Friends: Question: How come everyone hates me? |
- Question: How come everyone hates me?
- Question: After she talks about her marital problems, she always says that I have a wife to our female friends after hushed conversation. What gives?
- Question: She doesn’t deserve to have the life that she has. How can I even put up w/ this?
- Question: What makes people fall in love?
- Question: How to verbally defend myself and my friend.?
- Question: Should I have given him a fair chance?
- Question: Why do doctors viewed in such high esteem?
- Question: How big of a deal is it that I walked the other way instead of talking to my friend?
- Question: Should I stay friends with her as she was my bridesmaid?
- Question: How can I feel special?
- Question: What is the point of this church event?
- Question: Is there a name for someone that is really attached to someone?
- Question: How do I help my daughters BFF without making her mother feel like I’m judging her?
- Question: Why does this boy ignore me and not anyone else?
- Question: Who is friend?
- Question: I was assaulted...and I feel fine?
- Question: Do you hang out with co workers? I like to meet people outside of work.?
- Question: How do you tell someone you do not want their friendship, because they are doing drugs?
- Question: Why do they both give me no space and act flirty?
- Question: Do you use sex as a defense mechanism?
- Question: How to make friends...?
- Question: If you have two friends who like each other is it okay to tell one of them?
- Question: My friend is in a terrible spot, I don’t know how to help.?
- Question: My friend asks me , “I went to London, NY and LA, Sydney and Melbourne.”?
- Question: How do i convince my teacher to let me switch classes?
- Question: How do deal with my nerdiness when my parents don’t approve of it?
- Question: Im so guilty for doing this im in tears and feel suicidal?
- Question: How do you make friends in university?
- Question: Why Did my friend not get in trouble for punching a bully in the face?
- Question: Was this an accidental text or on purpose?
- Question: Is it bad if I stop being friends with her?
- Question: Should I stop being friends with her?
- Question: What do I do about my best friend who kissed my ex bf?
- Question: Could this married woman like me?
- Question: Does he want to have sex with me?
- Question: I can t find a friend I get on well with. Any suggestions?
- Question: Why is my friend behaving like this?
- Question: Is 1 dinner guest suppose to wash all the dishes for the family and other dinner guest(15 people all together)?
- Question: Request to follow on Instagram by Ex Friend?
- Question: I want to make new friends?
- Question: Is this person my true friend?
- Question: Friendship no longer grows me. What can I tell her?
- Question: Are you shy or confident?
- Question: Advice on how to keep him interested.Complicated situation..Serious advice needed !?
- Question: Are you shy?
- Question: Is it just me?
- Question: New school... help!!?
- Question: How long does Kwik Trip keep your employment file for after you’ve quit?
- Question: Are most nerds and outcasts actually perverts and deviants?
- Question: Do you believe some women are still single in their 30's & 40's because they kept breaking up with good men hoping that they could do better?
- Question: Should I tell my old friend that I’m sorry for leaving her?
- Question: Does he want to have sex with me?
- Question: Are people in their late 20’s behaving more immature then before?
- Question: What is actually sonsodered rape?
- Question: How do you make friends?
- Question: What's wrong with only caring about yourself?
- Question: I AM SO EMBARRASSED I AM HAVING AN ANXIETY ATTACK?
- Question: Roommate puts her dirty clothes on top of my clean ones?
- Question: Best friend help?
- Question: Does he want to have sex with me?
