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- Question: What does the CIN number look like for TX child support?
- Question: Why do liberals love divorce so much ?
- Question: Does he deserve another chance?
- Question: Should I get a divorce?
- Question: How much time is required for cool down after final divorce is final to remarry?
- Question: How soon is too soon to start dating after a divorce?
- Question: My Mom's cousin had an affair. Should he be shunned from the family forever?
- Question: How would you feel if your husband couldn t pay bills?
- Question: My Mother in law does not like me. Please don't give me any rude answers I really need advise about Family?
- Question: Why doesn’t my husband ever complement me?
- Question: Unfaithful husband angry after I announced I wanted a divorce why?
- Question: My mother wants to kick me out of her life. How should I respond.?
- Question: Who is big Mother or wife ?
- Question: Married people please help. What would you do?
- Question: 31w pregnant. Almost delivery time on Thanksgiving but don’t want to spend it with the inlaws. Just my parents. What do I do?
- Question: Should I or shouldn’t I throw away my marriage license/certificate after a divorce?
- Question: What did he mean by this comment?
- Question: When you force or habit say "I love you" or "I love him" is it a sign of being in love?
- Question: Does infidelity really effect a marriage that much? Afterall usually the couple stays together.?
- Question: My sister's told my mom that while she her fiance took her to the nail shop.?
- Question: If a large percentage of societies women are complaining that there are no good men left no men willing to commit who's fault is that ?
- Question: What do I say to our daughter who found out about our affair?
- Question: Married for 9 months and now a widow, family (aunt and dad) are asking how much i got ... i just know i wouldn?
- Question: Why would a guy in a relationship give me his number and ask for mine but then never text me ?
- Question: Why would a married women with kids post numerous posing selfies and pics of their watch, car, designer bag?
- Question: I peeked into my fiancee's undie drawer and found boring plain cotton things ! She is a strong Catholic ! I prefer the look and feel of?
- Question: Should a stay at home mom have to work nights full time because husband enjoys his current job?
- Question: What Should I do?
- Question: I accidentally shot my wife in the kneecap and now she's in a wheelchair for the rest of her life. She hates me now and we got a divorce.?
- Question: According to section 35-1-4,when are a husband or wife prohibited from testifying against each other?
- Question: Does the "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you" notion apply for older men too?
- Question: Once a cheater always a cheater?
- Question: I've never been married. Have you? What's it like to be married?
- Question: Can you share the biggest obstacle you and your wife/husband faced in your marriage?..?
- Question: If you’re married and someone has a crush on you.... is it wrong to say?
- Question: I want to kill my wife because she has no more toes Is that legal?
- Question: Is this diabolical or might it work?
- Question: If you’re married and someone has a crush on you.... is it wrong to say?
- Question: Marital Sex is really lacking those dirty feelings?
- Question: My husband doesn’t want my mom at our house?
- Question: What will you do in such situation?
- Question: I wanna marry a European how can I do?
- Question: Is it true god has already chosen the love of your life and you two will meet at the right time when you least expect?
- Question: What should I do if a married man adds me on Facebook and on Instagram?
- Question: Women...can u make a decision here?
- Question: What a man do if his ex leaves hos daughter behind with her mom to go live out of town with his new man?
- Question: I want to be with other men but I'm married and have young kids, what do I do?
- Question: Parents divorcing..?
- Question: Do you think women with full lips look slutty?
- Question: Would you be okay with your husbands ex wife being around?
- Question: How would you feel if your adult child doesn’t trust you?
- Question: Are foreign men allowed to abduct their children if he is NOT married?
- Question: My father is so horrible.?
- Question: Why am i still hurting?
- Question: My ex-husband watches inappropriate content in front of the children?
- Question: Am I the one in the wrong here?
- Question: Strict husband?
- Question: Why am I so impulsive when it comes to him?
- Question: Mother in law help?
