Marriage & Divorce: Question: Wife left me during my deployment for another man, any advice on how to get over having hope that she ll come back? |
- Question: Wife left me during my deployment for another man, any advice on how to get over having hope that she ll come back?
- Question: What should I do about this man?
- Question: How much time after she broke up with me before I talk to her about why?
- Question: This 32 year old guy stole his own mothers house from her. What do you think?
- Question: Why couldn't he end things respectfully instead of calling me names?
- Question: What should I do about this man?
- Question: What all should a housewife do in the house?
- Question: How many video games is too much for an adult?
- Question: Questionable behavior of wife s friend?
- Question: What to do when husband gets fat?
- Question: Wife enjoys humiilating me while playing cuckold games?
- Question: When should I send the screenshots to his girlfriend? 10 points?
- Question: Divorce our divorce is not final but i agreed to give my wife the house now she is staying i can keep it she doesn t want it?
- Question: My husband doesn't want to share everything with me? Is this normal?
- Question: I sexted this guy after a night of drinking. Im married. Now I got him to like me but I need him to stop.?
- Question: My wife is getting some money from her parents so she wants me to sigh a postnup isn't this keep of mean?
- Question: Any good ideas to get my hunsband for Valentine's day. I am really stumped.?
- Question: I have cheated on my husband and I wanna keep most of custody in case of a divorce help?
- Question: My husband is disrespect me. And I don't understand him.?
- Question: Is this disrespectful to my relationship?
- Question: Deployment divorce?
- Question: Wife had appendix taken out on Friday--last night while she was in hospital?
- Question: Why do I still think about her?
- Question: I thought having a baby was supposed to be a loving act?
- Question: Do women realize how annoying their thinking and behavior is around men?
- Question: Husband didn t show up when I got biopsy results back, am I wrong to be upset?
- Question: Why do I feel so lonely and empty inside? I'm married woman and I have a child.?
- Question: I've been recently diagnosed with prostatits and have been given a 3 week antiobiotic course of ofloxacin, but now I'm vomiting blood?
- Question: How to get revenge on ex wife who reported me to immigration?
- Question: My wife has rage problem.?
- Question: I have found I'm attracted to men. wife doesn't give me support - despite giving her everything. i am still committed to wife want penis?
- Question: How tell wife u would like to have sex with a man?
- Question: Do you wish to marry a foreigner? Let's say an Aussie?
- Question: About how long does it take to really get to know someone?
- Question: Help need advice?
- Question: Fed Up With It!?
- Question: Is this a subtle form of abuse from my husband? Please offer advice/words of wisdom.?
- Question: Is my husband cheating?
- Question: Husband messed me up and moved on. How do I get back on my feet and stay strong for my son?
- Question: Will my husband stay faithful to me and our marrage?
- Question: Why does a Hindu Man cheat on wife, but wont leave her?
- Question: He didn't make the right choice...?
