our ages are 13-14

He and I are just friends and we've been trying to hangout for awhile. But I've been so busy with school. And he's busy with work. Recently he asked me to go with him to the Opera. He and I are only friends and have never been out together.

There is a girl that my boyfriend used to play around with over the phone. This girl is known for lying and being out there with herself. I thought she was my friend until she told me a picture of his dick had been sent. He told me it wasn't true, and then started crying because I wouldn't believe him. She wouldn't confront him or anything. She had no proof. She gave me false information saying his pubes were red when they weren't. So eventually I started believing him. He now won't even let me talk about her because he does not like her and thinks that she does not respect our relationship. He also thinks that she is jealous and wants to spread these things to get us to split up because she had a crush on me but I'm not attracted to women. He has a past with a lot of girls over the phone but only two have ever said he has sent a picture of his penis. They are both known to be out there with their bodies and lie about false information. What do you think about all this? Honestly I don't believe her.

Serious answers please and no trolling.

I live in a house with 4 other guys and 1 of them currently does not have a job and no source of income. I grocery shop for myself and specifically keep food in my room so that others will not eat it. My friend/roommate eats whatever he can get his hands on, and when he goes a long while without eating, he attacks my personal food. It's very upsetting because I'm a college student barely eating enough food as it is. I literally just walked into my room and he was laying on the floor with empty wrappers of my food next to him. I knew he had eaten my food before and I asked why he keeps doing it very nicely bc I feel bad for him a little. He responds "I don't know" and I just basically left the room. What should I do?

I've become aware that I am being shunned by several people from high school that I once thought were friends. Seems that I've been made the scapegoat for things they've said behind the other ones back. I've had my feelings hurt by not being invited to things without knowing why and seeing that they are all still friends I've pretty much figured out that I've been kicked out of their little circle. I don't want to be friends with them, but I feel like crap being excluded and I'm dealing with resentment which isnt healthy! Any advice on how to get on with my life?

Do you think 6pm to 11am would be better?

It was after school one day and I was walking to my locker with a friend and this one girl who was tagging along. I didn't know anything happened until I got called down to the office today. Apparently, the tag-along girl left a really mean note in someone's locker while my friend and I were at my locker. The principal thinks me and my friend are a part of it, but we're not. I don't know what to do. They don't believe that I didn't know or do anything. Plz help!! I could get expelled!

I would ignore this girl every time she said hi to me and I was mean to her because I was jealous of her and my crush. I'm a girl too. Time passed and I stopped disliking her. I think she really wanted to be friends because she kept saying hi even when I ignored her. She's in my lunch period now. She was smiling at me and looking at me. But the thing is: she won't sit at my table. Is she just intimidated?

so my life has been like this for past 3 years since uni. i moved to another country i have no friends. i have good job which pays well but well im on an eat,sleep , work , internet and repeat mode. Most of my co- workers are twice my age with a family so no chance of socializing there.

He and I are just friends and we've been trying to hangout for awhile. But I've been so busy with school. And he's busy with work. Recently he asked me to go with him to the Opera. He and I are only friends and have never been out together.

So I recently got surgery about a day ago and I got a lot of text messages from my friends checking up on me. My friend and I are pretty close and he didn't text me to check up on me or anything. (I'm 16) is it wrong for me to be mad/hurt by this?

One of my friends stole 300 dollars from me. I knew she did it. And she even said sorry and even was ready to give me the money back immediately. But I was jealous of her. She was the smartest student in my batch and I knew she was financially unstable at the moment. Her parents were going through a divorce and she had been depressed for months. This was the first time she had taken something and she felt extremely guilty and said she wanted to buy a txt book. I didn't forgive her. I didn't take the money. We were studying medicine in china. And I ended up complaining her to the police and putting her to jail for a month and eventually getting her deprted from the country. I destroyed her life her education for such a small thing. Is it wrong what i did ?

my friend is friends with someone (so am i) and she says she makes her uncomfortable. She makes me uncomfortable because she talks about things that she should keep to herself. We don t want her to be our friend anymore, and we would easily do this, if she wasn t a rumor spreader. She always talks crap about people that she used to be friends with, and always tells their secrets. We try to let her know its not okay, but she doesn t listen to us. She also heard us joking around about something that could sound true, and she can easily use that as something because it sounds believable. We planned on trying to drift away from her next school year, but she will probably spill our joke and it could possibly ruin my friends reputation. How do we stop being her friend with out her getting mad and spilling secrets?? there probably wont be a way

This girl on Instagram purchased a new Mercedes Benz all by herself and her major was art/communications. I need to get a 4 year degree too so that I can make good money. What jobs do these people have and what degrees are needed to afford a new Acura, etc?

I have a 15 year old friend who has anxiety disorder, ADHD, and ASD. She's been having problems with confidence in her self appearance for a while now. It's gotten to the point where she will pull claims out of her ***(such as saying that everyone lies about her looking good. Even though there's nothing to back up that theory. And there's people who have admitted to creepily lusting over her) just to feed her own delusions. I'm wanting help with this as she can't even look at me anymore without getting madly jealous, it's pretty annoying as you can imagine.

