We both work at Walmart and one night I offered her to come with me to Village Inn after we got off around 9:30 to 10 and we went to Village Inn and she was saying thanks for taking me out next time the dinner will be on me I'm like cool now we're going on like 3-4 months later every time I see you're at work she makes up every excuse in the book on why she can't buy me food or whatever but she hangs out with other people from the job she be on her Snapchat looking like she's having a blast but when it comes to me asking for me and her time I'm put on hold yeah I get the hint she don't really like me or whatever but I just want some food and it's really pissing me off every day she has a new excuse so today I call her name and her response is I don't have it and I'm like quit BSN me just pay me my $10 but I spent on you and we are good she basically just said I'm not paying you Jack even though it's been a long time should I just let it go or do some petty stuff like I said only reason I'm bringing it back up is because I'm thinking she's going to be a woman of her word and actually do what she say cuz all we have in this world is just trust and if you break a trust that's it nothing else even matters do you think I'm being immature about the situation if she can't pay me back $10 I know she ain't being a woman of her word with anybody else situation she has with.... whatcha thank!?? She's 20 and I'm 25 if that matters and she Mexican and I'm black!

So there's this hot girl, but she was with her boyfriend at the gym, so I tried my hardest not to pay attention to her. Well, as I'm working out, I would catch her staring at me. I thought nothing of it and went back to focusing on myself, so then she moves closer to me by going to a nearby machine. I left as soon as she got there because I was already done. And as I'm at the next machine across the room, she heads on over there too. This was an ongoing thing until I left the gym for good. I'm just not sure how much of a coincidence this can be true? Do you think she just probably wanted my attention since I kept on ignoring her and moving whenever she got close to me?

I went for the first time 4 days ago and I also went yesterday. I spent most of my paycheck. I go because you can be with 4 -5 different hot girls in one night (I only get 10s) and where I live it's legal to touch them when they get naked. I want to go again. I think this will hurt my wallet and my life if I don't rethink this whole situation.

I'm nice but a little shy and I like a variety of things. I don't discriminate or judge someone by their appearance, I've noticed some women prefer to be with her own race. My co-worker said there are a lot of non white girls to date, whatever, I've never come in contact with these friendly women.....ever!

I'm 20 and my girl is a year older than me and I just know she's cheating with her ex who's 4 years older than her. They were together 3 years before I came into the picture. And not too long ago she said she started talking to her ex again and I just know she's being sneaky. Whenever I try to talk to her she's on her phone probably texting him and not paying attention, and I just know very soon she's going to leave me for him and completely ghost me. What should I do?

So, I have had a crush on this sophomore for awhile now. My crush started way back when he just started school as a freshman. My brother is pretty well known at my school, and when he was a freshman we have talked a little bit before like three times. So, I am pretty sure he knows who I am. I pass by him alllll the time, and we have the same lunch. It is kind of sad about how much I am obsessed with him, but I can't help it. He's my first real crush and I really want to be something more to him, even a friend. How can I start trying to talk to him? I am really shy, but I'll try.

Hello, everyone. I'm an 18-year-old girl. Basically, I like being gagged and made to suck a guy's dick, I like being ****** in the face and I like it when my head is held down. I NEED to be choked, I need my hair pulled, and need to be held down. I like being handcuffed, spanked, and tied up. The thought of being a sex slave arouses me. I like being "all his" in the bedroom. I really like being bitten. Sometimes I like pain on myself in general. It's very weird. When I'm at the dentist and my gums are getting scratched I like it for some weird reason. A guy one time felt bad because he made me bleed but I was very aroused. I pretty much solely watch rape porn. I also like fat guys for some reason or think it's arousing when really unappealing guys are rough with me. I'm very attractive but my ex-boyfriend was this chubby, kinda ugly honestly guy and no one understood why lol. I also have a thing for prostitution. I've had sex for money a few times but it's not something I do a lot. I also have a thing for raw sex for some reason but don't do it much because I'm not on birth control and don't want herpes so. That's a stupid thing to do. I also compulsively masturbate, and fantasize about sex so much I'm late for class. Sex is definitely a compulsion to me. I'd say I'm borderline addicted. I've experienced some sexual trauma if that wasn't obvious by everything I said lol. I guess because of this I'm not really sure if this is all normal or not.

