My parents got divorced about a year ago. I've always had a close relationship with both of them but after the divorce my dad moved about 25 minutes away completely opposite of where my school and job is so i rarely go there anymore. After about 2 months after he moved out he started bringing around a woman with no explanation. She went to everything and I never got to see my dad by himself or spend time with him alone. She goes to all of our family events as well. I don't have any reason not to like her but i don't want to get to know her or be around her. I've talked to my dad about this multiple times and he still keeps bringing her everywhere and she doesn't acknowledge me pretty much every time. I don't even know what I'm feeling but i feel hurt because it feels like he doesn't care about my feelings. 2 months wasn't enough time for me to get over the divorce. I'm 18. Someone please give me advice on what to do.

I have been politely hitting on an upscale grocery store cashier for the last 6 months. I shop maybe twice a month there. I gave him my business card on two occasions but he never called or emailed. I asked him if he would like to go to the casino with me when I found out he liked blackjack. He said YES we should do that! So it's not exactly like he told me to stop bothering him. Now whenever he walks by me in the store he totally ignores me! He will literally walk by me and make eye contact with me and pretend he doesn't see me. No smile. Nothing. He doesn't acknowledge my presence even though I am 6'5" tall and 300lbs. How rude! Why not just say "look you're a nice guy but no thank you, I'm not interested" instead of ignoring me so blatantly? I've been nothing but respectful to him. This has never happened to me in my lifetime. Should I go in his lane next time?

He told me that they are just friends and they're not doing anything. But i still don't feel comfortable about this.

After putting up with 2 years of him cheating lying and behaving like a jerk to me I'm finally drained and I'm leaving him. Just don't know how to tell him. He's a very negative Person. gets angry and shoutS at me for ridiculous things, never apologises and always wants things to go down his way. He likes threatening me to get his way. He even threatened suicide if I left him when he first cheated. So I'm afraid of his reaction when I hit him with the news. Should I tell him face to face ? Just leave while he's at work and leave a note ? I want to end it peacefully but je won't take it well and will probably make things go bitter and make things go nasty with insults and threats etc. Just want to announce it well.

(Please no troll answers) My husband got insanely angry this afternoon when I asked him to look at some required financial aid loan counseling with me before starting the process. I mentioned that he was going to want sex later and wake right up and this was equally important. He starts screaming and cussing at me and throwing things and then after acting like a fool for ten minutes straight and yelling so loud I'm afraid the neighbors heard, tells me that me not having sex with him would be depriving him and I didn't understand what it was like to be a man. A few months back when we first moved into our house, he was outside working on the AC unit and I was inside cleaning when he cut his hand a bit. He came inside cussing and yelling at me and throwing tools at walls bc he couldn't fix a small part on the AC unit. He then went outside and sat in the storage building by himself for about 15 minutes. He started crying and saying sorry. I think back to this one instance when we were just dating and living together about a year back. We got into a really bad argument, we went to bed and I rolled over and was just silently crying. He's still yelling. He grabs my body and forcefully pulls me back and pulls my pants down and has sex with me, finishes and rolls over. Every time I tried to bring that up later he just says he doesn't want to talk about it. He promises to love me and be kind and then does **** like this over and over. Where do you draw the line?

He is 28 years old and recently his friends have one by one disappeared. You know life happens. Some move, some get kids, some you lose touch with. I think he always knew that it would happen. I just don't he expected it to happen so fast and with basically all his friends. The last year he has been very lonely. We have our mutual friends but it's never the same thing. Which I understand. I mean I sometimes go and hang out with my friends and he is home alone. Then he started this new job. In this company there are 17 people from various old Yugoslavian nations, just like him. Obviously he clicked with the immediately and with some of them they have really gotten very close. But in all this he has forgotten about me and us. Between work, going to the gym, other responsibilities in life I barely get to see him during the week days. During the weekend he spends a lot of time with his new friends. We haven't had a weekend alone in ages. We haven't had sex in over 2 months or just spend a night watching a movie in the couch. He has promised that he would try to change but so far nothing. I feel like he is neglecting me for his new friends. What should I do?

Got into an argument with wife didnt talk for 2 days. Either way she left one night at 10 didnt come back tell 1. Asked her where she had gone. She replied that she d gone to walmart. Ok giving her the benefit of the doubt. Well i dediced to leave an extra phone that i have recording in our house to see if i can caught her saying something about me. I didnt expect to here what i heard. She comes home early from work to take my son a shower so that she can take him to the doctor. She came in talking on the phone to a guy. They were talking about relationships. But she failed to mention to him that she ws married and that she lived alone with our three children. Then they spoke about how beautiful she was and so on. Nothing to the since of them actually meeting. Am i just being a jerk for recording her or am i right in doing it. I don t want to bring it up. I was thinking of letting it go to see how far she will go. What should i do it hurts me to see hear all that she was talking to him in a more single way if that makes since. After she hung up with him she sounded so happy. We are now talking and tell each other that we love each other. But i feel betrayed. Im just going along with it to give her the benfit of the doubt. So yahoo community any advice will help thank you.

She literally just asked if I was hungry and I said "well yeah I've been waiting." She said "well **** to you too" and left the house and drove off Like wtf did I do?

