I am a 24 year old male and my life sucks right now. I currently am trying to study to get my GED. However, it's been very difficult. I passed 3/4 of my test and now I just have to pass my math test. I'll admit it, "I hate studying" but I know I have to in order to pass. My life sucks right right now. Besides passing my test I'm having family trouble. My mom is stressing me out because my other siblings are going to jail and doing bad in life so she takes her anger out on me for whatever reason. My sister recently got arrested for arguing with her kid's dad and now I feel that everyone is looking at me like I'm supposed to seek revenge on this guy because I'm the older brother. I don't feel like it's worth it. My dad also just got released from prison he's been in prison most of my life and now he's trying to reach out to me. When I tell my mom that I don't want him apart of my life she gets angry at me. Moreover, my current job is "super" stressful. My managers treat me like crap all the time. I've contemplated suicide because I just can't put up with life anymore. I don't mean to put my problems on other people but I just need advice. I don't have anyone else to open up to. My dream is to move to Brooklyn, NY and maybe become the next "Basquiat." Art is my passion

I understand if the parent pays for the haircut, then they should get say in what the outcome is if they want. But my parents don't pay for our haircuts because my aunt is a stylist and does it for free. I have been asking for years now (I'm 16) and they have always said no, for multiple, evolving reasons. The latest reason is that I'll look like a boy, and that I already do because my hair is a little under my shoulders. This is total bullshit because I don't personally know a single guy who has a 36C chest, so when they say I'll look like a guy they are really just making more excuses. I feel like its unfair, especially since they DON'T pay for it, so it will not affect them at all. Is it unfair, or am I being dramatic?

I honestly would not care if my dad's wife died, and I'm not joking or trolling. She makes me feel so miserable, and it's not because I'm being pety or some stupid reason. She makes me want to die, literately. I just feel so bad about actually wishing that someone would die, but I wouldn't care if she did.

I have 2 cousins on my dad's side of the family who I've never met. I don't know their names, what they look like, where they live, or anything else about them.

My best friend (15, same as me) has one sister but no brothers. She lives with her mom and dad and sister. She and I were doing homework in her room and she was changing clothes (we were getting ready to leave) and I pointed out she had forgotten to shut the door. She did shut it but was like, not really a big deal, it isn't like Dad has never seen me naked. I was kind of shocked, and asked her thinking she meant like when she was little......but it turns out that he sees her nude from time to time. To use her words, no one in the family is really concerned about a quick second walking back from the shower, or changing clothes, or (an example she used) stripping down in the kitchen if you are soaked by the rain, etc I found this very odd. I'm nude around my mom and sister all the time, but I'd never THINK of being nude around my dad at this age. Is this as weird as it seems to me? In fairness, she made it clear they dont like hang out naked, or he wouldnt walk in while shes in the shower, or anything extreme like that. But still....

So I just got home from school and on the bus ride back some kid threw a ketchup packet to the back of the bus and the ketchup splattered on my backpack and when I got home my mom was home, being on break. She saw I was in a bad mood and raised an eyebrow at me basically just asking what happened and I told her about the ketchup thing and she was just like "Oh okay" so I wiped my backpack off and went over to the couch to get something out of my backpack and she was like "Don t leave your backpack on the couch" and I was like "The ketchup is gone now" and she just randomly screamed "I SAID DONT PUT YOUR BACKPACK ON THE COUCH!!!" and I just got what I needed from my backpack and put it on the floor and went upstairs. What did I do???

They said they d be a really short time, half an hour at most, but it s been 2 & half hours now. I m concerned.

we have a family business, and every one knows family business does not work because the family members takes liberties, We live on the business property. my father asked my brother to keep his yard and home clean, everyone complains about it. my brother doesn't want to clean his place because he worked throughout his childhood (basic chores). and now he doesn't work on weekends or past working hours in his home or yard. so my dad tells him that he is going to do inspection and if he finds something reasonably dirty every one will run a lap. my brother completely wrights my dad off, wants nothing to do with my dad, quits and moves out. My brother is 35 this year.

