We have to do a science project and she wastes our work time by getting off track. She wants to compare every answer I get and says it's all wrong. I ask the teacher and she says it's right. Then she tells me I dont have to print because my computer is from cart 10 and cart 10 doesn't print. Since my friends computer is from cart 6 she can print. I DID NOT TELL HER TO PRINT OUT ANOTHER COPY!!! She prints out 2 of the same papers and she gives it to me. I can't take it cause it's her work, not mine. She wants me to take it and I say no. I told her the teacher says I don't have to print out my worksheet and she gets mad and tells me to take it. When she's in the bath room I put it on her desk. She gets mad at me for not taking it and she tells at me to take it. I told her that I never asked her for a copy of HER work. Then she gets dramatic and tells me I'm wasting paper and yells at me again. A 13 year old girl is giving me a lecture about something I didnt do, stupid, right? Then I just get so mad and tell her to go away, I do not want to hear it. Then she tells ME I wasted paper and I wasted her time. She was the one who printed it OUT!!! I know this is a stupid thing to argue about, but thanks for taking time to read my answer!! ♡♡♡

My sister thinks it's all in my head, and my therapist doesn't think it's anything. MY Mom gives him all the power and he gets drunk a lot and whenever he's drunk he's touchy and annoying and my mom tells him to stop but he doesn't listen or just sighs and he has a bad temper with me... My mom won't listen to me and yells at me when I talk to her about it.. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Its a messy situation, his wife and i are having a sexual relationship due to his neglect and abusing her in every possible way incl raping her. She obviously cant mention divorce to him and he is having the time of his life acting like a god at home and having her begging him on her knees for every tiny thing. He will also bang or smash the bathroom door if she is in more than 5 mins and she needs his approval to use it. The cops cant and will not intervene cause theres no physical harm. Her parents are afraid of what he will do them if they ask for divorce and will not take her back. If i speak to him of course it will be the end for her. How can we approach the divorce to him ? Im willing to spend big money if it helps.

She's just walked into my room and told me that I'm not a nice person and that she doesn't care about what I do anymore. I don't know what I've done I personally think it's because I didn't want to get an injection because I have a phobia of needles, she said that I had a bad attitude but was literally fine with me like a few hours ago. I'm actually feeling really annoyed and angry she can't tell me specifically what I've done. The thing she doesn't realise is that I'm a teenager so I'm certain I'm not the only one who can't be bothered with their mum with the way my friends talk to their mums

I am a teen and my mother has for years told me my father didn't love me or want me. She says he was a criminal and that he was dangerous. I believed her and figured he was evil. When I learned about heaven and hell my mother said that hell is where my father would go at the end of time. Now I am 19 and have seen how my mother and her family, when they are mad at someone, seek to destroy them in the eyes of others. When my aunt got divorced we all said her ex was a womanizer and slept with every women he could get his hands on and might be a child abuser. Over Thanksgiving this past year I asked my aunt about this and she noted none of it was true except that he lied about finances and she couldn't trust him. I began wondering at this point "how much about my Dad is a lie". So I am 19, freshman in college, and am wondering "is my Dad as evil as I understand". On one hand if he is the monster my mother says than I don't mind knowing him but don't want to be hurt. However, if he is a good guy then I am missing out. I wonder though if he is a good guy wouldn't he have tried to find me. So my question is how do I know if my mother lied to get him back for leaving her. He has a sister I met once at age 7 but my mother was cordial but brief (we ran into her somewhere). I don't even know the woman's married name if she has one. I know Miller was my Dad's maiden name so obviously that is a very common name. Any thoughts?

So I love to sit in my room by myself and I will be in my room all day sometimes (once a week). But my mom always gets mad at me and makes me come out some times, then other times she always ask why are you in your room all the time what do you hate me? When she asks this I get pissed in a way, I try to tell her that I need to spend time by myself and when I do come out we don't talk anyways so what's the difference. But when I do go sit in the same room with her we don't even talk we just sit on our electronics anyways. Ugh how do I explain this to her so she will understand. I think she thinks I'm doing but stuff in a way but then she also knows that I would never do anything like that. Sorry this probably doesn't make any sense but help please!! *bad stuff not but stuff