- Question: My husband works with almost all females and they (about 15 women) have been hanging out a few times this summer at coworkers house.?
| Question: What does the CIN number look like for TX child support? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 12:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do liberals love divorce so much ? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 11:24 AM PDT Every week I like coming to this section in order to read all the questions and answers and I can't help but notice that liberals' favorite advice is "get a divorce " ( women specially love to provide such advice ) Why ? Why does marriage mean so little to liberals ? For the record I know they are liberals because 90 percent of people who post on yahoo answers see nothing wrong with abortion , premarital sex and "gay marriage ". Do people who love divorce realize that single motherhood is linked with poverty ? Do they realize that most people in jail were raised by single mothers ? Do they realize that children raised by single mothers have high suicide rates ? Why do liberals love divorce so much ? Why does divorce turn you on so much ? |
| Question: Does he deserve another chance? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 11:22 AM PDT I'd only been seeing this guy for 3 weeks and he was showing some major red flags. He is 12 years younger than me and very immature. Red Flag #1, he forced me to have sex with him the first time. I pushed him away and told him that I wasn't ready for that yet and he continued to force me into the act anyway. Red Flag #2, he is paranoid and seems to not be able to go anywhere without his gun. We drove a few blocks to the store and he had sitting on his lap the whole time. Red Flag #3, he asked me to commit an illegal act. He asked me to steal from my job. When I refused he told me that he has several women doing this for him and one was on her way to his place. I told him we should be 'just' friends and he got upset. I told him I can't date someone that likes entertaining other women in his home and who is involved in illegal activities. He is currently hiding his car because he got into a high speed chase with the police. I feel kind of bad because he is genuinely hurt. Was I wrong to call it quits? |
| Question: Should I get a divorce? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 11:04 AM PDT |
| Question: How much time is required for cool down after final divorce is final to remarry? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 09:55 AM PDT |
| Question: How soon is too soon to start dating after a divorce? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 08:05 AM PDT I have a relative who separated from his wife in February. They are not yet filing for divorce but many say it is a long shot they will get back together. This relative is now traveling with a new woman who is single. He went alone with her for one night and the other trip is with her and her son who is developmentally disabled and a group he is with on a trip to France. So while this is not my business it made me curious, after a divorce how soon is too soon to start with a new woman / man? I know this guys sister is after him to slow down. She has been divorced 7 years and still single. |
| Question: My Mom's cousin had an affair. Should he be shunned from the family forever? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 07:55 AM PDT |
| Question: How would you feel if your husband couldn t pay bills? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 07:15 AM PDT I know Yahoo Answers is no therapist, but I just need advice. Me and my husband have been married for five years. The last 3 years has been miserable because we haven t been able to comfortably pay bills. Long story short He made a really bad financial decision without me 2 years ago and it cost him his job. He was in school and unemployed for 6 months after that, then he finally found a job and got laid off 8 months later. Each time I had to pay all of the bills with the exception of rent for a while. This is so stressful because we have a child and I always have to wonder how to pay bills or work really hard to pay them and there s nothing he can do but be sad and upset that he can t pay it. |
| Posted: 25 Sep 2018 07:05 AM PDT My husband and I got married in 2016. We met in 2015 his 36 I'm 28 now . We met through a mutual friend and hit it off. He is everything that I have ever wanted and he feels the same about me. He lived just 25 minutes from me we just never knew each other. Everything was going great until I met his mother and father. I feel they don't like me much or they don't like that he got married to anyone for that matter . I don't know if it's me or if they wanted him to stay single. They didn't seem happy at all when we got married because they told him to wait a little while . After we where married he told me that they said things about me like asking if we was both dividing are Money out for the Bill's and told him not to tell me she asked that and that I probably didn't tell him everything , he told her he was going to tell me anyway because I am his wife. I decided not to say anything to her about it. The things his Mother says seems harmless sometimes at the same time it doesn't. I