I consider myself ugly but my kids are beautiful.My Spouse is average looking,but somehow our kids turned out to look soo cute.I always get confused looks when I'm out with my kids as if I'm just the ugliest person in the world with cute kids.I always get asked if their mine including their doctors.Im just tired of getting the looks and questions.

To give you an idea on his perspective, I m studying in a town that s a two-hour drive from my home, I stay there during the week (Monday to Friday) and drive back home to see my family, girlfriend and go to work. I m working at a bar and because of where I m studying I work there on Friday and Saturday nights. My weekly routine is on Sunday I drive to my student house, come back on Friday afternoon then go to work that night, see my girlfriend and friends on Saturday day and work that night then on Sunday travel back to my student house. My dad says I m not getting any time to myself to see him, my brother, girlfriend, etc. and said to me to ask my boss if I can work one night a week rather than two. He s partly asking this because last Saturday I didn t go into work because I was too tired (I barely slept). Is he right in telling me to do this?

I am the eldest of 5, I have a sister that s 11, 2 brothers 15 and 16 and going through puberty, a sister that s nearly 20 and my parents have been seperated for the last 5 years. My mum is not sick and my brothers never listen to anything she says but she always challenges them and seems to have just given up but things seem to be getting worse. It s just basically a day by day war zone. My 19 year old sister has just given up an decided the only way out is to move out and I feel like I have tried so much but they don t care because they think the world is against them at that age and my mum has no idea and doesn t seem to care how to deal with them. She just keeps threatening to throw everyone out of the house.

Hey, I am 17 and will turn 18 soon. I do decent in school. Some subjects im really good at and some other im not. Last year of high school and where I live is common for these students to be absent most of the time. Now the problem with my father is that because of a bad grade, he totally isolated me. I can't go outside to my friends or girlfriend, I can't use the computer, I can't use the phone either. This will go on until I finish this school year (4 months from now). You can't cage a kid like that, especially if they are almost adults. If this was a grounding for a month or a couple of weeks, it would be totally fine, but 4 months it's just too much. I can't even talk to him since he won't listen to what I have to say and will start yelling in no time. He never listens. What should I do?

So I am 20 years old. I have been working since I was 16. I just got promoted to a supervisor in the summer and was offered a full time position basically in management recently. I have always wanted to work more than I ever wanted to go school. My parents still think they can control my life. They want to control how I spend my money, make my decisions for me, tell me how many hours I can work and just about everything you think of. I recently told them that i wanted to take a break from school and just work for a semester. They told me it wasnt my decision if i was going to take a break from school.

I think my Mom is more a grudge holding addict then a gossip addict. She has both though.

My brother gets more then any of my siblings and I and he is the bad one.

If I were to not see him on Thanksgiving or Christmas it would hurt too much plus I'd be unable to see anyone else in the family as they'd all be with him. He gets drunk and mouthy.

She says they don't since they only see me once a month whereas my Mom sees me every day (I live with her). I am 16 so this is confusing. My Dad and step-mom say they love me but my Mom says they don't.

My sister is 24 and she lives with me and my parents with her boyfriend. They are here to get further education with the help of my mom in terms of helping taking care of their 6 month old daughter. This morning they were in the basement with the baby when they had a huge fight. They have been having arguments recently, but they just exploded today. I overheard the boyfriend saying, "you going to hit me?" They seemed like a great couple a few months ago. I don't know what happened. Anyways, my mom looked like she was going to cry when this happened. She has OCD, so she breaks down when something bad happens out if he control. She fears for the baby and for their relationship. What can I do to make her feel better? Should I intervene in the situation?

Im white and have blue eyes, my mom, dad, grandma on moms side, and granddad on dads side also have blue eyes...boyfriend is black and has brown eyes, so does his mom, dad, grandma, ect... Any possibility of our child having blue eyes?

