I am 20 year old. I am a boy. I can not read or write good. My sister help me sometimes to write. I pray god to help me get better but he does not listen to me. My mom does not like me. My dad yell at me. My brother cusses at me. My sister is sometimes good and sometimes bad with me. I want someone to like me. I think I am a bad person. People do not like a bad person.

last week, I was walking home from the skate park and I accidently did a huge load in my jeans. I was able to sneak past my parents and drop the underwear in the trash, hiding my stinky crime. But my dad went to drop something in the trash and saw the pooped-in underwear, and blamed my little brother. My brother got grounded, and privileges taken away. I feel guilty and want to confess to the crime, but it is just too embarrassing to admit to doing a stinky mess in your underwear at my age. What should I do/

My wife isnt being a mother to our 5 month old son. She demonstrated violence in the home towards her mother and I. Currently going through the courts to deal with her crimunal charges and she took off to China for a holiday for 3 weeks. Her parents went back to China so my son has been safely in the care of my parents where he is well looked after and raised so well. But here is the problem. Ever since they took over, they have criticised the hell out of my parenting skills. They keep attacking every single thing I do when I try to take care of him. They say I am not a competent parent and they are going to take custody of my son and report me to child protection services. They know child protection services have been involved with my wife. My "wife" doesnt cook, clean or exercise basic hygiene in the home. Wont buy things for our son etc. She just works and relies on our parents to take care of him. She wont give up some of the properties to afford basic childcare! Or to try and work with me to ensure our son is cared for... He is old enough to roll around and needs a cot. My wife didnt listen to me when she brought him home for 2 days. We dont have a cot so she was s iupposed to use pillows to stop him rolling. Instead she let him roll off our bed. I was night shift. But I think Im a capable parent. I have no one else to help. Her parents are back in Chins. My parents hold it against me about a list of things they want to approach child protection services with including how I care for him. E.g. I placed him on my bed whilst I grabbed his milk...yelled at as he could have rolled off. Whrn he was playing on his mat on the ground, I told my father I was going to bathroom and to watch. Later my father told me off because he watched ny son roll himself in the mat and could have suffocated. Eg 2. Told me they would look after him for 2 hrs in the morning so I could sleep. In the morning they took over but got angry at me and said I wasnt caring about my son by not getting up to him. They have made me feel like I am a danger to my own son. I dont feel confident in caring for him anymore. Every time I come here I feel nervous. I feel the colour drain from my face as they run me down about a critical mistake. Im nervous about looking after him and feel like I need to look over my shoulder in case I forget something. Even something as simple as forgetting his bib when feeding. I tried to quickly and quietly retrieve it befors they could notice and tell me off! I dont feel I am capable of caring for him. They suggested I give him up for adoption or they will call child protection services and have him removed from my care. Yes cot = crib. In Australia we call them cots. Origin of cot Mid 17th century (originally Anglo-Indian, denoting a light bedstead): from Hindi khāṭ 'bedstead, hammock'. Origin of crib Old English (in the sense 'manger'), of Germanic origin; related to Dutch krib, kribbe and German Krippe.

I'm still lost I already put up questions on this, and got ripped apart. Saying I should not have butted into my moms phone, which YES. I GET THAT. Saying it's not what I want but what SHE wants. I get that. Saying that she's probably having the best sex of her life right now, yes I GET THAT. What bothers me is how this guy is obviously just using her for sex and she doesn't see that. I don't want her getting hurt but I already know she is. She's been through way too much **** to be used and manipulated by yet ANOTHER MAN like my narcissist father. And so if she's happy but her family is miserable with the guy and he gives us NO attention and could care less about us, that's OKAY? Wow. You people are really cruel on here. Also since my parents divorce isn't yet final, my dad is becoming suspicious over her leaving/being gone for a couple hours at night. I'm scared for her safety as well because my dad isn't all there mentally and he's extremely selfish. I want to spill the beans to tell her if she can at least WAIT until everything is final and we're out of the house to see people but I don't want to reveal that I know everything that's been going on. And I get that I don't need a "father figure" right now. I just need a father. A man to walk me down the aisle. Because I've never had a loving man in my life other than my boyfriend right now and it would be nice to finally get that. But again I know it's not up to me so whatever makes my mom happy and screw me right

My brother is 5 (turning 6 next month). He is a sweet and adorable boy and I love so much. Last week, I broke up with my boyfriend after I found him cheating on me and when I got home, I unleashed all my anger on my brother (Verbally) which reduced him to tears. I apologized later and he accepted him, even hugging me and giving me a kiss on the cheek but I still feel very bad for what I did and want to do something which will make him very happy. Can you guys give me good suggestions ?

