Can you imagine being married to a feminist? How can you stand to listen to them constantly badmouthing men and whining about inequality and misogyny and all the other boring things feminists complain about? Feminazis want to marry a weak, passive man who will let his wife be the head of the household and make all the decisions in the family! Who wants a man like that? Everybody knows the husband/father is the head of the household! There can't be 2 heads. Plus, feminists have proven that they hate men! Who knows why they would want to marry one and why they would want to have male children.

Based on my previous relationships, I believe I have had a really good lessons in how to choose non-normal relationship. I got divorced two years ago and after one of it. I get my self in a relationship with someone who give everything I want and we deeply fall in love. In the beginning both of us didn't look for anything serious but when things got serious me and her agreed to continue the relationship without and the marriage is something both of us is not an option as I have two kids and she have three from our previous marriages Three months ago my two years daughter passed away and from that moment I couldn't stop thinking about the marriage. In my culture non marriage relationship can give birth to a baby it has to be with a marriage. The problem is we have to move from our country if we decide to get married for many personal reasons we don't see it will work if we don't move. My only concern is that moving with four kids to a new country is not an easy thing to do. Any thoughts or solutions you might have?

Do you think there is any hope of happiness when you have a relationship with a sex addict. It's hard for me to accept it even though I deeply love with her I don't see any hope if I continue without solving this hurtful matter. Appreciate your thoughts on how I can deal within relationship

Hi there, I am using friend account to ask the question. So I met a guy from online. We really fell for each other, he is everything I am interested in. So we are meeting after a week and chatted online for a month. Yesterday all of sudden he tells me he worked with the military for 9 years. I didn't know that info cause I don't usually talk to military guys. Anyways, he is 48 now and said that was in his 20's and 30's and he refused to answer or talk about his experience with the military. So I asked many suffer from ptsd, how did ur experience impact u, he refused to answer that as well. He responses I don't want to be reminded and won't talk about that... that I find it odd.. bottom line,we discussed where we shall meet, I suggested coffee shop and he suggested my apartment ..,I explained to him first let's meet in coffee shop and later if we can U can visit my place.., he insisted he wants my place because it is such pain for him that he wants to have sex straight away.,, Anyways, I am concerned what if he is nut case, what if he even kills me( happens all the time woman invite guys ) I know the company he works but that doesn't mean anything. His reason let's meet in ur place and cut the awkwardness of the coffee shop. What are ur thoughts? Thanks

Married for 5 years + with one kid of 4 years. When we first were in a heated argument, my hubby left home for an hour or two but then he came back and apologized, things were normal, the 2nd time it happened he was out for 4-5 hours but came back apology exchanged by both of us to each other and things were normal, the 3rd time it happened and he went out and stayed in a hostel for 3 nights and he only texted on first night late into night that he will come only if I apologize and that his action was justified etc. but somehow we were back on normal terms. Now again he left and stayed out for few nights but we are still not back to normal and it has become difficult for us to stay calm instead now we fight each other on very tinny issues and keep snatching our kid from each other.

So I just got proposed to on Saturday while my fiance and I were out of town and I wanted to tell my sister in person and I wanted her to be specifically the first person that I would tell about my engagement. When I opened up to her about my engagement she told me to call off my engagement or keep it "secret" because she's my older sister and would feel embarrassed and shamed from the family. So I really don't know what to do. I love my sister and my fiance but my sister has been here for me through everything even with boyfriends and breakups. Should I tell my fiance I need to call off the engagement? or keep it secret to prolong my engagement?

where can you meet "wife oriented" kinda woman for single man above 30 years old?

There's plenty of people who live successful sexless, platonic marriages. And they're happy.

My Mom's brother is going around with a woman from my Mom's law firm. He and his wife separated a few months ago but are still married and may end up back together.

My husband and I alternate cooking nights and last night was his night to cook. Once he finished dinner he loaded the dishwasher with as much stuff as he could. He left a few dishes in the sink. This morning he took the day off work because we live in NC and his daughter goes to college close to the coast. Her school evacuated ahead of Hurricane Florence so he had to drive 5 hours round trip to go pick her up. Apparently he left the remaining dishes in the sink when he left. When I got home and saw the dishes it pissed me off that he didn't do them before he left. When he got him he I told him that I couldn't start dinner until he unloaded the dishwasher and he loaded the remaining dishes. Some of the dishes I needed to prepare dinner. He looks at me and said he'll do it. He did empty the dishwasher and load the remaining dishes but after he went to the bedroom I followed him and asked him why he didn't do the dishes before he left. He looked and me and told me I'm not his momma and he didn't need to answer that question. His only answer was he didn't do the dished because he didn't do the dishes and I just need to accept that. He told me he was going to leave home about 10 AM and I sent him several texts about 8:45 AM about some items on Amazon for our granddaughter. Again, he never replied to them. He said "excuse me but a toddler bed on Amazon is not that important to where I have to reply immediately. Again, another attempt to make me wait. I'll send him a text and he makes me wait hours for a reply. Granted, I spoke to him while he was on the road and he didn't bring up the emails I sent him with the bed links but not one time did he even mention them. He loves to say that I treat him like my child instead of my husband. He said that no wife railroads her husband about a few dishes in the sink. Any other woman would have come home and unloaded and loaded the dishwasher herself, especially if she needed one or two of the items. How do I get him to understand how it makes me feel when things don't get done. If he wants me to stop treating him like a child then he needs to stop acting like a child, right?

