(By the way I'm mad at her for reasons relating to her new boyfriend and her lying to me and I don't feel like sharing more than that)The thing is, when I'm in the same room as her and people ask what she thinks she says "I honestly don't even care" and won't even apologize to me. But, when I talk to my friends with her not there, they say that she gets sad that I'm mad at her. I feel like she's just expecting me to forgive her without her saying sorry becuase that's what I did last time. I really still want to be friends with her becuase she is such a close friend and I don't know what I would do without her at times. I don't know what to do becuase I don't want to give in like I did last time and have her think that I can just forgive her every time she hurts me. Please help me I have no idea what to do and I just sit at home and cry sometimes becuase I miss her but I'm mad at her at the same time.

I get very upset at college cause i think nobody likes me, my friend sophie is nice to me and she makes me laugh. But when other people are horrible to me she joins in with them and laughs. And when im crying she never asks me if im ok, shes always saying im annoying. but then other times shell ok with me//

Lately, I have been annoyed, so I can be rude to people. For example, I was leaving my classroom and I passed my friend. She said hi to me and I said hi back, but I said it quietly. She yells my name and was like "I just wanted to say hi." I told her I said hi, and she's like "oh i didn't hear." I just said ok and she said bye but in a questioning tone like "bye?" I felt pretty rude

I see this girl. Pictures of her on her instagram. I've had a crush on her but let her go after finding out she has a BF. Now when I see her face in pictures (not face to face). I feel frustrated. I start thinking about things from Outlast like Chris Walker's brutal death. Why? Any ideas. I guess you could say I get depressed. This hasn't happened with other girls I've had a crush on. Just her

I am 17 and a junior in high school. I have lived in the same town my whole life and only have a couple friends. My friends friends don't like me and have told my friends this but they never say why when I ask them. I don't know what I do wrong but there has to be a problem because everyone always seems against me. I am always working on group projects alone, I am always sitting alone and I feel so lonely. Whenever I try to talk to people they turn away from me and glare at me. I had really bad social anxiety in middle school and always got bullied and I started to stand up for myself and it stopped, but people avoiding me and whispering whenever I am around has not. I know I am socially akward. I am not sure if that is the problem. I am not afraid to be myself and am always optimistic and nice to everyone no matter what. But whenever I am nice to anyone, they act weird about it. Is there a problem with that? Am I too nice? What is annoying about me? I usually mind my own business and do my own thing and I still feel as though people judge me. I am not the most attractive girl and have never had a boyfriend. Am I ugly and people avoid me? Or am I just worrying about nothing? Please be honest. I won't get mad.

I m really sad right now not really angry just disappointed, I sit with a group of friends everyday and one of those friends had a birthday today. I sit by her in spanish and science and she is generally one of my closest friends at my school. But she didn t invite me to her birthday sleepover, she invited everyone else who sits with us but me... Now I know she isn t as close of a friend as I thought which makes me rethink if my other friends are actually as close friends as I thought, because my other friend had a birthday a few months ago but she apparently didn t have a party, maybe she just didn t invite me.... I m a normally shy person so I try really hard to be outgoing and fun around these people but I guess I m just coming off annoying and dumb. I guess I will just not count as a friend to this person just an acquaintance. I know this will probably just seem like I am a baby but honestly I ve been trying to make friendly relationships with these people at my school for almost a year seeing yourself try so hard to be friendly and getting no results is just heartbreaking. I just not going to try anymore

I am in high school and have no one to hangout with outside of school! I do have friends at school and we are close however we don't hangout! Also, how and what to talk about when you have nothing to say?

