We're pretty young..23 and 24. We've been married 2 years and I'm 7 months pregnant with our first child, he always treats me like he hates me so much. He does everything for me financial wise because I'm pregnant and In school so our deal is for me to finish school then he will go back and finish once I'm done. So he's been supporting me financially. I have a lot of freedom with our money but I never like spending anything he even bought me a brand new car and recently for my birthday a thousand dollar camera he's always done everything for me but still so mean to me and it's confusing. When I try asking him why he's so mean to me all the time he says "this is just who I am, if you don't like it then leave." And on top of that he's never said anything good or nice about me it's always an insult or something so mean he makes me cry. I will try to look nice for him and it goes unnoticed he never even compliments me. I don't understand him. It's like his way of showing me love is through what he gives me, it's never real love. He never even talks to me or asks about me or the baby he's even said he doesn't care about my social life and what I do or talk to..he has no interest in anything..what's wrong with me?

I call him out his nane I show him no respect I just feel heads coward and don't stand up for himself and I'm trying to defend him we have a 2 year old who loves him dearly and Ghanages obsessed with her as well. But he just told me he thinks he wants to split. I don't cook for him when he gets out of work at night

Me and my fiancé got engaged in Dec 2015. In May 2016 I found out that someone saw him kissing his coworker. When I asked him he denied it. The kissing took place before we got engaged. I believed that he was telling the truth because he was no doubt the best fiancé and father of our two kids . Although I believed he was telling the truth I always had this gut feeling telling me that things weren't adding up. He claims he had never been alone with her. A week ago I brought it up again to her and I finally spoke to the girl he allegedly kissed and she denied everything. I called him and pressured him until he finally admitted they kissed. The boss would tell him to give her a ride home and he said they kissed twice in the car. I felt devastated bc he denied it for so long. And I asked him if that was all that happens and he swore that they only kissed twice. Later on I found out that they had kissed 6 months back also. I was again devastated bc he wasn't telling me the full honest truth. We have two kids together and I don't know if to forgive him. He not I my did it once he did it 2more times until he fired her. He was the assistant manager at the job. I feel betrayed because he lied until I told him I was going to bring the girl and confront him. Idk what to do. He said she would start flirting with him and finally they kissed in the sandwich station and then he claims nothing else happened until months later when he was dropping her off home.

he is the vice president of our company, i may want to make a good impression considering i am just the head of the Account security/risk team

Ok going through an uncontested divorce Bell county you have to go through a pro se clinic to file all the papers before you can see the judge my soon to be ex has all the papers done just waiting on the pro se clinic appointment to get a date for the judge does anyone who has gone through Bell county know how long it takes to get a date for the judge after the pro se clinic appointment

Any advice will do

I've been engaged for 1 year - Fiance told me he was married twice before me. first @ 26 because she was pregnant... lasted 1.5 years ended in divorce because she was a party girl, cheater. Second one they met 2 years later, instant love married 3 months later, lasted 20 years+ though. split bc she cheated (kids speak wonders about her as does friends). 1.5 years later he met someone at work, didn't marry but dated & lived together 1.5 years. They split up because she was mean, called him names and cheated. 3 weeks b4 our big day, he tells me about a 3rd woman who was his first marriage at 22. his childhood sweetheart lasted 1 year and she gave him ultimatum re his career so they divorced. So three marriages between age 22-54 ended all the girls fault. I am a 50 year old successful woman and sit here with many doubts now. When I question him he gets upset and says it's different w/me he wants this to last. Never being his fault concerns me for me.

So a young guy hit on me yesterday. I saw him today and told him I'm married and I'm also 10 years older than him as he was hitting on me again. I apologized and I pointed at my wedding ring and told him we could be friends. He replied that it wasn't right. Anyways, can a single man and married woman be friends? I myself know my boundaries because I have a family who I truly love. However, with him saying that's not right kind of offended me. I'm pretty outgoing and I can't just dismiss someone I met regardless of their agenda. Anyways, I was looking forward to treating him like a younger brother because he seemed nice. Thoughts?