get hot easy so we keep are heat around 70. If my Husband gets a little cold he puts a thin jacket on . He got outside in the cold and got a cold from it. His mom asked where we keep are heat and she said we should keep it higher & she said there is two people in a marriage. Of course she didn't say that to me only him. He told me about it because I asked what she was talking to him about. Having the heat at 70 did not make him sick because we got out on a day that was cold. That's the day he got sick his never got sick before with the heat on 70. I know there is two people in a marriage. Last Christmas I was sick and she wanted us to come over anyway , my husband said no because it was cold and that could make me worse she tried to get him to come over without me but he didn't. Am I over reacting on any of this? How should i address her about this if i decide to say Should I say anything to her? I know my Husband loves me this isnt his fault. He told me if I feel like I need to say something I can |
| Question: Why doesn’t my husband ever complement me? Posted: 25 Sep 2018 04:15 AM PDT I asked him why he never does and he said it's because in his eyes I'm perfect. I caught him staring at me last night and I said, "what"?! With a confused face and he said, "you're so pretty, what? I can't look at you?" say what?? It's weird because he never complement me or appreciate anything that I do for him and then he tells me I'm pretty? I mean we've only been married for 10yrs. This is the first. |
| Question: Unfaithful husband angry after I announced I wanted a divorce why? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:44 PM PDT While I was 3-4 months pregnant I found out my husband of 3 years cheated on me. I forgave took him back, he promised to never do it again. Well, 9 months later I find out through his email, he was trying to go to glory holes, made numerous of online dating sites, asking women to come do sex acts with him, while he was out of town working! I'm not upset, I'm hurt as we do have a 3 month old but I just simply said I want a divorce and don't want to be together. He is putting our son and my health at risk...now he is upset at the fact that I'm breaking the family apart, and he saying he doesn't want to co-parent, blah blah blah...why is he so angry? I don't understand.. |
| Question: My mother wants to kick me out of her life. How should I respond.? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:39 PM PDT I m 25 years old I ve recently been staying with my mom do to finance issues along with my wife. My mother has always looked out for her self. Me and her have always been friends and got along but recently I ve got married to my wife. Me and my wife dont have issues other then common stuff. But since I ve been married my mom thinks shes been replaced. Which isn t the case since ive always made her a priority in my life. I ve moved out since and now she has come to a point she has no need for me in her life. Shes really just pushed everyone out of her life including my other brothers. I m not sure how I should respond to such a tragedy. Thank you. |
| Question: Who is big Mother or wife ? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:09 PM PDT |
| Question: Married people please help. What would you do? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:18 PM PDT A man I had been dating on an off since 2015 just proposed. I accepted, but right after I accepted, he snooped through my cell phone while I was asleep. He has been known to be quite irrational, and that makes our communication difficult at times, even to the point where simple things escalate unnecessaryily, but I d been hoping that ll improve over time. Im 32, he s 38 and I d like to be married and start a family, but his irrationality frightens me and makes me concerned about not being able to talk things out when they need to be, and I know how important communication is, especially in a partnership. He s been married once before, and his ex-wife was unfaithful so I ve made excuses for the irrationality, but I d like your married or wise opinions. Should we just not go through with it? I m not perfect by a long shot, but are irrational people hopeless? Especially when it comes to preparing to make sure a big commitment? Thank you. |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:08 PM PDT My inlaws have never loved, respected me or considered me to be a Good daughter in law even though my husband knows I've always gone out of my way to make things work. I still try and have them come over for dinner but they're just so disrespectful and think they can come over and sit in a corner to be served. I'm 7 months pregnant and my MIL hasn't helped in any single way. NOT ONE THING. Now the holidays are coming which is around our due date and we decided to stay home and tell both parents if they want to see us then they have to come over but we aren't throwing a party. My parents are upset at the way they treat me and refuse to be around them and put on a fake face. But hubby wants both families to be together during the holidays. Quite frankly I don't even want to be around his family but I don't know what to do. My parents always missed out on a good holiday celebration because since we got married his family always hogs all holidays but now I want mine to be able to spend time with us and enjoy it without us splitting it. what should I do so that I don't spend it with his family, but with mine, also without having to go anywhere. Pray his parents go somewhere else is the only option I have. |