Question: How come everyone hates me? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 11:57 AM PDT The whole world hates me. I don't have a friend, in the world. |
Posted: 25 Sep 2018 11:31 AM PDT There's two guys in our group. Ones gay, the other is me. It's been going on for about two weeks. We sit next to each other in class, we socialize in the same group. I'm just trying to get a rough estimate of what could be going on |
Question: She doesn’t deserve to have the life that she has. How can I even put up w/ this? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 10:30 AM PDT I've said this once but I didn't get helpful answers. I have a friend who I'm madly jealous of. I mean she's sweet so sometimes I feel bad for feeling like this. I want to be around her but being around her makes me mad because of how people treat her like some kind of princess. She's NOT a princess. And I f**king hate this bcuz people treat her like this and on top of that, she has family history that backs this up. Where shes from, there's clans that used to rule certain parts of that country and her clan is higher/ "superior" than the others over there. That makes her like some kind of royalty or some crap? It's bad enough she's treated like that but I really don't like how she might actually be like that. It bothers me more how shes always quiet and doesn't talk to many people except for her cousins in school but somehow everyone knows who she is 🤷🏻♀️ She doesn't even appreciate how good she has it. A lot of the guys I know try to flirt with her but she completely ignores them. She didn't do anything to have what she has. She shouldn't be this liked in school and she REALLY doesn't even deserve to be born into that family. She's done nothing. She should have to earn a place in her family's clan because just being born into all that isn't fair. I can't say everything on here. Does anyone want her Instagram if you guys wanna go say sumthing to her or sumthin? Like I just need someone to put her in her place and help me out |
Question: What makes people fall in love? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:47 AM PDT I mean I know there are hormones but how are mates chosen I know there are many different ways. But what if someone love you and you don't want them to? How do you make them stop without ruining the friendship? |
Question: How to verbally defend myself and my friend.? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:44 AM PDT I just need advice. I'm bad with talking or making quick comebacks. When someone makes fun of me I don't usually know because I have a hearing loss which gives me a reason to not to care. But what's bothering me is when someone talks about my friend I wouldn't be able to hear it or I would to busy with my work and at the last minute someone would say " are not gonna say something." And I'll be confused then my friend would be mad at me. I would feel bad I feel like a terrible friend. I just need advice. |
Question: Should I have given him a fair chance? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:42 AM PDT I'd only been seeing this guy for 3 weeks and he was showing some major red flags. He is 12 years younger than me and very immature. Red Flag #1, he forced me to have sex with him the first time. I pushed him away and told him that I wasn't ready for that yet and he continued to force me into the act anyway. Red Flag #2, he is paranoid and seems to not be able to go anywhere without his gun. We drove a few blocks to the store and he had sitting on his lap the whole time. Red Flag #3, he asked me to commit an illegal act. He asked me to steal from my job. When I refused he told me that he has several women doing this for him and one was on her way to his place. I told him we should be 'just' friends and he got upset. I told him I can't date someone that likes entertaining other women in his home and who is involved in illegal activities. He is currently hiding his car because he got into a high speed chase with the police. I feel kind of bad because he is genuinely hurt. Was I wrong to call it quits? |
Question: Why do doctors viewed in such high esteem? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:31 AM PDT My doctor is a prick. He accuses me of having everything from a big spleen to Wenickes aphasia. WTF?! He can't just sit around in his nice *** office and launch these insulting accusations at me. And then when I accuse him of having a nose the size of a walnut he calls security and throws me out. What a baby. How can I knock him down a peg and get his *** off his high horse? |
Question: How big of a deal is it that I walked the other way instead of talking to my friend? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:06 AM PDT I was going to be late to my college class if I didn't go in the front entrance and she went in the back entrance. |
Question: Should I stay friends with her as she was my bridesmaid? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 08:07 AM PDT She's like my only friend but I don't think I want her in my life anymore. We never see each other, she moved over 300 miles away from me a year ago as she met a new guy, she was my bridesmaid a few months ago, so I've only seen her once in a year. We've fallen out several times before and she's not been the nicest to me or treated me right. She likes to try and put me down and I've had enough of it. We only have a text relationship these days anyways and don't have plans to meet up any time soon. My question is does it matter she was my bridesmaid and now I probably won't ever see her again? I would rather have no friends than keep her and continue to feel bad about my life. |