My 2 friends & I were drinking & I freaked out over something that turned into a big fight with one of them. I admit that I overreacted but when I went to apologize to my first friend, my second friend started making it personal. I wasn't in the mood to argue after drinking so I ignored her & she kept following me to talk to her. I went in the bathroom & she tried to follow & wouldnt leave the outside of the door so I stayed there & she kept wanting me to come talk to her but I again was not going to talk while we were all drunk & she said hurtful things through the door. She gave me an ultimatum to come out or else she was not going to try to make things right again & I still declined. The next day I texted her explaining why I wouldnt come out & she said shes fine sitting down talking & suggested a day to talk & I told her I'd let her know. Come that day, my dad was in a big accident at work that could have taken his life & he ended up in the hospital injured. Her & my other friend asked me how I was doing & I said im fine & thanks for checking. I texted her a few days later, apologizing for not talking that day due to what happened with my dad & she never responded. So the next day I texted her telling her I was trying to text her the day before to plan another time to talk but if she doesn't answer is there even a point then? I still havent received a text back & she isnt talking to me. What else can I do?

sorry its long i dont understand it i have a lot of friends and enemies (which i dont know why they hate me) (because i well off and not ugly and know it) im guessing all these people (around 30) who i have no cares about just seem to hate me and tourment me most of the were my friends they start rumors and stab me in the back when i trust them so i cut all of them out of my life and i changed schools coincidentally the same year cause my parents got divorced but they really care so much about what im up too like if something minor happens to me like i in trouble up or have plans somehow they all know even after telling just a few people who have little to no connection with them i thought since i changed schools they would move on but they wont stop talking about me (thats what ive heard from other people who still go there mybe its me being narcicistic(im a junior) but why am i so special, why must they care so much about me and not any other random kid was it cause i was a little popular and go to a small high school 1500 kids they even go to the extent of driving past my house i was very out going idkk what it is

my mom constantly worries about my studies, but im the one going to school, not her. she always has to know exactly what i'm doing, who im hanging out, and when i'm hanging out with them. if i don't tell her im going to hang out w my friend at least two weeks in advance, she won't let me go. and i get that she wants to know and be a protective mother, but i always have to have her approval when i want to hang out w a friend. im a girl, and everyone whom i hang out w is a girl, so it's not like she's making sure i don't do sometihng bad with a guy or anything. i used to be fine with her telling me when i can hang out, bc i have lots of homework and school and dance and im a very busy person, so when she used to tell me i couldn't hang out, i would understand bc i knew it would be better for me in the long run when i would have all my work done on time. but as im getting older it's getting more and more annoying, bc all my friends are always hanging out, and i already usually can't bc im so busy w dance, but when i can, my mom's always like no you need to do this, or you need to do that. i was going to go to my best friends birthday sleepover tonight, but i didn't tell my mom in advance enough so im not allowed to go, and now my best friend's birthday party isn't even happening bc of me. idk what to do bc everytime i say ugh mom why can't i go, she gets defensive and yells at me and i get in trouble.

My friends have always complained I was too needy. (maybe I did take advantage of their kindness) But my mother also takes offence in my reliance on them for everything. All my relationships are cut off now, but I'm realizing its the lack of emotional support from my mother that I was making up through my girl friends... Anyway is it wrong to look to friends for emotional support? Or are we supposed to self soothe and not look for others to comfort us? P.S. after loosing my friends my anxiety levels are so high, I never thought of myself as an anxious person but after losing them I get panic attacks and anxiety and I'm close to having to see a psychologist for it.

You can skip down to the part in brackets if you don't want to read all this. I have a few friends, but they don't ever let me just hug them and cry when I need to, they're not those type of people. No one really understands me. There are a few people I know who would do that for me and sincerely care and have my back, but they each live a long distance from me. It's hard to keep in touch when we're so far. Phones don't seem to help me connect with them well. Being with them in person is when everything works out. I don't mean to sound desperate-even though I might be a little- but I've been wanting a boyfriend ever since my life starting getting worse. I want a guy who will help me through everything and care and just make me feel loved, because I feel empty (a good guy friend would be fine with me, too). I have a TON of friends who are girls, but I am finding myself talking to my guy friends more often, and i dont really know why. But all the other guys my age are either extremely immature, or too egotistic and perverted to care about anything besides being popular and cool (they're sorta the same things, really) [[I just dont know how to put my thoughts into words, it's just a negative feeling of lonliness because of the lack of support. I also have low self-esteem. Any help would be good...thankss And im sorry if what i typed makes no sense, it's so difficult to describe exactly how I feel and such. Thanks for your time]]

I rely too much on people and sometimes it stops me from doing things I want to do. But I know that it is something that I should not do. I am going to be a junior in high school and I start school in 2 weeks. So anyways let me go on. When I want to do something that I like, like a club, sport, etc I always try to convince my friends or friend to do it with me so I won't be alone. I feel like if I do it on my own I won't have no one to hang out with in that club or sport. Like right now I really want to join a sport but my friend does not want to and it's like i'm fine with it, we like different things but I don't want to do it alone. How can I get rid of this habit and stop from relying on people to do things with? please help me! I hate this about me.

