okay so I'm a freshman, and it's the 4th day of school and I don't really have any new friends. I was supposed to go to a different high school, but I ended up going to the one I'm talking about. I came here for the drama and choir program because it's one of the best in my cities. Alright, everyone in this school knows each other, and it's really hard to make friends for that reason. Yes, I've talked to people, but they aren't like my friend "friend". More like a "hey" or "what periods do we have today?" or we just smile at each other friends. 2 of my other friends from my old middle school are also having trouble making friends. And yes I'm trying to talk to more people. So what do I do?:( please help

So this woman whom I went to college with and I are friends on Facebook. We will message on Facebook ocassionally. Even though she thinks I'm weird and a nuisance, she's never blocked me. She also knows I find her physically attractive. It seems like she only wants to do something when she's broke and low on money. But she knows i don't work. So I don't know what to think. I'm not rich.

My older brother thinks he is better than everybody else. It's sometimes Annoying being around someone like that. He says the same stupid pick up line to every girl he sees. It's so annoying. I'm considered good looking but I'm also really shy. And I don't walk around thinking I'm great like my older brother. How do u deal with a overconfident older brother.

I used to be a fun and cheerful person. I switched schools and in my new school everyone hates me..i allways had mostly B's or C's so i was never the smart type. However once i started high school my grades were even worse,i never really had many friends to begin with but i had 3 besties that were allways there for me. Now that we all seperated i feel all alone, in highschool everyone bullies me all the time.every.day. i can't take it anymore..i was allways myself and i still am,but getting bullied is changing me i try to look cool if someone is talking to me.i sit alone,everyone else found friends or were allready friends to begin with.i'm bot ugly but i'm not pretty either.i'm just avarage.This is really hard to go through everyday ..just to come to school and get laughed at without even saying a word..i usually beg my mom to stay at home or fake being sick i even considered suicide.i cut myself alot..i cry myself to sleep everyday.i don't know what to do anymore this made me so bad at everything!i can be under alot of stress and if i am,i wouldn't be able to answer the simplest of questions such as what's 2×2.i get awful anxiety and i just want this to end..i also threathened to kill myself cuz they wouldn't leave me alone...they just made it worse everyone keept yelling "do it "do it" i started to cry and everyone laughed at me..noone cares about me the only person that does is my mom..and that's it..noone would even care if i was gone.i just want this to end..

So I met someone in line for IDs that invited me to sit with her and her friends at lunch and I politely said okay (I don't know anyone else at this school). I couldn't avoid it today since they sit right in front of the cafeteria entrance and I don't belong in the group. Her friends are loud and too much and I don't want to be friends with herself. But she already made me a part of the group and implied that I will sit with them every day. She also knew who I was before and is probably trying to be friends with me because she is starstruck and I don't want o start a friendship like that. To make things harder, she mentions how she doesn't talk to a lot people and that people call her annoying. What do I do?

Let's first off is. I had friends and yeah we both love kpop, get crazy in love and stuff. I used to have a boyfriend but he left me before my friends get angry saying that I change. Second is there one friend named "A" I can't say his name. He's overall crazy into kpop and saying he's married to xiumin or kai from exo. When he says "omg I have to make a dance video to exo" then all I say is okay with laughing emojis and lastly he got angry then called me a fake friend. I don't understand where to get serious or not because we all of the time joke around a lot saying "oh we're going get rich and make a korean business or stuff." So I get tried and told him we're no longer friends. Should I say sorry to him? Sorry for my english

I'm pretty sure I'm high functioning autistic and I'm trans, so those already kinda **** me up on the social ladder or whatever the **** it is. A lot of childhood stuff ****** me up, so I act like a ******* clown college drop out around everyone and I have no idea how to stop now. I can barely talk to anyone anymore, not even my friends and used to be friends. I get weirdly stiff and shaky when I try to talk to people. Is there any way to not completely tard out when I talk to people? There's so much I want to do and talk about but I'm pretty much skipping school and hanging out with my friend who's in college now exclusively just to avoid anyone in my highschool.

So this woman whom I went to college with and I are friends on Facebook. We will message on Facebook ocassionally. Even though she thinks I'm weird and a nuisance, she's never blocked me. She also knows I find her physically attractive. It seems like she only wants to do something when she's broke and low on money.

My friend and I made plans to go shopping tomorrow, we made these plans a month ago as she said she had something on every weekend until this weekend, she even wrote it in her phone so she wouldnt forget. i text her today to make arrangements and she sent me a snapchat saying she was 150km away in another town visiting another friend. I said i thought we had plans and she said as i said it was "spontaneous" (which it wasnt really because she obv booked the day off work) I replied it doesn t matter we still had plans and its not nice to pick up and drop someone when a better offer comes along. She never replied. Is she in the wrong here did i overreact?

For probably the past year or maybe longer, I haven't been able to tell two of my friends really anything because they wouldn't be excepting. They were both very against doing anything sexual before marriage, so I had to pretend I had never done anything before. Well just recently my one friend that I'm closer with out of the two told me she was talking to my other friend about if they would have sex. Then she told me that they both agreed if a friend of theirs had sex, they'd still be their friend, they just wouldn't understand why they did it. Well I'm her only other friend, and my other friend only has one other. So, I feel like they're trying to say that they know I have and don't approve. She said "I'd just question where their morals are at". One of them is super religious and the other ones a hard core atheist. Neither one of them have ever had a boyfriend or kissed a boy. I understood them judging before when we were younger, but we are all in college now and I feel like they have no reason to. I don't know if I should keep being their friends, if they knew who I really am they would judge me.

