He's home from college now and he doesn't care about his hygiene like matching the right colors wearing sweatpants to a funeral, he has bugs flicking off of him. He's doing a job this summer that does not pay. My parents are very positive and gives us a lot of nice things. We live in a good house, have great food, we have another house in a different country that we go to for fun, we go on family vacations to islands ect. We have this like perfect life and what do you think could of happen to my brother that's causing him to him to be this way? He's 21 and is going into his last year of his college. When he was in high school he was normal now he's in college and acting worse?

I'm not being rude or anything but it's kinda sad how he's turning out and I would love to help him but he says no. He came home from college and now it's summer for him and he came off and he was flicking bugs off him, his face had blisters and scratches on it, he he wears opposite colors for clothing that doesn't even match, when he goes to work he will dress nice but when he goes to a funeral he will wear adidas sweatpants with a flannel shirt. After his work he will go out with his friends but whenever he's at home with his friends they will smoke and they will smoke outside in front of the garage and not afraid of getting caught. He only does it at night and occasionally. He's also doing a job that doesn't pay in the summer and it going to be three months of that job that doesn't pay. My brother is 21 years old. How come he just doesn't seem to care about the important stuff like hygiene and taking care of his body?

A year ago my brother moved from Louisiana to Texas with his wife. He had a junky little S-10 truck and did me a "favor" by giving it to my boyfriend so that my brother didn t have to take it with him since he got a new one. The starter was out and all of the tires were flat when he dumped it on our yard. Shortly after we noticed the back window had come unsealed due to the bass in the outrageous sound system my brother had gotten stolen out of it shortly before. Basically its garbage and not worth it to us to fix. Conveniently enough my brother has also lost the title so it s not even ours so we literally cant do anything with it. My brother has to be in the state to get a new title but that s not happening any time soon. I need it out of my yard NOW. I just get seething every time I have to go outside and look at it. What are my options? What can I do to get rid of this hunk of junk?

These two were together 8 years.They have 4 kids.2 hers.2 his.Him never home, not liking to kiss, touch, have sex, etc.Explicitly sexy convos found on his phone with many women.He said it was all 1 woman under multiple different numbers staulking him.He asked for sex advice which turned into her being suicidal if he didnt go along.He constantly lies so dont know what is true.Says it was all because he thought he was dying.They bought a house.Move in.He tells her oldest he hates her.Her youngest says he punched him in the mouth.When this man tells her to pick him or her son, she finally loses it.She left everything, but couldn't find a place due to the mortgage.A friend offered her a roommate situation.They fell for each other and soon she was pregnant.5 months in the kids flip the script, say they miss him and she took them from him.She says she misses him too.They move back.This guy says he can look past everyone saying she must have been cheating, but he can't accept the baby and if she wants to fix their family, she should get rid of it.She does.Comes out the other side a complete mess.Says she doesnt deserve to be a mom or love.The bf says he cant live without them.Has been completely loving since they came back.He doesnt think she loves him because she cant let go of baby that wasnt his.The baby dad keeps begging her to come back, but the kids say they dont like him and she wont go back because of that and she believes in fixing a family if there is any hope at all.

On average, most parents worry more about a 14 year old compared to a 5 year old. It seems like something changes once their kids get older. Their parents begin to worry more about complex issues. Examples include: friendships, sexual abuse, mental illness, etc. Those things can and do happen to young children too. But only a small number of parents will worry about it during early childhood.

and have been financially independent for years, in fact I have been helping my parents out financially. Yet she still screams at me and has a meltdown if I do anything she doesn't approve of. She tries to march me off to my room if I do anything she doesnt like and tell me I am forbidden to travel out of state without her or another family member etc. I have no social life because she wants to meet my friends before I hang out with them, and when she finds out that I dont introduce them to her for prescreening anymore she has a fit.

Like 4 days ago my dad told me to assemble this grill he bought, so I was but I needed to find the tools and one of tools was a small wrench and I knew we had one in the close that literally NO ONE goes into and when I was looking in it I found $150 dollars in a container. I was thinking about taking it cause when ever I find money in random places I assume it's been there for years and I texted my friend to get his thoughts and he said, "take it lmao" and I took it fast forward to like 8 minutes ago my mom was gonna go with her friend to go to church and she said, "omg someone took the money I was hiding" in Spanish and I love my mom so I felt bad because she sounded so defeated... (BTW I already used to money I bought a new phone) What should I do sell stuff to make money to pay her back?? I'm almost 14

Well she told me doesn t date army guys and i told her I m getting out soon. She was like, "umm ok" and she said, "Don t put all your eggs in one basket for me." And I told her I wouldn t. I said let s still at least go on one date. She agreed to it. So yesterday we were setting it up. She offered we go to the park but I told her let s get dinner instead. She told me she would probably be too nervous to eat and it s been a while since she last dated. I told her I would make it relaxed for her. So she agreed to it. I offered this restaurant and she said that sounds good. Then I told her the location of the restaurant and she hasn t replied. It s been a day. Is this a bad sign or maybe she s just busy? We agreed to do it Sunday.

Imma keep it short and sweet. I'm a girl, about to go to college. I had just recently shaved my hair. My parents think I'm depressed and/or a lesbian. At this point, I'm tired of having to conform to my parents' ideal expectations. College is my escape from them. I love my parents, but DAMN they're annoying. I can never be myself. What should I do?