So, we have known eachother for almost 2 years. We would see eachother almost everyday due to something we were both involved in. I moved away. I told him I liked him and he said "awee I'm flattered! you're so sweet! why were you so hesitant to say something?". He then started messaging me ALOT. It's been almost a week and we are pretty much constantly messaging. He ask a lot of questions. Today I was telling him about a friend who was being very rude and manipulative towards me. He said if she treated me that way again to "let him know and he would take care of it". He never said if he liked me back. I don't know what to think.

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have this cute spanish teacher who is 31. I was doing good in there and then on a test I got a 69. Do you think he was trying to hint something to me with that grade or do you think it was just a coincidence? What do you think?

My boyfriend, I'll call him M, and I have known each other since he was in 7th grade and I was in 8th. We were close and both liked each other but knew with me going to high school it wouldn't work out. This year, my 10th grade and M's freshmen year, we talked for the first time in the second semester and my feelings instantly came back. I pushed away my feelings thinking he wouldn't like me back. On 12-14-17 we got together and since our relationship has really grown and he said he loves me already and so I've been questioning could I love him so soon in high school. I feel like we could honestly be together forever, he is so sweet, so kind, any issues with the relationship we've been able to talk out, even differing religious views. He met my mom today and she loves him, even though she didn't want me to date someone of color. I want it to be love but I want to know if others think its possible. (I've already said I love him but explained I don't mean it in a serious way)

There's this boy I've been pining over for years, and I think he likes me back. The issue is nowadays I have a very hard time getting close to those I don't already know, and there have been multiple times where I've had the opportunity to hint at my feelings towards him. The issue is I never take the chance and sometimes I feel like I'm hurting his feelings. At times he'll do something like talk to me or even sample something of mine (from a past event) but because I was terrified I couldn't bring myself to try something of his. Is there any way to help me become less afraid? Thank you!

I'm a girl, he's a guy. We're both single and have never been in a relationship before. I just don't know if he'd like me lol. Or how I would confess to him I'm building up the courage to do it... thanks for the feedback lmaoo

I'm sure there are quite a few single not so good looking women but I'm not bad looking, just short for a guy, 5'3". I guess I could give up or just ask a fat girl out, I'm getting older and time is running out for me.

At this get together with some friends/acquaintances. I accidentally step on part of this girl's shoe. I say sorry. She just smiles and puts her hand on my chest and says you're fine. Does it mean anything if she put her hand on my chest? Like she had a few drinks, but she didn't seem drunk or anything. If anything just a little buzzed, but it didn't really seem like that either.

So I've liked this guy for a while and at first I would approach him and talk to him. he added me on social media's and stuff then after a while now I just say hi to him and bye but we don't talk anymore. Because I'd initiate the conversations but now I'm not because I'm trying to let go of my feelings towards him cause it's been like a year and a half he hasn't really tried. He has but not as much and now I think he likes me but I wasn't super friendly to him when I saw him last. Does ascribg like this give the message to guys that your not interested or does it make him want to go after me

My name is Nathan. I've always had a crush on my friend Haley. We're 18 and in senior year of high school. I've always had a crush on her but she just doesnt' feel the same. I confessed her my feelings on Christmas Day 2017 and she kindly rejected me but said it doesn't mean our friendship is over and also said she loves me (in a friendly way) So we just kept hanging out and pretend nothing happened. I give her credit to that because most girls would just say that at first and ignore you afterwards. About a year ago I firstly thought about joining the US Marine Corps but never actually considered it because I thought that If I got into a relationship with Haley I would rather not being away from her so I just put it aside. I was sure she would like me back but after finding out she doesnt' it's like my doors are open for being a Marine,that's what I want to be. I now accepted that I'll never be with her so I just don't have regrets about leaving town or her behind since she doesn't love me anyway. So I just let her know my decision yesterday. I just told her I got to go. She got crazy mad at me and told me " Why didn't you tell me?! What if they send you to Iraq? Haven't you thought about your friends and family?" She was angry and sad. I hoped she would be happy for me. Why the hell did she got so mad at me? I mean she made very clear she doesn't want to date me and now that I told her that I'm about to follow my dream she got mad. Why the hell is that?