Question: How can I feel special? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 07:55 AM PDT Admittedly I can get really jealous of a friend of mine sometimes. It's bcuz she's beautiful and she doesn't even have to do anything to make people like her. All she does is sits there and smile and boys will fall for how cute she is 😭 I can literally do the same thing but boys never notice me. There's that and then there's the fact that she's literally like royalty where she's from. There's clans where she's from and her family's clan is higher than the other clans over there. Does that make sense?? That just makes her even more special and I hate it. I feel like I'm a fake friend because deep down I know if I could take all that away from her and make her have nothing so she can suffer a little, I would. And I hate this feeling to bcuz she's really nice to me but I just don't like how she was born into all that luck and I'm just some girl. |
Question: What is the point of this church event? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 06:17 AM PDT I received a postcard from my church: an invitation to "The Future of First Methodist Church", with a caption: "Curious? Will you be a part of it? Come have a drink and a bite with us, and let's talk." The hosts are the chair of the annual pledge campaign and the head of the church's officer board, and one of the pastors will be there. The event is not listed in the church bulletin or website. RSVPs are requested. I was thinking that it's an event to discuss changes in the church, but now I am thinking that it's an event to try to get me to donate more. I am an officer in the church and have listed the church as a beneficiary in my will, and I otherwise give an average amount. Any idea what this event is for? I think I'll decline. Thanks. |
Question: Is there a name for someone that is really attached to someone? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 05:44 AM PDT |
Question: How do I help my daughters BFF without making her mother feel like I’m judging her? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 05:42 AM PDT We had been friends since our daughters were 4, they are now both 16. Our daughters are still friends but the mom is having issues with her daughter and blames my daughter as the reason for her daughters defiance. Recently after staying with us for a few nights, her daughter returned home and got into a physical altercation with her mom after saying she liked our house better because the stress level in their home is unbearable. Her mom slapped her across the face and her daughter slapped her back. Now my daughters friend is not allowed to see, text or be around my daughter. My daughter has told me that her friends mother has been mean to her when she stayed at their house and has even gone so far as to publicly humiliate her for wearing shorts to their church by talking out loud about her to her church friends. Yes she heard her say she was wearing booty shorts. They were not booty shorts, they were shorts that she wears to school so they are no less than 2" above the knee. No one bothered to tell her that the church had a no shorts dress code. Just one more thing to mention here. I have never spoken badly to their daughter or our daughter about her. I have always tried to maintain that there's something much deeper going on in their household that we know nothing about. My daughter wanted to go and get her friend when the altercation happened but I know that would be overstepping. The friends family goes to church several days a week no matter what. |
Question: Why does this boy ignore me and not anyone else? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 04:45 AM PDT I'm not a super loud or extraverted person or do anything that might bring negative attention to me. I'm nice to him and he'll talk to me one-on-one but usually he would intiate it. I've tried to ask him simple questions in a public setting but he kind of ignored me. As if he was afraid to talk to me or something but it made me feel really bad and stupid. I've noticed he doesn't do this to anyone else even people that he dislikes. It's kind of weird I guess. It doesn't seem like he hates me. He and his best friend sometimes talk about (good) things I'm doing/did in my prescene but in kind of obscure terms so I never really get specifics. "Look, come see what she did!" best friend says (When I have several things on my desk.) "Good job," best friend says. "Yeah, good job!" He agrees. It's very confusing because I want to be his friend but I don't know how to approach it. I also feel like my attempts to be more friendly in public situations (because rarely are we alone) have made it more awkward and all I really want to be is friends you know. He seems like a nice person but it's almost like we live in different countries and just exchange letters, never really saying much but now we're just used to the silence. Advice? |
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Question: I was assaulted...and I feel fine? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:49 PM PDT TW: Rape. I'm 16. Ed (fake name) is my friend's brother, in college. We've always gotten along well and made each other laugh, but I never considered him boyfriend material or anything. I was at an overnight party at the rec center with a few friends, including Ed. No parents. Another guy started hitting on me once we were in swimsuits but Ed told him to back off and spent the rest of the night w/an arm around me, or holding my hand. I didn't mind since I trusted him and he was looking out for me. When we all went to bed, he and I crashed in the same room (just us) I thought nothing of it. I half-way woke up in the middle of the night to find us naked w/him on top of me and inside me. I was more confused than scared, not understanding why were doing this. I told him to stop but he said he couldn't help himself. I wanted to be angry, but it was still sex and it still felt incredible. I fell back asleep after I climaxed, kinda relieved in knowing I was on BC. I woke up cuddled against him in the morning, still naked. I didn't freak out, I just told him that I didn't like him that way. He apologized, but asked me not to rule it out. Nobody else knows, and I don't know what to think now. He's never seemed like that kind of guy before, and apparently he did it because he's had a crush on me for a while and I didn't know. Obviously, it was rape..But I