I've been talking to a guy multiple times a day for months. He got married 6 months ago. He said he could've married me but I didn't want to.  He flirts with me and even said he wants to get a divorce. He said when he's not with her anymore he will want to be with me.  When I told him I like him he did a 180 on me. Saying I'd be using him for his money and his wife doesn't. I said you're the one who said you want to get a divorce and she is giving you a hard time. He called me 10 times today and I did not answer. I won't call him back tomorrow. Will see if I answer the phone tomorrow when he calls. Him and I have the same social circle. We live by each other also. I'm not sure if I want to continue my friendship with him. I think he likes me or he wouldn't be trying to contact me. How would you handle this situation if you were me?

I am 38 and have never found one before.

We weren't together when he got with this girl. We were break, and I thought it would be a temporary thing, but I can't ever take him back now.  If things were different I would have, but he's going to have a baby with someone else and I can't move past that. I'd feel like an Imposter. It wouldn't just be me and him again ever. We have been messaging, and he said that he couldn't accept that he and I won't ever be together again, but I don't get what is going on in his brain to make him think we could possibly work things out now. 

In the year 2006 I was on my first tour of duty in Iraq. I deployed to Iraq in feb 06. I had graduated high school may 05 and I joined the Marines right afterwards.I had a girlfriend who became my wife in 2010. She told me that for a few months while I was in Iraq she cheated on my with a dude. When I asked her why she's telling me this after all these years she said it's because she loves me and can't live with this anymore and told me ' please be angry.' I know it's been a long time but how shall I feel? I was kicking down doors not knowing if an insurgent would pop out from a corner or something,I would go on patrols. I lost few good buddies. I told her I want to be alone for a while. We have a good marriage which hurts even more. Last night I went to sleep at my parents house and all I could see was myself on patrol in the boiling heat of Iraq while she's naked with another man. I know divorce may sound extreme,especially since I love her and I know she loves me but now I just can't let it go that image that at the very same time I was fighting for our country she was banging some other dude. What would you do? anonymous: I wish I would have had a girlfriend as faithful as you were to your guy. I wish she understood what my motto means. Semper Fidelis means always faithful in latin.Guess she never knew what that means. I was a young guy,I could've cheated on her in Iraq but didn't. Many guys did David: Thank you sir and Semper Fi

I just found out that my husband has gf in virtual game, IMVU. He even bought married package in that game. When i asked him, he said it's just game and he won't play anymore. And then he removed his married status with that girl in game.... I don't know should i trust him or not... Do u guys think it's considered as cheating?

Had the police came to my place today, read my Miranda Rights but no arrests. Instead, they will have me go to counseling. Why did they do that and what will I expect?

I want a child with her but I am not sure how to get one

So my parents are in an argument to the point of my mom pushing for divorce. Now dad did cheat on my mom in the past but this time is a bit more complicated. My mom saw a blood stained underwear of my dad and suspected that it was from my dad's supposed other woman, my dad was wearing the underwear freely out in the open in house. (My dad likes to stay in his tshirt and underwear in the house) My dad saying that it got stained because of me, my mom, or my sister. My mom couldn't believe what my dad's saying, she and my sister already had their menstruation and saying it couldn't be mine too. But the thing is I had just ended my period about a week ago and the stain could have been mine or not. Our laundry sometimes over flow to the point that it just lays there on the floor and the underwear could've got the stain when blood dropped accidentally on my way to the shower without me noticing. So I want to know if it's possible to get it DNA tested to see if it's mine and my mom is going crazy from insecurities or my dad is really a cheating asshole. Could you also provide information how it can or not be possible to be tested. It would also be grateful if there would be anyone willing to help with me my situation and give me some advice.

We were at a party the other night and we were hanging out at the bar when my wife's boss said, "You look nice, for a dirty skank." She laughed and responded, "You didn't think that when your nuts were on my chin"  I was a little disturbed by this but I don't even know what "nuts were on my chin" means. Is this some code word for hanging out? Is she possibly trying to get back at me for calling the baby sitter dense? Help me please!

Her soon to be ex husband found out about us. He burnt all her stuff and kicked her out of the house. She has no place to go and needs to borrow some of my clothes.  Some of my friends say this is a bad idea but it is my fault for getting involved with someone who is married. 

This gentleman lives with his wife but has had an affair with me for two years. Every time we see each other we make love but it comes out. He said that he has always been in love with me and that he is now completely unhappy with his wife and he'd love to live with me. In fact, the other day he wanted to ejaculate inside to make a child, however, being that I have not yet graduated, I still don't feel ready despite having always wanted and dreamed of a son with him every night. What do you say ?? His wife has never been able to give him a child, so she wants it from me

I'm in a dilemma. Need input  A lot to read ..  I've been in a long distance relationship with this guy (R) for 3 years. And over the 3 years period we pretty much learnt a lot about each other by just talking over the phone , including our likes, dislikes, what makes us sad , what makes us happy etc.  We initially started talking as friends and eventually fell in love . His a different religion to me which doesn't make any difference to me but it would to my father (raised by single parent)  R has been consistent with his feelings towards me ever since we started taking ,  although we have never met , he said he wanted to marry me , and deep down I know that he is trustworthy and in love with me  .  However, over time I've realised I've fallen out of love with him . I didn't want to but it just happened. Suddenly saying I love you back to him felt forced , and I was just saying to for the sake of it . I don't know if it was the effect of fearing if my father would accept him or whether it's because I needed a companion to be here with me (due to emotional reasons not physical) I tried to be honest and told R everything . It upset him but his still willing to stay In touch.  Recently I received a marriage alliance from a family friend , who Is the  same caste , well settled and lives in the same city. My father wants me to get to know him and says to openly refuse if Im not happy with the alliance  I don't know whether to get to know this guy or try and work it with R

I got a call from my ex mother in law Carol, someone I really liked when I was married to her daughter Anne asking me to take her to a doctor's appointment. I had not talked to her for over a year. She said her car would not start and Anne was out of town. I told her I would be right over to pick her up. I drove her to her doctor's appointment and she got out of the doctor's office at noon. I ask her to join me for lunch and she agreed. I took her to Morton's for a steak. We had a great meal and great conversation catching up on what we had been doing the last year. I then drove her home. When Anne got home I got a thank you note thanking me for taking her mom to the doctor but asking me not to do it again. I though that was a weird request so I ask her why. She said her mom liked me so much that she might do something with me that was not appropriate that she would later regret. OH WOW. I wonder that she was thinking. Any ideas? I think her imagination was running wild. I would NEVER do anything with Carol that was not appropriate that she would regret. Has my ex wife lost her mind?