I'm a 20 year old male. I'm obsessed with trying to look good. I have to look great. I have to be perfect. But don't mistake this as me thinking I'm great. It's actually the other way around. I point out flaws all the time.i was told I was good looking and ever since Ive been in competition with everybody else. Like I have to be the best. I drive myself crazy sometimes. I'm not prideful at all. I'm actually very shy and I'm not very confident. So I guess I feel like the only thing I'm proud of is my good looks. I had a very bad childhood and was put down a lot as a kid. I don't if that matters but i wonder if that has anything to do with it.

I used to have tons of friends but now I have hardly any. It seems like now everyone I like or care about ignores me constantly and it hurts. I've always been the listener or the one to be there when my friends needed me but a few months ago I started going through a lot of things and I just needed someone to talk to but then they like disappeared right when I needed help for once My friends don't hang out with me anymore, they always say they're just too busy but then go with other people. They don't even answer my texts much anymore. I have been with my gf for over six months and we used to see each other a lot and now it seems like she doesn't wanna make the effort, she won't even answer my texts for a couple days sometimes.. It's not like I'm always talking about sad stuff either, most of the time I just want to know how she's doing. I don't know what to do anymore , I feel so alone. I really wish I could just call someone because I've needed someone to talk to so bad but no one listens How can I either make new friends or make my old ones come back? I'm tired of feeling so invisible

Ok so a couple months ago, this girl who said she wanted to hang out as friends cancelled our coffee date. I wasn't working at the time and I'm wondering maybe if that turned her off. She said she was too tired from working double shifts to go for coffee. So this morning, she messaged me out of nowhere and asked me if I found a place I wanted to work. Then she said she wants a family but she's in no rush. She said she wants three kids. She had asked me if I like kids too. I said three is a good number of kids to have. I told her I babysit my baby nephew once a week and said she would help when I needed her too. I just find this all weird because we went a couple months without really talking. We never scheduled another time to go for coffee.

I'm trying to quit weed, mainly because my friends have said I've changed and I have, i used to be the life of the party now I'm quiet and I'm not funny I actually forgot how to make fun of them. I don't laugh anymore, and my addictions made me socially Inept. So my question is after quitting weed is there any way I can get back into my old self? (Kind of

So back in middle school there was this kid who I was friends with. And for me, he was one of those kids that would get on my nerves at times, even though he wasn't trying. Like for example, he wasn't very smart and would ask me for answers on a worksheet when I would be really focused, I wouldn't respond right away because I was focused, and he would just keep asking. At times like this I would be rude to him. In our friend group, he was the kid that would get teased every so often, not in a serious bully type of way, just for jokes and stuff. And I would take it to far sometimes and become aggressive, I hurt his feelings sometimes. I would get mad and pissed off at him for not much of a reason. And the thing is this kid didn't have very thick skin, he wasn't very mentally stable, he had a lot of anxiety problems, I know for a fact he had to go to therapy at times. Now it's a year later and we're both going to different high schools, and just now I realized that I problably fueled a lot of his anxiety, There's a good chance he's had suicidal thoughts, and I'm worried I caused them. I need to apologize to him for everything, but I need help wording the apology. Also I'm still friends with him somehow, in his younger grade school years he didn't have any friends, so he wasn't probably just so happy to have friends he didn't want to ditch me, so I'm honestly lucky to have a friend like him cause He's honestly a good person.

Hello! So in drama class we have an assignment to take a basic script of Cinderella and act it out in a specific style - like western style, valleygirl, or whatever. We chose modern/cringey style - Cringerella. Everybody has a modern day persona except the stepmother who is in medieval times, and has no idea what the f is going on. Anyways, we are performing it to our classmates, and the more we make them laugh, the better grade we get. I want to make as many references as possible. Can anybody suggest any? We have already made a few - instead of Fairy Godmother it's the Gucci God, instead of glass slippers, it's Gucci fish flops, etc. I'm a valleygirl stepsister. I'm thinking maybe making a James Charles reference? "Hey sisters!" Can anybody think of any other references to make?

It doesn't make sense. I wrote and asked her to accept my friend request. She said she did, but didn't. The next day, I saw a relative of hers in the grocery store. I went the other way. She wrote me a couple of hours later asking me was I ok. I felt she was making fun. Since then I withdrew the friend request. Was I overthinking this? Or was she really making fun over not responding to my friend request?

I'm really close friends with someone who kinda puts me and my artwork on this pedestal, and lately it makes me feel really uncomfortable? Sometimes in the middle of the night when they're bored I think they go through my art profile page and re-like everything, and reblog any artwork that they haven't seen before with a paragraph complimenting me and the artwork. And at first it was embarrassing but flattering, you know? But lately, it just makes me feel.... really weird.... to the point where I'll delay reading their paragraph for hours since it makes me feel so awkward. I kinda wanna tell them that it weirds me out, but I can't think of a nice way to word it. And, like, they really aren't doing any harm with it, it just kinda embarrasses me a lot. I don't have very high self-esteem (something I'm working on), so seeing them constantly putting me on this pedestal feels wrong and it makes me self-conscious since I can't agree with a single compliment they say about me.

