SO i was in a nursing training and i was lying on the bed and i noticed this woman looking at me smiling. What does it mean?

One of my coworkers said behind my back that I'm really ugly but hot at the same time and that they guess I was "bangable." I don't know how to respond to that as I know I am not pretty, my face is ugly. Should I take offense to that statement or forget about it?

I'm almost 21 and I've never been in a relationship due to extreme shyness and anxiety. However, I've been crushing on this guy who's in two of my classes for like 3 months now, but because of how shy I am (and also because I'm terrified of rejection) I've never told him I like him and I even actually tried to avoid him at one point because I was so afraid that my facial expressions and body language would give it away. However, lately I've been acting more natural around him, not flirty, just being myself, and yesterday, for the first time ever, he showed some pretty clear signs of liking me back. I should be happy about that right? But no, instead of being happy I've spent the past 24 hours crying and freaking out about it. I'm scared and overwhelmed and much as I like him the thought of doing anything sexual with him beyond making out or opening up to him emotionally, let alone actually being in a relationship with him, terrifies me. And I know that this is definitely not a normal a way for a girl to react when her crush likes her back, so why could I be I feeling like this? What am I so scared of?

I'm going to dinner with a friend from college on Friday and he invited me to a nearby diner. The only problem is, I don't like eating in front of people, and I'll especially be nervous in front of him, because it kind sorta is a date. And I'm really insecure about my weight, I'm definitely on the heavier side. Any suggestions?

I can usually talk to guys but when I get around this one I start to blush. It is so annoying. Every time we see each other we talk but I always blush and get a weird flip floppy feeling in my stomach. How do I get over it?

My friend is one of those "good boy" types. He doesn't curse, and he doesn't really talk about girls/sex with us and the other guys. He has a sister who is 18 (I'm 15) she is reallu short and pretty. She is also very popular. My friend told me that she's in college now. I consider myselfgood looking, and I have a good amount of muscle mass. Would it be pointless to try and ask her out?

I am on a dating site. I just look around to see who s in my area. So when I was scrolling down. I accidently clicked on my ex gf profile. I really didn t mean to and as soon as I realized that. I didn t even bother to look at her profile. However, she probably knows now that I looked at it. I m so mad my finger flipped scrolling down on my cellphone. I don t want her to think I still like her because I don t anymore. Help? No I did not message her I went back as soon as I can.

I'm talking 5'9 - 5'10 I'm that tall so I was just wondering

A cute girl and I locked eyes once and now I keep catching her staring at me out of the corner of my eye. She was sitting by herself for awhile on her phone and when I skated by her to talk to my friend she quickly put her phone away and crossed her legs. Does she like me?

To start with I am a girl and I am 100% as straight as a ruler, that I know as a fact but this part of my life is sort of, and it is uncertain for me and I really want advice or some sort of answer for this. So It all started in 7th Grade, and I ended up running across this girl who was in my Music Class. When I first saw her I sort of thought she looked like one of my favorite characters in a TV show which is funny because that's how I'd usually remember her. But as the week progressed I ended up getting this vibe or connection from her that I didn't really know what it was. It wasn't long before I forgot about the character comparison and suddenly got this longing for her, and since then I really REALLY wanted to be her friend. At the time the longing wasn't as strong and sometimes I'd forget about it but it always came back when I saw her and I'd always get this tug in my heart too. I knew it was like a "Friend Crush" and it definitely was. But the thing is every time I started to approach her and tried to start a conversation between us I'd instantly shut down, like sometimes I felt like either her vibe or my brain would just shut me down into this shyness I don't usually ever feel cause most of the time I'm pretty extroverted. Sometimes I think it was because she was close friends with this other girl and I was afraid of getting in the way but I knew it was a bit more than that so all the time I'd chicken out and just watch from a distance. Then High School came. To be honest during the summer I never really thought about it all actually but when I came back and saw her again those emotions returned like a punch in the face. Only this time when the days continued to grew even more than in Middle School. But still I tried to talk to her yet AGAIN I shut down instantly, and coward with this sort of fear. It was when my friends and I were talking in this group chat we were in that she eventually came on and I started talking to her and it was then that I realized talking to her through text was WAY easier. I ended up telling her that I wanted to talk to her but I never had the courage, and because we both have a love for books and movies she suggested we talk about that. I thought it was a great idea and I tried to do it but AGAIN I shut down. It was like 3 tries later that I eventually got her attention because I was talking about a book she loved and I have never felt so happy because she noticed me like I've always wanted her to. Soon enough we really hit it off and we started to really get to know each other. Sometimes she'd acknowledge me a lot like spontaneously coming into my class to talk to me or popping out of nowhere when I'm not looking to again talk with me. I ended up growing so used to being with her that I was comfortable when silence fell in between us like we were talking with silence unlike before when it used to be so awkward. The happiest I've ever been was when she mentioned me being her best friend indirectly and I was like doing cartwheels in my head, and there was also the time when she took the Myers Briggs test and her personality type was a friendship type to mine like I was an ESFJ and she was an ISFJ. Double cartwheel XD. Now in the past I thought when I accomplished the goal to befriend her the feelings would sort of fade but I feel like they've gotten even stronger than BEFORE. I ALWAYS want to be with her, I always want to talk to her whether through mouth or silence and the vibe or connection I feel towards her is stronger than ever. I hold this care for her and I never want to do anything to hurt her. I always feel happy and warm around her. I love everything about her, and I care for her so much that I feel like I don't deserve her, like I always give her, her space, I'm never clingy, I always let her hang out with her close friend and never barge into their conversations.I'm not a stalker or crazy psycho lover like anything like that. Sometimes I care for her so much that I want to break down crying and I care for her so much she's always appearing in my dreams. I feel like I love her but not in a sexual or relationship type way, and it's barely been like 5 months. I have NEVER Felt like this towards ANYONE like this before, not even towards my guy friends. I don't know if it's a trick of my heart and sometimes I feel scared of these emotions like if it means I have a crush on a girl even though I KNOW that it's not THAT type of life but something different I just don't know what it is and I really need answers. Please help! I don't know! I mean I don't want to be her, I don't look at her in a way that she's like my idol-role-model type person but something else, I don't know maybe like a sister or friend from another life? Which is confusing because I've known her for less than 5 months and I felt like that even prior to when I was her friend. I want to tell someone and maybe her but I'm too scared. Help Please!!! It's just something about her, her vibe/connection towards me is so strong. I just don't know.

