Me and my husband been together for 13 years we have had plenary of ups and downs we have a 10 year old son and my husband seems to feel I don't do enough for him or this marriage I work a full time job as well as a full time mother to our son, my husband said he needs a back bone and I don't support him enough, he said I should know what I need to do, because encouraging words aren't enough for him, he wants to go to LA and hang out at spots with people who have money he said there more on his level..... but I don't go anywhere but to work and home daily, he said he needs time to himself and a breather from his jobs and life... he enjoys hanging with his friends and having time to himself very often, he likes to bring the past up a lot and say I wasn't there when he had nothing now when he had nothing we were 17 kids.... he has a lot of past issues with his mother and not having a father and still brings all those issues up now, he currently doesn't have his papers and said the government controls him so the last thing I will be doing is telling him if he can't go out or not, if I mention going out he has a fit and says "do what you want " I feel like we're married and should be able to enjoy one another company but he tells it's to much idk what to do anymore he says I need to just keep my mouth shut and deal with it because he is a adult and can do what he wants idk what to do anymore idk if I should just let him be and have his time or if I deserve the same equal respect

Im not sleeping with men, just saying that i feel really submissive all the time to men especially...even in my head and actions. I know you're supposed to submit to your husband (im unmarried.) But i feel tiny (not physically or literally although its true) compared to most men

We have been married 5 years and I want to also something different and special. My husband doesnt care what we do but suggested dinner and a movie without the kids..... Any better ideas? We always do this on our date nights. I just want to do something special for him

Should I go see him? I could fly out for a day but cant stay long. Maybe we can find the spark again? I really cant afford it right now, but if its worth having him again, then I would,. thanks

Last year my wife and I bought our first house. It was a townhouse. There was a storage closet outside and it was filled with tons of children's toys in it (mostly junk) that I donated/trashes. We happened to find one of those big parachutes from elementary school. Prior to buying real furniture for outside we would sit outside on the parachute in the grass and just talk about life and our new house. Things were good then. We now obviously have a furnished house and I donated the parachute to a local goodwill. Things are not good in our relationship and we may be headed for a divorce if it keeps up. We've been going to marriage counseling together. I've been thinking of buying one of those parachute things (you can get them from amazon) and just asking my wife to come sit and talk like we used to. Does this sound weird/creepy? I love her but our relationship is in really bad shape right now.

natural beauty includes: - good manners - kind hearted - love children - love to cook - loyal to the husband - have a natural beauty I'm an adult above 40.... self employed and own a house. "Makes me wonder about your values"...... not american huh?

💕I'm 24 yrs old & my bf is also 24 is in the marines & were seriously talking about getting married & getting an apartment or house 2gether, The benefiits are good but hmm what's the bad part about it?. My family is not 2 crazy bout it cuz were young, but everyone likes him & eventually it's my decision to take. :-) Well if any of u are going thru this or went through it I'd really like some advice-reco about it. Thanks!! I would really appreciate it! Btw I love this guy with all my heart and I'm really looking 4ward 2 doing it just thought I let ya'll know.❤