My wife and I married a few months ago. I m 31 and she is 27. She recently finished grad school and just started a new job. I love kids and am ready to have one as soon as she wants. We ve talked about it a lot and she always said she didn t want a kid for at least 2-3 years, so I m ok with waiting. My wife has dealt with trauma and a difficult family her entire life. Recently, her father died from suicide after having a lot of substance abuse problems for much of his life. My wife, who is s really sensitive, empathetic person, hardly cried. She has always been an emotional person and definitely cries from time to time. On the other hand, she has a tendency to internalize when stress is beyond her control. I've tried to talk to her about her dad and she says she's not ready. Then, one day she suggested we try to have a baby. I asked if she's sure because she has a very organized, type A personality and this seemed impulsive on her part. This made her cry and she asked why I didn't want a baby. She has barely showed any emotion about her father, who she was close to. But got upset at my suggestion and rethinking a baby. I don't know how to deal with this to see if she truly wants a baby or wants a baby as a distraction from her grief.

He cuddles me a lot, he kisses me a lot and he likes caressing me, he also says I love you at least 3 times a day and it'll be at the most random moments like if I'm doing laundry or cleaning which I don't understand. I think it's cute but sometimes he does it too much. How do I ask him to tone it down without scaring him away and having him stop altogether?

Me and my fiancé got engaged in Dec 2015. In May 2016 I found out that someone saw him kissing his coworker. When I asked him he denied it. The kissing took place before we got engaged. I believed that he was telling the truth because he was no doubt the best fiancé and father of our two kids . Although I believed he was telling the truth I always had this gut feeling telling me that things weren't adding up. He claims he had never been alone with her. A week ago I brought it up again to her and I finally spoke to the girl he allegedly kissed and she denied everything. I called him and pressured him until he finally admitted they kissed. The boss would tell him to give her a ride home and he said they kissed twice in the car. I felt devastated bc he denied it for so long. And I asked him if that was all that happens and he swore that they only kissed twice. Later on I found out that they had kissed 6 months back also. I was again devastated bc he wasn't telling me the full honest truth. We have two kids together and I don't know if to forgive him. He not I my did it once he did it 2more times until he fired her. He was the assistant manager at the job. I feel betrayed because he lied until I told him I was going to bring the girl and confront him. Idk what to do. He said she would start flirting with him and finally they kissed in the sandwich station and then he claims nothing else happened until months later when he was dropping her off home.

Hello, I am a 35 year old guy who has been in a 15 month relationship with my 27 year old girlfriend. Sex for me was always minimal, as most girls I dated in the past wanted to wait till marriage before sex. Ironically I am in a predicament where I ended the relationship, or ruined, with the girls in the past because I wanted to have sex but they did not. Now I am with my current girlfriend and want to wait to have sex, not necessarily till marriage, but until engagement. I feel like we have some big disconnects in our relationship and feel that is the main reason I want to hold off. I think of me having getting my girlfriend pregnant and then regretting it because we just are not a good fit is really big on my mind. Then again I regret not giving other wonderful girls I dated in the past a fair chance and that runs through my head too which makes me sad cause I really love my current girlfriend... yet my gut and other issues we have are making me doubt it. Is it necessarily bad or what are your thoughts on if you were a female your man wanted to wait to have sex till engagement, or until your issues are resolved? Just more confused now than ever. In the past summer we got into big arguments and I lost my desire for sex cause I was unsure of our relationship and yet here 6 months later in the same spot. I know she got very mad at me last time for not having sex and I felt like I had to keep the relationship going. Can't do that anymore.

My husband won't stop looking at porn. He looked at it the other day. We faught all day yesterday. Today he goes gambling behind my back. He won't stop gambling. He's not going to stop anything. We are staying at my parents while I finish nursing school and my mom watches our son. I can't tell my family they will hate him and he will have nowhere to live. He has a good full time job but I can't just kick out the father of my child. I don't know what is keeping me from just leaving him. He won't change he has made that more than clear now. I can't talk to anyone because of my situation and I just need to finish school. The porn was never an issue until I caught him on a date with another woman. No other women since just porn and gambling. I can literally talk to no one. I can't pay for conseling. I can't use my sitters for counseling when I have to use them for classes. I don't want to deal with him but the thought of losing him kills me more. I hate this so much. I feel so stressed and lost as to what to do. Literally In can only talk about it on drinking yahoo answers. I have gotten out of toxic relationships before. What is wrong with me? Why don't I want to end it? Why do I love this person? The pain in my heart is almost unbearable.

