For instance, i think about how stupid i was years ago when i was fake-engaged to this guy and my mom (who already knew he was a loser yet let him move into my bedroom...but i dont wanna go into terrible parenting right now) she told my whole family im getting married... Then weeks later he cheated and dumped me and looking back i realize how he completely lied to me and hated me and took all i could give him. It makes me scared how stupid i was and how blind that i fell for him...that i gave my body and mind totally to this piece of crap who saw me as an object not as a human worthy of respect. I want badly to be married one day but how can i trust myself to find a good man? With that track record...i really fell for one of the dumbest faux-relationships i can even think of. And got embarassed in front of my whole family. I also feel betrayed by my mom who basically helped him take advantage of me. He took my virginity by the way.

I'm extremely upset that my ex is getting married. BUT it's not he fact that he's necessarily getting married, but the fact that we have a child together and I feel as though he's just going to throw our child away to start another family. We're in the middle of a custody battle and on his end he doesn't want to pay child support and he's actually ok with having graduated visitation which at thIs point is really nothing. He's made poor decisions in our relationship which is why it ended and he's already made poor decisions in his current one but it doesn't seem to phase his fiancé. I keep getting accused of still having feelings for him but I literally don't want anything to do with him and the only reason why I still do is obviously for our child. People don't seem to understand that it's about his choices affecting our child when he gets older because i feel as if there's no way he's not going to be affected negatively by his fathers poor choices and the fact that his father complains about having to keep up his end of taking care of him. He's only 1 1/2 and I know he doesn't understand anything but that doesn't mean he won't ever ask about all of it. Am I being too much or what?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years he finally proposed we are in engaged about to get married But then out of nowhere he says he doesn't want to live in America anymore and wants to get out of the states move to Japan settle down start a family there He got a job for a software development company in Tokyo But I already have good job at a software development company in Seattle Washington myself He wants to just run away and start a new life in Japan together But that means I would have to leave everything I have and everyone I love and care about to be with my husband all my friends and family And I don't even speak Japanese I don't know what to do. I love him So much :(

My wife is upset because her mom ran over someone with her car she found that out from her dad now she can't talk to her about it because her mom is upset over it. Shes lucky her mom didn't get hurt or arrested. Now her parents and aunt are talking about it. It's something else she has to be upset about. She can't believe her mom would keep that from her. She doesn't feel like waking up today. Also she's pregnant so she has a reason to cry. How can I comfort her ?

I was just wondering because even though in his older episodes he used to gush over how much he loved her, he seems to be changing his tune lately. Although it's fairly subtle, I feel that when he references her it's more in a negative way now, often signaling that this can't be a healthy marriage. E.g., he once complained about how she constantly bugs and calls him at work until he finally snapped at her to stop calling him, and once he implied that she beats him with a frying pan and that she constantly has s*x with him in his sleep and he never remembers it. Just asking cuz he did have his drunk driving accident recently and worry that his wife's concerning behavior may be partly what finally pushed my hero into resorting to something so out of character for him. Everyone just laughs about it and he could only be joking but it's still something to consider.