my dad is 54, im 17 a senior in hs. He always has mood swings, and he gets mad at me for nothing. like today he yelled shut up to me because i was talking to my sister (in a quiet normal indoor voice). another day he told me he would slap me because i didnt know how to help him with the computer. his ego is always hurt when other men in the family like myself talk in a discussion, and he isnt the only man talking

27 year old man is saying that women only have certain obligations - to be beautiful and do sexual favors for him. He is only concerned about doing the dirty and them being pleasing to look at. He says women were born to do chores and be beautiful. He is constantly calling my friends "uglies" and says "ugly" girls are worthless and he would never even want to be around an "ugly". He calls me ugly and hideous all the time even though he is related to me. I cannot believe a 27 year old man getting his PhD who has worked as a high school teacher calls people "uglies". He rates my friends and tells me which ones are "unscorable" because of how "ugly" they are. He says girls who have short hair, ugly faces, etc. are worthless. He also has major anger issues, has never even had a girlfriend, and is VERY VERY shy and awkward in public. He is addicted to women's bodies but in person he can't even say hi to one. He also still lives with his parents. what is wrong with this terrible man?

My big sister used to mentally abuse me, she would chase after the "bad boy" types then when they hurt her she took it out on me because I was small & weak. My mom is one of those ***** types who can destroy a man with mere words. She did everything in her power to emasculate me into a weak beta, but she built my big brother up into an alpha. My little sister is cool when we're alone but.she always switches up when we're around other people, she treats me like sh!t in public. I get no hugs, no love, no affection, no encouragement, nothing but eye-rolls, smart a$$ comments, scapegoating & hatred. Why are they like this towards me? Do women always need an alpha to worship and a beta to sh!t on? Can't they show encouragement & honor, then I'll be compelled to become alpha lile my brother?

She just makes me so mad sometimes like yesterday she was talking about how they always spend so much money on me for me to try new things, like no you don t I paid for my band fee my 8th grade choir fee and I have enough money on charms for the next two years worth of choir fees, the only extra curricular activity you spent money on was 4-H and boy scouts WHICH SHE SIGNED ME UP FOR KNOWING I DIDNT WANT TO DO THEM. She hasn t paid any of my track fees we owe 200$ + worth of school fees, and most of my clothes are like 4 years old. The only thing you really buy me is food and I don t even like eating meat, I just eat it because every time I try to eat vegan she critisizes me (which idk why because it saves her money if I do) but shes happy to spend like 200$ a month on cigarettes but I mean I guess if you say I m a financial burden then I am.

My uncle is cheating on my aunt and my dad is nice and stuff ( dad is my uncle's brother). Thing is my aunt hates my dad and she tries to make my uncle hate dad too. Why is that?

We all get along with my grandmother other then Aunt Joan. Mom noted to me just not to listen to Joan but how do I divert the topic. Aunt Joan and her mother, my grandmother, are at odds. My aunt feels my grandmother is too nice to the other aunt who the family is enemies with. Aunt Joan constantly talks about it and mixes religion into it and how the other aunt is working for the evil one. Lastly, Aunt Joan is fascinated by family toxicity and dysfunction as our grandfather was an alcoholic (her father) and died long ago. Visits to Aunt Joan are actually sermons on dysfunctional family and how the devil entered the other aunt. I am not fan of the other aunt and only see her once a year at the reunion. However, how do I divert the topic with this aunt Joan who I do like? Any ideas?

My mom deleted my snapchat because I "used it too much" I didn't use it that much and I have straight As so clearly it didn't affect me that much. Is it fair that she permanently deleted all my memories and old messages and my account just over that? Is there any way to get my account back? I know there is a 30 day grace period but I tried to recover it before the 30 days but wouldn't let me.

Almost every morning he puts his butt cheeks on my face and farts in my mouth to wake me up. Will I get pink eye? What should I do? He is bigger than me.

Yesterday I was at my aunt's and uncle's house. It suddenly popped in my head that their daughter had her wisdom teeth out the other day. So I went upstairs. Her bedroom door was shut so I knocked on it and called her name. I was very worried about her and I wanted to see how she was doing. "Can I see you?" I asked. She whined, "I'm in my pajamas!" "I don't care," I replied. There may have been a slight pause. She snapped, "Ugh, fine! You can come in." I opened the door and entered. I saw that she was holding soft foods. When she was being querulous, I said excitedly, "Well, you just had surgery!" I'm unable to describe her facial expression while I was looking at her closely while having the side of my hand near her forehead. Was I invading my cousin's privacy? Was I being inconsiderate?

it makes me really uncomfortable and every time i try to bring it up, he makes me feel bad. i don't know why they are bringing their relationship issues in to my daily life.

She doesn't seem to answer my phone calls lately. She seems to be more concerned with my brothers OCD that gives him a fear of leaving the house due to germs. More than me trying to kill myself recently. Also, is it true that mothers love sons more than daughters? How should my mother be acting in my situation if she cared about me trying to kill myself?