I had a friend back in middle school who was one of my very best friends, but by freshman year I found her to be very nosy and she was always wanting to get into my personal problems. I also stopped enjoying spending time with her, not sure why but these things happen. Fast forward to Junior year (my grade now). She's friends with literally every single friend I have!! I have 4 friends who don't even know eachother, and our school is fairly big. She talks with all the friends that I have. I don't know why this makes me angry, I shouldn't be. I just wanted to get away from her and her nosy business, but now she's everywhere I look! I don't know how she knows all these people. I guess she's just very outgoing. I have the irrational fear that she's going to steal my friends away from me. What is wrong with me? Am I jealous?

Me and my best friend are pretty much sisters/twins, to the point where people have believed we're twins for over a week until someone told them we weren't and we always get called the wrong names, but answer anyway. I'm a very shy person and I don't like being around people I don't really know unless she's there, and even if we're going out with a group of friends I'll only go if she does. When we're in public and someone talks to us I'll always rely on her to answer and I'll always try and do the same thing or be in the same place as her so I have some support. Do I rely on her for support too much when I should be doing my own things? Should I try to become more confident in myself?

This girl at my school keeps saying how I'm cute, pretty, and all that. Okay, there's nothing wrong with girls supporting and complimenting each other, but it's more than just that. She also tries holding my hand, touching my thigh, winks at me, caresses my hair, pinches my face, and moves her eyebrows up and down at me. I don't know why. I asked her and she said that she think I'm cute because I blush when I'm shy and that she likes teasing me. She said that she likes how I'm very dorky and is a dweeb. Not sure if that's a compliment or not. She shouts my name when we're in the hallways too. One time I caught her walking behind me staring at my back. But yeah is she a lesbian?

Alright, I'm pretty cool with people doing drugs, I don't judge for the most part. Recently, my friends have gotten into harder drugs (LSD, shrooms, ecstasy, etc.). and even MORE recently, my ex and I broke up (he is also a part of that friend group). So, since our breakup, he and a few of the friends have decided to try coke, and I think that's a horrible idea. i mean, for one, he (I assume) is emotional about the breakup, and I don't think he should be trying drugs like this right now. and, two, all of them have extremely addictive personalities, especially my ex. He knows that he should stray away from drugs because even once is too much for him. His parents were very involved with drugs (his father being a methhead, and his mom was into coke). He told me, while we were still dating, that he never wanted to follow their path and raise his children the same way that they raised him, but I'm afraid he's going to fall into the same problem as his parents now. I care about them deeply but I don't know what to do. Because I dated one of the guys, I'm afraid they won't listen to what I'm trying to tell them. Also, because this is something they recently started, they don't consider themselves to be "bad"yet, so they don't understand the gravity of how bad things can get if they don't stop. I already talked to some of the other friends who are not doing coke, and they agree that this isn't a good situation. However, they aren't doing anything to stop it. Any suggestions??

There is this guy who I've been involved with since 2014. He and I live in different states. But we've met up twice and have had sex but we aren't in a relationship. Sometimes he helps me with my academics I'm in college. So recently I told him that I wanted to pay him for his services. I told him I would send him money on the 15th of each month. I asked him if he knew what I meant by paying him for his services. And he said yes and I asked him if he was ok with it he said yes.

When I was in elementary and middle school I was the funny one and didn't care or even think about what others thought. Now I'm a freshman in high school and some of my friends I don't have classes with so we are not as close. In my clique, it feels like everybody is in twos and this one girl and I are friends but I think we both want to be the kind of friends where we do everything together! How do I become a funny, confident, and nice person?? What behaviors could I start to get in habit of to do so?