They are 17 and 18. I took them out of school in 8th grade, I was going to homeschool them but never did. They have never done any high school grades. They refuse to get a job because we live in the south and the closest jobs are 15 miles away in the city they refuse to walk 15 miles to a job and 15 miles back home. They have no money or bikes. I have never gotten them a learners permit, a license or a car. I have not gotten them driving lessons or taught them how to drive. We do not have public transportation where we live in the south. I am 53 my parents got me driving lessons at 17 and 18 but I refuse to do the same for my kids. I also refuse and do not want to drive them to get a job. Why are they so messed up?

It's not because I hate my dad, actually it's because I love him so much. I only want him to die for his own best. He even says it himself: me and my little brother (his kids) are the only thing left in the world for him. It's a really long story, but I'll only tell important details and I'll try to make it as short as possible. He grew up through war and had to work as a 9 year old to make money for his family (his brothers and his mom). He never got to see his dad in his childhood either, he was in another country without war. When he came to the country we live in now, he began being addictive to drugs and alcohol. Ever since I was born, he's had addictive problems. He's been to jail multiple times and rehab. The point is: he loves my mom, and my mom doesn't love my dad, and she's not afraid to show it. When there are family announcements such as NYE, my uncles (his brothers) and my grandmother and the rest of the family often agrees that my father isn't allowed to come. It makes me really sad, as he's my dad and I don't want him to be sad. He has some mental illnesses such as PTSD and I suspect he has some paranoid schizophrenia too. This is luckiky a calm time, whereas earlier he has blamed my mother on cheating on him, and he thought that people poisoned him. I'll try to make my point and finish this: I only want him to die because I know how sad he is, he even told me how lonely he is. Of course I'll miss him, but I only want the best for my dad. Is this wrong?

He likes and and so do I. We are boy guys so we do guy things. I have never moved out and never married. I meant to say "He likes it and so do I". I wrote the word and twice.

My sister was feeling sick last night. Her fever was back she had a high temperature she was all red and hot. She started to cool down some. She said she feels better this morning she said her stomach hurts a little she still has her cough she said she's fine but I'm worried about her. How can I help her feel better ?

Do not accuse me of lying. We are arguing and I say **** you. She slaps me across the face and pushed me over.Then she got on top of me and grabbed around my neck with both hands while she choked me. She choked me for maybe ten seconds. She punched me in the face three times. I wiggled and tried to get away but she is heavy and I couldn't. I bought my phone myself and I pay the bill so I refused to give it up. At this point she is still on top of me and I am not defending myself because I have both hands on my phone keeping her from getting it. All I remember is her just punching me over and over on the back of my head and ears. She punched me maybe ten times all together. She is trying to pry my hands off my phone and I bite her fingers and manage to get away onto the floor. She eventually gives up and leaves. The cops came to my house and did nothing. I showed them the swelling on my face and head and they basically said I could have faked it and that it was legal for her to beat me. I feel trapped. I literally feared for my life as she choked and punched me. And no she has never beaten me before this but believe me when I say she is emotionally abusive .. but she went crazy and I'm scared this will become normal. Yes I realize I did say **** you but I just can't see that excusing the way she beat me. I have pictures documenting my swollen eye and a swelled up ear but since most of her hits were to my head I couldn't get a picture of the swelling because of my hair.

Like some men if they see a woman they fancy they act nice or hit on her, but I personally witnessed a guy ogle a woman & use profanity. I thought guys were suppose to be "smooth"? Why do they decide to be aggressive?

For example, if a guy likes a woman or sees her crying he hugs her, and gives her a boost. I see it happen in my class. Sometimes, they act really nice to her to get in her pants. Some treat her with respect even though they are sexually attracted to her. One guy was rapping & complimenting & Romanizing girls at my school while Praising their beauty, but he never assaulted them. Why some men then put down women when they are attracted to her? Like Donald Trump? Why can't he learn that yeah I like women & treat them nicely? Most men like women, but some treat them nicely & others r plain mean. Two types: One: Be romantic and get them to like me. Two: Objectify them & put them down.