I have been with my fiance for almost four years. we ve lived together for about a year and a half now. his best man is our onlyissue . rewind to two years ago, his friend had a girlfriend whom he treated poorly. She came to me one night and told me he was hitting on a girl infront of her which really bothered her but she insisted on acting cold to him. I told her that she should talk to him about how she felt because there is a chance that he doesn t realize that was upsetting to her. they have a talk after she and it ends up becoming a fight and he says "*FI s girlfriend is a b*tch, she made *Girl* mad at me"... all i did was insist she communicates to him what s bothering her.. he claims he s over it.... Months pass and I am hanging out with their group of friends and he slips up talking about how he has cheated on her and then goes "F**K" and points at me who was faced away from him but could see his reflection in the window... While this weighed on me heavily.. she ended up dumping him two days later .. her reasons were because he had ignored her calls for a week.. but he called all of his friends crying and when they showed up he insisted to tell everyone it was my fault and I "must have told her".. Since then he has encouraged my fiance to lie to me and do things that he knows would cause a fight...he also protested us living together - saying it was the biggest mistake of his life...I ve tried talking to him countless times and he denies any issue and blocked me. What can I do?... my fiance's best man and I don't get along.. at all

Ever since the first day, I've caught him checking me out. He often lets his hands graze my shoulders, chest and hips for a little too long. But last week confirmed my suspicions. So the bell rang, and as everyone was walking out of class, he started making conversation with me as usual. The subject of food came up, and I mentioned that I was hungry. Then, he said, "Well I can give you something tasty" while motioning to his genitalia. He had a very suggestive look in his eyes. I politely said, "No thanks," and scurried out. I could hear him angrily telling me to come back as I was leaving. I'm really worried about seeing him again tomorrow. Do you think I'm overreacting? If not, what should I do?

We facetime like everday and well its fun and all but then it gets kind of silent.. we are just there for like 30 minutes staring at each other and smiling and laughing our expressions.. most of it is my fault i guess, I dont know what questions to ask her mostly.. what do i do? im also very unfunny when talking to her because i get kinda nervous haha.. she is seriously the best thing thats happened to me and i got this god sent gift right in the beginning of the year.. just dont want to seem as boring anymore ;) she told me that she just likes listening to my voice and such *i told her one time sorry for being boring haha and she told me that* I also just like being in her company idk haha.. pls help?