My best friend, we have known each other for 7 years and she is my neighbor, always treats me terrible. She lies to me, she has admitted she has lied to me, she puts me down, she always tries to one up me, she calls me a ***** and other mean innaprogriate words, and she blows me off. It seems like I'm only there when SHE needs me but whenever I need her she's not there. She has an older brother that bullies me and I think she is being mean to me to impress her brother. She will call me a *****, and boss me around. I KNOW she is not a good friend but I dont wanna loose her bc she can be a good friend at times.

I don't have many friends and my closest friend is moving soon. Making new friends is virtually impossible for me. I always feel like I'm being treated like a child. I'm having trouble paying attention in school and it's my jr. year. All I want is a few friends who aren't just being nice out of pity but I don't see any reason why anyone could actually like me. My therapist tells me she is almost certain I'm not special needs which is good but my best friend thinks I seem to act "special" sometimes. I am socially awkward and socially anxious. One of my friends told me a kid in my French class asked if I were special needs a one-three years ago (I don't know the exact time. It's an estimate based on how long I took French). I also want a boyfriend and I know no normal person would date anyone who acts "special". I had one boyfriend but he just sexually harassed me. I feel awkward in social situations so I feel like there is no escape. I act a little ditzy sometimes so I'm not sure I'd make a good impression in an interview. My whole point is if I can't get married to someone I love or get my dream job when I get older I don't see a point in living. I'm hopeless. I don't want any religious answers because I'm atheist. I need a better reason to live than a man in the sky will send me to hell if I kill myself.

I'm just a normal 13 year old that likes to write and act. I hate new people and only have online friends and love animals. I'm pretty strong for my age and I like to play halo reach with my older brother. I don't get why the adults who talk to me really like me. The woman who comes round a lot said she has never met anyone like me and my mum says i'm better than most people. I don't think I'm all that great and I know they aren't lying because I can tell when someone lies. Why do all the adults like me so much? (I only say adults like me because all the other kids I know that aren't family bully me.)

Ok so about 3 months ago, I was lending me friend a dollar for him to buy some chips but dropped a 10 dollar bill on the desk and he automatically launched for it and said he'd pay me back. Today I was showing him my gift cards I still had from xmas and he grabbed my visa gift card, I told him quit being a little ***** and give it back and said I wouldn't have done that to him for the whole hour, then at the end of the period he told me I was the one being a little ***** since I was complaining and whining. I was so close to socking him I swear, but I'm not seeing that money back, do I kick his ***, report him, or just ignore him?

I am a 15 years old girl. This may be long, but please read, understand, and help me... I was so smart when I was little but starting from 7th grade, my grades have go down so low. I always barely pass tests and exams with a score of 60/100 in all subjects. Especially for Math, I always got so low, my parents are embarrassed with it and my private teacher have given up on me. I always got like 15/100 in Math. I always study hard night before exams and always review my lessons when I got home, but why? Why can't I get anything? It seems like school was using alien language to teach me, I don't get what was being taught, even though I pay attention and always ask, lessons never seemed to stay in my brain! ALL of my classmates are genius, they always got 90/100 in ALL subjects. There are some that is average but they always got 75/100... even my best friend always got 10-20 points higher than me in EVERY LESSONS. This is so unfair, all of my classmates are always having fun and laugh in class while I always have a textbook open to study every time yet they are a lot more smarter than I am! They also always went to mall and shop or hangover in their friend's house while I was at home studying until morning. My best friend always said that it's okay because everybody is different and mention that I have talent in drawing and making short stories. I appreciate my friend's concern but my school don't have any arts lesson and having my drawing talents are not going to help me with my school grades. I am also the lowest ranking in my class and I am very embarrassed about it. I always spend my free time worrying if I don't pass this grade. I am tired. Everyone always told me to keep going and do my best but I see no result in "trying my best and be hard working". Sometimes I cry at night quietly because my grades are just so bad and I am the only stupid one in a class of 16 person. I am not exaggerating or anything. I am very sure those intelligent people who are always on top laugh at me and mock me when I am not present. Nobody understood me when I told them that I DO HAVE TRY MY BEST! My report card are like: B C E E C D D C While others are: A A A B B B A Tell me, why am I so stupid? What can I do to stop this embarrassing daily life? Please be honest, I don't mind rude comments. Just please tell me the truth: Is being the only one with low grades in class EMBARRASSING?