don't feel violated? I don't feel traumatized? I just feel conflicted about where to go from here? Right, because the fact that a sleeping person CANNOT consent doesn't matter. The fact that I said "No" when I woke up, doesn't matter. The fact that he justified it by pretending he had no power to stop himself (he did) doesn't matter. I just hate men. Hate em so much. The fact that I didn't even yell at him, the fact that I'm tempted to forgive him when he doesn't deserve forgiveness? They don't matter. Cause I really hate men, right? God the misogyny on this website is almost palpable. I didn't consent. Period. Earlier, I allowed him physical contact because he was my friend and he was keeping another creep away. I didn't mind sleeping in the same room as him because he was my friend and I thought he had the basic decency to, y'know, not rape people. I didn't "accept" anything. He was forcing himself on me. He started while I was asleep. I don't know why you're even arguing this point. Legally, this was rape. |
Question: Do you hang out with co workers? I like to meet people outside of work.? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:00 PM PDT I got invited to a co workers house next weekend for a little get together. I normally don't hang out with co workers. We work for the same company but not in the same department. I work with them on weekends once in a while. I don't have any friends and I haven't had one for a while. I keep to myself. I still try to be social. I go to bars to see music. I go to the gym allot. I don't really need friends for the stuff I like to do. I find being my own wingman better then at a bar with a few friends. Right now I just want to date and I can meet people that way. |
Question: How do you tell someone you do not want their friendship, because they are doing drugs? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:44 PM PDT What excuse can I give these people I do not want to hang out with. they constantly are asking me to buy stolen products or for rides to certain places, we live in AZ where the weather is hot I worry about them walking in the heat> |
Question: Why do they both give me no space and act flirty? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 09:09 PM PDT I met these two girls. Girl1 laughed loudly at my joke and started talking to me asking me to repeat it to her then later tease me after we by scaring me. She started butting in to my conversations finding any way to talk to me but can't directly start a conversation with me. After we have a conversation she does the scaring thing. Her friend girl2 asks me to talk to 1 and joke around with her. 2 tries to get me around them. 2 asks me to be around them and 1 has an attitude. Both wanted a selfie with me so they took turns being next to me in pictures but when it was 1s turn she asked me to get closer. After that one wanted me in all of our selfies together and close to her. She had to be in between me and 2 for selfies and I had to be next to 1, she asks me to get closer to her. Well 1 finds any way to compliment me and liked a picture with my dad tagged in it showing on his notifications then telling me in person she likes it. The one time 1 wore something that showed cleavage when she never wears something revealing 2 came and asked me for a picture with them and to sit next to 1, she blushed and leaned over to me. She finds out information just to tell first thing she heard it and knows. 1 said something questionable to me "nobody else is as big as you" when I was talking to another guy and she randomly asked me how much I'm taller than my dad by. 2 said "He's 6' tall with long legs legs ooh". She offered me a ride when it was unnecessary and when I accepted it she hesitated. She then said me and her would be dancing partners. She copied how I walked then told me. They're really smiley with me and laugh at stuff I say a lot. Girl 2 goes and finds out information about me then tells girl 1. Girl 1 tells me what she heard about me. 2 tells her any minute detail she gets and tells 1 then 1 goes up and says "I've been told this about you". ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04 |
Question: Do you use sex as a defense mechanism? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:02 PM PDT To prevent intimacy and emotional connection? |
Question: How to make friends...? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 05:31 PM PDT I'm in 10th grade, and I only have one close friend at school. I have really bad social anxiety so I have a lot of trouble talking to people, and I never know what to say. I'm so scared I am going to say something wrong and everyone is going to hate me. My best friend on the other hand, talks a lot. Everyone comes to her for everything and they always talk to her first. She gets a lot of guys because she talks to boys a lot too. I just want to know how to be social...? I never know how to start a conversation or how to keep one going. I am so tired of feeling lonely while my best friend is over there talking to everyone and helping everyone else with their problems because they all come to her. I'm really struggling, so any advice is appreciated. |
Question: If you have two friends who like each other is it okay to tell one of them? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 05:28 PM PDT If two people have confided in you that they like someone is it okay to tell one of them as to set them up? This isn't happening to me I'm just curious what people will say. |
Question: My friend is in a terrible spot, I don’t know how to help.? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:42 PM PDT My friend is suicidal and we talk about it every single day. he has a very, very low gpa. Lives in an abusive household. Can't get an apartment because the parents take all the money. Doesn't know if he'll graduate highschool. He's seen therapists and they don't help much. He's afriad college won't happen. He doesn't even have a way to get to college even if it was community college. How could I help him? |