| Posted: 12 Feb 2017 09:49 PM PST Question basically sums up everything. Was deployed in the Middle East and on my last month there she left me for one of her co workers. Upon me returning home even though she doesn t live with me anymore and basically stays with him but she tells me she still loves me and sleeps with me on occasion and thanks me for being a amazing husband. I can t get over having hope she ll return. Any advice? |
| Question: What should I do about this man? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 08:31 PM PST I worked for a company until a few months ago. My director, one day said to me "I love you", I ignored him bc he was married. That did not sit well with him. Long story short, he demoted me to a lower department and cut off all ties to me. I was lead to work with a narcissist bully supervisor, and he everyday made my life hell. My director did not want to get involved unless it was to tell him I too was attracted to him. Well at meetings my boss would stare me down, his eyes always watching me, taking my pics etc. Anytime time we were alone he would smack me on my butt, whistle at me, play with my hair. I kept my mouth shut and than he fired me for not getting along with my supervisor. It's been 6 months and this director know passes by my new job, ( I went to work for my former employer) he calls and hangs up, he always knows whats going on with me. When I left the company, he had recruiters offer me jobs through his wife. And now I'm trying to find a part time job, I have called my connections on LinkedIn and some of these recruiters are friends with my directors wife that after they see I worked for this particular firm that I think they are asking my director for information and its like they have fallen off from the face of the earth. What should I do? This man will not leave me alone. I mean how can his wife not know that she helps him cheat and chase after women. Any feedback would help. |
| Question: How much time after she broke up with me before I talk to her about why? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:40 PM PST When I met my girlfriend she was 4 months into a divorce from a 19 year marriage. She was a devoted wife, he wasn't. They have 4 kids that live with her full time and she's a very devoted mother to them plus runs a daycare with 8 children. The 2 youngest of her kids stay with their dad every other weekend. We were together 6 months, everything was as close to perfect as possible, I got along great with the kids, youngest is very attached to me. Ended up spending Christmas with her family 4 hours away, they love me, told me they've never seen her so happy. I live 60 miles from her, so we usually plan overnights together. About 2 weeks ago, everything for the asset settling of her divorce started, plus many things with the kids going on. She has always been busy with everything I couldn't believe she handled it all, now even more busy. she became a bit distant to me,I was going to suggest we slow things down but literally the day before, I got a very long text telling me, in short, sorry texting it, how great I am to her and her kids, that she is spread too thin and can't give me what I deserve, that she realized she needed to be happy with herself and needed to be alone to do that, said she wished she did it before we met. Said she hated the saying, but that it was her and she needs counseling, that she wants to talk to meabout it I know she was faithful no doubt hurt and confused, how long to wait before asking to meet to talk to her, I need to know what went wrong |
| Question: This 32 year old guy stole his own mothers house from her. What do you think? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:16 PM PST |
| Question: Why couldn't he end things respectfully instead of calling me names? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:00 PM PST After talking for a couple months and meeting in person once we hit it off right away had great chemistry. Cuddled and kissed when we saw each other the first time and it felt so natural and amazing. I would think he felt the same since he was smiling making eye contact touching and kissing me even wanted to see me again and planned other dates. A few days later we had an argument over text and out of nowhere he starts calling me crazy psycho delusional and desperate for attention. All of which I am not. I just tell him how much I liledvhim and forgive him and wish him all the best in the future. He on the other hand never even said one nice thing. He only said it wouldn't work out bye. In a rash and rude way.? I don't get why couldn't he just wish me well for my life and be done with me if he really didn't like me? He even said he'd block my number but when I textwd he replied within minutes telling me I'm crazy again. I just asked him if he wanted me in his life Cuz I saw he blocked me on snapchat for no reason and he flipped What's up with him ? |