I am 21 years old and she is 26. She doesn't know how I feel about her, although she does like me. I know it's more common for the man to be older but would it be wrong if he wasn't?

Im a guy. I have a friend who goes to college near my house. And like 2 weeks ago I texted her we gotta hangout and stuff like that well she sounded excited and told me her whole schedule but her schedule sounded busy. So I was like yo you sound busy just let me know when you wanna hang. She kept saying during the weekend at the time. But that weekend passed and she invited her other friends to her college and not me and they all ended up going to the bar. Well I just saw her Instagram post saying she's coming home for spring break. So I was like we gotta do something during break. And she said "kk I'll text you when I'm free!!" Well I'm discouraged now cause I know she won't text me. She basically said no I don't wanna hang out. Because it's the same like 2 weeks ago <—— I wrote that a few days ago, now flash forward I just posted a Instagram post and tagged her friend in it and she got jealous and messaged me that she's free to hang out. I feel she wouldn't have said anything if I hadn't of made her jealous from that post. Should I still hang even though i feel like she only wants to hang cause of jealousy.

Went out with this girl 2 times. The first time we made out for over an hour, second time we went as friends as she had the feeling something was missing ("some sort of sexual attraction that wasn't completely there"). Afterwards she did admit she felt did feel some sort of tension, but in essence it was still just a friendship. We arranged to see each other this week, though she had to cancel because she was ill. She replied that she would make it up to me and to my question what she had in mind she answered: "an unforgetable evening :p". I'm not exactly sure anymore what he wants as that doesn't immediately sounds very 'friendship' like and more flirty, but on the other hand she'd also like to talk about her other experiences in the dating field she's had in the meantime. So at the moment I'm qutie confused in what exactly she's looking for in me... As for what she has in mind for the next time we meet, she wants to go out for dinner, tell stories about love, show me where she works, test something called the love method on me (she's an alternative type) and she made clear that she would make sure she didn't have to get up early the next day and also made sure I didn't have to either. What would be your best guess on what she's looking for in me? Just friendship or is there something else?

My boyfriend and I have been together since the summer between our junior year and senior of high school, now I'm about graduate with my BS in nursing and he has another year to get his Bachelors in Business management. Three days after he graduated high school, he started working at a fish store and he absolutely loves it. When it started the store was barely making profit but he suggested to his boss, add on a restaurant to the store to use up unsold fish and they went along with it. It took a while but that caused the store revenue to increase and I mean by a lot. They made him a chef his freshman year in college he just came up with great menu ideas and events for the store. Now, there's a new an "up and coming" area nearby where a casino was built and his boss wants to open a restaurant there and literally give him full control. They wanted to open it this year but my boyfriend denied and wants to finish school first which I strongly agree with. But this semester he's working long hours while going to school part-time. They are going to lower his hours next year so he can go to school fulltime and so they can open the restaurant faster but he's just so stressed out because of work and school. Three nights ago he started arguing with me for no reason and I know that it's because he's stressed out but then I got upset at him. Usually I'd bring him lunch after I get out of class and leave for work but I was so mad at him that I literally just brought him a can of tuna and a can opener. He became really pissed about it, now it's been two days and he's giving me the silent treatment because of that. Like he's usually always in a good mood but working full time and going to school is stressing him out and I just don't know what to do to help. So I'm just asking for suggestion, thank you for your answers in advance. I keep telling him to ask for less hours but he just wont and I don't know why, it's obviously bothering him a lot and I deeply care about him and I'm worried. I know this job makes him happy and that's all I want for my baby but he also wants to finish school too and I want him to so I know it wont hurt to lower his hours or even take some time off because the store will still be there and his boss love him way too much to ever tell him no. I just don't know what to do to help.

So I like this guy and I'm too scared to straight up say "I like you" so... i'm gunna tell him I used to like him to see how he reacts. (I know it's childish but just ... just ... pretend it's not for a second okay thanks lol) Any suggestions on how to casually slip that into a conversation? THANKS!!