Alright. I've been listening to kpop for around 5 years now and I really do like it. I recently ordered off Amazon a bit of merchandise of one of the bands and it arrived while I wasn't home. My mom opened the package and saw the shirt, jacket, and album that I had purchased and got, according to my father, very angry. When I got home, she was screaming at me alot how she doesn't want me listening to kpop, but she never gave me a reason. My dad doesn't mind it. He says me listening to kpop is fine and he doesn't mind it at all and that he likes it that I have my own taste in music, but my mom says that she is really disappointed in me as her child and that I should be ashamed of liking this kind of music. What should I do now? I don't really know. She threw away everything I ordered, apparently. I really just feel like she's overreacting over a style of music though. I'm just upset. Thanks for any answers. I appreciate them

he always used to hit me when i was young, he used to break my video games because he hated technology, he is very narrow minded, he screams like a maniac and he is a dick, and says harsh things and never gives u the right for privacy and talks **** to you when he's mad for no reason. my mum invited him to our house for 2months and from day 2 he is already talking **** and screaming like a maniac at me for no reason. i'm 19. i lock my room at the house always. my parents never made a big deal about it. my grandpa came here and started talking **** and assuming im hiding stuff and secrets. which is wrong. i wish he could die. he used to hit me when i was young. i can't hold my temper anymore. he got me so mad. so many details i can say but they are so many but i can't, all in all, he is abusive and controlling and wants everything to go his way, if not, he uses loud noises or violence. what should i do? i can't wait 2months. and i can't afford a house or apartment outside. how can i tell him to **** off? i talked to my mum about it, and she told him. he doesn't listen. btw i'm 19

First of all, I don't really care that this Woman raised me, because I find Her behavior ridiculous. Not only is She terribly immature throwing temper tantrums at 53, but also lazy and irresponsible. For example, today She slept until noon, and then proceeded to order an overpriced coat for Her doll from American Girl. Meanwhile, my Dad is at work making hard earned money that She spends as He makes it! She complains about the fact they can't seem to save money for a vacation, when it is as much Her fault as His. She buys $50.00 sets if lipstick She doesn't(or didn't) wear, pretty expensive purses She really doesn't need, and somewhat ugly/dull shoes that cost a mint because they're well made for people who are on their feet a lot. However, She is not on Her feet THAT much She's just fat.

Parents are divorced the house we live in currently belong's to my dad he pays for it. He plan's to put it in my name because he works in other countries and doesn't plan to live here ever again (my mom's home country) So my mother and sister live here also, my mother can't afford her own place so she stays here my father does not mind. My sister is 24 and married living here with her husband they plan on moving out getting their own place they do not want this house. So is it wrong for me to get angry if my mom and sister decide to paint the house interior a color I hate? and move the furniture around a way that I don't like? Because in the end I'm the one who has to live here and they ruined all the things I liked about the house

Okay so my parents are divorced and my mom has full custody. I have 2 siblings and we live in a pretty shitty 3 bedroom apartment (there's a tiny bathroom and a tiny kitchen as well as a small living room) and the people who live below us always have some sort of nasty thing like they had lice and they let their ferrets and dog go to the bathroom in the house. Its gross. Anyways, my mom is addicted to popping pills. Every month (at least 1 time, if not more) and it caused out stepdad to completely leave and he pays rent because my mom can't even hold a job (she will go to work while on pills). I go to my grandparents every weekend and it is so much better there. They have a house with about 4 bedrooms, but one is used as a storage room. Oh i forgot to mention my mom gets really mean and stuff when she is on pills. She has even gone through all my belongings before and gave them to neighbors that don't need it. Anyways i feel like i would end up having a much better life there, same with my siblings. I just don't know what to do. And when my mom is on pills SHE TRASHES THE WHOLE APARTMENT. There will be food all over the floor, etc. She also has a cat here and i feel bad for him because of when she is on pills i sometimes am not here and go to my grandparents. What should i do?

I have always had issues with my mom ever since i was a little kid. She had left me and my sisters when i was about 13 years old and came and went as she pleased. Now that we are older we talk to her like normal and visit her but i for some reason always end up arguing with her..I live with my boyfriend and our 3 children i recently got a good job but i had to quit since my mom or sister wouldnt watch my kids (and i was paying them $) so then i decided to go to school but i couldn't since my sister or mom wont watch them. My mom dosnt work or my sister they are at home all day.. My kids are very calm and respectful children sometimes i just feel like cutting all relationships with my mother and 3 sisters since all they do is bring bad energy into my life.. should i keep my distance and cut it off or will i regret it later?