I read online that someone was complaining about being single and that their mom told them if they had a girlfriend it would solve his problems. Someone responded with the following information.. to be honest..I never heard of anybodys depressions being solved by having a girlfriend or boyfriend. it is nice to have it but them when you do and only ADDS to your life but I have actually never heard of that solving problems. Usually solving problems come first then the relationship develops from having a healthy and happy mindset in life and giving out positive energy...and people are therefore attracted to that energy. Whenever I hear people wanting a relationship to solve a problem like that or fill a void it never seems to work. Usually this is due to have unrealistic expectations attached to a relationship and expecting to find happiness from another source like that. which i think is the majority of the problems with people that search for love these days. I see the same people for years on the dating sites looking for a serious relationship..I can understand if they are just looking for dating or friends but find it odd when someone is looking for a serious relationship for years on a dating site and never seems to find one. It should not take that long. i think the problem is that these people all have such unrealistic and fantasy images of what to expect in a partner. they ended by saying.. if you dont mind my asking...why do you think you dont have a girlfriend?? since you seem to want one so much..I am just curious what you think the problem may be?? sorry if I am asking anything too personal or private. Just trying to help;) Was this good advice offered and do you agree with what this person said about relationships? thanks in advance

She's constantly telling me that but she's always so sweet to me, why?

my friend Maranda is 27 and today She said, " im tired of people lying to me all the time, Just to get what they want, that's why I have trouble trusting people.' What does she mean by that??? Just to get What they want??

There s this boy in my school. And he s BAD, he s on probation currently, and he gets suspended like every month. But today in school, he threw a marker at me and the ink got all over my expensive jacket that my dad had worked his *** off to get for me, and it won t come off. And didn t even apologize, but laughed. Then, last period he was talking about me with his friend saying "I d hit that any day any time" and a bunch of other nasty things. Then he touched my butt, and I told him to not do that and to stop, and he did it again. I then told my teacher, and she told my principal, and then my mom found out. I m afraid people are gonna call me a snitch, or something else might happen. Do u think I have anything to worry about??

So I have two friends (let s go with A and B) who do not like each other. It s been pretty clear for a while. We all hang out as a group because I like both of them, but A is always a total d**k to B. B doesn t like him either but he always at least tries to stay respectful. B had even given A rides and bought him lunch in an effort to bridge the gap before. Very recently, A and B got in a huge pissing contest to the point where B said he refuses to see A anymore and the group was about to get together that night. When B got there first, I called A and tried as hard as I could to tell him I m not taking a side but B was there first and neither wanted to see each other so he probably shouldn t come. A has been ranting non-stop about how horrible and terrible B is and I don t know what I can do to calm him down or try to console him (especially because B seems to be the one in the right). I don t need a permanent or immediate solution, just some outside opinions or ideas would be very helpful. Preemptive thank you to anyone willing to help

Okay, this is going to be long, just warning you. I m going to dive into this starting with my one friend, I have two. Let s call her Dani. So, Dani is fine for the most part, but she tells everything I say to my other friend, who we ll call Emily. (I ll get into her later) They also hang out all of the time and never talk to me at lunch. They ll be chatting away, and I m just sitting there. (This is a daily thing) You ll understand why her telling everything to Emily is bad. So, Emily is a bit... crazy? No, I shouldn t say crazy, just hormonal. First off, I really think she is an attention hoar. She ll talk about how bad life is, send me pictures of her blood, say she s going to kill herself, play the victim card, says she is cutting herself and always shows us her cuts, (now in not saying she s not depressed, but nobody flaunts their cuts to the world) It s pretty annoying. She uses the things I say to Dani against me even though they weren t bad. Her doing all of this is really stressful, and I hate it. She always does it, and when I point it out she never fixes it. Also, she is a huge hypocrite. She will ignore me and be mad at me, but if I do that she gets sad and acts like I hate her and I m horrible. I hate being the adult, and being nice when she says "I think I forgot how to laugh." instead of bursting out in laughter. I could go into a LOT more detail. She is extremely stressful, and I can t take my friends anymore. Can I get some advice on them?