| Question: Should I or shouldn’t I throw away my marriage license/certificate after a divorce? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:01 PM PDT My ex and I are both divorced and remarried. |
| Question: What did he mean by this comment? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 07:23 PM PDT I have a manager person who is only at my store's location for a little longer. Over the past few weeks, I've sensed some sexual tension between us. He flirts with me a lot, mostly teasing or playful sparring. I am casually seeing somebody, but we're not official yet. This manager has met the guy I'm seeing, as he came to eat lunch with me on our lunch breaks one day and the manager didn't seem too thrilled about him being there. Today was the first time I had seen said manager since Friday. He had a mostly grown-in goatee. I started pretending to stroke my chin and he asked "what?" I said "I've never seen you with facial hair before, it grew in fast!" and he said "that's why you have to stop dating boys and date men." What did he mean by this comment? By the way, this manager is married..but no kids. I am 28, he's 42. |
| Question: When you force or habit say "I love you" or "I love him" is it a sign of being in love? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 07:09 PM PDT I feel like, "I really like him/my boyfriend) is an understatement when describiing how I feel about my boyfriend. He just makes me really happy and he's everything I want and more in a guy. Is this a sign I'm in love with him? |
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| Question: My sister's told my mom that while she her fiance took her to the nail shop.? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:09 PM PDT I guess when they signed in he put his ex wife's name down. Understandably my mom is mad she feels that's very disrespectful which I agree. To tell the truth he's done some pretty disrespectful things. My question is a few days ago he ask me to help him out with working out I'm a kinesiology student. I feel like I should not help him. What should I do |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:07 PM PDT Is that the Mens fault for not wanting to commit not wanting to "grow up" and get married Or is it the Womens fault for making it so that there is no point to committing and marrying and giving men no motivation to get married and commit Or is it both ? |
| Question: What do I say to our daughter who found out about our affair? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 05:52 PM PDT Years ago I slept with a married woman. We were exposed the moment her husband now ex found out she was pregnant cause he was sterile. I stayed to help raise the kid. Years later she over heard people talking about how me and her mother were cheating. Now she wants to know if this is true. |
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| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 05:25 PM PDT I work at the local library in town and I've known him now for 4 years, the first two years I'd see him come in and we occasionally talked but these last two years we have been talking a lot when he comes in to return his books and get new ones. One day out of the blue he gives me his number, I didn't text him or call him because he is taken, so then a few weeks go by and he comes into the library to get some research books and asked for my help, we talked a bit and he tells me " so.... I gave you my number but I don't have yours..." that's when I wrote mine and gave it to him. He hasn't called me or texted me since this but the times I've texted him about a new book that came in that I know he will enjoy or whatever else, he texts me back right away. He also won't check out his books and movies with anyone other than me, he'll wait until am done even though another librarian can check him out. I'm confused He knows I like him because I've been honest about the way I feel about him, and sometimes he flirts with me, but I can never tell how he really feels about me. Sometimes he talks about his girlfriend to me, other times he flirts with me in subtle but unmistakable ways. The phone number thing is what confuses me the most though, he was the one to give me his number without me asking for it or hinting that I wanted it, and then when I didn't text him he asked for mine, but he won't text me at all unless I text him. |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:48 PM PDT She is middle class rich but tries to act like someone with super wealth... Why not be happy being very comfortable? I'm doing a project on this for college.... |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:41 PM PDT silky and lacy things ! When we get married won;t she have to buy Frilly Panties and Bras that I Like ? |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:41 PM PDT I take care of our 2 babies every day full time. My husband works from 5:30am to 1:30pm. He's a manager at a doggy daycare and makes 13 dollars an