| Question: What should I do about this man? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 06:54 PM PST So worked for a company until a few month ago. My director, one day said to me "I love you", I ignored him bc he was also married. That did not sit well with him. Long story short, be demoted me to a lower department and cut off all ties to me. I was lead into the band of a a narcissist bully supervisor, and hi everyday made my life hell. My director did not want to get involved unless it was to tell him I too was attracted to him. Well at meetings my boss would stare me down, his eyes always watching me, taking my pics etc. Anytime time we were alone he would smack me on my butt, whistle at me, play with my hair. I kept my mouth shut and than he fired me for not getting along with my supervisor. It's been 6 months and this director know passes by my new job, ( I went to work for my former employer) he calls and hangs up, he always knows whats going on with me. When I left the company, he had recruiters offer me jobs through his wife. And now I'm trying to find a part time job, I have called my connections on LinkedIn and some of these recruiters are friends with my directors wife that after they see I worked for this particular firm that I think they are asking my director for information and its like they have fallen off from the face of the earth. What should I do? This man will not leave me alone. I mean how can his wife not know that she helps him cheat and chase after women. Any feedback would help. |
| Question: What all should a housewife do in the house? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 06:24 PM PST Plus what should she do for her husband? |
| Question: How many video games is too much for an adult? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 05:59 PM PST My husband loves video games and his habits are driving me crazy. I am not sure if I need to take a chill pill or am justified in my irritation. He is not a bum... he has a full time job and will help out with household chores. However, weekends, first thing he does? play games for hours at a time. If I didn't get mad he would do it in literally every second of his spare time. Now he probably only plays 3-4 hours week nights and 6-7 weekends.I am just freaking tired of it. |
| Question: Questionable behavior of wife s friend? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 05:38 PM PST So is it socially acceptable if you re in a relationship. A friend of your wife talks to them in the following manor acceptable? Wife: what do you want to do? Guy: put my (man part) in you! Is that acceptable? If this friend sends lewd pictures to your significant other and hangs out with that person. Is that acceptable? I need some feed back to know I m not crazy. |
| Question: What to do when husband gets fat? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 04:03 PM PST |
| Question: Wife enjoys humiilating me while playing cuckold games? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 02:15 PM PST me and my wife playing cuckold games on phone,she get off with other men and humiliate me at the same time,is it normal for her to enjoy humiliating me so much more than i do,when the man shes playing with humiliates me and say i'm a loser i find her so horny hearing those words,is it normal for the wife to enjoy the humiliation part to the husband more than the sex play,any ideas? |
| Question: When should I send the screenshots to his girlfriend? 10 points? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 02:06 PM PST I was talking to this guy for awhile and he just stopped talking to me and he said he never would. He has a girlfriend of 8 years and he told me I was a lot sexier than her. I'm thinking about sending her the screenshots of him saying I'm sexier. What do you think? She know she we talked but she doesn't know he said I'm sexier andhe said that would mess this up if I ever told her but I think I'm going to because he really hurt me. We live in different states but we weren't planning on seeing each other. I've been really hurt the past week because of him not talking. What do I do? He's 9 years older than me. Don't say not to do it because he really hurt me. He promised he would never do this to me. |
| Posted: 12 Feb 2017 01:56 PM PST divorce our divorce is not final but i agreed to give my wife the house now she is saying i can keep it she doesn t want what can i do we summit ed our divorce paper work but have not been to court or had a hearing |
| Question: My husband doesn't want to share everything with me? Is this normal? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 01:56 PM PST My husband's son died in Iraq in 2004 at age 19. He and his first wife,Cheryl, divorced in 2009. My husband and I were coworkers and met in June 2013 and got married in late 2014. He and his first wife have kept in touch and became "friends".I'm ok with it,she even stops by for a drink with her husband once in a while. My husband told me that today that tomorrow he's gonna meet his ex and I was like "ok cool is she coming here?" and he told me that he's gonna go with her to the grave of their son and I told him "ok if you want we can meet there" since my office is close to the cemetery and he told me " No I'd like to go alone with Cheryl" and part of me understands that it was THEIR son,but since I married him why can't I go with him? I didn't get angry but if I can't share happy times and sad times such as going with him to his son's grave I don't know why he's married me |
| Posted: 12 Feb 2017 01:44 PM PST Yes I got myself in this mess and I ran with it. Yea im stupid. But I really do feel sorry for the guy and just want him to forget me but I know I got him all horny for me and ultimately im the ***** and its not fair to this guy or my husband. |