Last year in school I made a new friend and we talked every day in 4th period which was the class we had together. We exchanged phone numbers and social media and we were pretty good friends. We never argued or anything like that but we completely just drifted apart and stopped talking this school year, which started back in August because we don't have any classes together this year. We haven't texted since the summer which is super awkward. It's almost like ever since she found out we don't have a class together this year she decided we shouldn't be friends. I see her sometimes at lunch but she has a lot of new friends she sits with. I just feel weird being friends with someone and now being strangers for no reason. We aren't on bad terms or anything. Should I ask her? Or try bringing it up? Or just let our friendship go

I'll be taking a online college class next month but I have a job I want to train for. And l also have a job already that I work. Do you think it's possible to do homework for a college class, train for a job and work another job all at the same time? Just one class.

so i have been talking to someone online as friends, we were talking pretty regularly and it has become less and less. i know i am clingy and can be overbearing, and now i am getting the feeling that he does not want to chat any longer as there is always reason why he cannot talk. What should i do or am i just reading too much into it?

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After a long walk in the summertime, you get back to your friend's house. He's got a 2 liter pitcher of sweet tea in the fridge that he's made the way he likes it—very sweet (200 g/L sugar). However, another friend is diabetic and she has to have nearly unsweet tea (75 g/L). Meanwhile, you like yours sweet but not as sweet as your friend (150 g/L). You will each drink about 0.5 L of sweet tea. Explain how you could make dilutions from one recipe to make everyone happy on a hot summer day. Calculate to 4 decimal places. For (75 g/L) = ? For (150 g/L)=?

When I'm alone and not bothering anyone at all/minding my business (which is always, there is never a Tim e where I mess with someone), then people call me a retard, ugly, and so many other things. Even when I'm talking to a friend, I still get made fun of. My friends don't get talked about at all, while they're around me anyway... People just hate me with all their might and show it everyday, every second. I'm tired of it.

My friend and I are going on a trip to Europe and need a creative hashtag for our trip! Our names are Summer and Evenne and we re going to Norway, Scotland, and England. Any ideas greatly appreciated!

Okay so I am a college student and I go to school 5 hours away from my hometown and I don't work during the school year, so the only money I have is what I saved from summer/winter break working. My friend is having a birthday dinner party at a restaurant this weekend, and it is pricey. (i would probably spend $40 including tip, and a drink). All of my friends are going. I really, really really can't afford it. I am stuck here for another 2.5 weeks and i have about $55 left in my bank account. How can I get out of this without looking stupid or sounding Incredibly cheap? : (

My best friend (who used to go to school with me and moved in the middle of the school year last year) is coming back to visit me!!! In that respect, I'm quite excited. But she wants to come and visit the school to see her old teachers and such. While I'm glad she's going to get this opportunity I fear it's going to be incredibly awkward. All the other kids in my senior class know that she was my only friend, and the pity I experienced last year was almost worse than the pain of losing my friend. Since she left I kind of stopped talking outside of class, walk with my head down, and sit alone at lunch, etc. I don't want the other kids to see us together and be reminded of their pity. I also think it will be just awkward in general- us hugging and jut being BFF's as opposed to me never getting close to anyone at school. I have no intentions to even tell her about this- that's why I'm incognito, so she won't ever come across this question- because I don't want to ruin her good time and I don't want her to know how miserable I am. I just want any comments or related stories you have (anything, please), and especially tips on how to deal with the pity (NOT "just make new friends"). Thanks in advance!