Aside from doing it to make sure that your estate goes to your spouse and kids, if you have kids, why not just live together? I'm not judging, sheloves. I'm just asking a question to try and understand what I don't understand.

So my lovely wife got angry last night. She was trying to register my email address to a Chinese website to recruit people to work on her team. I was apprehensive because it contains my name and I didn't want to expose it to potential hackers. I have personal stuff like payslips, resumes, job contract etc saved into that. It would be a pain to change my email address. Anyway, rather than hear me out she started on a rage about how I don't trust her and how I have the passwords from her account. She starts texting me from her office saying f off repeatedly. Even sent me voice messages on the chat program angrily swearing and forcefully telling me to f off. She couldn't sleep tonight and has chosen to sleep head to toe. I felt her moving to that position at 5am and it woke me up. I was having trouble sleeping with my lower back disc trouble anyway (wasn't disturbing her). I have moved to the couch rather than going to her end of the bed. I hate waking up to a pair of feet. I'm contemplating taking a break and going to stay somewhere for a week away from her. Especially as she told me to f off, so I may as well f off literally... My parents live too far away and I'm working/studying this week. So I have no idea who I could stay with...I can't afford a week at a hotel.

I've been married 11 years to my current wife but about two years ago I saw my ex-wife for the first time since we got divorced and we started socializing again if she lives in the neighborhood. I phone in love with her and I think I'm about ready to start an affair with her if she's ready. Does my current wife need to know if I do this? Or can I just do it and keep it a secret so it doesn't affect our marriage?

So, a couple i know was doing "natural family planning", also called the "rhythm method." The wife pretty much outright told me she knew she was fertile when she had sex with her husband, but the husband said he thought she was in an infertile period. When I told him what she'd said to me, he said he thought I was mistaken. To make things worse, not long before this incident, she was lamenting to me how her sexual drive was stronger than her husband. 9 months later she had her ninth child, against doctors' warnings, and suffered various near-deadly blot clots in her organs. Since i have reason to believe she tricked/manipulated him into having a baby, (though i cannot and won't press charges of course) if so, is this sexual abuse? Thanks for the answers. This was really less an issue of abuse and more of an issue of them BOTH ******* up, big time.

Is the blame on her (the wife who cheated) just as much as the other man? We love her whereas the other man we declared downright evil for getting involved with a married woman. The relationship later ended but her marriage was over. To this day she is forgiven by us but the other man is remembered as despicable. Is this fair or since it takes two to tangle are we wrong?

She thinks I am a workaholic. It is true that I work 12 hours a day but I ensure to spend as much time for her during the weekends. I have a career and if I have to leave the job, then I have to forget about the comfortable life that my job offers for us. She doesn't understand me and always fights with me that I am not there for her. I take her to shopping, have sex, and make her laugh during the weekends but it seems as if she expects me to be on her lap 24/7

I'm a gentlemanly person and I think women should be treated like a queen, not like some $100-sl'ut... Anyway, my wife, whom I highly respect like a queen, has been trying to have sex with me for 4 months (since our honeymoon) and I keep rejecting her...

For religious reasons, my fiancée and I are abstinent until marriage. It was something we had discussed among ourselves and also in premarital counseling. My fiancée is a really level headed person but has a dramatic family that she tries to distance herself from. Recently her father overdosed on prescription pills in a suicide attempt and wound up in a psych ward. His wife (my fiancée's mother) didn't care. My fiancée took it upon herself to oversee her father's medical care and check in on him. She works full time and is also in grad school. She seems unfazed by the stress of it all but she has a tendency to internalize. I tried to ask how she feels but she insists she doesn't want to talk about her dad right now. The other day she was at my apartment and all of sudden tried to initiate sex. We were kissing and she started to get undressed so I stopped her. She started crying and insisted on leaving. I tried to stop an impulsive act. I didn't want to do anything we would regret. I know she's not on birth control and we are not planning for kids soon. I told her all of this and she said she wants some space. In the past (before we met), she used anorexia as a coping mechanism for stress/family issues but has since recovered. Now, she doesn't seem to have any outlet. I don't know what to do. We could work through this in counseling but it's so hard to get her to open up to me. What do you do if your partner internalizes a lot of feelings and major stress?