I go to school at 1pm for 2 classes because I do the rest of my classes online and a taxi usually picks me up and last week I didn't go the whole week because I had a high fever until Sunday and my mom works from 11am to 11pm so Idk what to do because they don't even call my mom that I missed and the taxi doesn't even show up. (The school pays for the taxi) and I never see my mom since I go to bed at 9 and then in the morning I wake up around 8 but my mom is so busy getting my siblings ready that when I try to talk to her she just screams and tells me to go away so idk what to do because I don't wanna get in trouble for missing school and I can't even call the school since I have no phone right now because it's broken.. does the school think I'm still sick or what?? Help pls btw I don't have a dad

I've lost 4 family members in a terrible car accident weeks ago along with my bestfriend who killed himself, I've been overwhelmed and I am a teen. My friend is older and I usually am always checking on her, although this time, she is always checking on me and this was just one of those unbearable days.. I was telling her how stressed I was and how terrified and worried I've been. how I've been wanting to end everything.. She's been so helpful and supportive these past few weeks but today when she checked on me, I responded stressed out and she just put "stop" why? Do you think I'm annoying to my friend now and that she doesn't want to talk to me anymore?

Parents and siblings attended a metrosexual program while one child missed out due to work, and now parents and siblings had mistakenly assumed the one who missed out as being the troublesome and macho child who should be blacklisted when it's the eldest sibling who is troublesome and the macho child that should be blacklisted. I'm trying to find out if this is what it's called because I have been blacklisted from metrosexual programs in error on behalf of this current organisation who were already believing in other lies about me since 2010 prior to this blacklisting from parents and siblings. I was blacklisted in error.

For years since my husband died I have always painted a near perfect picture of him. That has been over 30 years ago and just recently I reveled to our daughter that he could be very abusive and a scary man to me at times. She is angry at me about this as she has always thought of him as the perfect dad. The only reason I did say anything was in answer to why certain things happened to me after he died. Was I wrong? Like why I never wanted to remarry and why I drank as heavily as I did, etc. all effects of trauma.

For years since my husband died I have always painted a near perfect picture of him. That has been over 30 years ago and just recently I reveled to our daughter that he could be very abusive and a scary man to me at times. She is angry at me about this as she has always thought of him as the perfect dad. The only reason I did say anything was in answer to why certain things happened to me after he died. Was I wrong?

We are married for 1.5 years. My husbands father is a drug dealer and he get caught and now probably will be sentenced to 10 years in prison. My husband has a big family and now they dont know what to do, how to cope with finances etc. My husband wants to take the all responsibilty to take care of them, he even gave our last money to them, He doesnt talk to me anymore much, like im nothing. I told him that it isnt my fault it happened and he keeps saying that i only cause drama, i dont give him peace. when in reality i wanna be with him. He doest kiss me or hug me. Does everything has to be bad between us because his dad is going to jail? I dont understand that. I dont mind he will help his mother, sister adn brother who are in their 20s, they live with parents but we have a family too. I want children too, i wanna make something for us not to be always there for his family. Im so confused and i dont know what to do. Please help me, because its ridiciolous how he is against me now like im nothing and his family is top priority. (His brother is 20 and goes to university and sistesis 23, she only rides horses and doesnt go to work)

I've been caught smoking weed 100 times before but she's never been this mad I'm writing this on our downstairs computer because she took my phone and laptop and I mean like ussually I can go months without her finding out anything but this time she really lost her mind because I snuck out and put pillows under my covers to make it look like I was home and when I got home I thought she was still asleep so I didn't spray myself before I walked in and smelt weed on me. I don't really have a question I'm just generally looking for advice on my situation. Thanks. (Ps please no lectures about drug use because it won't change the decisions I make and I'm not high all the time i smoke weed like three or four times a week)