I ended up retaking lots of college classes and ended up meeting my wife in the last college class I needed to take. It's like, if I would have passed my classes I wouldn't have met her, ya know?

My husband is in his 30s and is convinced that his country band is going to hit it big any day now. He is a musician in the band and has gigs several times a mo. When he isnt gigging, he is looking for venues or gigs. When we are at dinner, he talks band. On the phone, its band again. You cannot get him off the subject. Tonight, he has a gig out of town and he knows we are having my birthday party tomorrow and having 20+ guests. He told me that his band is his priority and that helping me with the kids or house isnt his job. He is a trucker and is hardly home. After he gets off work on Fridays, he goes to the bars with his band. I am disabled and cannot clean and take care of 3 hyper kids alone. He says that I "do not respect or honor his dream to be a big time musician and that I need to shut up and be more supportive and stop hounding him to help with the kids or house so that he can focus on music". What can I do? My mom refuses to help me because she argues that he is responsible for helping, not her.

Been married two years this April. Last September I had a fling, but it was just an innocent office thing. It only lasted a few weeks, and it's not like I wa in love with him. Just sex, nothing else. My husband found out about it and now he sleeps on the couch. He won't have sex, kiss me, or even TOUCH me! He wont talk to me, or eat at the table while Im eating. Its like living with a total stranger

It's been 20 years. Advice please. 90's my husband/boyfriend cheated with ex. She got angry that he left her & committed paternity fraud. He lied to me about the cheating for almost a yr. my husband is extremely passive & let this go on since. He allowed his family to bond with the child & the child knows him as Dad. Well about 10 years ago my husband abandoned the child. If she calls he won't answer, he doesn't see her. He literally hides. My position in this is that the child, needs to know the truth. It's obvious that her mom isn't going to tell her. So I believe that since he didn't deal with this issue 20 yrs ago, that he needs to tell her why he left her. I'm angry because of how passive my husband is. *I also feel disrespected and want to protect our two kids from the drama and dysfunction. I don't want our kids to hear her call their dad "Daddy". I feel like it'll confuse them.* If there is a problem he hides, ignores it and runs. A lot of people have been hurt by this situation: the child, his mom, his sister, brothers, & myself. The town believes he abandoned the child. No one knows about the dna test! His family hates me because they feel I've caused him to take a dna test (true) & to abandon the child (not true). This is not the only situation where my husband runs from problems, it is every time. I wish he'd man up & stop running. It's made it worse ever single time. Why does he hide? Now the child has daddy issues and is posing nude on a adult website.

I have mainly guy friends. I'm a musician and like to talk to other musicians . I've done this before I met and married my old man. Today, he saw a message where a strictly platonic friend told me I was sexy and beautiful on Facebook after he rummage through my messenger and he blew up my phone accusing me of cheating with this guy who lives across the country and I've never met. He has done this so many times and has even messaged or called my male friends and threatened violence . I have old him he's insecure and he said "I make him this way and If i would not allow men to say I'm attractive this wouldn't be the case . What can I do? Is it really all my fault if a male tells me I'm attractive ?

I told him that his sister uses people and brags about what they do for her, in private. The next time I saw her, she was cold and rude. When I asked him if he told her what I said, he denied it. There are just too many coincidences, and I'm starting to feel as though I'm going crazy!

How marriage symbolizes love? Why marriage symbolizes love to us?

I hide a pint in my jacket pocket,under the book shelf,in the shed,etc sometimes. She never used to have a problem with my drinking until she turned christian a few months a go. A pint lasts me like two weeks. I do not drink to much.I am not going to stop what I am doing because she thinks it is a "sin" when she used to deal drugs when she was 17.

Guys, how would you feel if you found out another man had given your wife / girlfriend a foot massage?

I am part of the quiverull cult, sadly it isn't the life for me anymore, I am exausted and am slowly trying to ease my way out. I did the first step, I birth control pills but my husband cannot know, he is the pastor Please don't judge me, I just want to get out of a misrable marriage, he doesn't show love, just sex is all we do, we neber talk, I have 5 children 4 boys and a girl. I am 25 so I can still have a life, it'll be hard but I want to be normal.

My hubby and I had a long day and he was giving our little one a bath. I suggested him how to wash him bla bla.. and he didnt like it. We argued a little. I kept going on and then he said " you need to shup up", which I hate to hear. Then he was trying to put him sleep, holding him in the room in dark. I said " lets say sorry to each other" " i dont like the words 'shut up' He got so mad and said " I dont care what u like!". He was still holding him to put him sleep at that time. I kept going on, saying " did u have to get mad at me like that?!" Then he really mad and said " are you dumb ***? He is trying to sleep!!!" I hate to hear the words-dumb ***! But I know I was being stupid and being a bad mother. He put him sleep and we both got out of the room. I asked him if it was a swear words. He said " I dont f care', you were idiot! My hubby was tired and walking to the room to sleep while I was asking for apology. He didnt want it but I was asking. Then he showed me the third finger! I mean I dont get to see him doing it usually and tonight, I feel like I heard bunch of bad words and the third finger! My husband is very good person and does not usually use swear words during fight. I kinda repeat myself and my hubby hates it. Should I understand his behavior? Do you think I dederve it?