It seems like most of men's music is how they fall in love with a woman or how much they love their wife and children and women's pop music is about how much they don't need a man and just want to party. Why? It's kind of stupid

We are working on making more time for it. But whenever we are intimate it just feels awkward. We giggle a lot. We don't have any chemistry in the bedroom. We had it in the beginning. Been together 3.5 years and I know his body well besides his -----. I don't feel comfortable during sex. I'm fine with being naked and being in any position doing anything but I just feel like we are so very out of sync. I'm going to guess we will get there with practice. But it's hard to want to have sex when it feels awkward. Just wanting to hear from others.

Me and my wife have been married 2 years we have 2 young kids our daughter is 5 our son is 2. We haven't had much sex since our son was born so we haven't done it much in the last couple years maybe once or twice a year maybe three if we feel like it. How often should we do it ?

My uncle cheated on my aunt and now they are divorced. In addition, my mom and dad always fight. These days so many marriages involve cheating or divorce. Why people marry if the marriage fails later?

So I'm getting married in a few months and today my fiancé told me getting married is a lot to take in. I struggle with anxiety/depression so I tend to over think and worry about everything. Just wanting other people's opinions?

She was a bad wife and did not support her husband when he needed someone. She was bad however I did not think she was a bad person and kind of liked her.

I have a very unusual problem at least I think it is a very unusual problem. My soon to be husband wants to meet my ex husband. I can not see anything good coming out of this meeting. Both my ex husband and I have moved on and don't have much contact with each other. We did not have any children but we parted on friendly terms. Why would my soon to be husband want to meet my ex husband? I hope they do no want to become buddies. That would just be too weird. What does my soon to be husband want to do? Compare himself with my ex? All my friends tell me NEVER mention my ex husband to my new husband to avoid problems. Should I arrange this meetings? People with ex spouses (and others), please give me your input.

I got a call from my ex wife asking for my help. I had not talked to her for over a year. She has remarried and I tried to stay out of her life. We had a friendly divorce. She told me her doctor's office had called and changed the date for her minor medical procedure to one day earlier and she would not be able to drive home after the procedure. He husband was out of town and would not return until the day her procedure was originally scheduled. She asked me to drive her to the doctor's office and take her home after her procedure. I agreed to do so. The nurse at the doctor's office told me someone needed to be with her for 2 hours after the procedure so she would not fall and hurt herself. I stayed 3 hours just to be sure she was OK and then I went home. She thanked me for helping her in her time of need. About a week later I got an email from her husband telling me he did not appreciate me having a date with his wife. I thought this guy is nuts. I didn't have a date with his wife. I need advice on how to respond to his email. Should I forward it to his wife and say please tell your husband what really happened and that we did not have a date. Or should I confront him directly and tell him I DID NOT HAVE A DATE WITH YOUR WIFE. She asked for my help in her time of need and I helped her. I don't want to do ANYTHING to cause her a problem with her marriage. What is the right thing to do?

skill,.. deal breaker? He had to get visa to a foreign country and I took the day off to go with him because it's 2 hours from here and I wanted to keep him company. There were many things that needed done like money order, pictures, filing out forms, etc. I thought he did it and as we drive down , I found out he didn't do anything and the place is only open until noon. It takes one month to get the visa and now that he won't have it, he may not get in time to travel . I was very disappointed and made it well known. We rushed everywhere to try to make it and I was super stressed, he lives with mom and she it looks like she does everything for him . He is 44

I've been with my husband for some time now & we got married about a month or two ago...I literally hate my in-laws & they're not fond of me either; I also have a very frequent issue with my husbands exes... he has this ex of 3-4 years in around the high school - college years & it's just a huge threat to me & the fact that I know her, (all went to the same high school) & that she's the same ethnicity as me & we're similar; just makes me feel like I'm with someone's sloppy seconds. All I ever see is old photos of them or his relatives (my in laws) posting pictures of their family & she just happens to be in them too... I take an offense to it especially since we don't get along & idk I know it's petty & I shouldn't be feeling this way but I can't hide the fact that his exes are threats to me & I hate my in laws. I've been unhappy for so long & I just can't figure out how to make this work anymore, I don't feel safe or secure enough to not stress everyday about this... it's hard to talk to my husband because he blames/hurts himself & it's just rough conversations all around. We got a son coming in about 8 weeks & Im at a point of where I should wait till he's born to decide if this relationship can be saved or not. My husbands an amazing guy & it's problems that he can't change & truly it's not his fault - I'm in this constant fight with my head & now I'm just losing this battle & losing myself altogether that I can't think clearly on what's best to do.

In India most marriages are arranged marriages. How come the Indian girls parents don't offer their daughters to these confirmed bachelor's so they can at least marry and have a family ? I don't think girls parents are not aware of these confirmed bachelor's in their social circles. It looks to me that these confirmed bachelor's are poor men and Indian girls avoid marrying poor men.

to a fun loving party once and I caught him rubbing the back and shoulders of a buddy's wife. For 40 minutes I watched and fumed. Now we are getting ready to go and visit one of his X inlaws.. who might I add has let be known that she has the hots for him. She is single and the party is for her daughter. What should I do to get this fear of being disrespected off my mind. Yes I have talked to him about the past incident and he responded that he should not have done what he did. But he was drinking and he will be drinking again at this party. I don't own him nor do I want to nor do I want to control him. All I want is to not be disrespected infront of his family. Should I travel with intentions of leaving this party? I am freaking out . PS.. he has never cheated on me. We have been married for a bit over 6 years and we are both in our 50's. Ideas? Suggestions.. please.

I may not have always been one but I am a rational thinker. I do not like subjectivity at all since subjectivity puts an emotional spin on everything. And two people can put very different emotional spins on the same objective reality and argue about their points of view instead of address the objective reality at all. That's why I can't get into politics, it's just one extreme belief versus an extreme belief that only exists because the first one did. I think it is absurd. But what does this all have to do with my marriage? Everything tbh. My wife is an extremist with firm beliefs. She sees life through this extremist lens and judges everyone based on this worldview. She's a negative Nancy and she's a Debbie downer. She cant have her mind changed either. She has a very hard time seeing the objective reality and through no amount of explaining it to her will she ever expand her worldview. She is an INFP which are known to see the world as it should be. I am an ENTP which are known for trying to see the world as it is. So we can never work together on anything because she is in the world of should not is. But she said we are a team marriage, all decisions need to be made together, which sounded great until I realized she just wanted to shape the world to fit her ideals instead of actually fix problems. She is unfit as a leader or partner in decision making. But she won't follow my lead either. What should I do about this incompatible relationship?

He cheated on me once years ago, i forgave him but got back together under one circumstance. That was forcing him to wear a Chasity device when im not home or with him. I lock him like a house.

I read on Facebook where a woman had abuse her 3 year old then murdered him I hate seeing these kind of stories especially these kind give me nightmares it makes me worried for our kids even though my wife would never hurt them our daughter is 5 our son is 2 I couldn't imagine that happening to them. It's almost 2 in the morning I can't get back to sleep. Is it OK to cry in front of her ?