My uncle has disliked me and treated me differently ever since i was a kid. I use to think he was just sexist because he is gay and use to put my brother over me, e.g. wouldn t let me have a go at the playstation when i was a kid. Small things like that. In the past he hasn t been the warmest to me and sometimes gave me attitude. I think it may be because my mother use to complain about me a lot and call me lazy so that everyone would feel sorry for her. Recently we had a family holiday and i said something that he took in a bad way. I said good morning to him 3 times that morning and even sat next to him and he bluntly ignored me. He is now 45 and i am 22. I found this very strange behaviour from a grown man. I have never purposefully done anything to hurt him and have always tried to see the good but after this time i feel stressed being around him. We have a big family birthday/holiday coming up and we are staying in the same apartment. I don t know how to be around him, if i should keep my distance or just be nice? What happened last time really hurt me and now i am quite anxious even thinking about being around him again.

He's five. I see him everyday. He's an only child. He follows me around and everything. I like to lock myself in a room for a while Not long ago he ate chicken or somethings and started wiping his hands on me in a smacking motion right on my chest area. Then he followed me upstairs and I think at one point spat something on me. I was running to my aunties room, he followed after me and as I told him he was being a bad boy he goes "IM SORRY I WONT BE A BAD BOY ANYMORE" He never actually keeps this promise. I want to smack him so bad What should I do?? And why?? There are worse things he's done, like throwing my iPad across the floor

my father want my family help him to buy some medicine, but my father know them, he just used me talk to talk to them, and he just keep want to me to ask them about the medicine. sometimes it is really annoying ! if i yell or my voice turn loud, he just really angry, turn off he think it s was my fault ???!! I still do get what i suppose to do or something ? I NEED SOME RECOMMENDATION !!

Yesterday my mom called me lazy and I kinda overreacted and started screaming. And when I realized what I did I went out to apologize but my mom was like I m tired of you you keep repeating the same thing over and over again! YOU ARE REALLY BAD I tried apologizing but my mom doesn t accept it! Ok then I slept I woke up for school today I knocked my moms door 4 times and she didn t wake up so I ended up being late for school but I also tried apologizing but she said who does a crime shuts up! WHY DID SHE SAY THAT. At school I called my mom I told her That I m sorry and I won t repeat my mistake again she said ok I called my mom again to tell her that today is a short day at school she said good you reminded me BUT BECAUSE OF YOU I LOST MY KEYS and she closed the phone in my face I can t stand my mom not talking to me I WANT HER TO FORGIVE ME BUT THIS TIME MY MOM KEEPS TELLING ME STOP TALKING WHAT SHOULD I DO

I am a sophomore in high school with two younger siblings (an 11 year old brother and a 2 year old sister). Recently, I have felt very neglected by my parents, as they constantly leave me to babysit. I know it doesn't sound like a big deal, but they're gone for HOURS at a time. It's currently 10:30pm right now, they're not home, and they've been out since 3:00pm. Occasionally they'll leave my siblings and I overnight and stay in a hotel. I've even ditched school to babysit for them, resulting in me falling far behind in my classes (I haven't attended a full week of school in over a month). They never take my siblings out and they regularly talk down towards the three of us. My dad grows angry with my sister very often, resulting in him screaming at her to shut up. My mother and my father call my brother an idiot and other crueler names on a regular basis. For me, they call me ungrateful for wanting them to stay home for once, saying I don't understand how difficult it is for them. Their regular excuse for leaving is that they "need time away from the three a**holes" in their house. I don't understand what we've done to deserve this. Yes, my brother and I fight occasionally, but it never gets bad. My parents do supply us with food and other essential materials, but neither of my siblings are getting what they really need - love from their parents. So, am I overreacting or do I have a valid reason to be upset with my parents? Is this just teen angst or something more?

