We have two kids but I feel like maybe they will be better off without me, my wife makes me feel like sh*t and I just want to give up already, I'm tired

I'm latino and I used to like white women but now I think they're just basic women who follow trends. I hate them

My Fiance and i recently found out that we are going to have a baby! sounds great right? well... I m a kinder teacher and she is currently looking for a job. money is tight and we struggle. I have pancreatic cancer in mid stage and as happy as I was to find out I m having a baby I found my self feeling broken knowing i wouldn t be there to watch my baby grow up. I know i ll be leaving my soon to be wife alone. Soon I won t be able to work and she wouldn t have any income or help with our child. we both have no living family. The topic of adoption came up and she said she could never have the baby and give him/her up. Today she told me she is getting a abortion on the 21st. Should I try and stop her or let her do it knowing it s the only way for her to afford things after i m gone. Also, i m 23 years old and she is 21. I ve been with her for 10 years and want her to be happy when I m gone and i honestly feel like a child will hold her back from living life and moving on.

I have to leave shortly to go pick up my husband at work. I am now in my bare feet at home so since I am not getting out of the car and my husband and I are coming right back home I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bother to bring my shoes. I don't need shoes for a 30 minute drive since I am not going in anyplace.

I would like to go out of state to get married in a state that does not recognize gay marriage as legal? I hate Obama

She said thank you the 1st one I bought her. She was not with her husband when I bought her beers but was with her friends.

My husband has two children from a previous marriage and we have our son together. Everytime we get the other two children he gets extremely stressed out. Hes gotten good at hiding it but its still obvious. He gets annoyed with them and hides it. They are very demanding of his attention because they haven't seen him in two weeks and I can understand that can be over stimulating. My husband doesn't get this way with our son together. I haven't really given it this deep of though. Do you think the fact that their mother was extremely verbally abusive and controlling causes them to be like a flash back for him? He told me it got so bad with her he contemplated leaving every night or killing himself. When we first got together he said "we can make our own babies" and I told him to never say that again. I think it was so bad he was ready to leave his children for good to escape the abuse.now of course she uses the famoly courts to still be crazy but they sometimes put her in her place. I honestly think he loves our son together more because of our other childrens mother. Its unspoken but clear when I see how his demenor changes. He really tries to hide this. Nobody probably knws but me. I am unsure why to do to help. If their mom wasnt such a witch I am sure everyone would be happier and I know he could actually enjoy his children more. I see why some men run away. Its been very hard on him. Any advise from anyone? Should I actually ask him about this? Is thos too taboo speak of?

After dating a dozen divorced women; i've made up my mind to completly cross them out of the dating / social scene. I used to believe the BS about them being mistreated by a mean husband etc. But i figured its not true all in most cases. My issues with divorced women is that they got some sort of hatred, deep contorted mental issues aka psychopaths. And im very sure the guy before nor i would be willing to take such a mess. But its something more than that; and i cant exactly put my finger on it to what sort of psychological problem they got. Being manipulative selfish liars is one of them to be honest. And playing victim of course. And not having any empathy for others ie they dont see or care how their behavior and lies hurt people around them. And of course they also got an over inflated sense of self esteem. But what else is going on in their mind ?

i just recognize that he chatted on me with my cousin , i seriously thinkin of something to exposed him please gimme ideas ,,,, plz don't say like move on , break up stuff like that

My fiancé gets mad that I talk highly of shawn mendes and think he's cute. He says that it's rude of me to fan boy over him. Is this wrong? I don't think it is?

My husband and I were married 16 years. We have 3 children together. I filed for divorce when I found out he was having an affair. I feel a sense of relief now that the divorce is finalized but I'm also very depressed. I'm trying hard not to show it. I thought I'd just feel happiness that I can put this behind me. I'm not sure why I'm feeling depressed? Is this a normal feeling post divorce?

I am 19 and I was wondering this because my boyfriend and I were talking about sex, and I told him that I thought the vagina is only 5 inches long. And he said he has gotten his whole penis to completely fit in a vagina multiple times. But whenever I masturbate, I use three fingers and I stick them in as far as I can, and it feels like I'm hitting the back wall, or the cervix. So, I just wanted to know what I am feeling and if a vagina can increase in length to accommodate a 7-8 inch penis.