We got in a fight and she blocked me and her dad got involved but even when I call without No caller ID, it goes to "this caller is not accepting calls at this time". Does this mean her dad actually went to her service provider to get my number blocked completely? Because normally when someone blocks me, no caller ID works. Also This girls number rings when I call with a texting app

Shes too sensitive. I was just surprised because I've never seen her stomach.

Fights with my mom where she would scream at me for the smallest of things have been a problem ever since I was a child.However with years passing these fights are becoming unbearable and more and more brutal,to the point where I sit on my bed and number reasons to wake up tomorrow.They can get so bad to the point where she is holding me by my shirt,slapping me repeatedly while I am screaming and crying.There can also be hair pulling,pushing,hitting and pinching.At times she would not let me lock my room door,and would proceed to walk around our house screaming what cow and piece of **** I am,and how she doesn t want a child like this.I haven t told anyone except my dad (who doesn t live with us) about this,and he did almost call CPS a couple of times but I urged him not to,because I was afraid they would take me away from my mom.I can t imagine living without her,but she is completely emotionally unstable and I just want someone to help her and me,without me being taken to my dad or another home.What do I do?

Okay so I was laying in my bed on my phone and my dog must've peed on my carpet and i didn't know and then o let her out cause she was crying and my mum started yelling at me and saying that I'm lazy and then she told my dad and he's like 'she probably saw it and that's why she let the dog out' and then my mum said something but I didn't hear and my dads like 'yeah she's probably not gonna do anything today either' and my Mum cake in and started yelling at me and left so I went out started telling them that it hurt me and then Mum and I started yelling and arguing and now all she does is stay in her room she doesnt have dinner with us anymore and doesn't drive me to school or pick me up or drop my dad off at work

My brother-in-law and sister got married a few weeks ago, my in-law introduced me to his brother, sister-in-law, and their two sons. I caught the oldest son, who's 14 years old sneaking looks at me, if I entered a different room at the wedding recital I could see their son through the corner of my eye enter through the other side of the room. A few hours before the wedding begin I was sitting in a chair in the lounge area, there were archways in the wall, I could see their son walking pass them from across the room, he stopped moving for a few seconds, than proceeded to walk. I was starting to feel awkward, it got even more awkward when he sat right next to me when food was being served, he accidentally kept tapping his foot with mine & bumped my leg, it started to get annoying so I faced my back to him. I'm almost twice his age, his family lives on the other side of the state so I'll rarely see them.

My sister and I have been super close our entire lives. Recently, we both have been doing well in our careers. She got promoted and I just started a new Full-time job. we both work for pretty great companies. Last night, we went out for dinner to celebrate our success with her young son and my aunt. Everything was fine until we ordered our drinks. The server only asked for my ID and I assumed it was because her son was sitting across from her and because, I always get mistaken to be younger than I am! After we received our drinks and our food, I wanted to try a different drink and our server was at the bar already and I asked her to get his attention because she was closer. She got real touchy and said, " Why don't you just marry him," I didn't think he was unattractive and I said so. He was super nice and gave us each a sample of the drink I asked about. After that., I noticed him checking me out more. When I passed her a glass of water, I was holding it by the handle but, the tip of my thumb touched the water and she freaked out like I had the plague and asked for a new glass. Then, when it came time to pay the bill, my aunt and I were splitting our bill and she accused me of trying to get my aunt to pay most of the bill because my aunt instantly began pulling out her cash before we got the receipt. She knows and my aunt knows that I never short-change anyone. This isn't the first time she's tried to discredit me in public. what do I do?

She and her friends don't communicate openly if they're mad at each other. Instead, they start drama and tell half-truths. Yet she'll argue with her mom that she is NOT a child, but rather adult. Speaking of that, she has fantasized ideas about adulthood. It's been her ongoing obsession since the girl was 12 years old. She only imagines buying whatever she wants and going nightclubbing. Oddly enough — my cousin thinks that a PART TIME job will solve the financial stuff, and school won't stress her out. She doesn't really think abstractly when it comes to adulthood itself, but just thinks of it as freedom and having to do little stuff that she already does (little jobs) to manage it. Her friends are like this as well. Overall, some of them are sweet and loving when they're ALONE and I'm able to have conversations with them. But when they're in a group, it becomes a teenage mess and they act like annoying children. To sum it up — they act like children who lack communication skills and have no idea how hard life might get when they're in college.