Question: My friend asks me , “I went to London, NY and LA, Sydney and Melbourne.”? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:36 PM PDT |
Question: How do i convince my teacher to let me switch classes? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:24 PM PDT In gym class in my school, there are different groups kids can choose that vary in their levels of activity.(ex. group one will play football while group two will practice playing badminton). me and my friends chose group two but since the group was so large they split it in two. all of my friends are in one group while i'm in the other. i asked my gym teacher if i could switch to the other group but he says it's not allowed although i know it is. i won't even be switching my class period but instead i would play badminton with one group of kids instead of the other. how can i pressure him into letting me switch? sorry this was long(that's what she said) |
Question: How do deal with my nerdiness when my parents don’t approve of it? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:05 PM PDT I am a 26 year old male and a nerd. I'm a fan of comic books, Dr. Who, sci-fi, cartoons, etc. I don't show that side of me in front of my parents (whom I still live with). They see these things as childish and immature. They are very old school and would not see the value of them, regardless of how good it is. (Example: I had Batman returns on tv as background nosie while I was doing something else, my mom came in and was appalled by how childish it is while I explained that I wasn't even paying attention.) I do have sime nerdy shirts but my mom didn't know the reference but acknowledged the design was kinda cool. I picked up some things from a con and had to hide it from them. They saw some funko pops that I told that it was for a friend and didn't question it again. I do love my parents but I don't wanna come across as immature. |
Question: Im so guilty for doing this im in tears and feel suicidal? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 03:37 PM PDT so there is this girl named cindy who was rude to me and blocked me because she didnt want to be friends with me or my other online friend jordan anymore, we were online friends all of us, and so i was mad so i made up fake proof that cindy was putting stuff on her story about jordan and posting his personal picture and sent it to jordan saying cindy is doing this and jordan actually got so mad he sent a long email to cindys school saying she is harassing him ,he lied a bit saying she also got his account banned and is harassing him and showed the 3 fake proof screenshots i sent him and the principal of her school responsed saying they will get this handled with when school starts back up again after the hurricane and that shes going to get this turned over to higher ups like the police and now i feel so guilty im getting that poor girl arrested possibly indirectly and i just want to cry. we all live in different states btw https://imgur.com/a/oTMbc33 thats the email jordan sent to the principal when he showed me what he said |
Question: How do you make friends in university? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 02:45 PM PDT I don't know anyone at all. I started university today. I am also diagnosed with autism. How do I make friends?? |
Question: Why Did my friend not get in trouble for punching a bully in the face? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 02:11 PM PDT My friend was being bullied at the school and he got tired of it so he punched the bully in the face and didn't get in trouble for it but the bully got suspended 3 days and grounded by his parents but my friend got In no trouble at all I wonder why |
Question: Was this an accidental text or on purpose? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 12:37 PM PDT My ex text me at 2 am last night. We've haven't communicated in 2 month. The text he sent was two emoji's. A tongue and a thumbs up. I responded a few hours later saying he must've text the wrong person and he should be more careful. When I talked to a friend about it she said how likely is it that he would text me something like that by accident? She said it seems like he was just trying to get a response but when I responded he didn't reply. Is it possible it was accidental or 'accidental' on purpose?? |
Question: Is it bad if I stop being friends with her? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 12:25 PM PDT She's like my only friend but I don't think I want her in my life anymore. We never see each other, she moved over 300 miles away from me a year ago as she met a new guy, she was my bridesmaid a few months ago, so I've only seen her once in a year. We've fallen out several times before and she's not been the nicest to me or treated me right. She likes to try and put me down and I've had enough of it. We only have a text relationship these days anyways and don't have plans to meet up any time soon. My question is does it matter she was my bridesmaid and now I probably won't ever see her again? I would rather have no friends than keep her and continue to feel bad about my life. |
Question: Should I stop being friends with her? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:12 AM PDT One of my only friends keeps annoying me, she seems to have a very high opinion of herself yet she's always telling me she has no confidence which doesn't make sense... We met through working together and she used to always say she was the best and knew more than me and thought she was wonderful as she had done more courses than me. I left that job to pursue a new career and she would never have a bad word said against her job and that it was a career (even though really it is a dead end job with no progression) Now she's moved on from that job too and kept slagging it off saying it was rubbish... yet when I tried to tell her she would get all funny and not have any of it! Now she has become a know it all in a new field of work again. She's only been there 2 months and is already talking down to me saying she's a professional (she hasn't even had any training) and like she's better than me again. Why does she seem to think she's better than everyone else? Especially me! Btw she's 5 years older than me. I'm finding her very annoying and think I want to end the friendship but don't know how...!!?? |
