since my son was having behavioral issues. I also use to spend a ton of money eating out among other things. Well, I've given my finances to my boyfriend since it's his stronger suit and I've been cooking every meal at home. I feel like now that he has control over our bank he thinks he's King Tutt! There is no appreciation for the fact that I'm am constantly caring for the kids to the point where when he's around all he does is chill outside or sit somewhere secluded in the house. He gives me no support, he's aware me cooking every meal is a HUGE commitment for me and not only have I found myself cooking but also cleaning the kitchen after every meal!! I already did the laundry and everything else.Everything does upset me especially because I've made all new changes I'm in the adjust phase and in need of support! Like today when I was checking out at the register he disappeared! I have NO access to money!! If you know I'm checking out, why would you walk away? I guess I was just super embarrassed I had no money.This is only the tip of the iceberg. I was hoping to find a blog or discussion page where I can vent or get support. Hell! Maybe even a pen pal.... The part the kills me the most is I thought your significant other was suppose to be your person 😐. I need MY person!

Please let me know.

I am an existentialist, I never believed in eternalism and the idea we will see our dead ones on "the other side" just never sat well with me. My wife was raised Christian and developed nihilist beliefs that made her question her faith. When we met we didn't talk about beliefs, it just wasnt a thing. When the marriage was being planned she wanted a Christian wedding because that was her parents and grandparents faith. We even ran our family Christian in the early years of our children's lives. But when the kids were finally old enough to know the truth about Santa my wife's nihilism showed its ugly head. If Santa didn't exist then why should meaning? Like I said earlier, I'm an existentialist. That means that I know that nothing has meaning but I still try to find meaning in day-to-day things because that's the things that makes life worth living. But imagine being someone who wants a meaningful relationship with someone who doesn't believe anything can be meaningful and think about all the problems that you could have. Sex becomes nothing more than making babies, kissing becomes nothing more than a greeting, hugs become nothing more than something to produce neurotransmitters, sitting in the same room becomes just awareness of each other's existence, and the focus on life becomes creating enough wealth where you don't have to leave your house. There's absolutely no meaning in anything. It's all just passing time until we all inevitably die. My life feels incomplete.

I'll admit, my 23 year old son hasn't been the best of people to deal with. He's back living with us and now has 2 kids that he's not supporting. My husband and I are supporting his 2.5 year old and his new newborn he hardly sees because that child's mother won't let him see her unless he comes with money in hand. Anyway, he's got a lengthy criminal record and is always in some sort of trouble. Everytime he gets ready to start a job something happens. A few weeks ago he was supposed to start a job but couldn't because he got beat up and his eyes were swollen shut. This week he was supposed to start another job but shortly after leaving court he was standing at the transit center and some guy walked up and stabbed him in his arm and his ear. My husband was on his way home for a 10 hour shift and when I told him to come straight home because of the stabbing he did. We were on the way to the hospital and when I told my husband what happened he turns to me and says, "you better keep some good insurance on him because you're going to be burying him soon." Then when I told him where he had gotten stabbed he turns to me in shock to say, "you had me rush home after 10 hours only for a cut on his arm and ear. That should have been you going to the hospital and tell me about it later." No, this is not his child but my first husband's son. My current husband is fed up with all his antics and wants to put him out because he can't find a job. My husband said that when you hear your child got stabbed you don't wait around for your spouse to come home. Yeah, I have a car but I didn't want to drive myself. We ended up spending several hours at the hospital and my husband was getting restless because he was tired and hadn't eaten. But how insensitive was that of him to make the comment about the insurance and burying my child? Does he not understand a mother's love for her child is endless? Why won't he see that my son needs help? My husband said that he didn't need any help making two babies but we're suppose to just let him constantly crash at our house because he can't find a job. My husband asked how he got stabbed and what he was doing. I told him he said he was just standing there and the guy walked up to him and stabbed him. He said that he must have done something. Either right then or some time ago and the guy remembered him and stabbed him. My husband feels that my son brings a lot of this on myself and as long as I'm enabling him he's never going to straighten up.

We've been together for almost 6 years now. He's never had a problem with the way I dress. (Jeans, tee shirts, occasionally skirts and dresses but never revealing) he has recently become super religious. I'm not and never have been.. he knows that. It started with him telling me a few months back that our 2 yr old daughter and I shouldn't wear pants or jeans because that's a "men's garment " and how we should only wear long unfitted dresses below our knees. I've worn a few here and there to make him happy but I refuse to change the way I'm dressing entirely. However, I'm a stay at home mom. He makes the money and I take Care of the children... has basically told me yesterday that he won't be buying me any clothes unless I dress the way he wants me to but, I refuse to give in. I feel he's trying to control me. Am I wrong to be upset about this? Is he out of line?

We were at a family get together and someone turned on some music and she starts twerking up agaisnt him. Rubbing her but all over his front area. He pushed her away and looked very uncomfortable, then she backed up on him again and he said "what are you doing?" And walked off. he didnt know I saw either, until I said something later on. When we visit his mom she ll come out of the bathroom dripping wet in a TINY towel and just stand there cupping her boobs talking to him. Then she ll say "oooh, feel how soft my legs are!".... A few months ago the family met up at a restaurant and I went to the restroom and came back with my underwear in my pocket and then slipped them to my husband under the table. His sister saw and said "I d give you mine too but I m not wearing any!" And winked at him!! Then that same night their aunt saw a picture of our tub and said "wow, I bet 2 people could fit in there!" And my husband said "yea, 2 people can" everyone started laughing and then his sister says "Hey, remember when we use to take baths together!We would get naked together all the time" and my husband said "yea, I dont remember that" and then their dad said "yea, he was only 2" and she said "you dont remember seeing me naked??" And he just looked at me so uncomfortable because I ve pointed these things out. She ll even make weird comments when he s not even around, just to me. I feel like she competes with me for him. I want to say something but I dont know the best way to handle it.