I have been with my fiance for almost four years. we ve lived together for about a year and a half now. his best man is our onlyissue . rewind to two years ago, his friend had a girlfriend whom he treated poorly. She came to me one night and told me he was hitting on a girl infront of her which really bothered her but she insisted on acting cold to him. I told her that she should talk to him about how she felt because there is a chance that he doesn t realize that was upsetting to her. they have a talk after she and it ends up becoming a fight and he says "*FI s girlfriend is a b*tch, she made *Girl* mad at me"... all i did was insist she communicates to him what s bothering her.. he claims he s over it.... Months pass and I am hanging out with their group of friends and he slips up talking about how he has cheated on her and then goes "F**K" and points at me who was faced away from him but could see his reflection in the window... While this weighed on me heavily.. she ended up dumping him two days later .. her reasons were because he had ignored her calls for a week.. but he called all of his friends crying and when they showed up he insisted to tell everyone it was my fault and I "must have told her".. Since then he has encouraged my fiance to lie to me and do things that he knows would cause a fight...he also protested us living together - saying it was the biggest mistake of his life...I ve tried talking to him countless times and he denies any issue and blocked me.

So basically me and my boyfriend are together 3 years, I ve always lived away for our relationship for college mon-thur. His hygiene is really starting to get at me, it always has but it is starting to become something I can no longer stand. He will have a shower when I prompt him to do so, he will brush his teeth when I prompt it. I also got him to go to the dentist, the dentist told him he had gum disease and that he needed to get his teeth deep cleaned twice to get rid of it. To please me he wen t once and then never returned to the problem is still there. I tell him all the time but his excuse is always that he s just so tired after his 8-5 Job! Sorry but my 8-8 job still allows me to shower etc. He s amazing in every other way but I don t feel I should have to tell him to have a shower, and if I don t tell him he will just not have a shower for a good few days. Help!!!!!!

Hello.. Today is 1/29/2017. I started talking with this girl on 12/30/2016.. When I started talking to her, she had told me that she liked me a few days after. We talked a LOT, and she told me she liked my again (bc I had to be positive). But she just randomly felt that she didn t get that special feeling when she was with me (1/19/2017). I was upset, and I wanted some advice on how to create that feeling. I like her a lot..

Okay, so it was m birthday a couple days ago. My mom wrote me this long, nice post on Instagram. I saw it, and liked it, but me being an awkward person, I didn't respond to it because I didn't really know what to say (do you say thank you, or..). Now she's upset at me, and I feel bad. I've told her that I'm sorry a couple times, and I commented saying 'Thank you' cause I didn't know what else to say, but she still seems upset. So, am I a bad person for doing that, and also, how can I make it up to my mom? Her birthday is in a couple weeks so I plan on getting her a really nice gift I know she'll love, but does anyone have any other ideas besides that? Thanks

I've fancied celebrities before. I've had crushes on boys at school. I was obsessed with the Jonas Brothers when I was 14 and legit thought I would marry one of them but I've never been so heart broken than now when I see my "crush" with another girl. For a few years now I've really liked this one YouTuber and for about the past year I've sort of been dating him in my mind a bit. I know this is weird, especially for a 22 year old but I think it just helps me get through my depression and anxiety. I watch his videos and its kind of my happy place and at night when I go to sleep I start to think of scenarios in my head of what it would be like if we were together. It's not every day, just mostly when I'm down and need an escape. I wouldnt really think twice about this except lately when I see him on social media with another girl, it feels like my heart is being stabbed a million times over and over. It happened today and I felt like I could have thrown up, as if he were my actual boyfriend and he was cheating on me. I almost wanted to cry as pathetic as it sounds. I still want to watch him and have that happy space but how can I stop feeling so "attached"? He's going to get a girlfriend someday and I can't be mad about it. I should be happy for him. Even in my days of loving Nick Jonas more than anything I never felt legitimately heartbroken when he had a girlfriend. What should I do?

I am 15 and a dude. To give a background i have been told that I am pretty attractive and I am fairly tall at 6 feet. I talk with the real popular kids in school and hang out with them sometimes. So my friend has been having these get togethers at his house. And this one girl that comes to them just broke up with her boyfriend who is probably the most "popular" kid in my grade and she is the most "popular" girl. I've noticed that she always stares at me when she's in the same room as me. Almost every time I look at her she is looking back at me. This girl is kind of out of my league but do u think this can mean anything?

My boyfriend doesnt like when i talk about us with my guy best friend. Is he right or wrong? His reason is because men and women have different points of views.

So I've been friends with this guy (he has a girlfriend) for about a year and he...wants me. I'm friends with his girlfriend too. I've been texting him and he sent me a video of his...you know what. What do I do??

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now but broke up for a couple months toward the end of last year. During that time, long story short, he was sexually assaulted by one of his friends who is a girl. Now that we are back together, we have talked it over a few times and he is managing much better now. But I am still torn up about it and don't know how to cope. PLEASE HELP!