My mom and I don't get a long very well, I'm 19 and am working really hard. I work nonstop but I called in sick today. The work called my mom and told her and said I lied about why I'm not there which I foremost didn't. And now my mom is going to freak out on me in every way possible, she is very controlling and overbearing. I am moving out to my sisters soon but I could do it today as well, I'd rather just move out today after she freaks out on me. Is there anything she can do? I'm 19 and I'd honestly rather. It talk with her all together, she freaks out over everything and is in my buisness. My car is in her name but I don't care about selling it or giving it back that much. Thank you

I'm a 14 yo girl. I misbehaved, was prepotent, disrespectful and full of pride, sometimes feeling superior to other people, especially those who do menial jobs. I did this to a lady that sometimes works for us as a maid. Aldo I challenged mom's authority. I ended up getting a punishment. For almos a month, I'll have to be like a maid, that is, will have to do housework at home and wear a maid uniform all the time. I sleep in my room, eat with the family, etc, but always in a maid's uniform. A full maid uniform, a striped dress and a frilly apron. Sometimes I go shopping with mom, in full uniform. I have to keep it on no matter who comes to the house. I asked mom to at least let me take off the apron when in public but she said no way, in full maid uniform. Is my punishment fair? I hate it, hate housework and my uniforms What do I do when seen in my maid's uniform? What do I say? I get kinda embarrassed. Is it degrading? Is mom right? How do I get out of this? I'm not a maid!

About a month ago doctors told us my dad wasn't going to make it he was going to die that night.. thank god he made it and he is alive and he is now living with me my boyfriend and our 3 children.. i just dont feel comfortable living with my father when i was younger he sexually abused me.. this was such a long time ago and i completely forgave him. I feel uncomfortable wearing certain clothes around him and him being alone with my kids.. my dad is sick and needs to be seen by specialists and taking medicines. Am i wrong for me to feel this way since he is sick? Is their something i can do for him to live with one of my other family members?

I remember regularly having to sit through screaming lectures by my father for seemingly minor offences, such as not having my room picked up to the liking of my parents (my room was cleaner than any child's room that I've ever been in), or losing or misplacing my bottled water bottle and opening another while I still potentially had one open somewhere else, which would routinely result in getting screamed at for literally 5,6, or more hours nonstop, sometimes to 3 or 4 o'clock in the morning. Did this ever happen to anyone else? y- Don't forget plastic arrows, and markers. Those were always a favorite. Chris - I'm not exaggerating, unfortunately.

My mom had scheduled a therapist appointment for my older sister because my dad is an alacholic and has done very bad stuff to all of us. He still lives with us and secretly is still an alacholic behind our backs anyway my older sister went to her first appointment and that was it. The therapist said she'll call back to see if this is something my older sister wants but never did call. I and my older sister believe my mom canceled the appointment on her because my mom was afriend she would get into trouble and my father would get into trouble as well. Is it normal for a therapist to not call back?

For personal reasons i live with my aunt. My cousin is really annoying and likes to call me names. He treats me like crap because his father threatens to hit me if I defend myself. If I defend myself and hit my cousin and my uncle hits me, could I call the cops?I m 16, my cousin 14 and my uncle is over 35.

I hope this isn't too much to explain, I like to keep things simple. My sister had a short lived, first marriage. So eventually she found a new guy. They have been together for nearly 5 years. Two kids, a toddler, and a baby. Now just out of nowhere he's being a jerk. He suddenly doesn't want to be with her. He's also been cheating on her. In addition the girl he's cheating with egged my sister's house, because I guess she's 12 or something. Not literally, of course I just mean I don't expect that kind of behavior from a woman in her 20's. It seems so odd that after 5 years of being fine, he's suddenly acting like this. I don't know what the reason is either. If he's upset at my sister he's known her for 5 years, he's had plenty of chances to let her know that maybe he thought she was too bossy, or angry, or whatever flaws she has. I'm a mediator by nature, so I try to look at both sides, and when he first started acting like he was going to leave her, I stepped back. I was like; "Well she does expect a lot, and I understand he probably felt like she was taking advantage of him, and not being thanked enough." Then I actually found out he was cheating, which isn't justifiable to me. I'm just looking for advice please.

I'm 21 & a college student. My roommate/best friend (almost a sister) is an art & film double major. A year ago she approached me because she knew I was really good at controlled breathing, & wanted to use me for a conceptual art/film piece of 2 women sitting on a couch in interesting light, topless, breathing in unison for about 4 minutes, w/ the sounds of birds outside. She was broke and could only afford 1 model, knew I could do controlled breathing, & after being promised that the only people to see it would be her, her peer evaluation partner, & the professor, I agreed. While the whole thing was a bit avant garde/conceptual for my taste, it WAS artistic, & I knew no one would really see it, & it helped her out. She got a really good grade. Now she is putting together her senior portfolio, which is a BIG (& difficult) deal & necessary for graduation. Her advisor is begging her to use the film piece because it is one of her best. I want to help out, I do. But it'd mean a lot more people seeing it. It would even be on display in the gallery in the art department. That's a whole lot more than I knew I was signing on for. I play sports, so I'm used to being nude around women, and this was/is art, so I was more comfortable than normal. But I'm pretty modest overall, never even been nude in front of a boy before. So this is freaking me out. But I also don't want to leave her in the lurch. She can't afford to reshoot it, and it is one of her best grades. Ideas?