My mom and I get into fights a lot for stupid reasons like this one time she squeaked a dog toy at the same time when I was watching a movie and I asked her "Mom can you please stop it's hurting my ears when you do that." Then she mocked me and said she'll stop after awhile then she kept doing it so I said "I'm going upstairs to clean my room." But I guess she didn't hear me and she came and apologized cause she could tell I was upset and asked me to come downstairs and I said "I will in a bit in like 20 minutes." And she got mad and said "I do everything for you I provide for you and you trash your room and never say thank you clearly you don't care." And I told her I did care but she stormed off.. Then my stepfather went upstairs and tried to talk to me and I started to cry and he said "Stop playing this I'm so poor act." and told me to go downstairs then my mom said to sit but I told her I wanted to stand and she got upset.. Then she said "stop acting so poor like we beat you." and I told them I feel like I'm a doll on strings because they always tell me to sit or stand or stand similar things like that and my mom said out of anger "I don't care about your feelings I could care less if you were sad or not." But if I try to stand up about myself they think I'm back talking and yell at me but I was just trying to not back talk just stand up for myself.. I don't even bring my depression up to my mom I developed depression 4 years ago and my mom thinks I'm just faking....

My parents are forcing me to go this program that lasts about 2 hours everyday, starting tomorrow, because they think it will be good for me to get out of the house afterschool to make more friends (all I really wanna do afterschool is homework and then relaxing stuff, I am a pretty big introvert so I kind of prefer/don't mind being alone most of them + anxiety which really doesn't help). The thing is, I used to go to the place they signed me up for. That was 4-5 years ago and even then, I really disliked it. Have you ever had a place that just makes you extremely uncomfortable for whatever reason? It is like that. I always feel a sense of dread in there and I'm not sure why, I just really dislike it. My mom used to work there so I have been kind of careful about how I describe it, I don't want to hurt her feelings or something... She and my dad know I don't want to go though, they just are set on doing it anyways and I don't know what to do. I don't want to go to a place I know I will be miserable and uncomfortable in everyday, ya know? Advice on how to convince them otherwise or something like that?

my husband and I live 2 hours away from where we're from and where both of our families are. I come from a smaller family, and he comes from a very large family that are all VERY involved in each other's lives and see each other every day. Even now that we're 2 hours away his parents pretty much think our house is their vacation home. They come very often, swim in our pool and constantly tell me to invite their relatives over. I did invite them over this weekend, 30 people came and took over our house. Before they left my mother in law said that they want to do this more often, I said when we have time we will invite everyone again. When they left my husband said that he too wants to do this often, I said sure but that's a lot of people to have over all the time and he said "well you can go out if you don't wanna be here I'm having them over".... I mean WOW. My family has never stayed over they do the 2 hour drive in one day and leave. What bothers me is that his parents think their son's house is their vacation home and my husband loves that idea. I feel like i'm drowning and have no voice because he listens to them and not me... Sorry i guess this is more of a rant than a question... Also, please don't say "talk to him about it" because he won't listen. If something bothers me he'll keep doing it to show me he's dominant and I'm not.... so yeah :(

I'm writing a book in which the protagonist, a 14 year old boy, is present when his 16 year old step brother is running away from Brooklyn, NY to go to Washington, DC where his abusive father is. The protagonist follows him if only because he can't stop him. The question is, when they arrive and the step brother's abusive father calls their mom, how would they get home/what would happen between then? My assumption is, they wouldn't put two teenage boys that just ran away from home on a plane by themselves to fly home, but I honestly don't know. It's only an hour flight. Cost aside, what would happen? Would they have some sort of escort? Would one of the parents have to fly to DC and get them then fly home? I'm going under the assumption that the boys wouldn't be able to stay in the custody of the step brother's abusive father, but maybe I'm wrong. I honestly have no idea how our government handles stuff like that. Would they go to a police station until a flight could be arranged? Is there some sort of child services office? It's somewhere around 6:30-7:00 on a Saturday by this point. Are they even open that late? Who would the adults call? Any and all related answers are much appreciated!!! I haven't been able to find any answers elsewhere.