I met my crush for the first time, I tweeted him a couple of times but met him personally at one of his seminars. I gave him a hug, than he put his hand on the back of my head and it stayed there for 20 seconds. He's a lil older but I'm twenty four- I'm an adult. Do men do that to people they just met. Does he see me as a kid? That has never happened to me before. What does that mean?

So I'm 24 and me and this guy that's 27 have been dating for 2 months and everything is going good but he told me that he's not working he's getting unemployment checks and that really concerns me and it bugs me because I feel like that shows so much of his character now it's not about the money but it's about you as a person and you as an adult and I don't know if I should stop talking to him I don't know what to do I really like him he's a really good person but I feel like he's just lazy and he's enjoying these unemployment checks which I don't like because he's perfectly physically fine to work. I work so for him to not be working bothers me I don't know if I should have mentioned it to him or even say anything because we just started dating. Help!?

I'm 15 and a guy and she is also 15. We have been friends since forever and tbh I always thought about having a relationship with her because she is always so cute and nice. Yesterday she was at my house and we were watching a movie and she started moving closer to me and I did the yawn thing to put my arm around her (ik it's stupid but I couldn't think of anything else) and after a little we looked at each other in the eyes and started making out and we sucked face for about 30 minutes straight. After that we just continued cuddling and I was touching her a bit and feeling her up a little and today she came over and acted like nothing ever happened. What should I do? Should I remind her of what happened and how ******* hot it was? Should I ask her out? Sorry it was long but she is the closest I have ever gotten to a girlfriend so I am inexperienced.

I'm a junior in high school and I'm doing events looking, short, and outgoing. A few guys were interested in me but never asked me out, they just told people to tell me that they like liked me, but never face to face... I get that they might be shy or whatever, but that is a huge turnoff when I have to ALWAYS hear from someone else... am I doing something wrong? Prom is coming soon, and what I feel no one is willing to ask me then?! Decent looking* not "doing events" haha

We have been together for 3 years and it's hard seeing him due to our work schedules and college. But he came out of nowhere with this. He hasn't been doing well in school and wants to be in the military. I don't think I can handle... I never really had him to myself. We are both 23 Btw. Is it wrong of me to not want to pursue the relationship? Im sso conflicted, I really love him but I don't want to be waiting for him for forever. I barely have time with him as it is, which is once a week. I need brutally honest advice.

We are both 15 and I literally can't even last 30 seconds from sex and I can see she is disappointed even though she tries not to show it. Even is she accidentally brushes against me I can bust in my pants. When she gives me head or hj, I have to close my ******* eyes because if I don't, I will see how ******* sexy she looks with my erection in her mouth and just bust immediately. I ******* hate myself and I'm stating to think I should tell her to find another guy who can please her in bed

I got a bit crazy on Saturday and I was pretty deado this morning, I hadn't been drinking that much in quite some time and I think it is safe to say I don't know how people are able to do that every weekend. Probably won't be going that crazy again. It's not worth losing a day over. I was so tired and felt like crap. How are people used to that? :/

i hate to say it but i've been watching lesbian porn....?? what should i think, honestly.. my bf would not be cool with having another girl "join us"... should i tell him about my desire to try new things out or hope it will go away?

Me and my girlfriend are 15. I'm turning 16 in a week. We have been together for 2 years and we have been close friends since forever. I love her and she loves me. She just makes me really horny nowadays. The other day we were cuddling and watching a movie at her house and she started rubbing her *** against my dick and I got really hard. She turned around, gave me the cutest smile ever, and said "one more year babe" (we agreed no sex until 16). And then started rubbing my hard one and making out. It was soooo hot and I just needed her so bad. when I got home, I was still hard and had to get rid of it by wanking. I went back to her house the next day and she stared rubbing her pussy(through her jeans) against it and it felt so good and I was almost begging her to skip the year and do something quick. She smiled at me, grabbed my hand and pulled me upstars to her room, layed me back, and I fealt a chemical reaction as she took off my pants and started sucking me off. After about 20 seconds, I came and she swallowed it all. Now I get hard whenever I think of her and wanking doesn't cover it! I NEED HER!!! I haven't felt this way about her, or anyone, ever and I don't think this is normal and it's driving me crazy. Help???

I'm 23 and I've never had sex because I can't get it up. Can you be a real man and have a dick that does not work?