My parents don't have much money and struggle to buy groceries and stuff but yet they help me out soooooo much. They watch my few month old baby for free and don't expect any money, they buy my baby diapers and formula since I don't have a job right now.. They just buy/do a lot and I want to do something as a thank you when I get a job and start making money.. What can I do as a thank you? I'm thinking about buying my dad a PS4 since he wants one and idk what I'd buy my mom..

Do you think I'm being too cheap?

a dad who wears short shorts all the time, including to church or teens being forced to wear diapers and a pacifier

her food is absolutely disgusting. she cooks really gross stuff like dumplings, fried mushrooms, or zucchini pasta. i really want to throw up every time she cooks such things. can i sue her for being a terrible chef? also, my dad sings really loud. like i'm doing my homework or trying to sleep, and he sings really loud. every day when he gets home from work, he sings they think they're being cool, but they're really being terrible, annoying retards

I am pretty close to her family but she hardly ever wants to spend time with mine or when she does she says she feels uncomfortable around them. She's explained she feels uncomfortable around my mom due to my moms disability from alcohol abuse which makes her unable to speak properly. My girlfriend says she doesn't want to be left alone in a room with her and can't communicate with her whatsoever. Which I get I suppose, she doesn't think my mom is a horrible person but her disability and drinking does make her feel 'uncomfortable' and not want to be around her She says that my dad (who is separated from my mom) has never tried to be speak to her or get to know her so she feels as though he hates her and avoids talking to her which she doesn't understand. I sorta get her reasons but we are having a baby soon and she says she is dreading having to be around my family more because of how uncomfortable she feels around them. I really don't know what to do

I go to a school where it's kinda common for kids to do "bad stuff". I don't want to be a person who snitches or ruins it for everyone. In the past, extremely serious and uncomfortable things have happened when somebody brought in illegal things. People get hurt really badly, and parents and hospitals have to get called. Somebody sent a Snapchat message to everyone saying he and his older brother will bring in pot brownies and beer. Usually, these kids get drugs or alcohol from older highschoolers or from bad parents who let them.

I can't remember the last time my parents have told me they loved me and I never really noticed until my brother (who is also not very good at showing his emotions) brought it up about a year ago. It never really hurt my feelings before, and I know that my parents DO love me, deep down, but they don't ever show it. Everyone in my house kind of takes their anger out on me, but mostly my mom and dad. Things are tense in my household, and even though it has nothing to do with me, I let them take it out on me because I'm the only outlet they have. I get estatic when a family member/friend hugs me or kisses my cheek or tells me they love me because I never get to hear it. So, I'm not sure if this is another case of me being sensitive or if it's abnormal I can't remember a time my parents have told me they loved me or hugged me or etc.

Whenever I get a job and no matter how hard I work, my mom will tell me, "Your job is easy. I can do your job." I work hard at my current job that I've been working at since November 2017. I do heavy lifting, do deliveries to other departments in the same building, put away deliveries and use a forklift and electric pallet jack. My mom is like, "I can do your job." There are coworkers and employees that know me who tell me to "take it easy" and tell me, "You work too hard." I sweat like crazy at my job and will even run. I work fast and my hands hurt everyday even on my off days. It doesn't matter to my mom and she's like, "Whatever." I don't tell a cashier or barista in coffee shop who makes me a drink like a Frap, I can do your job.

My 16 year old daughter wants to have a sleepover with their 18 year old daughter, who is born and raised in America. However, her parents grew up in France. Their daughter lost some of her parents' language as she grew older, so she can't fully translate correctly for us. This family seems so kind, loving and stable. I'd like to speak with them to ensure my daughter's safety. She is still a minor so I am responsible for her safety and well-being. Their daughter has been to our house before, and now my kid wants to spend the night at theirs.

I took so weed edibles this past Wednesday and my brother found it and I was planning on buying weed. He keeps blackmailing me and threatening to tail my Mom about it. He wanted 10 dollars to not tell and i gave it to him yesterday. But he keeps doing it. What the hell do i do?

My daughter tries to hang around the 10 and 11 year olds at school. There is adult supervision during school hours, and I don't allow her to go anywhere off of school grounds. The hall monitors and surveillance cameras are there to protect children. After school, I always sit and watch my daughter on the school playground. I know that she is safe, so there's nothing illegal about her being around older girls. My family doesn't know who anonymously reported us. The social worked says that as long as we're meeting the very basic needs that are legally required (food, shelter, clothes, safety, etc) then we will be okay. This is my first time dealing with CPS. I have no experience with them. My 5 year old is "gifted" and just gravitates towards older people. We thought it's best to let her make her own friends - but we will always check up on her safety no matter what, and we'll do anything to protect her. Always.

My future sister in law and him are accusing me of saying stuff at work to people about her and the hen party and it has gone around where I work. But I am hearing that she said this and that and her sister told a few of the girls I work with and I can't even go into work without someone asking me what happened or this was said. It's taken it's toll on me.. I feel depressed and nervous about going into town and worried I will see these people. I love my brother and do understand as a sister Ive a role in his life, but he doesn't understand the toll of our mothers death has had on me since there is a big age gap between us. He's hassled me at spelt and I honestly feel like I will get dirty looks from everyone at the wedding and I feel I welcomed yet my dad says I am

I have a MEPS date set but my family has been talking mad mad smack about me, is this common?

My mother is angry about what happened with her friend My mother is the one who ended the relationship My mother 's friend is a good person. My mother went crazy on the friend on the phone. The friend called mom on the phone, mom picked up the phone, kept blasting the friend on the phone Friend told mom that mom made her scared Mom ended the relationship Mom will not talk to me about this Mom is angry about what happened