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| Question: Any good ideas to get my hunsband for Valentine's day. I am really stumped.? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 12:38 PM PST Any good ideas to get my husband for Valentine's Day. I am reallly stumped. Any good ideas to get my husband for Valentine's Day. I just don't know what to get him. Any good ideas to get my husband for Valentine's Day. I just don't know what to get him. |
| Question: I have cheated on my husband and I wanna keep most of custody in case of a divorce help? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 12:27 PM PST Due to domestic violence which I have proves of I have asked my husband for divorce which he denies to give me trying to make it as contentious as possible and if he would he wants to fight for full custody of our only 5 year old boy, not because he cares because I am the primary care provider, but just to use our son as a weapon to hurt me to give me a lesson for daring to divorce my husband just because is not convenient for him since he is studying for a Minister. I have to accept that my husband has improved his behavior towards me, but I feel I don't love him anymore and I already told him so. I am sick and tired of his mess there is NO single space in my house that looks normal let alone nice I have told him about this for years, I cannot even invite people over, because of his mess. I wanna go somewhere else and live with my son to give him at least a normal environment I am depressed, I cannot take it anymore. Help, what are my chances to keep custody if I have cheated on him and he has been aggressive to me. ( I cheated on him cause I stop loving him for his violence and I told him I didn't love him anymore and he paid no attention) HELP! |
| Question: My husband is disrespect me. And I don't understand him.? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 09:11 AM PST Me and my husband went to the bar/restaurant because he wanted to watch some sports game.We go that place quiet often. We had a fun time until this thing happened; Our waiter was so busy he didn't show up for quite long time. We were waiting for the check but we didn't show up for quite long time. I could see he was very busy. But my husband said "Let's just leave" And I said no. Of course because we didn't pay. But he just kept saying. Let's leave because he said this is non scese. So I told him "i'll call him, please shut up.don't tell me crazy thing."he said. "Then you ******* pay it" Then he left. Problem was that restaurant was really close from our house. I realized I didn't bring my wallet. So I called him to come back on the phone He said "when I pay, no matter what I decide what we gonna do. You loser look at you. No money just sitting there." I couldn't believe what he said. Eventually he showed up and paid it. and I just left as soon as I saw hime again. And came back home by walk. I was thiking maybe he was under the stress. These days I have to do something so I hired lawyer and I paid for it. He helpd a little bit but I paid most of it. Even it's not just my business but it's OUR business. It seriously make me laugh coz it was so vulgar situation. He just didn't want to pay it and I said you have to pay it. That's why he got upset? Why? Do you guys think I did something wrong? I try to figure it out but it just make me laugh and cry. |
| Question: Is this disrespectful to my relationship? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:30 AM PST If you are having problems with your spouse and not getting along for minor reasons and during that time you take a trip out of state to stay with a platonic friend of the opposite sex and stay with them for a few days. You spouse hasn't met this person, even though you have been good friends all your life, and they frequently like your facebook photos. You did not think of inviting your spouse when booking this trip. |
| Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:29 AM PST I am currently deployed and have been for over 6 months. I am married and got married right before I deployed. 3 months into me being gone my wife and I goT an apartment. We fully furnished it and got two cats. She would always go and buy stuff with our joint account and spend it on her personal stuff and going out to eat. She is also in the army but is not deployed. She makes money. Everytime I tried telling her onto use our joint money she got mad and said I was controling. I told her I wanted to be home to pick things out with her for our home yet said I am controling for telling her not to go out and buy random stuff. She now says I am controlin and clingy and she wants a divorce. I don t want to divorce because I love her so much. What do I do?!? She drinks all the time and hangs with two friends that just got divorces. Please help!:( |
| Question: Wife had appendix taken out on Friday--last night while she was in hospital? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 07:21 AM PST I found some old diary letters, notes. seems like she's still in love with her best friends husband. I didn't pick her up when hospital discharged her. I said I over slept. he dad picked her up. I feel like telling my wifes friend that she loves her husband. I photo copied the journal pages, I just want to make sure her best friend understands how devious my wife is..would this get married women upset? to read there bf wants to sex her husband? |
