Hi I m of srilankan I have just bought my first house she wants my partner who is a man to own the house and not me even though I bought it with my own money in my name my mum who is srilankan does not approve she inherited her house when my died in my case it was from my divorce settlement she said why am I not involving my partner in the running house or giving him any the Eason I earn my own money and have survived on it where he has been unemployed what should ivdovshrceabt my isrynercyo control me she says make direct hat I cant manage things myself when actually I can. What should I do? My mum Is ill with cancer I don t want to say anything or challenge her opinions

My brother is helping my grandpa with and problem. Every Friday night they "out drink" each other If my brother loses gramps has to stop drinking for the week if my brother loses he has to drink with him for the week. My brother has never lost this contest but, it's a problem and is only drinking for our grandpa.

My aunt and i have a special bond, although majority of the time we talk rough to each other and are not very loving and affectionate with words. We are super close though... my aunt was talking with her friend in the room and her friend said "you have a lot of monkeys (grandkids) in your life" and my aunt says infront of me "shes my most favroite monkey of all of them, my little monkey" and she point at me. I thought it was nice but why would she say something so nice to me? Again, we are usually not huge on affectionate loving words with each other, why would she say that?

Let's say this ugly nerd flirted with u and u were like no cause he wasn't on your level but a couple years later he becomes buff. Would that allow him to at least get one date

There's a married man who is a temporary manager at my job. Today, he joked that I should be in the one part of the store that I hate (and he knows that). He said "She's a great asset (emphasis on "***")" and then he made an unrelated joke about asses (not mine, but in general). I've seen him take a look and I've also seen his eyes look down at my chest (my uniform shirt isn't low cut, but it's obvious I have big boobs). He innocently flirts with me a good bit. I've met his wife and she's kind of plain and kind of has similar qualities to me. Did he basically say I have a great butt? Or am I just crazy? lol

is this not one of the most peculiar, interesting relationships btw? how just out of near RANDOMNESS someone might be planted next to you for decades possibly and you might not be anything like them and maybe might even HATE them? but most just keep to themselves don't they? (I have had neighbors for over 20 years and I don't think I would recognize them in the grocery store if I saw them. how unusual and why?

Ok so he does not know i like him and he is much older than me and we don't live close to each other so we barely get to interact. For about a few years I was just fine with nothing happening between us and it was better because it didn't give me a chance to be disappointed if he never made a move. Now it dawned on me that he probably never will like me! He act scared of me last time i hanged out with him and the family (and im not as big as him btw). So he probably will contnue to avoid speaking and looking at me in my presence which he has been doing lately. I get really jealously posessive over the smallest things at times. Just cause i think he wont like me i could have an emotional breakdown. I just wish he could like me one day. I have liked him for many years and fantacized about him before i was even conscious that i really liked him more than i thought i ever could. I will hopefully never visit him again and never have to face him because if i do i think its possible that i will actually have a emotional breakdown because of facing the evidence of him not liking me. Each time i see him ita probably going to become more real and so thats why its probably best if i avoid being in any room near him, seeing him on social media, or even asking family " so how is he doing ?" I should wipe him from my memory??? Any tips?

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