Ok I am a woman myself and I just wanted other ladies opinions if you met a really nice guy but his member is small would that bother you or not?

My boyfriends ex has been bothering me because i'm dating her ex . I don't understand what her problem is because they're not together anymore and my boyfriend doesn't even communicate with her anymore. But she wants to fight me now and i refused because i don't see the purpose of fighting. She started calling me a coward and said very disrespectful things to me but i didn't say anything. But now my boyfriend called me a coward for not fighting her or saying anything back and BROKE UP WITH ME just because i'm a coward for not fighting his ex. So now i'm wondering weather being cowardly is unattractive and do boys not like cowardly girls? Even if i'm very attractive looks wise , is me being cowardly a turn off?

My experience so far I've been scammed by Nigerian and Russian Scams, Guys being girls, Fake international kik scams, Discreet meeting passes and etc.

So I met this guy online, so really as far as physical attraction goes, he has only seen how I look in all the pictures posted on my social media pages. We have been talking through text. I can say that after having been in previous relationships, this guy texts like no other. He will communicate once a day, but always has a quality conversation, almost always writing the length of a letter on a daily basis. He shows a lot of interest and shares a significant amount about his life and asks me about mine. And he would like to start talking on the phone now. For having never seen him in person, I feel really loved and love talking to him. We connect in many ways through our discussions. He had family over this week and responded late to my last message. He apologized and explained that he has family and has been sightseeing with them so he wants to catch up over phone once they leave in a couple days. While I feel "loved" in this sense, my previous understanding of how men build love is first through physical attraction and then getting to know the person in comparison to how a woman starts to love. Is it possible for him to really "like/love" me prior to seeing me in person? He lives in Oregon and I'm from CA.

So I m a senior in high school and there s this guy at school who I usually seen around in the hallway and and I ve always thought he was cute. We follow each other on Twitter and we were classmates in middle school. I know he doesn t have a girlfriend but would it be weird if I asked him to prom through dm?

But if a 20 year old dated a 16 year old it would be pedophilia

Me and my gf we watching a movie on Friday night when a scene showed some nudity. After the movie my gf told my that she finds female nudity disgusting. I don't get it. She sees herself naked. Is she disgusted with that too? I have no idea. I get it if she may not enjoy nudity but finding it disgusting is a bit much. Or is this normal? Should I be supportive?

So I keep thinking my mom is a cheater. Everyday she texts him and if I am gone she takes the opprtunity to talk with him If she sees me she says she needs to go and ends the call. If my mom dosent see me she starys sweet talking . Once i heard them planning to have SEX. This is honestly messed up. She always gets mad a diciplines me if i tell her about ut. I hope that ***** goes to hell.

These women would go up to a bunch of guys and say "I don't like the shoes that this person wears" those guys would go and beat up that person and take his shoes off. These women would go up to these guys and tell them "some guy over there didn't hold the door open for me' and those guys would say 'lets get him!" that guy would get jumped. These women would go up to a bunch of guys and say " I don't like the car that that guy drives' and those guys would go and tear up that persons car and try to find that person to 'come after' him. These guys would provoke you when you try to talk to these women, if you attempt to talk to her, they will carefully watch you to see if you would say anything out of the way. These women would walk up to these guys and say 'I want that guy over there out of my face' those guys then will harass and bully that guy, escort him out into the parking lot, or they would run that guy off. These guys would carefully watch you when you go up to a woman to dare you to say anything 'out of the way'

She's screenshotted a funny snap of I sent her, I just can't tell how interested she is in me. We talked about going on a date this week, but I'm still waiting for her to confirm. How can I tell if she likes me. Shes kinda outa my league

had sex* She's screenshotted a funny snap of I sent her, I just can't tell how interested she is in me.