I'm a 14 year old girl and someone at school is conceived by a donor egg. She doesn't know her REAL mom ! The woman who lives with her got pregnant with her and everything, but she wasn't created by her. She knows her real dad though.

I recently just got fired from my job while brother literally just got a promotion and has a job making 70k a year. He drives a better car than me and lives alone while i live with my parents. I'll be moving out soon but still he just has more success than me. Even though I'm better looking (not trying to brag but i'm more lean and he's fat) And he's not into social media and doesn't really have a lot of friends. I'm more social so I'm more liked then him I guess. Neither of us have a wife or even a girl though. I just feel that my parents mostly my mom looks at me as a total disappointment at times. i guess she respects him more than me. I'm 22 and he's 27. I don't always think about it, just when i see him or when my post something on facebook that shes proud of him, I rarely see that about me. I don't hate him or anything. just want to know how to get over it?

My dad never cheated on my mom, but mom screams at me if I get fat then my husband will watch x rated videos or cheat on me. Mom has been really mean for the way I look and she insults me and tells me dont get fat since men dont like fat women. Why is mom so negative?

i was playing around w my dad and he held my face into a pillow until i couldn't breathe. he does stuff like that often but i take it as a joke. i said "i cant wait to get my nose and lips done" and he said where the **** are you gonna get 20 grand and i was like well lips are cheaper than that and he got really defensive and angry and and he slapped me in the face. i hit him back and he kicked me in the stomach and threw me across the room to the point where my foot hit the wall and broke the wall. then he slapped me again and pushed me really hard and i fell. i started crying and he went on about how i don't appreciate anything and he would drive a nicer car if i went to public school and such. i don't think i deserve to be hit like that but in his defense i said something dumb. what do i do ?

My parents loved me and my Dad liked me. My mother however was embarrassed by me. I was learning disabled. My two sisters were academic scholars. Both sisters went to Phillips Exeter Academy for academic scholars. From there they went to College of William and Mary with scholarships and both graduated with honors. Meanwhile I had learning disabilities. I went to Pine Ridge School in Williston, VT and when it closed I switched to Landmark School in Massachusetts. I graduated and went to college for one year and left with anxiety issues. Never went back. So five years later I want to overcome this toxic shame. I am 27 years old. I am constantly trying to prove to my mother I am just as good as my sisters. I constantly am trying to make up to my Dad for him having to argue with my mother over her favoritism (he liked me and stuck up for me). I am constantly getting triggered this shame that I am a 2nd rate child in the family and not hated but not liked, just 2nd rate. My sisters for example both had babies last year. Neither picked me as the godfather (We are Catholic). I felt it was cause I am a disappointment to the family. As a kid I used to cry as my mother's Christmas cards would have a paragraph and a half dedicated to both my sisters and only two sentences on me. This always hurt. Seldom did Mom's conversations be about me. My mother was raised to be perfect so she might not be able to help it but it hurts me so much. How do I rid myself of this shame?

My aunt dislikes my Mom cause my Mom tells her that she is not being nice to her (the aunt's) daughter. She doesn't like how my aunt belittles her one daughter and is good to the other kids. The daughter when much younger would steal stuff around the house and as a teen was unmotivated and got pregnant (an older cousin from the other side of her family adopted the baby). Also she compares the troubled daughter with the golden daughter (also has three sons). Meanwhile on my aunt's end she is guilty of indeed belittling my Mom as a revenge tactic. She also accused my Mom of trying to hit it on with my aunt's ex-husband. Lastly, my aunt and mother are BOTH guilty of using me to take sides. My mother has improved greatly though. However, she gets very irritated when I see the aunt which is not a lot but two or three times a year. The aunt tries to get dirt out from me about the family and about her one brother who is alcoholic and we see frequently. So whose side should I be on? The fight has escalated since my grandmother died two years ago.

My mum and dad are married, not happily. My dad drinks all the time and then attempts to disguise the fact he's drunk. He drink drives, goes to work drunk, lies, steals money from me (his 15 year old daughter) and my other family members. My mum has tried to get him into rehab and AA groups but he has never gone. She won't divorce him as she thinks he will stop drinking. He has been drinking heavily for the past 6 years but dependant for many more and shows no signs of stopping. My mum however hates his lies and scouls when he enters a room so why won't she divorce him as this nightmare will never end! My brothers are both moved out and now refuse to get involved in any confrontations with my dad as they have dealt with it for many years. I cannot stand looking at him or talking to him even though I live in the same house as him. This upsets and angers him but it will cause damage to me if I try to love him. My mum and other relatives tell me that I have to pretend to like him as it is putting a strain on the marriage and that I am not helping him to stop. The truth is I do not want him to get better. I would love for him to leave and never return. He is toxic. Even if he were able to stop drinking I do not think I would be able to forgive, forget or pretend to like him. What shall I do?