My mom likes a guy named Jack and he lives in the Caribbean I live about 7 hours away from my mom an teen brother I live with my dad cuz my parents are divorced. So she knew Jack since they were teens cuz they were born on the same island. He is married an has a child but I guess he doesn't like his wife. So last year feb 2016 she spent a week there with him while my brother was here with me an our dad cuz he had the week off from school. Then she jumped up on Mother's Day weekend to go back and spend with Jack which I thought was wrong. I don't remember if she went back over the summer but she asked me watch my brother for New Years an that week while she goes back to see Jack. I told her no she is getting reckless an should spend New Years with my brother so she didn't end up going. Now she is going in about two weeks said she already book the ticket an she ordered me to watch my brother an take him to school while she goes back with Jack. I don't want to do it and I think she cares too much about a man and it's wrong what should I do? Btw I say she Sent him inappropriate pictures again he's married I'm not ok with this especially with my brother in the middle Essentially the problem is she ordered me to take care of brother for a week an take him to school while she spends a week with Jack and I'm not ok. With that so I don't think I should just accept it an do what she says. She also told me if I don't do she won't talk to me anymore and will block my number etc. Btw if anybody is curious our relationship is ok but sometimes stuff like this happens. She didn't ask me anything about going away that week she just did it. I am 23 and I work and am a Essentially the problem is she ordered me to take care of brother for a week an take him to school while she spends a week with Jack and I'm not ok. With that so I don't think I should just accept it an do what she says. She also told me if I don't do she won't talk to me anymore and will block my number etc. Btw if anybody is curious our relationship is ok but sometimes stuff like this happens. She didn't ask me anything about going away that week she just did it. I am 23 and I work and am a Am a full time college student but live with my dad I am not a problem child or anything me an my dad don't have issues like this. He is single too if anyone is wondering an this is my moms 3rd boyfriend since 2009 when my parents separated cuz she liked someone else so yeah I may have certain feelings towards her about her kinda messing up the family. Btw I don't know why the first update posted twice. My parents were together for 20 years I don't know if any of this matters it's background

He always pees standing up in the bathroom and the door wide open like hello come join me I'm peeing!! And it disgusts me so f****** much when i hear the sound. My dad acts like a dog and is a dog. How to teach him good manners? Should i cut his ****?😄

My wife's birthday is February 18 a few days after Valentine's Day she's gonna be 22 this year. She has a daughter from a previous relationship she's 3. My wife has just about everything. She has an iPod touch she has a phone. She's obsessed with Disney and tornadoes. She has almost every Disney movie. Her favorite is The Little Mermaid. She's got everything from that. She even has a Little Mermaid blanket and pillow on our bed. She even has an Ariel necklace she wears everyday. She's obsessed with it. We went to Disneyworld for our honeymoon. She loved it she never wanted to leave. It's my first time celebrating her birthday with her. Her favorite colors are blue and green. She loves country and pop music some rock. Right now she's obsessed with The Beatles. She also loves Anime but she has almost everything from that too. Like I said she has just about everything she could ever want. I don't know what else to get for her. What should I get ?

My mom was shouting on her phone snd we were getting in an uber and I didnt want to get embarrassed so I told my mom to be quiet and I wanted to tap my moms leg but it ended up being like a slap ..I love my mom and I would never try to hurt her

My dad is 73 years old. He has always been a little "off". But I think him being an alcoholic for many years played a part in that. He doesn't drink anymore, but I'm noticing strange, and somewhat dangerous actions from him lately: - A daycare was being built behind my parents' house. My dad didn't like this, so he shot at it with his bb gun at night. Now that it is done being built, he puts heavy blankets on the windows of their house so he doesn't have to look at it. -He shots at neighborhood dogs (on someone else's property) with his bb gun. When the neighbors called the cops, he lied to cops about it. -He hates members of our family: nephews, nieces, my grandma. Why, I don't know. Just does. Never used to be this way. -He tells my husband if he doesn't believe in God, he's going to hell. -While at lunch dad the other day, he started mocking a Spanish speaking employee at a restaurant. I was in shock and embarrassed. I could go on and on, but the things that concern me the most are the way he treats his neighbors and shoots animals/buildings with his bb gun. He also throws rocks at them. I can't believe he hasn't had his *** kicked yet. When I try to talk to my mom about it, she just says "oh, he's not mentally ill". I love my family very much, and I guess what I'm asking is....doesn't he seem like he's mentally ill? Should I do anything about it? It's hard having your parents get old and not know what to do and when/if you should step in.