I want to do well in school but i keep making Ds in school. I think my major problem is that i cant remember what the teacher has teach that day and that everybody else seems to remember. I try so hard to listen but i still cant remember anything. What can i do? @moretime it is all classes @moretime it is all classes

Okay Ive been married to my husband for 4 years now and Tried to make a relationship with his sister..I used to text her..no response so i stoped when were around each other she doesnt try talking to me or try getting to know me..i used to try but stoped because she doesn't even seem to care..shes very religious and my husband and I believe in god but dont live life worshipping. Everyone is different, but I have a feeling thats why shes so weird with me because Im not as close to god as she is. Its just disappointing. My question is should I even try with her if she doesn't at all? Like I feel so turned off by her actions i dont even want to wish her a happy birthday because she wont even respond. Its just really hurtful. Another thing is that we asked her to be the godmother of our child and she doesnt even check on him or us. im just hurt by it and dont want to make it a big deal i just need some Advice if I should distance myself like she doesn't exist like she does with me.

I'm starting to decide which classes Inwill take at school next year. I really want to take either choir or drama, but my parents are trying to insist that I take Spanish. Both of them are Puerto Rican and speak Spanish, and we used to speak Spanish together when's I was younger; I don't remember when or why, but at some point I stopped speaking Spanish, and now my parents are saying that I'm losing my culture, which is why they want me to take Spanish at school. I don't feel like I'm losing my culture; I can usually understand when they speak to me in Spanish, and I've been to Puerto Rico multiple times...I don't get why they're trying to make a big deal out of it and forcing me to take Spanish at school. How can I get out of it so I can take the elective that I want?

So my son, who just turned 23, graduated from college a few months ago. I told him he was welcome to stay with me as long as he wanted. Big mistake. My husband and I divorced many many years ago, and I raised my son in an apartment. I still live in this apartment, and while I missed my son when he was away at college, I loved having my own space. Things are now back to the way they way were before they went to college, except that he's a 23-year-old man instead of a teenage boy. He's managed to get some very low-paying jobs with his degree, but doesn't earn enough to contribute a lot. He's an adult now and I have no obligation to let him live with me. So the other day, I told him that he had 2 months to find another place. And he hit the ceiling. He told me I was selfish and didn't love him, and also called me a traitor and other horrific things. He said all this instead of thanking me for letting him stay under my roof for 8 months. How does he not understand me wanting my own space after 23 years? I took having my own space for granted when he was at college, which is why I said he could return for as long as he wanted, but now I realize what a luxury I had and that I really want it back. Surely he must understand my need for peace and independence.

If you don't , was it hard for you leaving home and Mom and Dad behind

Alright I have a problem and I need some help. My brother is a 20 yr old deadbeat that still lives at his dads house. Failed out of community college and has no plans to do anything with his life. He recently got a girlfriend( no I don t know how) and I want her to stay out of my house. She s my age (17) and she is rude and a complete whore. Whenever she comes in the house she doesn t bother to even say hello to anyone else and goes straight to his room. The first time she ever came over my dad wasn t home and I had to listen to their moans. I called my dad home he talked to them but they both have absolutely no respect for anyone. I tried everything with my brother. Getting my dad involved and but nothing. Please help me get rid of her. This is my house and I dont need to feel uncomfortable. Im getting ready to go off to college soon and I ll lose my **** of I find out him or that gross whore goes in my room.

Do you think my sister would think I'm wierd if I ask to rub her feet? One time in the summer, we walked around town at parks and such. once we drove home, she propped her legs on the couch. Her shoes and socks were still on. I was sitting on the opposite end. She was watching tv. I then got up and walked across the room and set at the end of her feet. I slowly took both shoes off. She was really confused and moved her feet thinking she was in my way. I asked if I could rub them and I begged her not to tell anyone. She didnt care and I also took of her socks and touched her bare feet. They smelled so good from being sweaty all day and I loved touching her tattoos on her feet. After a while I began to lick and suck between her toes and she didn't say anything. I also licked all over her feet and licked her tattoo. It's a skull with stars and I sucked all around it and it tasted so good. Is this okay? What is not going too far?