So i was low on funds. I my cousin to give me 30$ for gas. he will give me 50$ bucks that he usually gives for our bill today instead of next week. I told him that i needed him to send the money over to me on my card because i never go inside the gas station and id rather just put my card into the machine and pump my gas and leave. He says that he only has 50 bucks in cash and that i better just go inside and tell them I want gas. I asked why can't he just send the money to me and he says because he has no money on his card since he owes people bills and doesn't want his money being taken out of his account. I told him that he needs to get it together because I'd rather the money be sent to me on my card than having to go into a gas station. he says why can't I just go to a bank and deposit the money on my card. I told him because then i have to make two trips now and that he should put money on his card and send it to my account. Then he says he is doing me a favor and he shouldn't have to go and put money back on my card and im inconveniencing him. i told him that he was inconveniencing me. who is wrong here?

I am 13 and a female so 6 months ago I started getting really sad for no reason and then started getting what if thoughts like what if I have this disease or this disease. then I got this thought of what if im bi out of nowhere I mean when I was sad it crossed my mind but I knew it was false so I ignored. but now its been so long idk if that is normal and yes my hormones are acting up quite a bit. so my head gives me evidence like I notice if one of my friends has big boobs which I figured out is normal but like I do this thing infront of popular girls and new people like I try to act cool look good and impress I do that to both genders. I also do it to boys I have a crush on. so I also feel really close and comfortable around all girls but that closeness is only with a couple boys and one of them is my crush. so my question is this hormones driving me crazy and is it normal. p.s my health teacher said the hormones is a big possibility but I want to ask someone else also. p.s.s this is an on off thing one minute im worried the other I'm fine and I know I'm straight.

My girlfriend threatened to take our daughter and walk out on me and leave, then I said if you walk out that door WITH her, im leaving right behind you, you can have everything and you'll never see me again so you might as well just stay put. She has access to all the financing so whatever she can have it I don't care anymore. I love my daughter and i do fear for her, but me and my fiance have never fought this bad in the 6 years we've been together, our daughters 1 year old. the arguments are cyclical and wind up back at square one,due to her guilt tripping me, (which is never gonna happen again, period). Was it wrong to say that to her, but honestly if shes that willing to take my daughter away from on a level of kidnapping, then why should i put up with this.

I recently moved out, and my mother still pays child support for me to my dad, and he refuses to do anything for me because I no longer live with him. How can I have that child support transferred to me instead of my dad?

I've heard of some parents having to be investigated and their kids were homeschooled. It seems like CPS is more likely to involve themselves in families where the kids get educations at home.

So, an overview: I just became a sophomore in high school a little more than two weeks ago. Since my school is college preparatory, they keep talking about what I should do to get colleges to notice me. Yet only a little while ago I actually started thinking about what kinds of things I want to do once I'm older and graduate, besides move the Hell out of my house. Those things were to major in English and become an author. I tried to express this to my step-mother, since with this kind of career I'd be able to do what I wanted and loved: writing, spreading awareness of things, flexibility, etc. English comes naturally to me, and I love everything to do with reading and writing. She, however, didn't seem to think so. All she was saying was how I wouldn't be able to handle the workload, the competition, how I wouldn't be ever be able to get published. At that point I'm hurt. I tell her that and she just laughs. This kind of thing happens a lot. Whenever I'm excited over a new season of a TV show or whatever, they just laugh at how excited I am and make fun of me for it. They do the same thing when I talk while playing video games, or express interests in participating in something at school. They put me inside of a little box that they believe I should act and then flip their **** whenever I do something outside of that. They ******* freak out if I even call something 'beautiful, and I'm tired of it. Do they just not care about me or my interests, or am I being sensitive?

My grandfather passed away 3 days ago at age 90. He was a Marine who landed at Iwo Jima and saw LIVE the raising of the flag. He died peacefully at his home in his sleep.It just bothers me so much that I'll never see him again. After he got discharged from the United States Marine Corps he enrolled at the local university and became a family physician until he retired. He's had 2 kids. a boy and a girl. We are making funeral arrengments,well my dad and my aunt are,I just help them out. I mentioned that it would be good that on his tombstone we might have the following: DR. ..... ...... MAR 23 1928 + AUG 29 2018 PFC US MARINE CORPS-WWII SEMPER FIDELIS....................... the fact is that my granpa loved being a doctor and loved being a Marine so I think he would have appreciated the "SEMPER FIDELIS" whereas my dad and my aunt don't care much about his military service and would just stick with the basic "Loving husband,father and granfather" How can I convince them to put that on his grave? If not the whole "pfc usmc" at least "Semper fidelis" maybe with a globe eagle and anchor symbol. Advice? Gilgamesh King of Uruk ·: that supposed to be funny? Go to hell