I am a 25 year old single guy that works in an office. A coworker Ann is a 36 year old single mom. She was having a hard time with a project she was working on so I volunteered to help her. We would work until about six and then go to someplace nearby to eat. Often her 15 year old daughter Amy would join us for the meal. I became good friends of both Ann and Amy. Amy was having trouble in school with math and she wanted to know if I would help Amy. I agreed. About 3 times each week Amy would email me with her math problems and I would email her back how to solve them. This worked out for Amy as she raised her grade to an A. Both Ann and Amy were very grateful for my help. I guess I became a father figure to Amy as she would at times send me email asking questions about her starting to date boys. I gave here the best advice I could and she appreciated it. I got an email from her today that asked "What is the best method of birth control I can use?" I don't think I should be talking to ANY 15 year old about birth control. I considered 1. Ignore the email. 2. Forwarding it to her mother. 3. Telling her the facts about birth control. 4. Telling her to talk to her mother BEFORE she became sexually active. 5. Telling her 15 year old girls SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX. PLEASE HELP ME DO THE RIGHT THING HERE. Is there another better option I have not thought of? Mothers if this was your daughter, what would you want me to do?

ok here's the deal. I was friends with my best friend AND her mother. They don't live together. Well, my best friend ended our friendship last September and basically told me she has hated me for years.. However, she doesn't speak to her mom. But I ended up just cutting off the mom, and blocking her on everything without reason. I figured if my best friend doesn't want me in her life, I won't be in it at all. Was this rude for me to cut off her Mom? Or should I have told her that her daughter ended our friendship? My best friend never liked that I got along with her mom, because she hates her... Which I can understand. I was a crappy friend in that regard.

My ex best friend ended our friendship last September because I decided to get a backbone, and told her she should learn how to drive (she's 35) and that she'd have to find another way to work. She ended up telling me she's been sick of me since 2003, yes 2003 but didn't want to hurt my feelings and end the friendship. Anyway, thinking back I noticed that she never let me post any pictures of us or her on my facebook page... She was always saying she didn't want people stealing her pictures (narcissist). However, I ran across her instagram. And she has tons of pictures of her posted, and the page is public....So obviously she can't be to concerned about her pictures being stolen. So was she embarrassed to be seen as my friend? Or maybe she truly didn't like me.... Just hurts because for years she was a mooch, and I gave to much.

I'm in my second year of college and having conflicting feelings about the people I used to hang out with. There's this one girl who I used to be really good friends with but then she started being really vindictive and nasty and so I decided to just 'naturally' grow apart from her over the summer. I was invited to hang out with another group (all of which are in the same class as me) and on the first day back I did so - but found that I didn't really fit in and felt very awkward and out of place with them. Me and the girl in question (who is also in my class) didn't speak to each other despite me trying to catch her eye to smile and let her know that I had no real problem with her. Later on in the day I did text and speak to her about it and it all seemed fine but then a few days later she seemed very blunt with me. That's the last time I try with her. Due to past experience I know where it will go. Now I don't know what to do. There's no one else left in my class to hang around with since the girl has found her own group who she's turned against me and I don't fit in with the other. There's no one else in college I can bond with so it seems I should just be on my own and focus on my studies which doesn't seem at all bad, I just don't want people to think I'm a loner and I don't know what to do at lunch or anything like that. Anyone got any tips or suggestions? Has anyone else gone through the same? The story was so long winded, I'm sorry. Thanks for sticking with it :P

I don't understand guys. I mean they are so mean to each other. I have two guys in my class. It's almost like their combined IQ is lower than their individual IQ. I had a short thing going on with one of them 6 months ago, but it never paned out. Whenever we were alone he was intelligent, well spoken and classy. When his friend got into the room he turned into in idiot. If they didn't actually fight each other they would haze each other. If they didn't do that they would scream insults at each other. Apparently they have known each other since they were 3 feet tall. I just don't get the dynamic between guys and their friends. It seems so stupid to be honest. If you have grown up with another person why would you hit him, call him a moron and pull immature pranks on each other?

Well technically he's my cousin but we're like best bro's. We're both guys. For some reason he'll only answer my phone calls when his fiance isn't around or she's at work. It really pisses me off. Like he ignores my text messages too when he's with her, mind you they live together. Another thing that pisses me off is that he never wants to do stuff i like to do. Like go buy sneakers or hit up the skate shop/skate park. All he ever wants to do is cheat on his fiance. I'm tired of sleeping around/i'm ready to settle down with a chick. Is he fake? Is he not really my friend/family and just like uses me lol? What would you do? and to clarify on the all he wants to do is cheat. We double team chicks together. Like he never wants to do normal stuff except cheat on his fiance.

So say me and this girl met 9 months ago. We never started out as friends. We hooked up and messed around. She told me she liked me to my face various times and always showed affection towards me. she goes to study abroad for a month. She reached out to me quite often. We get lunch and dinner another night and i finally ask her to be my girlfriend. She rejects and tells me she wants to be alone and that she sees me more as a friend, and can only offer her pure friendship. I go ok fine, i may have possibly lost my chance... i told her ill be friend still.. So since this talk she's been texting non stop. Being flirty. I go to help her with something for her car. She was getting all close to me, laughing at everything I say and being all nervous. The another night she invited me out to her birthday dinner with a group of her friends. Here she was all over me. Touching me etc even going as far as feeding me some of her food with her fork... we mostly text everyday still. how can you go from being all intimate to being "pure friends" or is she just full of ****?