My brother is molesting me (at least once a month), and my parents know its happening AMD let it. He also hits Me (at least once every 2 weeks) and insults me (daily). My parents dont feed me dinner (most days) and they don't feed me lunch if I'm at home (most weekends). My dad curses at me, and if I tell him what kids are calling me at school he calls me that name. He also "jokingly" hits me if I do something stupid. Like I said "does santa live in California" and he got annoyed with me and hit me with what he was holding on the head. My mom says I need to lose weight (I have a normal weight) and that I'm a spoiled brat. If I were to call CPS what would they do?

Ok, I know the title sounds a little ridiculous -- and maybe it is, but right now, I'm absolutely confused. Just to break it all down, I'm 24 years old and disabled. I was born with a rare birth defect which has caused me to have severe breathing problems as well as epilepsy. I often have seizures, and cannot walk for more than a few minutes at a time, so I never really leave the house. That said, I've lived a very sheltered life with my mother, and beyond what we do on a daily basis, I have very few social connections. Anyway.. to get to the point: the other night I was in my room playing "My Little Pony" on Xbox 360 when I heard a loud thud from my mother's bedroom. Instantly I was worried, and after a moment of silence, I decided to rush down and open her door to see if she was okay. At first, I didn't see her, but when I called out, she stood up from behind her bed wearing only a bra from what I could tell. The look on her face was that of horror, which confused me, so I asked what had happened. She told me that she fell, and basically begged me to stay away. This seemed a bit odd and made no sense, so I took a few steps into the room and made my way toward her. This was when it got really weird. As a approached the bottom of her bed, making my way around to the other side where she was, she began to scream at me -- telling me to get out. Thinking she was just embarrassed from what had happened, I continued my way to her, worried that she was hurt. Well.. to say the least, that's when I became horrified myself.. Once I got to her and knelt down to help her up, I noticed that she had no pants or underwear on. To top it off, I saw that between her legs.. something was hanging -- dangling, and honest to god, it looked like a rather large penis. Naturally I flinched away.. as did she.. and for a moment we were silent. I abruptly got up.. took one more glance down.. I just had to, and to my terror, it was definitely a penis -- an erect one with rather plump testicles at that. Sickened, I quickly rushed out of the room and closed the door behind me. Since that day, about a week ago, we've not said a word to each other. Every once in awhile we'll run into each other in the house, but we always pass by quickly and basically ignore each other's existence. So that brings me to the question here. Is this at all normal? Can anyone explain to me, how or why my mom would have a penis? I've had no contact with my father since I was born -- apparently he wasn't happy with my health problems, but I really want to know what's going on here. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Is it normal for a mother to have a penis? How can this be? I know I'm grasping at straws here.. but I want to understand.. I've had no contact with my father since I was born -- apparently he wasn't happy with my health problems, but I really want to know what's going on here. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Is it normal for a mother to have a penis? How can this be? I know I'm grasping at straws here.. but I want to understand..

He asked me if I would give him h*** if he gave me $50. (I said no, of course). He said he just asked because he "always wanted to know what it felt like." Now we're close in age and also close family wise, but now I feel very disturbed and uncomfortable whenever he's around me. Help?

hello everyone please help me. long story short,i got married and my mom told me before my wedding that she can't find a meaning to her life anymore, this was in august 2016 and she told me the same thing today January 2017. i don't want to live like this, i cried along her and told her to tell me what does she wants me to do, leave my husband? come live with her, i don't want to feel annoyed at this episodes my mom has. i feel like i am not allowed to continue with my life. i did talk to her and told her i feel like a bad daughter and will spend more time with her when i come back from work and school etc. this situation makes me stressed and it makes me feel sad like can't go on with my life. When she left her home, she did not have a mother that would cry and tell her all these types of things, she grew up away from her mom and my mom does acknowledge she should learn that this is life and how its supposed to be (the cycle of life such as your daughter getting married and forming a new life) please help!