hour. There are no benefits. No medical, no vacation, no 401k, no sick pay, and his schedule has been changed 11 times in the last 2 years.. I asked him to consider finding a better paying job with benefits and he said no "i enjoy what i do". He wants me to get a night job and work full time in addition to taking care of our kids and the household... Am i being selfish? Or is he? I think that it's not about what we want anymore we have a family. And im more than willing to work a few nights a week just not full time |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 04:35 PM PDT Ok so hear is my issue and I just don't know what I should do. My wife cheated on me 5 years ago and 2 kids. She is still in touch with this guy who is also Her ex from high school who now also has a **** ton of money and my wife loves money unfortunately. I used to snoop on her cell phone and find his text I check her cell records for calls almost everyday to see if they talk. Seems like they only text on iMessage so I don't really know without snooping on her phone again which my therapist has told me not to do. My therapist also told me do don't stop doing what I did when we were dating but I know my wife and her ex still text from time to time. I feel like if I ask her about she will just lie anyway. I still love her and don't want to break up my family but I don't know if I can live like this anymore. Making demands just starts fights and avoid long just creates for anxiety for me. What the hell do I do, just move ahead and hopefully she doesn't meet with him again or hit the bees nest again. Keep my family together is my top priority I don't want to split time with my kids. Also he lives in Texas and us in Wisconsin |
| Posted: 24 Sep 2018 03:49 PM PDT Is she being overdramatic |
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| Question: Does the "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you" notion apply for older men too? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 02:37 PM PDT Let's say the cheating husband is in his 50s. Would he really be likely to cheat on his late-twenties mistress if he left his wife for her? Or does this notion apply mostly to cheating spouses in their 20s or 30s? This is a sheer curiosity question. Not looking for advice as I'm not on either side of this situation, but I just thought of it after reading through 100+ answers on the question that's currently trending: "I'm 20 and I caught feels for a married man. I need unbiased advice.?" (Yeah, I seriously read through all the answers. And the majority of them said something like 'if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you!') |
| Question: Once a cheater always a cheater? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 02:33 PM PDT Does time change a person? Can perspective & life experience change a person for the better? |
| Question: I've never been married. Have you? What's it like to be married? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 11:50 AM PDT What's the difference in being married and not being married? |
| Question: Can you share the biggest obstacle you and your wife/husband faced in your marriage?..? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 10:11 AM PDT Let me know how long you been married to your wife/husband. What did you guys do to get through the obstacle? Throw out some advice if you can. Thanks.. |
| Question: If you’re married and someone has a crush on you.... is it wrong to say? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:57 AM PDT To the person who's crushing on you the following: " if i wasn't married and wasn't in love with my husband, you'd be my first choice" Or is that considered flirty? Keep in mind you say this only in a situation where they tell you their feelings upfront. He's also married with two kids. |
| Question: I want to kill my wife because she has no more toes Is that legal? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:44 AM PDT |
| Question: Is this diabolical or might it work? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 08:28 AM PDT Since my husband refuses to tell me when he's used our joint bank account, I was thinking of transferring all the funds from there so that when he goes to buy something he can't. I have been humiliated too many times when trying to check out of the grocery store, or most recently, trying to get dog food, and tried to use the joint account only to find out there are insufficient funds because he's bought something without telling me. I'm hoping the humiliation, anger, frustration, etc. that he might feel as a result of this will help him understand how I feel when he does this to me. I have asked him repeatedly to give me a heads up when he's going to use the account, I usually check the account before I use it...but yesterday trying to get dog food was really the last straw for me. We each have separate bank accounts and two joint accounts. The joint account he used he is not supposed to touch without telling me first because I use that to pay bills. I usually do make sure there are funds in that account. I didn't this time because our most recent argument was him doing this very same thing. I am beyond frustrated but I'm not divorcing over this. I've talked to him multiple times and nothing seems to change, which is why I proposed what I did. I agree it's childish. |