Question: What do I do about my best friend who kissed my ex bf? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:44 AM PDT I broke up with my ex boyfriend earlier this summer. I had noticed my best friend was checking him out every so often but I didn't think of it to be anything serious. However, earlier this month, a friend showed me a snapchat video of my ex and my best friend kissing. It's only been two months and I still can't process my best friend of eight years backstabbing me by locking lips with my scandalous, cheating ex. I still love my best friend and don't want to throw away our friendship but I am very conflicted. What should I do? |
Question: Could this married woman like me? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:26 AM PDT Ok so I've been talking to this married woman on Facebook. Her and I are friends and she lives in a different state. She often comes to me to talk about her marital issues. She says her husband isn't giving her enough attention and she doesn't feel comfortable talking to him about her feelings. She has said he's not very smart. She's talked to me about her marital issues a few times and I've given her advice each time. She's asked me personal questions about sex and relationships. I would never make a move on a married woman but she's very attractive and seems ambitious and intelligent. |
Question: Does he want to have sex with me? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 09:12 AM PDT This guy asked me to send him a picture of my breasts. (I didn't meet him online he's someone I know in person I met him where he works). I sent him a picture of me wearing a bra. And a video of my bare breasts. (My face isn't in the videos or picture and I covered my tattoos). He said it made him hard. In February I had asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said he did but he works a lot. He told me that he works three jobs. I am also busy with school. We talk on FB and he hardly gets on there. But he keeps asking me when do I have a break from school. I did tell him that I care more about being his friend and not just sex. *recently I sent him a message telling him to forget I ever mentioned it to him. And that I don't want to be a bother to him.* |
Question: I can t find a friend I get on well with. Any suggestions? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:36 AM PDT I ve recently changed school and things have changed drastically... Only a small number of students go to that new school and I can say that I don t have fun there. At first I met someone who I found really boring. Then I met guy who led me to the "cool" guys group of people, which basically consists of the majority of the guys in the school. But, I m not that type of guy, meaning that I can stay there and be lame and boring one or choose the boring dude and still not have fun. So, whichever I choose I still feel sad and I really miss my old friends and I m thinking of returning to my old school. I feel depressed... I really don t know what to do and I need to find a friend I get on well with. But I don t even know if there is someone out there... Any help? |
Question: Why is my friend behaving like this? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:00 AM PDT My friend of over a year has recently turned against me big time. He has also caused arguments between me and my friends also. In the last few months I have got engaged, bought a house, finished college and graduated. I also just bought a new car and hold my full licence now 3 years and passed on the first time. On the other hand, he has failed college and has to repeat the entire year, he failed his driving test (AGAIN) for the 8th time now also. He said he dislikes my new home too and think my whole engagement is a waste of time and will not work out. My fiancé I have been hearing he has been telling people I am jealous of him and tried to wreck everything going for him. Apparently I am also following his footsteps in life also LOL. He knows I also have a new social media account, I like to keep private. He keeps begging me to add him on it, he keeps saying he missed scrolling through my photos that they were lovely. He said my fiancé is also a very lucky guy to have me and said it will be a sad day for him when he sees me getting married. |
Posted: 24 Sep 2018 07:51 AM PDT My friends mom always complains about no one helping clean up (wash dishes)but when asked if age needs help she says no. She had 2 granddaughters who live with her that don t help but she waits until they go outside to complain. Last night she was talking about my friend s other friend who when she came over last she cleaned up (there was half the amount of people then). I felt like she was hinting for me to come into her tiny kitchen and help clean up. The kitchen has enough room for 2 people to move around comfortably and her and her husband was in there. She did that after telling me to wait to make my plate after everyone else which made me feel unwelcomed. Everyone had a plate already except me and 2 others out of 15 people. I don t mind helping clean up but I don t feel like I should be the only person expected to help. |
Question: Request to follow on Instagram by Ex Friend? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 07:49 AM PDT What does it mean when an ex friend (who use to like me) but is now married sends you a friend request after a big argument that led to no contact in 2 years? And this ex friend does not even invite you to their wedding but decides to send a request 3 months after their wedding? Ps: We both are married to our spouses. |
Question: I want to make new friends? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 07:03 AM PDT Is there any app or online platform where I can meet people and talk to them? I feel very lonely and want to talk to new people. But i dont want weirdos or horney people to talk to. Simple, plain friendship. |