my sister (13) lied to my parents about being at a sleepover, and I found out from my friends that she was at a street well known for nightlife. And this isn't the first time she's done this, she went to a bar for New years eve without my parents knowing, however she remained sober both times. She's been increasingly rude for a long time, very disrespectful and cursing behind my parents' backs. She's made my mum cry. I told my dad about the times because it's been getting too out of control.. and I've been feeling guilty for doing so, but since I live in BKK the place she went to is well known place for foreigners to get kidnapped/raped/killed, am I wrong for snitching? will she hate me forever? P.S I did warn her that if she does this again I would tell

Hello, I have some problems with my big sister. She came into my room today and told me that I need to get psychological help because I tend to spend more time at home than being with friend, and that she knows that I'm depressed and unhappy. I told her that I'm not unhappy, and that the reason why I spend a lot of time at home, is because I like to spend my weeks ends alone after a long week being surrounded by people. I've never had a good relationship with her so I didn't understand why she suddenly started talking to me. I than realized that she came to criticize me. She started telling me that I'm making mom worried and that liking to spend a lot of time alone isn't normal. She then criticized me for playing video games when I'm free. I told her that if my mom is worried, then I would talk to my mom not with her. She afterwards kept criticizing me. I told her that I don't want to talk to her about my problems since I know that deep down, she doesn't care. I feels like this whole conversation I had with her was only to make me feel bad, and not because she was genuinely worried about me. In the end, I told her that I don't want to have a conversation with her because we were getting nowhere. I honestly don't want to have anything to do with her and I hate her. She has hurt me so much in the past and she keeps minimizing the pain she has caused me by saying that it wasn't a big deal. Is it wrong for me to hate her ?

Is it normal for parents NOT to want to help you(17) with anything at all? They stopped letting you go to school 3 years ago. You haven't been doing any school since. For 3 years until now, they have isolated you from people. You're either inside the house 24/7 or walking out(around your neighborhood in the neighborhood) 24/7. That is all you're allowed to do. You can't go anywhere, there are no sidewalks to walk on outside of your neighborhood. The nearest jobs within walking distance(22 miles away) never answer you back after you send in applications online. You have no money yet. Your parents refuse to drive you the 22 miles away so you'd have to walk it to get a job but you have filled out 30+ applications to all of the stores in that part of town, it has been a while and none have contacted you back. You have no bike or skateboard either because parents refuse to buy you one. Your dad is constantly breaking your things and telling you how much he wants to do it(has been doing it since you were a 2 year old he has mental problems). How normal is this?

My brother and his girlfriend just had a baby boy and I don t know what he should call me. My name is melanie and I just find it weird being calling "aunt melanie" any ideas would help, thanks.

She s 16 now, I got custody of her when she was 9 but now I can t wait till she turns 18 cause I m gonna throw her out or she can go back to her mom. She is too much of a PITA. She lies,steals and acts too much like her mom sometimes. I love her but I just don t like her and when she s around me I just feel irritated. I can t wait for the next 2 years to go by so I can be done with her and I can leave her and go live my own life without tolerating her any longer.

My mom used to be the perfect homemaker. She used to entertain for my parents friends and family and my dad's bosses and their wives. They were always on the go. Going to Europe and all over, then.8 years ago my dad, the love of her life, passed away. My mom has gradually gone way way down hill, she seldom leaves the house, always wears sweats and the house is a disaster. Not trash but junk not put away, clothes everywhere. It'd take months to clean it now. She is only 52 but she looks a lot younger. I try to help her clean and she says don't move the stuff she knows where it is. She won't ever meet anyone like this. All she does is go take care of my grandmother. She says she's very lonesome but it's too late for her now, shell never get the house clean again and everybody who's any good is already married and theres no way she'd ever date a married man so her life is almost over anyway. She says she's happy as long as my brother and I are happy.

Would I be born to a different mother or father?

She says you re crazy.Your father will be very angry when I tell him .You psycho.Are the symptoms weird?

I'll make this quick, so this is a bit weird. I had some friends over recently and we were ******* around with Google. Then we decided "hey we should search each other up on one of those background checking sites" and that's what we did. When we got around to me, according to the site I didn't exist. Another persons name would pop up instead and we tried on multiple sites. I just don't exist according to these sites. Why? I think it's a bit weird and when I asked my family they went and tried the same thing coming up with nothing. So can somebody explain why I'm not on record? Am I like a ghost or something?

I accidentally walked in, I figure she doesn't know because neither one of them jumped up or moved when I opened the door. I didn't know her boyfriend was there either. I slowly closed the door and went in my room. She's 18, I'm 20. All I can say is she's lucky they partially covered and it wasn't my grandmother who caught them. Do I tell her though?