I was so excited because I was gonna get to sleep with a super pretty girl. But then things went bad! I have a physical condition that makes me have a small, um, manhood. But I've heard it said that size doesn't matter so I do my best (it's 2 and 1/2 inches by the way, hard). Things started off badly last night because she seemed shocked plus she giggled. I got really nervous, but she still gave me a chance so I thought maybe things would be ok. Except that DURING SEX she said "this just isn't working sweetie", and stopped it! I guess she was used to a big one but I was very embarrassed. But please, I need honest answers! __________ 1. Why did she seem so shocked, and giggle? How is 2 and 1/2 inches really different from normal? 2. Why do you think she said "this just isn't working sweetie", DURING SEX? Please, I need to know? 3. What do girls like about big ones anyway? Why would some gigantic like 7 inch one make any difference over mine? How is it different, for girls? __________ Please, just tell the honest truth if you can, thanks.

I had a really bad upbringing. I was mentally and physically abused growing up. I'm kinda scared to start life. I'm 20 year old male. I'm always worried about what people think of me. I have a weird obsession of being perfect. I don't even like to leave my house if I don't look good enough that day. I usually keep to myself. I was always like that. Back then in school friends would ask me to hangout and I would usually make a exscuse so I can stay inside. Idk why I am so different from everybody else. I usually will go out with a friend as long as my older brother is around. Even though he annoys me a lot. I hang around my mom and younger sister a lot. Idk is this all because of my bad childhood? I'm trying to figure out why I'm like this? No negative comments. And any advise would help thanks.

Could she like me? It seems like she's curious about my stability.

I decided to go to community college I've graduated high school 2 years ago and had this plan to go to college since my senior year. Took awhile for me to fully commit but I believe I'm ready to go. The thing is my older brother decided out of the blue that he is gonna come too. He told me the only reason he wants to come is to Flirt with women. Don't get me wrong a part of me wants my brother to come because I'm shy and having my big bro there might help. But another side of me is thinking he's gonna be a distraction. He thinks he's better than everybody else and sometimes I don't like being around him because of that. Should I make sure I take different classes? I don't kno what u think???

I had grew up with not many friends in my last town and i lived there for 7 years before i had moved out the state anyways so I had this group of 5 friends since 4 grade up to middle school and one year of high school then I had moved out the state of other side of the state and i go back every year see my close friends and famly too anyway ever since Myspace days where you content friends & this one girl never got along with me so she have even called me mean names and tired to apologize to my mom and my sister saying she wasnt self because at that time she lost her grandfather then months later i told her how long i be back out there we should me then again she got heated again block me and i tried least 4 times to apologize so she went told one our friend in a pic comment where people and i can see it and we went at it then last time she said that our friend in group of 4 friends said that i am annoying and mean to her and other girl saying that she haven't talk to her and doesn't have to do with her and other friend of mine i was ak while back asked if i like him i said no just as friends and ill be out there for month i didnt kow what to say because i looked back and i see he had girlfriend posted saying you been hacked by your lovly girlfriend kristy example then i tried messsage him and sound like by my new friend saying sound like his girlfriend is telling him what to say,so how can i get to know who is who telling the truth i want make a fake account to find out my friends say i should play stuipd and wondering on here what best way polay stuipd to find out ill deteld the account right after and oh and group of my 5 friends have same kind learning disabilitie so you would think they ill get it sorry i have long nails on and nails get stuck to the keyboreds sometimes ugh!!

Okay I will admit, theres some weird stuff in there and I shouldn't have saved it. However I'm still worried that theres something hes trying to tell me, and he keeps making club penguin jokes to our friends about me. The first time i overheard it they sounded really shocked, again, its like im not getting something. Could someone help?

My username was tagged in someone's post on Instagram saying that I was cheezy, cringey, and stupid. He was also telling people all of these lies about me and saying that I make everyone at school look bad. I'm really embarrassed and I know I should block and report it but should I do anything else?? I'm super embarrassed

This guy asked me to send him a picture of my breasts. (I didn't meet him online he's someone I know in person I met him where he works). I sent him a picture of me wearing a bra. And a video of my bare breasts. He said it made him hard. Does that mean he probably masturbates to my pictures? Does it mean that he wants to have sex with me? I want to with him

This is a real question I am doing reseach on it. There are two girls/women to you they are strangers BUT you like the way they look. They are equal to you in all ways EXCEPT , One drives a pricey sports car, and the other drives a not too old mini van. Now they both have smiled at you and you want to maybe get to know one you going for the one with the van because they other may be high maintenance or stuck up or are you going for the one in the sports car you can like her just as much or maybe more. who is it going to be?