I'm 28 and I have 5 young kids with my husband who is 30. I'm biracial and he's a typical white man who annoys me all the time. He tells stupid jokes all the time and lesves the house a mess. He's so lazy and just leaves a mess around the house. He works and I take care of the house and kids. I'm just so tired of him and his psle face, what do I do?

I'm 34 and have been married for 8 years, with 1 child. Even though I don't like being completely alone all the time I really don't like everyone around me that much, even my own husband. I miss being able to have my own room, my own space, doing my own thing, and just plain silence whenever I want it. I honestly feel jealous of those couples that are separated/divorced who share custody, especially the ones who alternate weeks or where one of them has the kids during the week, the other has them on the weekends. A whole week or weekend to myself often? That sounds like paradise honestly. I don't know how people who don't like being around others continue to do this. If we were wealthy I'd get my own separate apartment, but double rent/bills aren't realistic. I've felt this for a while (years?) but it's getting worse. I can't be the only one who feels this way.

watches porn, ok? thx. Rebecca,why r u so interested in me? go away.

I feel like my husband is trying to justify what I would consider to be a lie, to make it seem ok. He says he didn't lie cause it's not a lie when you make a promise not to do something because he didn't have any intentions on breaking that promise but it just happened that it wasn't planned out to be that way so it's not lying. How is this possible? How is this not lying when you promised not to do something and you did it anyways behind my back knowing it would hurt me but still made the conscious decision to break the promise and to do what he done in hopes to get away with it with out me knowing he broke his promise. He would have never came clean about this so called "mistake" if I hadn't of caught him in the act because he didn't want to hurt me. So anyways my question...is the above situation considered a lie or not?

My wife and I have been seperated for over a year now. We had a pretty bad break and a lot of accusations and name calling were thrown around. We ve both seen other people this past year, but I cant help wanting to get back together. She was the one that left. We both messed up different things and looking back I believe that being young and stubborn is what ruined things. I havent had much contact so I cant speak for her, but Ive done so much growing this past year and believe I am ready to make things right. I just dont know how to start. I ve never been good with this kind of thing and want to make a good impression. I need good advice.

I work in the fitness industry as a trainer and am an owner of my own business. I go to dinners and gatherings and through my experience I have met with some very wealthy men. Some are not very attractive and honestly do not take care of their physical appearance. Due to their income, some of these men have wives otherwise known as "Trophies." The women have made passes at me but I declined each time knowing you do not mix pleasure with business. So i'm just wondering how do these women find sexual satisfaction if they are not physically attracted to their husbands?

I met my husband of 3 years online over 5 years ago we had a connection like no other talking every night and day hours on end we lived 7 hours apart. Well 3 months down the road his girlfriend ( I knew nothing about of course) let me know she wasnt happy about it . We went our separate ways. He got incarcerated and his sister sent me a message he wanted me to write him well from there it was history we decided we was getting married and all that .. My thing is the man that was incarcerated wasnt the same man I married. He would write me the most sincere letters, call me the most lovely things on the phone . I would even go visit when he got sent on to prison on the weekends and we made such a great couple. How can someone change like that once they get out? He turned very controlling, really mean..hated my kids was so jealous I couldnt even have guy friends that I had for over 20 years that was married to my best friend. I miss the good times not the bad at all he called me so many bad things .. I have little self esteem and I Had to get an order of protection against him meaning no contact for a year. This week I have been so confused and the tears have been falling.. how do i get over this? Should I just go ahead and file myself?