I m 26 years old I own a house with my boyfriend of 8 years. I want to get married and have a baby this year. How do I tell my parents who don t want grandkids and would try to stop me from getting married??

and i needed money to buy some personal stuff and i was afraid to go out and work by my self so i knew someone that could help me my cousin leo so i reached him o i can work with him and he was happy to work with him and i started to work with him and so he need help to move his stuff to move from another house so i helped him and so he wanted to remodel his house because he knew that there was something wrong with the contruction and so i work with him over 6 month and he did pay me because he had billing to pay and he let me stay with him because he has a divorce going on so i backed away so at sept 25 2016 my brother wanted to live with us because our grandmother kicked us out so he started loving with us so the next day we didn't work for over a month until one day we received a call from la boulange a bakery to work as a maintenance so we started working so my cousin told us to work with him he said my brother and i were going to get paid 15$ per hour so we worked for over 5 months and we got tired because we didn't get paid and i asked him why are we not getting pay and he said i don't know it takes time pacients so we work for a a mother month until my brother quit working with him until one day i told the manager why are we not getting paid and he said o your cousin is paying you guys so got mad and so on i told him i need money because i need money to buy my personal stuff but he said oh i need to pay my layer and the house and my bill and credit card

Shes trying everything she can to make me look bad and spread all type of bad rumors about me, trying to make look like a joke. She trying so hard to bring problems into my life. Im like dont you have a life, friends, a boyfriend, work, school, bills, your family to worry about. I told her to go get a life, I have my own life, I dont care what you say, Im gonna go hang out with friends n whoever im dating at the moment, why dont you get your own life. I dont get it, its just stupid to me. From what i know, she doesnt have a boyfriend and her family is desperately trying to find someone to marry her. Seems like a jealous loser to me.

My whole life ive been in an out of different homes, foster care, family members, etc. In every home ive been in (except one, more on that later) there has been 2 or more people constantly fighting around me. I guess it started being a baby with an abusive step dad. I got taken away when i was around 4 and im 15 now and finally can live with my mom again. I love it here so much, but she and her boyfriend fight a lot. Never physical abuse, although he will throw things around but never at us. Im scared that something is really wrong with me, because i like it when i can hear them fighting? And when they stop i wish they would start again. Dont get me wrong, i hate to see my mom cry and i feel really bad for them both, but i always feel almost... safer wgen i can hear people fighting. Even if its random drunks down the street when i lived in the city, it made me feel safer or i dont know. I was living with some family friends for a few months, and they were the picture perfect family. They had a toddler and i never heard them fight once. And it made me hate it there. It was too still? I dont know. But my mom and her bf just finished starting and i cant help but wish that they would start up again. I dknt really know what this is. A rant? I just want to know if im crazy or if this is normal. Am i a sociopath? Or a bad person? (Also for the record i do have a small history with sexual abuse). Any insight would be appreciated, thank you.

My bf is 16 and I'm 14. I have a friend who is super worried about this because we go on dates unsupervised and he's an 11th grader in high school. Anyways my friend dated this older guy and she got raped by him. He would go as far as cutting her boobs and other body parts with knives if she refuses to listen. He went so far that she got sent to the hospital because he injured her so badly and he raped her too. Then when she got released out of the hospital that guy posted explicit pictures of her getting raped and of her genitals online. She tried to kill herself by overdosing with pills but instead survived. She even wrote a suicide note and texted me saying, "goodbye I love you so much my baby sister I'll always make sure you're okay in heaven" etc. She probably thinks I'll have a bad experience too and she partly doesn't like the age difference thing either but we're allowed to date and have sex here in Canada. She became more protective of others ever since those incidents with her ex boyfriends. She says that she knows more than I do because she's 20 and I'm only turning 15 so I should trust her on this one. Is she just really paranoid? She hasn't even met him yet but she's gotten really protective of me since I told her that I have a boyfriend that's older than me. I think she might worry too much because of what she's been through.

we aren't rich, but my parent only pays attention to their job and doesn't seem to care much about me. they never pay attention to me, and they snap at me when i ask them simple things about something important to leave them alone. i even have several health issues that can't be seen to because they don't care to help me make appointments, take me there, etc and i'm not old enough to do all that by myself. every time i speak to them about ANYTHING they try to fight me. they aren't even happy when i do well in school. i don't know what to do.