Well my parents have been divorced for 17 years now. & today is my 17th birthday actually. I've been ignoring my Dad because about a month or two ago he promised he would come see me for my birthday. Cause I haven't seen him in a year. But the day before my birthday is him & his wife's wedding anivarsary. & so last weekend he called me & told me he wasn't coming to see me because he had to pay child support. So instead of him coming he would be taking his wife to California for there wedding anivarsary. I mean that never made sense to me. When I used to live with my Dad I was always put last. His wife's kids were put first & my brother (my dads biological son) was list second & his wife was the main in his life. I never really had that father daughter relationship , my dad & I really never spoke. Maybe about how to do something or hi & bye from school & back. But now that I'm here with my mom things are a lot better because I'm closer to my mom waaay more than I am with my dad . But it is what it is 🤷🏽‍♀️

I hate his accent and his english isn't perfect at all.

He is very ignorant and it negatively impacts my life. However, I am otherwise close to him. I doubt he will change as he has been told of his ignorance and yet has an arrogant attitude. He has been very disloyal to his elders which also had a negative impact on me as I want to make up to them.

Hi. My family is pretty poor right now. My mom has ovarian and cervical cancer, intracranial hypertension, and is underweight with a feeding tube. She is single and I have pretty much assumed the role of the man of the house. I am 15 and will start work soon, but as of right now we are living off of my mom's disability, food stamps, etc(govt money and we only have $100 in food stamps for my mom, sister, and me) My mom is a felon because of non violent charges my dad got. As of right now we are on a verbal agreement for where we are living and any day we could be kicked out. My sister and I have also been bullied at school and on top of our financial situation it's caused us all to be depressed. The only reason we are here right now is because a friend offered us the place cheap after we had gotten away from an abusive step father. I'm sorry for rambling but I kind of need emotional support and advice really bad right now. Any supportive messages and/or advice is appreciated. Tldr: I'm very poor with a sick mom and need to move into a stable home. Thanks to anyone that takes the time to read this and respond.

I am 20 years old community college 3rd-semester student. I live with two siblings. Both are twins yet one is autistic and she is very independent just needs a close eye on her. I live in a different state than I do now. This state is where my mother grew up at. She has wanted to come back here for years. So we were homeless prior to moving here and have been through so much. I got in really bad fights at 18 with a female family member that I thought I could count on. When I was 19, we moved here. I stayed for a month and then left. I just could not stay there bc I hated it. I had a boyfriend at the time. We had a 12-month lease in my hometown. It was mentally and emotionally abusive with him and I.Comes last December, do not know how to drive-- still don't, desperate to find a place to live, I ended up moving back with mother. I told her I would help with my autistic sister but it has come to a point where I am constantly feeling depressed, guilty, and hopeless. I was trying to hard to get into college and when I finally did, she would talk so much crap. She gets money monthly I do not. We get refund checks from the school and she demanded that I give her half of my check. I did it. My 13 yr old abusive drug taking woman hitting brother do so much to me like calling me a *****, slut, hoe, etc JUST LIKE HIS FATHER DID TO ME and I have no family to live with. It is so hard to stay positive when even the place we live at sucks too. I want a life and a career. What should I do? About the refund checks, I meant to say ME because I was the one who even tried hard enough to even still go. She does not want me living with her and my community college has On-Campus dorms. I had enough money to keep for myself for the semester. My mom MADE me give her money because I stay with her with is understandable but if she wanted me out, she would have let me keep the money and go. I even thought about suicide more than once. Do not worry I do not have suicidal thoughts anymore. But the On-Campus housing was so expensive and since my mom took the majority of the little money I had, I could not even stay on campus or even consider.. Now I have to deal with arguing all damn day. As soon as I first came here in December, I felt a bad energy.. I felt it. Just like when I grew up. Depressed, unsure, mentally unaware. Clueless about life itself...

So I was gonna go to a meeting for college lacrosse at one of seniors house yesterday, but when I told my mom Friday, she said no because neither her or my dad can drop me off since they will be at work and mom's worried that the guys there could be gay and can do something bad to me.Now I think this is complete bullshit!!!! I didn't go because I wasn't sure if I should try to convince my mom to go by myself, or go without her knowing or just obeyed.I obeyed, but I am literally so mad at her for this, like I know anything could happen, but it's not like she can see into the future.I talked to my dad about this, and he said that he's not comfortable with me going there alone, with out a car at least since I still don't have my license, am a college freshman.Unless he can drop me off, he's gonna drop me off next time if it happens again, and if he can meet at least one of the players so then he knows someone there just in case, then he would be comfortable.And another time when am at my college working out after 1:00pm, she called to see where I was, then she called like an hour or more later, and then I think she called a third time an hour later to.Do they sound like over protective parents, if so how do I stop them from doing this, and how do normal parents act when it comes to protection and all that?

I thought I raised her better than that! Dating one of them!