m 26 and im about to break up with my long term boyfriend of 4 years soon because my heart isn't in anymore and it is and has always been a very toxic relationship. I've been unhappy for a long time then comes along this guy I work with who makes me smile again. he doesn't cross any boundaries. he told me he had a wife and I told him I had a boyfriend. I was working in the same room one day so we had some time to get to know each other. what we have is strictly friendship at the moment. we talked for two hours and talked our high school memories, where we graduated college, our future plans, our crazy ex stories, our passions, our fears. I found out he has way more in common with me than my boyfriend. we both don't have kids, he doesn't want kids, I don't want kids. we both are artistic, we both love to cook, we both love fashion,we both love to read, we both love to write. I told him about the book I was working and he actually said to email him the story because he would love to read it. meeting this guy made me realize how opposite me and my boyfriend really are. I'm not a home wrecker so I will wait if/when they divorce. some marriages aren't forever. I actually know plenty of people who divorced after meeting their soulmate. I hope I can be with him eventually, I would never be a side chick though.

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To make it short, she was the one to choose we separate for about a year. Then she wants to divorce but just before the first court hearing she calls me saying she wants to come BACK. I mean, for a year i went through hell and bent over backwards to avoid divorce cause i believe in marriage and in myself. Then i had to convince myself that its over and i should let go and go thru a painful divorce etc. and that i got to get her out of my mind and start ALL over again after all that i invested. Now she wants to waltz back into my life ? I cant trust her, she betrayed every atom that marriage was built upon, and needless to say i have no clue of what or where she is for the past year. What should i do ? Take her back ? Set conditions ? She wont keep her promises anyway. Advice ?

So I have quite a bit of a failure in relationship. My parents have tried setting me up with someone 3 times it failed. In my culture when their children has problems finding an significant other the parents lend a helping hand. That is the case for me as I cannot find anyone who would be interested in marrying me or even dating me at all. I've been rejected all my life and I am turning 29 this october and I am desperate to get married. I am so lonely and depressed. People bashed me and said the reason why no women wants me is because of my lack of maturity. I have autism and bipolar disorder and schizophrenia. I have meltdowns a lot. They said your illness is not an excuse. My parents and my aunt in my native country have tried setting me up with someone three times and it failed. The first girl back in 2011 ditched meeting me as soon as she heard that I have landed in ho chi minh city. Her family just moved all of a sudden and came back two months after I left. The 2nd girl leaded me on thinking that I am going to get married in 2016 and we were engaged from 2014 to late 2015 when she blatantly told my aunt she isn't thinking about marriage right now and wants to focus on her career instead. Then this current one is just a plain out gold digger. She wants an wedding that costs $10,000 and gave me the ultimatum that if I can't afford it then she'll marry someone else. People told me that karma is getting back at me by giving me these women. How am I immature ? How is it karma getting back at me by giving me these women who treated me bad by leading me on and stuff ??

1) The epidemic of people overdosing on opioids? or 2) The hidden epidemic of husbands drinking themselves to death? Perhaps I need to clarify this a bit: The epidemic of husbands drinking themselves to death is due to the realization that they married someone who does not love them. People hooked on opioids are killing themselves for other reasons, likely mental defects. Which of these is more tragic? If you answer with any version of 'both' or "each' or "50/50" then you are clearly a moron.

My wife grew up in a home of drama and a lot of yelling from her parents. I had my own drama too. However my wife would sleep with the tv on to drown out the noise. To this day, and 40 years later she still does. We try to use the sleep timer, she'll set it for 2 hours but she'll turn it back on if she wakes up and the tv is off, which usually wakes me up. Also she likes to watch the crime shows. I just can't take it anymore. Its time to grow up and let go. Also I don't think she's getting good sleep because of it too. I've tried numerous ways to help, but she just loves tv too much. She is a great girl and isn't a couch potato, its just an addiction long term.