This is my first yahoo question, and I wasn't sure whether I should create an account or not but I did. Ok so, thing is, I want to know if my parents count as abusive or not. Maybe it should be obvious, but like they're my parents. What can they do and cannot do? Maybe I'm being stupid but it's so awful sometimes I don't think I can handle it. I've always had the "good life". Great education all my life, tons of stuff I always wanted but never use now, pretty nice house. And I used to put up with my parents just fine. But now I just... idk. Getting to the points cuz of the limit, my mom nags me all the time and never leaves when I want her to leave. I never get privacy. Ever. I hate it to death. It's been a while, but she's calmed me things like selfish before. My dad doesn't have a job and it's like all he does is sit on the couch and play slots. He has a horrible temper that goes off for the most stupid reasons, like I because I don't like Spanish or that I'm carrying a pencil. He takes it and twists it in his mind then yells at me. He yells about my mouth and my attitude and how he should beat some sense into me. He's called me mental and said I need help. He asks wats wrong with me. He's never really been violent but lately it's been getting worse. Yesterday he grabbed my chest- he didn't mean to grab THERE but he was mad and it hurt my like collarbone or watever. My mom always makes excuses for him and blames it on me while he's yelling at me. There's lil more but limitt

My high schooler daughter has been acting different lately. She hangs out with a group of strange men and she has lost a lot of weight. She always leaves with these men at all hours and comes back after 20-30 minutes. She carries an old pencil box with her whenever she leaves. I looked in it a few days ago and she must be into rock collecting with these men because there was small white rocks in there with a little silver spoon (I assume for rock digging), and a lighter (not sure what thats for... i know she would never smoke). Its so strange but im glad shes into a hobby and is making new friends but she always acts very strange when she gets home from rock collecting and then just falls asleep. I also found a bag in her room with a bottle of whiskey, little clear suger packets, and a pack of condoms in it. I was so scared when i comfronted her about it but she said she was holding on to it for a friend so thank god for that! Should i be concerned or is this just a normal part of growing up these days?

I will start from the very beginning, so this will be long... (If this helps at all, I am 14 years old.) Ever since my mom and dad separated, my mother has been extremely depressed lately. She has been drinking and smoking tremendously (she even had so much to drink to the point where she became sick and vomited almost all night long). I have done everything I can to help her and make her feel better. She has now brought her ex-husband over, to which I have not taken much of a liking to, especially after my mother informed me of her horrible past that he was involved in. He continuously beat her, gave her sexual diseases, and so much more that I refuse to announce, yet she has been inviting him over and bringing him to her room, locking the door and hiding this from my father (who is still her husband). She even told my brothers and I to keep this situation between us and us only. My brothers and I held the secret because we felt pressured. We had no idea what to do. However, one night, one of my brothers could no longer hold the secret, and thus told my father about EVERYTHING. Ever since, he has been heartbroken, messaging my mother almost everyday and having no motivation to do anything. He hasn't been the same at all, and I have never seen him so upset in my entire life. He's been crying so much and leaving the house solely to drive around. I've been there to let him rant and attempt to lift his spirits, but I constantly worry for him and my mother... (Continued) Earlier today, he traveled to my mother's house because he knew that she had her ex-husband in her house. He knocked on her door over and over, and my mother refused to answer. My mother called the police, and they arrived at her home, asking my father what happened. He explained everything, and the police went to speak with her. She then told my father that he no longer wanted to be with him, and his heart crushed. I have never in my life seen him cry so much...(Continued) I am confused, though, because, despite the horrible things my mother's ex-husband had done to my mother, she still has a physical connection with him. I know very well that he does not love her and he never will, because he doesn't show it. All he does is sit in the back of her room playing video games until she returns from work. He is getting what he wants, and it infuriates me. It infuriates me so much, and I want him gone (out of her home)... (Continued) What can I do? I am so stuck. I want to cry. I feel so nauseous and everything seems to be happening so quickly. I'm sad, but I want to help. I want to do what I can. I'm just stuck. Why does life have to treat us this way? Thank you for your answers.