| Question: If you’re married and someone has a crush on you.... is it wrong to say? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:42 AM PDT To the person who's crushing on you the following: " if i wasnt married and wasn't in love with my husband, you'd be my first choice" Or is that considered flirty? Keep in mind you say this only in a situation where they tell you their feelings and a nice man. |
| Question: Marital Sex is really lacking those dirty feelings? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 06:04 AM PDT I am 34 male , married for 3 years . Although our sex life is great I am finding marital sex somewhat bland and boring . It lacks spice and dirtiness . No fear of being caught or guiltiness . I am intrigued to have sex with someone else . looking for opinion |
| Question: My husband doesn’t want my mom at our house? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 01:32 AM PDT My husband and I are 25. A few years ago when he was just my Boyfriend we graduated from college. He does not have any family in America so we asked my mom if he could stay at our place for one month until he moved away for work. She said No bc she doesn't allow "shacking up." He would have only been there to sleep/shower in the guest room. He needed to save money for his big move and had nowhere to go. This would not have been so bad if my brother didnt have multiple gfs stay with us. Now my husband and I have a great place in an amazing location and my mom tries to come to our house ALL the time since it's closer to her job. My husband does not want her at the house. I don't think anyone expected him to go from sleeping on floors to earning 6 figures in such a short amount of time so now he's kind of saying F**k you to people who did not help him. I just hate that my mom is one of those people but I understand where my husband is coming from. Should I tell my mom to stay away? Is that cold? I know I have to pick a side but I need a little advice. |
| Question: What will you do in such situation? Posted: 24 Sep 2018 01:13 AM PDT i am really cautious this time once again in this situation. a man who disappear for awhile and come back. i ll take the time he go away as he find someone else and he miss the target so he still has me on hold. im not the first choice, the main reason he is hesitating to make a close move . once he find someone better, i ll be holding on forever and my time wasted. probably a doll he can kill lonely time with. when you found out, he get married and they have another baby this autumn. also, how could anyone s emotion on hold for such a long time without any caring and he expect everything would be the same when he comes back? so this time, i came to the same place, no matter how it may look like real , it is not. totally out of mood like i always do. if it is you, would you let someone hang you over? |
| Question: I wanna marry a European how can I do? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 08:14 PM PDT |
| Posted: 23 Sep 2018 07:50 PM PDT then what is the point of dating? if god has already predestined for you two to meet when the time is right, why spend money on dating apps and services? why bother going on dates to find your mate? |
| Question: What should I do if a married man adds me on Facebook and on Instagram? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 06:43 PM PDT He literally added me on Instagram about two months ago ( I accepted his request without knowing he was a married man). Now he added me on Facebook (I now know he's a married man) but I don't know if I should accept since I'm a bit more personal there and plus he's married. By the way he is a coworker of mine. |
| Question: Women...can u make a decision here? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 06:42 PM PDT please rate both mens looks from 1-10? or please say who u think it nicer looking? will choose a best answer and thanks |
| Posted: 23 Sep 2018 05:49 PM PDT It's a question for my brother. He is paying childsupport, but his ex left his daughter behind to go live with her other guy out of town which she has 2 kids with after my brother and her split up. She left my brothers daughter with her mom because apparently her guy says since its not her daughter he gets frustrated by her. And she obviously choose him over her own daughter. |
| Question: I want to be with other men but I'm married and have young kids, what do I do? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 05:47 PM PDT I have been with my husband for 10 years now, I'm 29 he's 32 and I'm biracial and he's a typical annoying white man. I'm a SAHM mom the older kids are in school, and we have a 3 month old who is a calm and lovely baby so I have a lot of free time. I'm so bored with my marriage. My husband works a lot and when he comes home he messes up the house and watches TV loudly and makes his lame jokes I'm so tired of him. I feel so tired of the marriage and I have thought about divorce so I can be free but we have kids and I want what's best for them but I'm so tired. These past weeks I have been thinking about other men, I'm on this website for other married people and there are some very handsome men. It's been such a long time since I had sex with another man and I have been wanting some exitement in my life. What do I do? |