How is it that some people can just go to a new city where they know no one and in a week they already have friends? I'm going to be doing a lot of traveling and I want to make a lot of friends. How do I instantly make friends?

I hate to not go, because ever since I was little I've always dreamed of going to prom, getting myself all dolled up like a princess, and I still want that experience, but I would have absolutely no one to go with. I won't be asked, and there's no one I want to ask, and my best friend doesn't want to go. I have other friends, but they're really just acquaintances... they'll have their own dates and groups that I won't be too comfortable joining... advice? something? i just dont know :/

2 years ago had the best friendship group in the world, plus my work mates. I started going out more and more with my work mates and less with my long term school friends. Eventually they stopped invited me out ( fair enough ). I took steps to get closer to them again about a year ago (just over ) and i seemed to make progress. got invited out a couple times, however a couple months later i began to get excluded again . Got invited to two of their birthdays (but so did about 50 people) however I couldn't go. They then spent the whole summer doing stuff without me. I've tried to make contract since and when I have seen them out ie a mutual friends birthday, they all seem fine with me and when i ask they say they'll invite me out but never do . I don't feel they hate me but I don't think they really care about me anymore as I'll still speak to a couple via text but it's always me reaching out and never meaningful conversation. Is it time to make new friends and forget about them? Or is there a way I can rekindle the friendships i had and become part of the group again even if right now they are not inviting me out? They go to events and when I ask they normally say i can come (well a couple of thwm) but to be fair inthimk they may just find it awkward saying no and i don't want to buy a ticket just to basically not be wanted there considering whenever they go out they invite everyone bar me despite my blatant interest in getting back in touch. Any advice would be great

I have this friend that I've been really close friends with for about a year. Recently, she got mad at me for not telling her someone else's secret and didn't talk to me for two days. The next day, she came back to school like everything was fine and I just avoided her. Later, I started to realize how bad of a friend she was. She would say awful things about other people, isolate me so I couldn't hang out with anyone else, and make me feel bad about myself. I don't want to pretend like everything is fine because that will just teach her that she can throw a hissy fit and she'll get whatever she wants. Today she texted me asking why I was avoiding her at all costs and what she did to ruin our friendship. She's still apart of my friend group and I would feel awkward telling her every shitty thing she did, but I also don't like conflict. What should I do?

The last time I smoked weed was when I was 18 (I'm 20 now) and I had such a bad reaction to it. I suffer with severe OCD and anxiety, and it just made me feel 100x worse. I felt like I was dying, nothing seemed real, it felt as if my heart was beating out of my chest, and I was crying and breathing heavy. I never tried it again because I don't have a desire to and to be honest, I feel like I don't need weed to feel good or calm. I just take a hot bath and drink some tea. Well most of my friends smoke pot and they keep asking me to try it again. I tell them the same thing I mentioned above and they keep saying "it will help your anxiety, you did too much your first time" Which might be true, I did smoke a little too much but I don't want to try it again. I don't drink, smoke, nothing and my friends are constantly telling me I'm lame. I just feel like I don't need alcohol or weed to be having a good time. I'd rather drink than smoke but I rarely, if ever, drink. I can't even remember the last time I drank. But anyway, is it lame? I noticed my friends aren't really inviting me to social gatherings or house parties anymore because they think it's weird I won't do anything. I still have a good time and am outgoing and fun, they just think I need to smoke or drink.

Me and my best friend Meghan met last school year in 8th grade. We have a lot in common and we've become really close. I am now in the 9th grade. Since the beginning of the second semester this girl named Gracie started to hangout with Meghan. Then soon later Gracie started to eat lunch with me and Meghan. While walking to the cafeteria Gracie strived to always walk next to Meghan then I would become a third wheel, walking behind them. And this still happens, but now when I'm waking next to Meghan Gracie will just push her way in between the two of us so I'm forced to walk on the side but still a third wheel. Gracie is also more popular than me. I like to have a small group of close friends while she likes to be friends with everyone. Everyone knows Gracie. Meghan tends to do what Gracie says rather than me. For instance one time me and Meghan were walking around looking for a table to sit at. I suggested we sit at the table in the shade. Meghan said no, she didn't want to sit at that table. However Gracie came over and Meghan asked her what table we should sit at. Gracie said we should sit at the table in the shade, the exact same one I said we should sit at. Right as Gracie said that Meghan agreed, I felt hurt. | | | \/ \/ \/

My husband and I have been marriage for 4 years and have a 2 year old boy. My husbands friends who are also married added me along with their wives years ago. They used to be active and would comment on our posts but now it been years and nothing. Their wives will like a picture now and then but they seem to not like us or me anymore? I'm not posting Constantly just every now and then. What do you think is wrong?

so they didn't tell me but I saw on their twitter rant account tweets about it and I don't know if I should mention it or not i'm worried about them. they never talk to me about it or most of their problems really but they always ask about me and how I'm doing and talk about my depression and stuff with me. what should I do? btw they are an internet friend and I don't know their parents