So some context, I was at the party which my sister and her friend also attended. I ended up talking to her friend all night. We hit it of and we ended up kissing at the end of the night. She also invited me to go home with her, but i thought that it might not be that good of an idea since i didn't know if my sister would be mad. So the next day she added me on Facebook, but I didn't write to her because i didn't know my sister would feel about it. So fast forward about a week and my sister tells me that she know that her friend and i kissed (her friend, the one i kissed, told her). So my sister told me that she wasn't mad or anything, and she didn't mind at all. She also said that it was okay with her if i decided to write to her. But i still haven't written to her, even though i really want to. And it's mainly because she's friend with my sister, if she wasn't then i really wouldn't have been a problem. And i don't want to come across a weird or creepy, i mean if she doesn't like me wouldn't it be kind of weird for me to write her? And isn't it a little too late to write her now? (it's been almost 2 weeks) And if i write her, what should i say? And lastly, should i even write her, or should i just let it go?

let me explain, I go to a school where I have one actual friend, everyone else in my grade doesn t like me and I don t like them so I don t have a problem with it. I had a good friend group but then it got messed up when these two annoying people came and ruined it, so now I m only friends with one person. I have a few ther people I m acquaintances with, but I can t actually be myself around them. It s a Christian school and everyone there is a hypocritical asshole. our senior trip is in March (to Costa Rica) and my mom is forcing me to go saying it s my shitty attitude and if I go I will have a good time. I already know I won t. I know it s Costa Rica once in a life time chance blah blah, but you don t get how horrible the people at my school are, and the whole trip would be focused on Jesus and we would do bible studies three times a day and I m just not like that. My one friend is friends with the people who ruined my friend group so I wouldn t be seeing much of her, I would be alone and I have no desire to talk to anyone else because they re all hypocritical and I can t stand them. I just want to be able to get out of this trip and the only way would be going to the hospital. it needs to be serious enough that I m in the hospital for a day or two before and I won t be able to leave because I need supervision. I don t want anything near death. I just want to be sick enough to be in the hospital for a weekish, I just don t want to go on this trip.

my name is Mike and I have a close friend Kaitlyn, sometimes we spend our whole day talking and other days we dont. for example yesterday she inveted me to the mall, and we spent the whole evening texting. and today she told me "She will talk to me later cause she's with her daughter. " I just feel insecure, Because there was a time when we got into a big fight and we stopped talking for a long time. I need some advice please? ???? like if she doesn't text me, I take it personal

So I kinda don t like this guy and we are not friends anymore cuz of certain reasons and a few days ago I was standing at my locker ( btw his locker is next to mine) and he s just like "move, your always standing in the middle of the hallway" and I reply "I m not even standing in the middle of the hallway wtf" and he s like " I know I just wanted you to talk to me...I mean..nevermind" like wtf does that mean does he want to be friends again. Sorry this was so random lol but I m kinda confused 😂

There was one I was kinda interested in and we went out a couple of times but went nowhere. Just were friends. Same with 2 other women, just was friends seeing where it would go, nothing more and they unfollowed me. I use the followers app and it shows you who unfollows you or follows you, so it's easy to see. I might not have noticed otherwise And the other is a best friend of a buddy of mine (he's gay, so definitely not a love interest of his) and she was in a relationship anyway, totally platonic between us and no we weren't close like they are, but I'd see her and him like on a weekly basis when I was single. So... Just friends. Now in the past two years I met the woman who is now my wife and now I don't keep in touch at all with the above mentioned people. They were part of what was my single life. Just didn't keep in touch with them afterwards. Yeah I used to like these women's photos but once my wife came into the picture I just stopped. Are women that catty that they have to unfollow or unfriend someone because they have someone in their life? I don't miss them but I guess I take it personally. I thought I'd ask, I thought people usually just leave those who are on their lists not delete them when they find a spouse or the friendship changes to acquaintance/friend I used to chill with In case I was not clear, they only unfollowed me AFTER I met my wife (it was several months into it that I saw this begin to happen)

She's always starring at me even when I'm with friends. I noticed that the more I ignore her the more she stares at me. She makes up stupid excuses to touch me sometimes or stupid excuses to talk to me although she knows the answers herself. Today she asked me what we had for homework instead of asking her friends. When she sees me with other people she's always trying to get my attention by starting to hug them in front of me. Almost every time I pass by her or when we run into each other she will immediately start hugging people after seeing me even if it's her friends of friends. I've also caught mentioning my name twice but I didn't hear the full conversation. Does she want me back? Is she just jealous or does she hate me? sometimes she's nice other times she's rude. She's a pull push type of person.