I've lost 4 family members in a terrible car accident weeks ago along with my bestfriend who killed himself, I've been overwhelmed and I am a teen. My friend is older and I usually am always checking on her, although this time, she is always checking on me and this was just one of those unbearable days.. I was telling her how stressed I was and how terrified and worried I've been. how I've been wanting to end everything.. She's been so helpful and supportive these past few weeks but today when she checked on me, I responded stressed out and she just put "stop" why? Do you think I'm annoying to my friend now and that she doesn't want to talk to me anymore?

When I was 15 (I'm 22 now) my cousin on my moms side whom I met only once in my life before when I was no older than 10 years, came to say at my my house with me and my mom and my brother at the time my parents separated. While he was staying there he use to flirt with me and talk about my body in sexual ways he was 19 and I was 15. I thought he liked me which he didn't no surprise but at the time I thought he did. We ended having sex but it didn't last long because it hurt even though no blood came out. I regret it ever since but is this my fault? Should I have known better? My parents did not specifically talk about sex or comdoms or how people got pregnant etc. I grew up kinda sheltered not many boyfriends if any and I wasn't raised religious but I was raised to believe in God and that sex was wrong until your married etc. I still regret it and I feel like it really affected my life because I still feel guilty sometimes and bad that I am not a viegin b cause I wish I was. I haven't had sex since then..I guess that's an improvement.....

Or am I just entitled and a bad kid? I called my dad over the phone because my Bro wasn't listening and burst at me after I, I admit, bothered him. Though I had no intention. I told my brother in a quiet voice at the time that I didn't mean to irritate him by playfully waving a wire in his face, but I didn't say sorry because I was mad at him for suddenly bursting at me. Which was unlike him. He usually just speaks stern to me if anything. And instead of talking about it, he would walk away with the problem remaining unsolved. And after I passed him to my brother, he grounded us both because he had to go and couldn't fix the problem atm. I honestly, don't believe either of us should be grounded. We argued, but there was little to no reason why it would deserve something like a grounding especially since he wasn't in the position to attempt and fix the issue. He even said I'm mostly grounded because I didn't apologize right after. But. I might also be wrong.

What the hell?! Everytime I eat a granola bar they start screaming at me...

my mother is a very heavy smoker. Even when she was pregnant with me and my two brothers she smoked heavily. Same with my father. their great parents and all, but they won't stop smoking. They smoke in the house, the car, everywhere. Yes they do open windows, but it barley helps. And we have vents that lead to every room, so my room and clothes usually smell like it. I always try so hard to tell them to stop, but they don't. I tell them how it's affecting me, they say they care and will make an effort to stop, but then don't. When I go to school everyone asks me who smokes in my family because it smells bad. i hate it. Can anyone give me tips on how to avoid it, please help me?

During the time that I had broken up with my exboyfriend of 8 years my parents were separating and at home it was a hell. My father and I were secretly preparing to leave the house and move out together. I felt everybody was mean to me. I felt like I lost it all. Home life was painful because my brother has mental illness and became abusive and violent with me many times. My whole world was crumbled. I didn't feel safe at home. The police came a lot to settle disputes. I decided to quit school and runaway from home and start my life somewhere new. I became a prostitute. It broke my heart. I never wanted to do something like that but I gave up on my life. Therapy didn't help me. I could no longer study because of the unbearable pain I was in. It turned out my mother found me when the police couldn't! I returned home and her and my father reconciled. I think it's so unfair that I had to go through that hell. It took a tragedy with me for my parents to get along. If I hadn't done that then things would be the same. I feel so angry and frustrated I had to hit rock bottom when I was always fighting to stay strong and positive . I feel like God betrayed me. It was no way out. But now things are much better!

Right now he sees me some but my Mom warned me that when her parents divorced she saw her Dad less and less after it was finalized. She tells me my Dad is no good as a husband so likely won't want to be a father. Parents separated last summer and it has been hell ever since. I am 14.