I've been a step-mom (not married, and choose not to be) for over five years, in virtually every aspect. I help read them and take part in the financial responsibilities. Their mother, however, does not work and relies exclusively on subsidies to care for her kiddos, along with over 800 in CS. Hubby and I take them half the time and additionally, cover all major expenses. Hubby and I have a little one and between her, hubby, school and a full time job, I no longer feel it is necessary to cover the remaining expenses for my step children, as their mother and father should be taking care of that. Hubby disagrees and is happy to continue to pay for everything, even if it means I foot the bill. He and I are both aware that CS is not being used appropriately, as the kids never seem to have so much as a pair of new shoes on their feet unless we buy them. What should I do?

He always organises the holidays, chooses what to visit and where to go. He gets mad if I don't agree with what he says and we always do what he wants. We always must do what he wants. When we go on holiday, I never feel relaxed or happy, it feels like an obligation to me and I cannot wait to get back home.m. What can I do to make him care about what I want without arguing?

My Italian got married to her English husband a few months ago. He husband wants her to do all the chores, cook, etc and he does nothing. He gets mad if she doesn't do them and complains about everything she does. He verbally abuses her in public and humiliates her. She cries all the time, I don't know how to help her. She talked to him about it and he said its all her fault and he is not guilty of anything. Any advice on how to help her? She said she loves him and doesn't want to divorce.

BQ: What is the difference between Arranged and Force marriage?

I understand if it a "daughters out" situation meaning the woman you are marrying doesn't have a brother or any other family to "carry on" the family name. So besides that reason why would a man lower his stature and embarrass himself by taking his partners last name?

So my wife wanted to go out to dinner, but as a surprise I cooked some Ox-Tail wearing just my buckta and buggered her until she pulled tru her poke… But then after, she said that them buckta is dirty and that I bust tru them too quick… So what next? Should I bowcat that poke? Advice please!

I am very young and my uncle who is only 49 yrs and his wife been together for over 10 yrs. He has cheated but they are great. Anyway there's an estimate for his home but they just bought only 3 yrs ago 2016. Nice one of them new kind of homes. His daughter is grown with a newborn lives in Ca. so it's just them. I love going over there to have some place to hang when things go wrong .

My husband and I got married a year ago. We have always dreamed of having a child of our own. We own a townhouse, have 2 dogs and both have stable careers. But we're torn on one thing, should we enjoy the remainder of our 20's and start trying for a baby in our 30's once we have enough saved up to buy a bigger home, and also have more wisdom and life experience. Or should we have our baby (we only want one child) now? We've gotten advice from family and friends and it's all been the same "you're married, do what makes you guys happy" as nice as it is to have such wonderful support, I really need some realistic input from strangers who won't be scared of hurting our feelings. What do you think?

My sister is getting divorce to her husband. They have two kids one being 3 and the other is 7. From what I've heard he was very abusive towards her in just about every way one could be. The fights were bad and sometimes got a little physical. He put both her and the kids down all the time. My parents never got a divorce but looking back I sometimes wish they had because they were not really any better. It caused me and my sister so many problems even in our adult life. Maybe it's for the best for the kids but I don't know.

This senior citizen is in poor health Even though her adult children have busy careers, they are unavailable to her by being busy going on vacations with significant others, weekend trips with significant others. Her adult children live away from her. This senior citizen while recovering from surgery ended her long time friendship with a younger friend This younger friend was ready to help her This younger friend is super responsible, dependable and stable Why would this senior citizen end her relationship with the younger friend