| Question: Parents divorcing..? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 05:10 PM PDT So a little background info.. I am 28 years old and last November we discovered that my dad was having an affair. The woman is a family friend. My parents were married fir 32 years and are currently separated, my dad will be filing for divorce within 2-3 months. Recently my mom called me crying. My dad had gone camping with his friends, (she's friends with their wives) and he told the guys that he stayed with my mom out of pity. That pissed me off, I dont have a relationship with him right now because of who he is being. It offends me honestly that he would say that and embarrass our family like that. I was open to trying therapy because I loved my dad and it hurts me to know we don't have a relationship, but I don't want to anymore with the actions he's taking. Any advice to an adult child of divorce? I really thought this would be easier as an adult, it's not. I turn into this 7 year old girl and I don't know what to do, what to think, I'm still staying to figure out how all of this has become my life. |
| Question: Do you think women with full lips look slutty? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 04:02 PM PDT My husband has been pressuring me to have lip reduction surgery to make my lips look thin and less colorful and I don't like it. He hates the fact that I have ideal, full, normal lips that are colorful and thinks that they make me look like a prostitute, compared to every married woman around us with less colorful, thin lips. It's no wonder there are not many attractive-looking, or ideal, people where we live because it is very homogeneous. And I'm against having lip reduction surgery just to thin my lips for a "good", "decent" person like my husband. He always worries about other males stealing me away from him because to him, I'm so beautiful that it hurts him. |
| Question: Would you be okay with your husbands ex wife being around? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 02:34 PM PDT My daughters husband has a 14 year old son with his ex wife every Christmas they fly to Chicago to spend time with his family. His aunts uncles cousins mom etc and his ex wife is always there with their son. He has a 2 year old girl with my daughter. Is this normal? They get along but he spends a lot of time with his ex what bothers me is he must have been attracted to her to get her pregnant I get they have a kid but I feel bad my daughter sees her almost every holiday |
| Question: How would you feel if your adult child doesn’t trust you? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 02:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Are foreign men allowed to abduct their children if he is NOT married? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 02:20 PM PDT Let's say an Indian man, was to move to the US and falls in love with an American woman, but they do NOT get married, they are just the casual boyfriend/girlfriend and dating. If they were to have a child together in the US, can the Indian father legally "kidnap" his child back to India with automatic full custody if he NEVER married the American mother? Again, nothing personal, just straight up curiosity because I know this kind of stuff does happen with married (or recently married) couples from many countries. |
| Question: My father is so horrible.? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 02:16 PM PDT He knows my wife works from home, and is on the phone with clients, we have a sign on the door that says do not knock between her work hours and he knows the situation. It due to we have large dogs and they start barking, it hard for her to deal with the clients. Well he came over while he knew she was working, but he knocked on the window, he has a cell phone could have called, well my wife was closing a deal with a client, the dogs went off, she ended up having to call the client back. This could have cost her a lot of money. She was upset and told him he should have called and not knocked he knows this. His response was I didn't knock on the door, I knocked on the window, that upset my wife so she just closed the door in his face. Well now he is pissed and yelled at me how my wife needs to learn to control herself and needs to respect him, he going beat her if she doesnt. I told him he wasn't going touch my wife. Now our entire family is arguing, i don't know how to settle this. He was wrong, but won't apologize, he came to our house uninvited because he was bored at home alone. |
| Question: Why am i still hurting? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 02:08 PM PDT I'll sum this up the best I can. . . My ex fiance and I were together for 13 years, she was an amazing woman but she got hooked on the needle (heroin and Meth) and I took our now 3 year old daughter and left. My daughter and I have a beautiful life without her but I recently found out my ex has been selling her body for drug money and I can't shake that thought. I guess I feel so stupid for loving a woman who would abandon her family for that kind of life. I still love the person she used to be and have had a difficult time moving on. It's almost been 2 years, why can't i forget her? |