| Question: Why do I still think about her? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 06:55 AM PST We went our separate ways and, although I'm glad for our time together, I don't want her back anymore. It just didn't work out, and it was probably for the best that we split up, I'm in peace with that. Most days I don't even remember she exists. But after two years, there are these occasional times when I hear that song she liked, or watch that movie we've seen long ago, suddenly the feels come back to me and I can't help but relive the blues. Will this stop eventually? Did I get over her at all |
| Question: I thought having a baby was supposed to be a loving act? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 05:52 AM PST Somewhere along the line I must have confused that. Because my wife can lie there with attitude sometimes and accuse me of being disinterested in her while giving her oral. She'll then grab her laptop and open the porn instead. Once that's done, then she will ask if I'm ready to start making a baby. What can I say? Of course I'm not. I can't perform without the emotional involvement. I have told her before that although she can get over the edge faster with porn, it removes the connection between us. I feel like an object. Bur she can't understand that. Honestly, it feels like I'm being abused. Normal couples that are into each other don't behave like that. I sometimes feel like telling her that if I can't excite her or she can't make an effort to work on that with me, then I may as well buy her a vibratory and subscription to porn whilst I leave and find a real woman who loves me for who I am! Post sex us spent disconnected and playing on phones. Sex is just for getting pregnant not for enjoyment. At 34 I feel like I am.sacrificing some of the best years of my life. |
| Question: Do women realize how annoying their thinking and behavior is around men? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 04:54 AM PST I lived with several women and dated many more; yet i always see in all of them the same behavioral and thinking pattern. And it is annoying, starting from their contant need for reassurance, starting drama to get attention, blaming everything on others, jealousy etc. Do women realize how much patience a man has to put up with just to get a few hours of sex, some care and companionship ? |
| Question: Husband didn t show up when I got biopsy results back, am I wrong to be upset? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 04:29 AM PST |
| Question: Why do I feel so lonely and empty inside? I'm married woman and I have a child.? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 03:09 AM PST Recently, I turned 20. Also I had sex with someone else and I meet him sometimes. I don''t regret it. Please help. |
| Posted: 12 Feb 2017 01:48 AM PST So I got diagnosed with prostatits four days ago, and was prescribed ofloxacin for three weeks. Two days ago, I had a few drinks at a concert. Yesterday I felt tired and my stomach was a bit upset in the morning but overall I wasn't that bad. However last night I was up half the night feeling ill, and this morning I was sick, with nothing but blood coming up. Could this be because the alcohol/antiobiotic combination or a completely different problem entirely? |
| Question: How to get revenge on ex wife who reported me to immigration? Posted: 12 Feb 2017 01:28 AM PST My ex-wife reports me for 'marriage fraud' to immigration. The truth is yes, I didn't love her and I primarily just wanted the green card and money. But she had issues so I couldn't fall in love with her she was not my type either. I was not attracted to her. She claimed to immigration I had a gf in my country and provided evidence but that's after I left which is not a crime. I did have an affair too but that's not a crime since I didn't love her. If I don't get my green card I'm gonna be pissed off. What's the best way to get revenge on her? Should I air her dirty laundry to everyone she knows, share her secrets or should I also say that she got paid for the marriage, which she didn't, but just to make her life miserable as she did mine? I hate her!! For saying things against me to immigration so I may not get my green card! |
| Question: My wife has rage problem.? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 11:09 PM PST She gets totalky out of contol when she is raged. Starts yelling and throughing stuff. Everytime I turn on the camera to record it she becomes quiet. And act normal. What should I do? |
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| Question: How tell wife u would like to have sex with a man? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 10:44 PM PST i would love to have sex with my wife and another man. i want her to be pleased - and would love to watch her F another man. i would also want hime to F me - and my wife to be accepting |
| Question: Do you wish to marry a foreigner? Let's say an Aussie? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 10:36 PM PST |