A few minutes later my mother and sister was trying to have a nap and I was still mad and wanted to annoy them by not letting them sleep, in the meantime my mother was keep on telling me to mute my phone as she was trying to get some rest and I was ignoring it till she got angry(almost to my level) so I suddenly told her that I am wont let them sleep cause they were trying to annoy me and she was saying what and I was telling her you know why till her anger got my level and told her that she was trying to make me uncomfortable by facing her pussy and *** towards me Now she cried and told me that I have a dirty mind and wants me to leave asap as we get back from holidays. At the moment my job isn't going well and I believe that my boss will soon fire some staff as the company is shifting down badly so I think if I move out I won't last long and my life will get ****** up.(I am extremely angery at myself that I was not patient enough in this situation and ruined our holiday in the last day and got my family to have false thoughts on me). PLEASE leave your thoughts, questions or suggestions on this as I REALLY need help. Thanks You. UPDATE: Please do not judge me too fast, i was not able to write down the full story: I get bullied psycologically and emotionally daliy at my work by coworker so i developed a mild psychological disorder that i sometimes think people around me are trying to annoy me.. UPDATE2: I am on holiday in another town with my little sister and mother. We just had lunch at our motel(which i booked) and i was on my phone in my bed, my sister was on her phone in their bed and my mother was on my laptop trying to lookup a place(the beds are in the living room, the laptop was under the TV and the TV was between the bed so both beds can have a full view of the TV).. Me and my sister watch horror movies sometimes and i showed her a trialer of the new Ring movie on my phone and my mother was like your sister cant say no to you and she does not want too watch it or something(she was saying in a joking tone, also she hates scary noise), but my sister gave me a sign to ignore her. Then I came to my bed and my sister was having yogurt at the same time but after i showed her the trialer she was making wierd eating noises with her mouth(both my sister and mother knows that i hate the noise as I had a fight with my sister for making that noise when we were younger) and in the meantime my mother started making that noise too, louder and louder... then i realized that they might thought that i have tried to annoy them so they are annoying me, then i also realized that i told my mother off once not long before(in our house, i just came out from the shower and was putting my cloths into the washing machine, she was watching TV and had some sewing she had to do as her cotton was on the ground (she was on the couch at the time) then as soon i got in the same room to put my cloths in the washing machine, she came and did the same **** sitting down bending down and having a skirt which everthing was visible cutting cottons so i told her off and she appologized).. That made me very angry as i thought they both was trying to annoy me or something... So i kept playing scary movie trialer to annoy them cause i was not annoying them at the first place(I have never purposfully annoyed anyone except that coworker).. And then my mother got to the bed too and my sister and her were annoying and mocking each other and they were very happy(that made me ever more angry because how would you annoy someone and be happy about it!!) I will update this as soon as i get the guts to applogize her.. I have managed to appologize to her, we both had a massive cry and discussion about it and she told me that i should not take everything personally and try to ignore and dont keep in mind that whoever tries to annoy me as she was getting bullied constantly at her childhood by her brother and told her my side of story and told her that i am not like her brother as i was not born as a bully and wont ever be able to bully anyone unless a bully(This was a massive build up of anger). I have managed to appologize to her, we both had a massive cry and discussion about it and she told me that i should not take everything personally and try to ignore and dont keep in mind that whoever tries to annoy me as she was getting bullied constantly at her childhood by her brother and told her my side of story and told her that i am not like her brother as i was not born as a bully and wont ever be able to bully anyone unless a bully(This was a massive build up of anger). Lastly: Now i got to the point that i dont care if she wants me out or accepted my appology or not, I had to tell her my side of story(dispite she did not wanted to liston to me at all) but i still wont ever forgive myself for talking to her like that(dont worry she treated me A LOT worse when i was a child but she was also VERY kind too) and it was one of the biggest lessons of my life. LAST LAST: I did not call her a whore, i said that her shits are facing to me and i thought she was trying to make uncomfortable or something, again please read all the updates. Thanks heaps.

Hi, so I'm 18 and I really want to go to a party this Friday. I would tell my mom that I would be going to a party, but I can't tell her that because she will text me and call me obsessively and not let me have any fun. I get so embarrassed at parties because it's like "oh look Sara's talking to her mommy on the phone right now and missing out on the fun". My other option I'm considering if lying to my mom about where I'm going and saying I'm sleeping over at friends house. I feel really bad about this. I really don't wanna lie. I've always had a really good relationship with my mom and I feel terrible about lying. I just want to be able to socialize at peace and just have a good time with out my mom freaking out and commanding me to come home. I don't really know what to do right now :( can anyone give me any good advice?

My mother , who's 48 and divorced, seems to have a 'crush' on a neighbor.its not a crush but an obsessive delusion that has convinced her that this guy might want to actually be with. The thing is he's married but his wife has cheated him, but he's still with his current wife and hasn't shown any interest in my mother, he has even been hostile.I think my mom suffers from some pre-menopause mental condition that mixed with compulsive obsessive tendency have led her to act this way. What Soft way do I convince her that this can't be reality and that she should renounce? Cause she has even attacked a his wife once, because she blamed my mom for her family being destroyed( lie, she did it by herself no outside help) So???

Then killed Hence, I' have never been allowed to go out. Ever

So my parents got divorce last year and told me I have to be whit him 3 times a day and whit my mom and now this year I decided I don t want to live whit him since I had a room at his house I moved my stuff back to my mom s The papers say he can t pay child support because they re sign already whit 3 day thing... I want money and even if I was living whit him he never had gave me money just payed my phone bill ECT Can I sue him or something he hasn t even provided money in me while I was living whit him I will rater make him pay me monthly than living whit him 3 times a week I m also 16... 17 in 4 days so i want him to pay for my child support before I m 18 cuz I know he s not gonna care and leave whit his ugly fat "wife" so now I want to take advantage of him for he can pay me

Is the other person trying to get you angry first?