| Question: My ex-husband watches inappropriate content in front of the children? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 01:21 PM PDT So my husband and I divorced early last year after 18 years of marriage. We have two daughters together, age 8 and 13. The divorce was mostly amicable but it was pretty rough on the youngest. She loves her dad a lot and has always been super close to him. He has custody every other weekend and we're both reasonably satisfied with the situation. Recently, however, it's gotten back to me that my ex-husband has developed a bit of a drinking problem. My older daughter's alliances have always been with me and she's pretty savvy for her age so I've been using her as a bit of a spy to keep tabs on the situation over there. He was never much of a drinker but when he does drink he becomes extremely wreckless and impulsive. She also reported that he's been openly watching R-rated movies containing sex and nudity with our youngest in the room. Supposedly he was even openly watching actual pornography in his living room with our 8-year-old within a direct eye-line of the screen. What would cause him to behave this way? This is totally out of character for him based on my nearly 20 years of living with him. Could it be the alcohol clouding his judgement? His current girlfriend is a former porn actress. Could she be influencing him or normalizing this behavior in some way? What's my next step here? I'm reluctant to send my daughters over there again until I sort this out. |
| Question: Am I the one in the wrong here? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 12:19 PM PDT I have been married to my husband for 5 years. He has a son from a prior marriage and I have 3 children from a prior marriage. None together. Over the years his family have said some very hurtful things to me. His dad has told me that I'm not family. His sister constantly talks about his ex wife in front of me. His family make a big difference at Christmas between the kids and they do not buy for me at all. However, my family makes no difference. His family will buy for his sisters husband though. They still have pictures of his ex wife in their house. They do not invite me or my kids to family functions. His mother went out and told lies on me at the beauty salon. This got back to me and she acts like it's no big deal. She has blocked me on FB, refers to me as the "*****" but still she comes to our house to visit him and his son. They will not support my kids in any activities or fundraisers my children do. I could go on and on with things they have said and done. My husband NEVER takes up for me. He lets them do all of this and acts like I should just get over it. I'm ready to call it quits. Am I overreacting? Any ideas on how to fix this? |
| Posted: 23 Sep 2018 12:13 PM PDT Im 19 and married for 5 months.My husband doesn t give me money or buy anything for me.He never go out with me. He doesn t take me to visit my parents or relatives. I live with my in laws. He takes a lot of care of his parents and siblings but not me. He doesn t let me sleep early either. He made me sleep on the floor once when his friend came to visit so he can sleep with my husband in our room. I m scared of him but I m pregnant so I can t leave him thinking about my baby. |
| Question: Why am I so impulsive when it comes to him? Posted: 23 Sep 2018 10:54 AM PDT I have 6 month old baby with a man and he's not good for me at all. He's been locked up, hardly apart of our son's life and when he comes around I act as if nothing he does has happened. I feel stupid and I know I'm being stupid as it's happening but it's almost like I have no control over myself when he's here. I've come to know that he'll probably NEVER be a good fatherly figure to our son or a good future husband or boyfriend and I know i need to move on but I just don't. |
| Posted: 23 Sep 2018 10:17 AM PDT I've been with my husband for 3 years. We have an 11 month old baby. I came across a message that my mother-in-law sent my husband about me. (3 days ago) She was telling him that I was a piece of crap and that she's not welcome in our home. She said she wanted to poke my eyes out with railroad spikes. And she wanted to choke my guts plum out. She sent like 3 or 4 long messages. But all my husband said was "tell me about it." Which really made me upset. I've never given her a reason to say anything bad about me. I always try to include her, but she always twists words and tries to manipulate everyone. What should I do? |
| Posted: 23 Sep 2018 10:15 AM PDT I know nothing is going on, that it's platonic. I also am invited but find it weird being around people I don't really know and find not very interesting. What I don't understand is why he needs to do it. Why hang out with women almost like a girl's night out? He's always the only man there, they are all single or single mom's with no spouses.I would prefer he had more male friends but his work is such that they are the majority female. Am I overreacting if I don't feel comfortable about it? It's been maybe 3-5 times this summer. I'd prefer public places, not someone's house for the get-togethers. |
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