| Question: About how long does it take to really get to know someone? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 10:21 PM PST Sometimes it seems that no matter how many years people spend together, they almost never truly know each other. This happens when couples marry and find out years later that they're totally incompatible or best friends who eventually break apart? |
| Posted: 11 Feb 2017 08:45 PM PST my husband and i been having problems in our marriage and right now we are living seperate hes been sending me pictures of him and this one girl but he says shes a friend i dont believe him i think its more only bcuz i was suppose to go and see him last weekend and he had left and i didnt hear from him for 15 hours and the girl was with him and his brother in law i am pregnant with his baby and i dont know what i should do im confuesed and so hurt |
| Posted: 11 Feb 2017 02:47 PM PST Not only have I been a loyal, got-your back-wife, but keep house great, family and am the source of friends and entertainment, plus I stay in shape and keep myself attractive. My husband has used the excuse of working for over 6 years, for his lack of interest in anything, going out, doing new things, being with our grown children, with my friends (he has none), and still complains to me when I don't even ask him to lift a finger at home. Oh, and he's 360 pounds - and has bad manners. I done waiting for things to change. |
| Question: Is this a subtle form of abuse from my husband? Please offer advice/words of wisdom.? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 01:37 PM PST I ve been feeling ill for days. I ve been in need of assistance. When I ask my husband for help. He helps but with a bad attitude. He ll eventually help, but will sometimes decide to do things that I clearly request against. For example, I keep telling him I can t eat certain foods but he keeps buying exactly what I can t eat and seems annoyed when he has to exchange it. Today, being tired of his bad attitude and tired burdening him, I decided I d just eat the junk. He in turn snatched my food out of my hand and threw it in the trash. He later offered to buy something else but I thought that was pretty disrespectful. Please see give your thoughts. I ll send him a link. I can t talk to him right now. Too low energy for the fight that he has in him. He s in counselling but I still need to live with his anger daily. Please offer words of wisdom regarding this matter. |
| Question: Is my husband cheating? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 01:24 PM PST I found out he had unprotected sex with 7 girls when he was in thailand and 4 of them are pregnant, he said he ignored them and argued that he was not cheating since he used them as cumdump. Should i forgive him? I dont want to divorce. |
| Posted: 11 Feb 2017 12:45 PM PST Husband left me for another woman 10 years older a month before xmas, endingwith me by text. Were 28 years old & have 1 year old son. I was crushed seeing him turn up happy as anything 3 times a week to pick up our son, when I m all alone hours away from family but stay here for job. He cheated previously, put me down & lied about going on hol. now hes doing all the things I ever wanted him to do with us, she has 3 year old daughter. They had falling out and he asked to come round for tea telling me she drank lots, cheated on her ex with married man who had children, shes very rich & wears lots of designer clothes.He told me she didn t want him & I to get along & said he should take me to court as I can t be trusted when I ve never caused issues with him seeing his son & told me that he thought that if they stayed together she would cause problems. Then they got back together, he no longer wanted to be friendly with me. I stated all he had said to me about her as I was concerned and he said he made it all up, making her "sound crazy" to make me feel better. I feel humiliated and he has just come out fine whilst I am left to look after our son, struggling to keep things afloat. I feel ruined and never felt so low. I feel like he s laughing at me when I gave him all I had. She is more in shape and more successful in her job, how do I move on and also accept that she will be in sons life ? So scared of never finding somebody new to build a family unit with for my son. |
| Question: Will my husband stay faithful to me and our marrage? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 12:05 PM PST |
| Question: Why does a Hindu Man cheat on wife, but wont leave her? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 08:13 AM PST Is it a culture thing? |
| Question: He didn't make the right choice...? Posted: 11 Feb 2017 07:13 AM PST My hubby is having back problems and barely is able to move around. It is huge effort to go out each time, so I take our 11 year old son to all activities. This morning is our son's basketball game. Also habby's sister is shopping for tiles for their mom's house 50 miles away and asks for his company and he decided to go. I'm speechless here... tell me i'm over reacting or my reaction has merits! I chose the category for mature answers. plus i don't think we have a great marriage, therefore the category might be right for me. If he is able to go with his sister, shouldn't he come see our son's basketball game? He hasn't shown up once this season! |
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