Okay so I'm depressed and have a high sex drive, which has become a bad cocktail for me as I've become addicted to masturbation and sex in general. I have constant sexual thoughts which distract me from tasks and enjoying life other than sex, as anything else has been hard to enjoy apart from *******. It's also affecting my feelings towards my bf- I've started invest less in romantic feelings for him and just wanna ****. This is partly to also do with an existential crisis but I'm not gonna get into that too much (everything is temporary and I'm too afraid to have higher feelings other than superficial sexual ones because losing things I love hurts) The thing is I feel like it'll be hard to combat this when being in a relationship, I fantasise about a temporarily celibate life until I can have a healthier relationship with sex but I'd rather not have to give up my relationship with my boyfriend to do this. Ive attempted to control my sexual urges before successfully- until I have sex with my bf then I get horny again.

I am not saying that I want to sleep with him or whatever, I just wanna get engaged, be like best friends, and when we'll be like, 20 or something we can get married. I love him so much but he treats me coldly and like I was a child, takes heavy boxes from my arms without asking, saying 'if we wait for the little girl we'll end the work tomorrow', cuts an apple and hands me a piece of it and when I refuse he says 'better off for me' and eats it. Once I asked him if I could see his cds and he let me. When I went to see the rock music cds and said I know this song and started singing, he said, little girls are not supposed to hear these kind of songs. Please cut it out singing it. But when I fainted and he saw me on the ground he was worried and took care of me, went to buy water and stood by me until my mom came and scolded me for skipping lunch (I just did it cause I forgot the money at home and was out the whole day)These are the only interactions we've had so far. I dont knkw if he cares about me or just sees me as a pain in the ***. Why does he underlines everytime that I am little? Why does he stare at me sometimes and then looks away? Why is he so kind sometimes and then turns cold?

I'm 27 and he's 29; we were friends for 3 years and had feelings for each other but finally started dating a couple months ago. I'm really happy and enjoy being with him! We started sleeping with each other but aside from getting intimate, it still feels like we're more like friends rather than a couple since we've been friends for so long. I am not questioning his feelings for me; I know they're there. I haven't had a new relationship in years and I want to make sure we're keeping things exciting and romantic so I've come here for some advice! Aside from date nights and sex, what are some exciting/sweet/romantic things we can do together as a new couple? Thanks for your answers.

I went to this restaurant saw this super hot asian girl like 10/10 and her boyfriend was maybe a 5/10 you could tell he kinda worked out but he had a baby face and was skinny. It was like seeing a Victoria's Secret model date Screech from saved by the bell

Last week she saw her mon , tues , thurs fri sat . This week saw her sun ,tues , wed , fri , sat . Idk what to do about it . She makes excuses to come over in her work break and i havent the heart to tell her no . I am glad she wants to see her but i need some space . Her other grandparents rarely see her . Frustrating .

I'm 21, and honestly, for as long as I can remember, older people have always taken a liking to me. As a kid, I was pretty excitable and eccentric. My parents' friends always liked me, or my friends' parents. Even in school, the older the teacher, the more they seemed to like me. I've had older teachers say they love the way I talk and my charisma, and the younger teachers seemed to like me less the younger they were (to be fair, I was always a class clown/know it all, though never in a malevolent way). And I've never been bullied or anything, but I have always had trouble connecting with people my age. Now in college, I even find that I can be a bit anxious around other college kids, but I get very comfortable talking to adults, whether they are my professors or Army recruiters or job bosses or aunts and uncles, I just seem to have this natural charisma,yet I have no ability to access it when I am around my peers. I find it interesting. Maybe I'm just an 'old soul', but it's frustrating because I feel I could be more successful in my endeavors if that same kind of wisdom and charm came through when dealing with fellow college students, or girls I like (though for some reason most girls that I meet that are 2 to 4 years younger than I am always crush on me..), or younger adults (It seems like anyone under the age of about 30, just doesn't seem too interested in me, but anyone older than that tends to really enjoy my company). Any advice or insight? Anyone else like this?

Me and my step son and cousin and friends have our own band we're doing our first concert tomorrow. Since it's memorial weekend were doing patriotic country songs some of them make me cry such as Whiskey Lullaby by Brad Paisley I love Brad but I hate tthat song Tough Little Boys by Gary Allan when I was a kid I cry whenever that came on the radio I cry like a baby and I'm Already There by Lonestar especially the radio version of that song brings me to tears because it has kids calling into their dad's or families out of town or deployed I have to turn up my ipod when that song comes on I hate that song too. With my luck I'll probably end up singing those I always end up singing the sad songs for some reason. Is it OK to cry ?

So when i'm working I need my space. But I have this coworker who's always trying to talk to me and is just always around me like a damn fly. Like, when i'm taking a customers order she's standing right behind me watching the whole thing. Or sometimes she standing uncomfortably right next to me. When i'm trying to find something to do (like sweep) and I walk away she'll finish my sweeping for me. And then walk up to me and tell me she did my sweeping and expect praise. Which sounds nice but my number one pet peeve is DON'T DO MY JOB FOR ME. LITERALLY when i'm on break. BREAK. She hangs around me and keeps talking to me. I try to get on the phone with my mother to get deter her but she'll sit and listen to the whole thing and wait for me to get off the phone. TLDR; I have this coworker who is just always on my back and trying to talk to me while i'm trying to get my sh!t done. She really likes attention but I need my space in order to be in the right headspace.