My fiance and I moved into an apartment that has stereotypical thin walls.. our bedroom shares a wall with our neighbours bedroom wall. My fiance started wanting to go for "adventures" and find a hidden place to get intimate not in our home. While I enjoy being alittle wild sometimes its not my everyday thing. I finally brought it up to him because we were both getting sexually frustrated.. he told me that everytime we do it, it seems our neighbours are making noise. He says it seems they re moving furniture to get closer to be able to hear us and it creeps him out. We decided to move our bed as far away as we possibly could from the shared wall (not that it was right up against it to begin with) to see if it would help. Our sex life was getting alot better and more frequent and then recently my fiance literally stopped in the middle of it and looked the wall. It was pretty late, so I said maybe we just woke him up and hes trying to make it known that he can hear us. Our couch can squeak when we.. get going so that s not really a viable answer either. I dont want to always "go on an adventure" when we want to be intimate.. we cant afford to move were trying to get married in 5 months and we had to move up the wedding so that my grandma can come as she was diagnosed with ALS.. we want to move after the wedding but I cant give up my sex life for 5+ months when that becomes a reality. I just dont know what to do.

My wife tells me that I repulse her sexually. She says she likes black rappers and fantasizes about having group sex with them. Only allows me to rub against her thigh high boots while she is dressed in full leather including a long leather coat. She says if fully dressed she is able to better tolerate being touched by a ****** loser. She calls me ****** because I like to wear female boots. However, she says she loves me to death outside bedroom and acts it. Is this possible. Sometimes I doubt it because when I rub against her boots she screams at me to stop after couple of minutes and calls me ******. The hatred and disgust on her face is so intense.

He will look like my crush. My family doesn't have to approve.

I m 2 years married and I have had many difficulties with my wife, our personalities always crashed and we are talking about divorce. At work there s this girl, she is pretty and everytime I talk to her makes feel happy and at the same time stupid. I drove to her home to the girl from work a couple times, and I felt that we like each other, however we didn t do nothing in my car. One day she blocked from WhatsApp, because she said her boyfriend was jealous, I felt kinda annoyed but then I understand it s for the better. Unfortunately, I see this girl every week at work, I tried to ignore her but then I want to talk to her, even more when I had a fight with my wife. She look at me like she is also trying to dont get too close to me but, sometimes we just can t hold how nice is for us to see each other. I KNOW IT S WRONG I LIKE HER, HOW CAN I JUST GET RID OF THIS THOUGHTS?

I'm 28, engaged. I have this friend who is 39, happily married and has a family. We've known each other almost 3 years, but have only been friends for 2 years. I am going to spare you all a lot of details. Recently, when we've been alone together, he has opened up a lot. We're not alone together often, maybe once a month or once every couple of months. He's opened up about a friend's suicide (not a close friend, but a friend nonetheless) and the struggles the guy went through (that probably were none of my business, but he felt comfortable in opening up to me about it). He opened up to me about his childhood. He also opened up to me about he and his wife's financial issues and how he was going to have a talk with her that night about not spending money on crap that she doesn't need to be spending money on LOL! My friend works with several people all day, 5 days a week, sometimes 6 days a week. Why does he feel the need to open up to me? Not that I hate it, I love it lol. Also, this same friend gets very awkward when I bring up my fiance. He just has this demeanor as if he doesn't want to hear about my fiance, but he's always nice to him when they're around each other. It's weird that I know this, but my fiance finds my friend's wife attractive and he says I kind of look like I could be a younger sister of hers. Maybe my friend is attracted to me for the same reason. On the flip side, my friend often ignores me...as in ignores my messages. I'll send multiple in a week and sometimes it takes a few messages before he will actually respond, but at times, he just never responds so I never get the answer I am looking for. For example, he had posted that he was selling his car and when I privately messaged him and asked why, he never replied. A couple days later, I sent another in regards to the car, but no reply. He just becomes quite distant, pretty often. Carson, I haven't always been engaged or even taken, though. The first year of our friendship, he was always "liking" and commenting on my FB posts with smartass comments. When I'd bring up relationship stuff in FB posts, he would imply I deserve the best and that he'd want to meet any guy I choose to date to make sure the guy is a good guy. Yet, he has met my fiance a handful of times and he has never tried to know him and never wants to discuss him.