I have never thought more about my race or coloring since I met my husband and it's driving me crazy in a bad way. I am half German and half Spanish. I have brown hair and brown eyes and light skin. I wish I could post a pic but then my question will get deleted in an instant. My husband and his family are Greek so he's a bit tan and dark and I think he's handsome. Every last one of his brothers and cousins married supremely Nordic looking women with blonde hair and blue eyes. My husband says I am "dark and olive" and his family says I'm ugly. Again- this is far removed from reality. Any advice on posting a pic appreciated. I'm really sick of the negativity and racism from him and his family. It's sick and unhealthy. How do I cope? http://tinypic.com/r/ivwapx/9 That is a picture of me

There is this man who is like 10 years older than me (I'm 19), he's married with kids and everything. We were talking in the kitchen one night and he started accusing me of flirting with this other guy and I said I wasn't because it's true I really wasn't so I said "what did I do then" and he just stared at me in my eyes for ages without saying anything. So I repeated the question and said kyle? Why aren't you answering me? And still nothing so I ended up walking off from the total awkwardness of it. What the heck is his deal?

I have just had enough. She spends all her time at work. Eg. Tonight she went upstairs to see the neighbours and try to sell property. Came back at midnight. Spent nearly one hour typing about her day on her blog. No hello. No goodnight. Right now at 1am she is still browsing the articles having barely spoken to me. Tomorrow will rinse and repeat. It's to the point where she is trying to make important financial decisions about purchasing property without even including me. I'm starting to feel like a sperm donor and nothing more. She won't make an effort with me anymore It's just all about her work. I can complain but she won't listen. She is behaving narcissistic and not caring. So my question is would temporarily walking out for a week snap her outo of it? If not, can anyone else suggest what else I can do?.I have tried speaking but she won't listen or care. Our nights are very dysfunctional. I learned about her difficult two days by a blog post. She won't make an effort for me. I feel like she isn't proper wife material because I'm put last all the time. Again, I'm really frustrated and angry. I feel like my head has been messed with and no matter how angry I get or how much I'm going crazy inside, she isn't listening or seeing. Ifor it keeps going I'm going to end up in a bloody mental hospital!! Seriously though, I don't know what to do anymore. She is addicted to her phone and won't water a meal with me or even go anywhere. She lives in her own world! I forgot to add that today we hadn't spoken at all. I got up early for work and she was still sleeping. I come home and she is in the office She came home to eat without speaking and said she was going upstairs to see the neighbours and convince them to buy. Is there a mental condition associated with being lost in your own world and ignoring your partner?

She went to japan with 3 guys. I found out they stayed in a hotel with private hotsprings for couples and the rule is every one needs to be naked in hotspring. I know she had hotspring but she said it is gender isolated ones. I dont trust her. Also i saw some pics with woman's private part with 2 penis inside while another penis in anal, and pics with sperms dripping out from both holes. She said she downloaded online when missing me during her leisure trip. But i saw messages sending to hwr about lets do triple tower again wh0re and also calling her creampie *****. She responded back with those pics. Is she the girl in those pics because she went to this leisure trip with 3 guys. She cheats or not?

Ok so I ordered a pizza and with the delivery charge tax tip and sides it was $28. I paid for the pizza myself. I don't order pizza on a regular basis either. My husband was laughing at the fact the I paid $28 for just a pizza. Then it evolved and evolved and evolved into the HUUUGE argument about how I need to make healthier choices cause I won't be able to raise a family one day if I don't. I mean I get that but I'm only 21 and I don't plan on having kids anytime soon and if I want to order a pizza I will! Anyways..... that's just an example lol the question here is, have you ever had something so small and menial turn into the biggest fight ever?

So long story short, my husband and I had date night, went and saw 50 shades, I had bought a little sex kit from Spencers. We do that sort of thing. One thing I don't do is anal. I've tried it a couple times, don't like it and my husband knows that. I've reminded him the many times he has asked to do it. Anyway. On Valentine's I ended up too drunk to even walk myself to bed, the last clear memory I have is him taking off my shoes and earrings. The next thing is waking up in SO MUCH PAIN. excruciating. I knew what happened. He had already left for work and all day I just layed in bed and cried and thought and thought about it and I just don't know what to do. I'm sure there are people who would say go to the police but I wont. Maybe I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill but I feel as though he raped me. The man who vowed to love honor and cherish me waited until I was too wasted or passed out to do something to me that he knew I didn't want. He took something from me without asking. And broke my trust in so many ways. He violated me and got off on it. I don't know what to do. Help...