I know to a lot of people this might be a strange question to ask but I feel like I shouldn't let me write out a list of things she's done because I'm really not sure at this point if she's trust worthy. This is my birth sister not just a best friend like to call my sister. 1) last year(my senior year) my sister tried to get me jumped. 2) she became best friends with one of the girls who tried to sleep with my boyfriend. 3) she herself TRIED to sleep with my boyfriend (failed but still tried) 4) she lies to me about almost everything, being pregnant, not being friends with certain people, spreading rumors about me. 5) people at her college talk crap about me...people I don't even know! 6) she's ALWAYS trying to get people to dislike me. 7) she always stabs people in the back (figuratively speaking) Should I trust her?

I feel so sad because I feel like there is literally no one who would help me if I fall. I have friends, we have a lot of fun together but I don't have a connection to anyone and that's scary. Is this normal? Can I do something?

[I am 12. i am in year 9 in a top school (so competitive) where everyone is 2 years older than me. i have lots of friends.] [some stuff that might help you guys to help me] I just finished my exams and for some reason i have lost all feeling. I am never happy anymore. i was not nervous and i could care less (for my exams). what can i do. i don't find anything fun anymore. (and yes my parents are chinese)

She recently starting asking if she could have a cigarette when I was smoking even though she didn't smoke, and when I told her they were bad and I was addicted to them she said I was really sweet, then grabbed my arms and wanted to walk with me that way while holding on, and wouldn't let go when I tried to break free from her grasp. Just today she invited me to her house alone and told me that no one was home. I just don't understand why it mattered, as I know her folks quite well, but she specifically implied that no one is here right now, so come over. We've been friends since grade 10 high school, and we have been besties for about 6 years now. What's going on exactly? I am male, 24 years old and so is she.

I used to be protective of my best friends. wanting them to always be safe and not do things that may regret. Lately I've been feeling rebellious and started to not care about my friends. I don't even know if they care about me or not. School's starting and I'm anxious to meet them. I feel like I want to not be bothered by them forever but I would just regret it later. Deep down I know I still care a little but then I also don't care

Let me get this straight me and her been friends since 6th grade but now everything change Step 1: she always gets me in trouble Step 2: she is nice to everyone expect me Step 3: she treat me like a slave Step 4: she always embarrssed me Step 5: she never leave me alone Srep 6: i try to ignore but i cant she just gets in my way Step 7: whenever she yells at me she just makes me cry Step 8: she boss me around Step 9: she brag to much Step 10: everytime i make new friends she just steal them I just really wish someone would knock her out so badly

There is this guy who I've been involved with since 2014. He and I live in different states. But we've met up twice and have had sex but we aren't in a relationship. Sometimes he helps me with my academics I'm in college. So recently I told him that I wanted to pay him for his services. I told him I would send him money on the 15th of each month. I asked him if he knew what I meant by paying him for his services. And he said yes and I asked him if he was ok with it he said yes.

We've been best friends since the 9th grade when we met. Since then we've literally had the same routine and the same meeting up and telling of stories. Usually she has a lot of funny stories to tell but lately she seems like she doesn't really want to talk and I feel like she feels that she's forced to hangout with me because we've been doing it everyday. We still eat at lunch and walk around in the morning all the time, and she even waits after school for me and my bus when she could just walk home. I just feel like we've kind of run out of things to talk about, but other than that things have been normal. And whenever there's even a single other person around that she knows that joins us when we walk around, she completely focuses on her and I feel immediately like a 3rd wheel. She still laughs at things I have to say sometimes but more from her other friend she's known since she was 3 years old. She literally always laughs at her and seems interested in what she has to say but not me. Is she getting bored of me?

I trusted my friend, I can not anymore. He likes my enemy. He is getting brain washed by my enemy. He is in control of my enemy, to make me feed bad. How do I breakup with him.