I dated this guy for 4 months, we were intimate. (2015) This was the 4 months they were on break (I had no idea about her or his past, nor did I care). He cut me off without closure & got back with his ex which hurt but I moved on eventually. His girl found out about me & phoned me (in 2016) She came to me respectfully so I gave her reassurance by telling her that we did not contact each other after they reunited. She recently called me a slag to my friend. My friend defended me by saying that I hadn't done anything wrong for her to be hurling abusing at me. She tells her boyfriend that I had made claims that he is still in love with me (LIES). Of course, I have moved on, it has almost been 3 yrs. I phoned her to understand her problem. She denied having an issue but then ended up calling me names so I told her to see me in person, which she refused to & hanged up. Coincidentally, I bumped into her in public & confidently confronted her in person (her face quite visibly changed colour when she saw me). We were unable to reason with each-other cos she kept calling me a slag. The insults do not phase me. Its confusing to me how a woman can hate another woman purely cos of a man whom I have no ties to anymore. Her friends love me but I kept my distance w/ them cos of how that would make her feel. Her friends call her a fake liar. I have taken many precautions to stay out of her way for her comfort yet she prays for my death. What is her problem with me?

We've been dating for over 4 months and he WON'T tell his parents about me. We have had multiple arguments about it but he still won't talk. He asked me what I was going to do if he didn't tell them and I don't know what to do. HELP!

I saw some questionable porn vids and it looks like he gets off to smelly feet vids. What should I say? Or say nothing at all

My boyfriend and I have known each other for 3 months and he decided to make it exclusive about 3 weeks ago. He s the most loving person and is always giving me affection. He s met my mum but I haven t met his parents, only a few of his close friends and brothers. Since he lives half an hour away from me we only see each other once or twice a week (we both work as well) and the last time I saw him was this time last week. He always used to text me in the morning and send me texts throughout the day to know how my day was but he stopped. I did text him once last week but he s been giving me short responses and I get a vibe that he doesn t want to text me so I stopped texting him and it s been a week now and I m worried! We did have sex the last time we saw each other only because I slept over his place and we had a few drinks....was it a hit it and quit it? We have never gotten into an argument and he would always take me out to the beach and out to dinner but now rarely! He always spends the weekend with his friends and it always seems like he wants to be with his friends than with me. He puts me last but every time we re together I feel so happy and so does he! I forget about all the bad stuff. Should I text him and say "hey babe. Is everything ok between us? I m just a bit worried that I haven t heard from you for a while..." please help. I m confused....

My boyfriend (we've been best friends for like a year but we just recently started officially dating) got in a bad accident and he's in the hospital. He'll be in the hospital and then in rehab for at least a couple of months. He doesn't have any brain damage or anything, but he's very physically weak and just not at his best at all. His birthday is next week, he's turning 18, and I want to get him a nice present but I don't have any ideas. Does anyone have any unique ideas? Maybe multiple things that could keep him entertained and comfortable the hospital? I want him to genuinely enjoy the present, I don't want it to just be something cheesy like a scrapbook or something. I'm willing to spend about $300.

It's more complicated than it sounds, long story short my boyfriend and I had an argument the other day, he pushed me, I called his family for advice and they recommended we take a break to have some time apart. We both agreed but my boyfriend said we should still not see other people...well the night I left (we lived together) I vented to a guy friend what happened, we went and got drinks to cheer me up, and I knew one thing was leading to another so I texted my bf and told him we should see other people. He didn't get the text till morning and didn't have a chance to talk to me about it, so I guess technically I cheated on him...my whole intention in texting him was so it wouldn't be cheating but I failed. I feel very guilty as I love this man but I feel very unsatisfied in the relationship and feeling unsafe sucks. He's my best friend. I don't know what to do. I'd like to at least make it up to him. We've been together two years. Help?

We've known of each other for years, but we were never "friends". I hadn't seen him in a long time, but I saw him at his work while he was scanning items. I looked at him, but he was already looking at me. (he stopped scanning items and was staring at me). When we made eye contact, he winked, and didn't look away. I'm shy unfortunately, (and maybe misread is as flirting) and I smiled, looked at the ground, and walked away. Why did he wink? And how did he most likely interpret my reaction?

I've known this girl well for 8 months and met twice and we played with puppies, I took her out to the movies and dinner. Would this consider a date or hangout? End of the night we bear hugged a few times and I kissed her forhead 2-3 times and she said she will miss me when I'm away for basic training.

Is it a chore or something you enjoy?

don't get it wrong - we kiss but only with dry lips