Question: Is this person my true friend? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:55 AM PDT Basically I'm a guy and the friend I'm referring to is also a guy anyways I've known him since we were like 15/16 (we're 20 now) I've met up with him a few times since we left school we still talk over social media and stuff but don't see each other as much as we did in school. So many times we would talk about other people we went to school with and we would discuss who we liked and disliked and we both one day realised we both disliked the same guy from our school and we always talked about what we hated about him (the guy was loud, mean and just rude in general). Anyways I went on the guy we disliked facebook profile just to see how he's doing in life and I noticed not only is my friend, facebook friends with the guy we 'hate' my 'friend' also likes every one of his photos and I went on that guys instagram and the same thing my 'friend' who hates him also follows him and likes all of his posts. I'm annoyed tbh is my 'friend' really my friend or is he two-faced? |
Question: Friendship no longer grows me. What can I tell her? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:25 AM PDT My best friend since high school is becoming quite toxic. She uses negative events in her life as crutches for not doing better for herself (in her mid 30s she still lives at home, is overweight but blames everything for her lack of motivation). She's not even reading the texts that I send her, answering with strange responses. We never hang out any more because she has a wacky work night schedule and she would rather be home or cook on her days off instead of getting together. She's not growing me any more and I can't experience life with her or grow with her. Is it enough to just stop messaging her and draw away from the friendship instead of telling her we're no longer compatible as friends and have grown apart? |
Question: Are you shy or confident? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 05:00 AM PDT I am shy and I am afraid to dance in front of people. The reason is because I feel like all eyes are on me and I am being watched. It feels so uncomfortable. I am also afraid to perform, give a speech, and a presentation in front of multitudes or even a small number of people. I have stage fright so my body trembles uncontrollably, I have butterflies in my stomach, and my heart beats very fast. And because of this I make up excuses to hide behind the curtains, backstage, and in the restroom. I don't have confidence or courage. If only there was a way I could conquer my shyness and stage fright. What would be the audience's reaction? What if they criticize me or make fun of me? I don't want to make a mistake or make a fool of myself. I also get shy and nervous whenever my parents receive a guest in their apartment living room so I hide in my bedroom out of fear of me embarrassing myself. |
Question: Advice on how to keep him interested.Complicated situation..Serious advice needed !? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:35 AM PDT This guy I went to college with slept with me a few years ago (Only one time). I never really had feelings for him but began to have feelings for him when we stopped talking.So after a few years he finds me on social media and we just talk here and there.He now has a son but isn't really with the mother of his child.We decided to meet and you guessed it, we hit it off.So now I want more of him in my life but he seems like the type who can't commit. How do I keep him interested without looking desperate?? What should I do moving forward? I really really like this guy. |
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Posted: 24 Sep 2018 03:58 AM PDT My friends are staying over, my uncle is a supervisor at a hotel. The thing is that he offers them a part time job since he needs more people and that they could use the extra money, I haven't been comfortable recently with my uncle and my friend's wife, like there is a vibe or something, my friends go to work by train but my uncle if he's going second shift and also this woman he would come pick her up, so I don't know the two of them alone in the car, and sometimes she talks a lot about my uncle. I know is none of my business but I feel weird. I'm not sure about this and I'm always been anxious. |
Question: New school... help!!? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 12:16 AM PDT I'm at a new school and I get really shy, how can I become more confident and make friends quicker? |
Question: How long does Kwik Trip keep your employment file for after you’ve quit? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 11:10 PM PDT A friend of mine worked at kwik trip and really enjoyed it but she quit to try new things. Now, she wants to go back to kwik trip but she left on bad terms. |
Question: Are most nerds and outcasts actually perverts and deviants? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 10:10 PM PDT I have been reading about several cases where nerdy outcasts were revealed to be sex criminals and deviants. Are most weird socially awkward people actually twisted inside and why? |
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Question: Should I tell my old friend that I’m sorry for leaving her? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 09:51 PM PDT I used to be friends with this girl named Kelly, we were friends since we were 6 years old but this school year I made new friends and I stopped talking to Kelly but it turns out I was being someone who I'm really not. The group of friends I made they are all mean bullies. I left Kelly alone at school, at lunch she was always alone and I even used to laugh at her but now I feel bad and I miss being her friend, she made new friends now. I see her with people now. I don't be want to be with the mean group anymore, should I tell her sorry? |