My wife has this thing to where she keeps tabs on what I do for her and the minute I do something for someone else she gets upset like I do "nothing" for her. a couple of months ago I put together a set or bunk beds for my grandkids at my daughter's house. I apparently put the ladder on upside down. She, my daughter asked me to come fix it when I have the time. Not realizing that I had already thrown away the extra screws I went over there a few weeks ago to get some measurements to purchase more screws. Last night I went over to her house to fix the bed and my wife got upset. Even though this was my daughter she still had a problem with it. My wife expects me to be a mind reader and just know when the oil in her car needs to be changed. Yes, I'm the one who does it but I also put a card in her car after every change notating the mileage and date of the last change. I have synthetic blend in the cars so you don't have to change them as often as conventional oil. My wife is stuck on this every 3 months or 3000 miles thing. The day after 3 months hits she's hounding me to change her oil even though I tell her it's not time. Her argument usually ends up being something like this. "Oh, if someone else asked you to do something you'd break your next to run and go do it but you always make me wait." I tell her all the time that if she buys the stuff and says, "hey, I got the oil and filter in the back of my car. Can you change it this weekend?" I would have no problem doing it. She feels that it's not womanly to go buy her own oil. That's what she's got a husband for. Again, I know girls who can tear down a transmission with a paperclip so my wife going to Walmart to buy a 5 quart jug of oil and a filter she feels she shouldn't have to do. My daughter wants me to change the oil in her car this weekend and I have no problem doing it but I've gotta do my wife's car first to make her feel good because I put her first. When I procrastinate on doing anything it doesn't mean I don't want to do it. That means I'm thinking of the best way to do it. She wants me to do all the work on her car so she doesn't have to take it to the shop and pay them. I can do some thing but I can't do everything. She feels it's the husband's job to pay for car repairs. I told her, "that's your car not mine. You don't pay for the repairs on my car so why should I pay for them on your car." Are you your spouse's personal slave?

I just got married and my husband is in the military. We have to move in 6 months. My parents have a business and I do some administrative work from home for them. I'm also a student taking online classes. When I'm not working on either schoolwork or admin work I am taking care of the house. Laundry dishes etc. I wouldn't say my life is difficult but he seems to think I just kind of lounge around all day. I bring home checks and straight As and the house is always clean but this isnt good enough for him. How do I handle this? I'm not exactly in a position to do better things until we move and are settled.

My husband and I have been together for about 5 years. The first few years were hell on me, because soon after we got together he got heavy into drugs and alcohol. We split for about 8 months over it. We just recently got back together, and he has made INCREDIBLE progress and I am so deeply proud of him. He did it all on his own. He has begun to be very open and honest with me about things which is something he's never done before. But I've never been an addict of any kind, so I have a bad habit of asking questions about it. and yesterday he asked me to stop because I was making his palms sweat with the urge.. I didn't realize it could be set off so easily.. how do I help him stay clean and what should I NOT do

My good friend really puts his wife down. He calls her fat, wide booty, and is unpleasant. In contrast he idolized this girl I was having a fling with even though she was a gold digger and using cocaine. Four months ago we were all at my house on the patio smoking pot, and drinking, when my friend gave him some coke. He became animated and started fighting with his wife until she went into the house. I went inside the house but I came back to see my friend making out with my fling. His wife came to patio door and seen them too, so I locked them both outside. His wife was upset and crying but then with little resistance we stared kissing. We eventually went to the bedroom and I spread that wide booty and came inside her. Since that night she has been coming over 3-4 times a week and I've been coming inside her. We even meet up in Walmart for parking lot BJs. The taboo of it makes it feel so good but he ever finds out this guy will kill me with no hesitation.

She's put on weight and it's just a huge turn off. I've become embarrassed to be seen with her in public. It's because she doesn't even care anymore. She doesn't care what she eats and It's as if she just rolls out of bed no shower and just goes out. It's made me turn to porn on a frequent basis. should I divorce?