We are both 16 and are planning on having sex tomarrow night so I want to make it really sexy for her because she is always so sexy for me. I was thinking of maybe going out for a nice dinner first and coming home and playing some music and after we are done maybe watch a movie and then go to sleep with her and cuddle her all night, but I mean idk what music i should play or what kind of movie we should watch. Im never good with specifics like that. Im really paranoid about this because I want to give her a really nice night with me that she will always remember ;)

Ok me and my bf have been with each other for 2 months (3 months on feb 18). And I wanna do something for our three month mark but I feel awkward about doing it. I'm 14 and he's 13 and we've been best friends since he was born because we're neighbors. And it doesn't really feel like he's my bf. Idk he doesn't act like I am. I mean he's told his friends about me but not his parents. And idk if he'd be ok with me giving him a gift on the three month mark since we're so young. He likes Pokemon so I'm drawing all of his favorite Pokemon and giving it to him. Or I might not I don't know. Any help possibly getting out of this friendship barrier? Or just any advice at all. Thanks <3

he says he's ready . he is waiting for me

Sexually I mean;)

bc sometimes it sounds like he is saying things FROM a porn. i wouldnt know that much because i honestly dont watch a lot of it keep in mind, we r 18

I didn't want to go to a christmas party. Just so happen the "guy" is in the back seat, because were giving him a ride home and when my mom says to his mom that I'm not going he buts in and asks why. Keep in mind, HE NEVER shows any interest in me, like I thought I was invisible to him, so why care if I go to a stupid party or not Second, I was invited to his house by his younger sister for her graduation party that following summer and he made a big scene. He's a dj and me and this girl who everyone says he likes was dancing together. Just so happen we are grinding, twerking a little bit but nothing outrageous, instead of criticizing her or the both of us, he cuts off the music and says, "Oh, I'm shocked to see you, someone so respectable and different dancing like that." I was so appalled I told him he didn't know me so what's the problem. And then later when i requested a song he rolled his eyes at me and told me the song wasn't something I should listen too. Lastly, if you're still reading, I had his best friend over last night and I basically asked him what was up with his buddy. He could only tell me that the "guy" made a comment which was , " she has a fatty, or a fat butt" and was pressuring his friend to look at me. I asked him what's wrong with the guy and he told me he doesn't know how to express himself around certain girls... Back story: There's this guy in my group of friends who at first when I met him we were young like 12 or something, and he was nice to me and tried to befriend me. (Now he's 18 and I'm almost 18.) Then all of a sudden, he instantly became detached from me. When I would say hi to him he would grunt or avoid me. But at the same time at parties for years or when we are in the same place I catch him staring at me. I wondered if he liked me but at the same time I didn't know.

So I've been on multiple first dates before and I always get super nervous, to the point where I have thought about cancelling the date last minute. This guy that I'm going with is super sweet and went to my high school but we have never met in person before. I am 20 and a virgin and I want to take things slow because I'm afraid of getting hurt or doing something I will regret. He offered to pick me up but I told him that I am going to drive myself. I just don't know if maybe I'm not ready for a relationship or if I need to actually give a relationship a chance. Should I go on the date? He also asked me to hang out or go to the movies after but I don't know what to do. He has told me that he really likes me and I'm not sure if I like him.

So I interview volunteers for my job, I interview them once, match them with a child and no longer have contact. I was talking with this guy and we were joking and talking about a lot of things. He even kept mentioning his online dating woes in a funny and light hearted way. And mentioned how hard dating is now a days. And we related a lot and just seemed to really click. I gave him my business card and told him to email me with any thoughts or questions and he said he would definitely email me. So do you think he was interested and when do you think he will email me if he is? I didn't know if there was like a 2 day rule or something? Or if he didn't want to use my work email on the weekend... thoughts?

last night he had boxers on and this morning I woke up to him with no boxers and a wetness on the bed and I don't want to accuse him of something he possibly did and start a fight so help

I am 18. When I first joined social media, I was only 12 but I was so afraid no one would talk to me so I lied and said I was 14. This first started when I made a YouTube account and I started talking to this girl. Then I joined Twitter and that same girl from YouTube followed me on Twitter. I would have just told people on there my actual age but I couldn't because that girl was following me and i was scared she'd see me telling people my true age. From there, I had to lie about what grade I was in in school and about college etc. So the lies just kept building up in order to make my age seem believable :/ then I told this girl I had a boyfriend... I think it was to make myself seem more 'cool' and I regret doing that. It's only online I've lied like this. I do remember telling this guy I liked that I met this celebrity which was again to make me seem more cool and I wanted him to like me. But other than that, I never ever lie like this to people in real life. Does this make me a compulsive liar? I'm kind of worried it does. But as I said, I never lie otherwise like this.