Question: Does he want to have sex with me? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 09:35 PM PDT This guy asked me to send him a picture of my breasts. (I didn't meet him online he's someone I know in person I met him where he works). I sent him a picture of me wearing a bra. And a video of my bare breasts. (My face isn't in the videos or picture and I covered my tattoos). He said it made him hard. In February I had asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said he did but he works a lot. He told me that he works three jobs. I am also busy with school. We talk on FB and he hardly gets on there. But he keeps asking me when do I have a break from school. *recently I sent him a message telling him to forget I ever mentioned it to him. And that I don't want to be a bother to him.* |
Question: Are people in their late 20’s behaving more immature then before? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 09:18 PM PDT I have some coworkers who just turned 27 but I heard they rented a hotel room in downtown of our city and played some games and had drinking games like tequila and cognac. I saw them post pictures of the night on Facebook and they looked drunk. I'm just thinking if this is immature at 27 |
Question: What is actually sonsodered rape? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 08:16 PM PDT I was at a sleepover with a friend and I woke up w her toung in my mouth. Is it considered rape? |
Question: How do you make friends? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 08:06 PM PDT I gave no idea how to make friends I'm socially awkward and I have literally no social skills and I use memes to seek out how I feel |
Question: What's wrong with only caring about yourself? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 07:41 PM PDT Is self-interest a bad thing? Apart from my family (the ones I like) and friends I don't care about anyone but myself. |
Question: I AM SO EMBARRASSED I AM HAVING AN ANXIETY ATTACK? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 07:36 PM PDT I GAVE MY MALE FRIEND MY FLASHDRIVE BECAUSE HE NEEDED IT FOR CLASS AND I CHECKED THAT MY FLASHDRIVE WAS EMPTY BUT SOMEHOW WHEN HE WAS TRYING TO DELETE MY OLD FILES MY OLD PHOTO ALBUMS THAT I temporarily PUT THERE AND TRANSFERRED TO MY LAPTOP WAS STILL THERE AND HE SAW IT! HE SAW MY WHOLE PHOTO ALBUM FROM MIDDLE SCHOOL AND IT IS SO UGLY AND EMBARASSING AND I DID NOT EVEN SHOW MY PARENTS THESE PHOTOS AND I CAN'T BREATHE AND HE WAS LAUGHING AT IT FOR SURE AND I DO NOT THINK I CAN GO TO CLASS TOMORROW OR TALK TO HIM AH I DONT KNOW HOW AND WHY THAT FILE WAS SITLL IN THERE I WAS SO UGLY BACK THEN AND I JUST DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GET OVER THIS EMBARASSEMENT AND THE WAY I NAMED THE FILE IS SO EMBARASSING AND I EVEN QUESTIONED IF IT IS OK TO NAME IT THAT JUST IN CASE IF SOMEONE SAW IT BUT I WAS SURE NO ONE WOULD SEE IT BUT I CAN;T BELIEVE MY FRIEND ENDED UP LOOKING AT THAT ALBUM AND WHO KNOWS WHAT ELSE WAS THERE OMG I ALMOST THREW UP, I CRIED, I CAN'T STOP SHAKING, I CALLED MY OTHER FRIEND, BUT I CAN NOT FOCUS.. IM HAVING A LEGIT ANXIETY ATTACK. TOMORROW IM THIKNING OF WEARING A HAT AND A MASK AND SUNGALSSES BECAUSE IM JUST SO EMABARASSED TO SEE HIM TOMORROW AND HE WILL MAKE FUN OF ME OF COURSE AS A JOKE BUT I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY AND OMG HELP ME SOMEONE no he had to transfer and delete my files because it was full and it was my project files. I made sure nothing emberassing was on there.. but idk why my photos were on thereee!!!1 |
Question: Roommate puts her dirty clothes on top of my clean ones? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 07:27 PM PDT My roommate and I live in a 6 person dorm on campus, and there are 2 bathrooms per 3 people. So, my roommate and I, and another girl share a bathroom (just a toilet and shower). There are 3 towel racks in our bathroom (one for each person) and we each use one rack. However, my roommate keeps putting her dirty clothes on top of my towel, which is on my rack. For instance, she once left her dirty shorts on top of my towel (she took them off because she was changing) and left them there overnight. I haven't talked to her about this issue yet, but I've been spreading out my towel on my rack, so that there isn't any visible space, however, she still puts her clothes on my rack. I can tell because when she's done using the bathroom, my towel will be all scrunched up, like someone moved it. |
Posted: 23 Sep 2018 07:20 PM PDT My best friend and I live far from each other but our bond is unbreakable and very special. We talk every day on the phone, sometimes evene more than twice a day (we talk a lot but never get tired of our conversations). Once in a while I will send her a little note in the mail on a small piece of paper, just explaining that I'm thankful for her, how she has blessed my life or as support in her tought times. I do it all out of love and expect nothing in return. Although, I have done this for years, I have secretly always wanted a note or letter back from her as she has never sent one back. Is it lame of me to want a little note from her? She doesn't have to send one but you know, it would mean a lot to my heart, as sometimes I am needing a boost too |
Question: Does he want to have sex with me? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 06:48 PM PDT This guy asked me to send him a picture of my breasts. (I didn't meet him online he's someone I know in person I met him where he works). I sent him a picture of me wearing a bra. And a video of my bare breasts. (My face isn't in the videos or picture and I covered my tattoos). He said it made him hard. In February I had asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said he did but he works a lot. He told me that he works three jobs. I am also busy with school. We talk on FB and he hardly gets on there. But he keeps asking me when do I have a break from school. *recently I sent him a message telling him to forget I ever mentioned it to him. And that I don't want to be a bother to him.* |
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