My husband lies about small things a lot, and this started since the start of our relationship. I'm quite intuitive with a very low tolerance for bs, so I always call him out on this. According to him, he's "much better" now since being with me and now hardly ever lies (his lies are about things like if he ever dated this woman, etcetera.) His lies are about things that I wouldn't care that much if they were true. All I care about is that he lies. My issue is if you lie a lot then how can you have a true genuine connection? And if he can lie about dumb stuff, then he'll for sure lie about the big things, right? Aside from the lying he's a good husband, hence why I'm even bothering to give him another chance now. It just breaks my heart because he is able to lie so well, and instantly. It's making me lose trust. Please give any advice you can. We're both in our late twenties. Btw, I understand white lies. But the issue is that most people, when they're caught they'll admit to the white lie. One of his lies were one time I asked if so and so was his ex girlfriend, and he said no "she's just some girl". Turns out she was his ex of a year. It's just so unnecessary and makes me feel like he has something to hide. Well I married him because he made some very convincing promises that he'd stop. I'm only human. Obviously I do not have a time machine and I cannot go back in time and un-marry him, so please give advice that would help me in the present.

Lately I ve been having romantic feelings for another women (lustfull thoughts included) who isnt my wife. I ve become friends with her at work and I am attracted to her by the same qualities that attracted me to my wife (intelligent, driven, kind, funny). I would never cheat on my wife. This has happened before and I ended the friendship because she (my ex-friend) told me she was attracted to me and since I was attracted to her I was affraid I would stray if tempted.. I m not sure if the problem is me (I love romance) or my wife (she s let her self go professionally and become stagnant) but I don t want to lose another friendship but I fear being a cheater even more. Help me!

So I've been married for about 18 months and we dated 4 years before that. Before he met me he had done a lot of traveling and backpacking. We decided that together we would go out and travel for about a year. We saved money and some 6 months ago we went out, started in New Zealand. We are now in Bangkok and his 2 friends from back home came and visited. Last weekend they had a boys weekend and partied and had fun. Then yesterday he comes home, he is really upset and sad and wants to talk. He tells me he hooked up with some girl at some party. I was in shock. I never once in a million years would have suspected him off cheating on me. The whole room just started spinning. I decided to leave and checked in to another hotel. He's been calling and calling but I can't talk to him right now. I am so upset, angry, frustrated and hurt. My friend back home are telling me break up and come home. If you ask 100 people what they would do in this situation, before it happened, everyone says they would break up. But my whole life is built around him. We have an apartment, we have common friends, we have plans, hopes and dreams. And now all of that is suppose to come crashing down. How do you deal with that? What do I do? How can I ever forgive him after that?

I work in sales and my income has taken a big hit this year. There is one company in town that everyone in the office has been trying to get an order from but no one has ever been able to get an appointment with the company owner Mr. A. I learned that Mr. A was attending a charity event and I paid the charity organizer to seat me next to Mr. A. At the event we had a nice conversation. He asked me what I did. This was the chance I had been waiting for. I told him I sold XXX. He said what a coincidence, his company was going to buy a bunch of them. He asked me for my card. He read the card and said Joan Doe. I have a good friend John Doe. Is that a relative? Oh Crap. John Doe is my ex husband. I thought about telling him John Doe was my brother but I quickly decided I would tell him the truth so I told him John Doe was my ex husband. I thought good by sale. About a week later Mr. A called me and placed an order. He told me my ex had told him I would give him excellent after the sale support. I almost fainted. John and I had a friendly divorce but I never expected this to happen. I called up John and asked him why he did that for me. John simply said "All I did was tell the truth". I am really confused as to why he did what he did for me. Do you think he was just being a nice guy or is there a chance he wants to get back with me. Would a nice thank you dinner for him be appropriate and I could see what his intentions were at the dinner?

My mom's friend is now going out with him though my mother told me not to tell anyone who knows him as it would get him in trouble. He and his wife separated in March or April. She booted over trivial things it seemed to us though I don't know what went on behind closed doors. It is a19 year marriage ending. So he is dating my mother's friend and has been since June. Is this ok or is it cheating since he is not divorced yet and always has a chance of getting back together with his wife? They separated five years ago and then got back together. So is this cheating is my question. No idea if they have had sex or not yet.

My ex and I had a a business together and he was supposed to pay $500 for a fee to get into a conference. He withdrew the money from the business account. When I went to check the payment, I noticed he only paid $150. I inquired, the clerk told me that he asked to pay in installments. If this is not paid, I won't be able to attend and lose be unable to make thousands of dollars. He never asked/advised me that he was not paying in full. The fact that he had the money and didn't pay what he should have paid, does that mean stealing? I sent a note to him saying that he 'borrow'ed without my consent and I have not heard from him. Thanks so much.

I am divorced but I am somewhat friendly with my ex husband. We did not have any children. When we were married my husband did a lot of extra work to pay my way through college. He also helped me with my studies so I could make it through. He insisted I go to college even though I thought I could never make it in college. Because of my college degree I went on to a very successful career. I recently inherited some money and I plan to give some of it to my ex husband for all his efforts making sure I got my college degree. I just think it is the right thing to do. My friends tell me I am insane for doing this. They say I should have nothing to do with my ex husband. They want me to put him out of my mind and forget him and get on with my life and enjoy ALL of my inheritance. Please give me some advice on what I should do. Does what I am planning to do sound crazy? THANKS.