I'm starting a new job. It's your typical 9-5 however at times I'm working over time at night doing deliveries. (It's RARE) or so I'm told. The job asked on my interview if I was ok working nights I said yes. Secret is I have sever damage to my eyes from a car accident. I have SEVER night blindness and prob SHOULD have restrictions on my license. (I don't) I avoid driving at night at all costs but can drive short distances if need be. I'll often times Uber vs driving myself at night. I have sever anxiety with driving at night. My 2 friends already work there and both have assured me if I had to work past dark they would go with me on my route and drive. I can't rely on other people all the time to help me. What are the chances of the company figuring out/catching on to my night blindness eventually?

I've been seeing a guy for a months but I haven't heard from him in a few days. He didn't even text me today (vday). I'm going out with a bunch of people he knows this weekend, should I text him and invite him to join us? My fear is rejection, obviously.

Here's the deal: I'm 60 and been married for 32 years and have 3 kids. My oldest son is 27 and we both work in the same town(other 2 moved to different states). Over the last 5 years the amount of sex dropped dramatically. It went from every other day to about once a month. I am a man who has needs and need to fulfill them. I started hitting on this 45 year old divorcee who works in my office. I started flirting and taking with her about my life and that my wife is ruining us. After a couple months I asked her to dinner. She agreed and later that night we had sex in my car. Ever since then we either get busy in my private office or get a motel (this has been going on for about 3 years). Last week I was starting to undress her in my office and my son walked in and said "Hey Dad want to go to lun-" and froze. He ran out of the office. I texted him not to tell his mom. When I got home my wife was normal and nothing happened. I'm still worried he's gonna say something. What should I do to keep him quiet?

Why do women forgive cheaters...... seriously I just don't understand how you can forgive someone who betrayed your relationship, your trust everything. My mother forgave my father after he cheated and had a child from another woman... they've been married for a long time and I get it she loves my father and doesn't wanna be alone so she says... but if rather be alone than with someone I don't trust they fight slot every time he's takes long to get home she thinks he's with the other woman which I'm pretty sure he is at times because I've seen the other woman's facebook with a video of my father talking to his other kid, and he's never been completely honest to my mother as to why he did it all he says is I made a mistake I was stupid like that's not a good enough explanation. Then my friend's baby daddy/ common law husband cheats on her for nine years with her sister and she forgives him too her explanation is she wants to give her daughters a father which is understandable but I just think that's teaching your daughters that what he did is okay and forgivable which is not in my opinion .

I'm a professional woman in my thirties. I work on my appearance, skin care daily, spa monthly, working out for good shape every day. I dress fashionably. I consider myself pretty and slim. I'm a mum of three, taking care of my three little sweethearts and also working 2-3 days a week. My husband is a pilot so his income is enough to support our family. I go to work simply because I have passion for my job. I have my friends and we are in between parties, meeting new people all the time. Does my life sound unrealistically perfect?

If they really hurt you and devastated you I don't mean that...but like if they were a standard idiot jerk . Cause I used to be sad this hot cute guy was a jerk and rejected me but now I am thankful he did cause I can just imagine the horrible life I'd have if be actually chose to be with me.

I have been married 4 years to a woman who seems to take me for granted. She moved her elderly father in with us because he never saved a dime and spent frivolous on girls and drinking so now I am stucking paying for many expenses and to boot she also invited her nephew to stay with us for 6 months which I am also paying for. Shenever ran these things by me and I accepted that. So flash forward to our anniversary and now she wants to bring her dad whom I will also have to pay for. I told her that I just wanted to spend the day with her and it tuened into an argument. I work all the time I never get to spend time with her because her family is in our lives every single day. I am actually thinking of devorce on my anniversary due to all the issues and constant arguments. Also she spit in my facetwo weeks ago that i still cant get over. Any thoughts? MGTOW?

I'm in pain from my husband affair, it helps me cope when I punish him, is that right for me to do? Sometimes I don't know how else to cope with the pain. How do I punish him? I let him know that I'm drinking...I drink a lot more now that I use to. I was never that way until now and he hates it and he knows why I drink. That's all I do.

My husband often gets very moody over trivial things. Once he lost his temper over me cooking his food wrong. Another time, he lost it because I went to the pharmacy and tried to fill a prescription of something he already had at home. When he gets mad, often he will yell, cuss, and call me names. Then often he will threaten divorce and go to a separate room and hang out in there all day not speaking to me. Often this goes on for days. Once I went in the room and demanded he fix his attitude and he got even angrier causing me to raise my voice. Then he started recording me, laughing the whole time talking about how he was going to use my outburst against me in divorce court. Two days ago he got mad at me because I confronted him about the way he talks to me on a daily basis (he calls me things like "bird brain" constantly). He turned the tables and made himself into the victim. The next day he sent me a text apologizing so I thought we were ok. But when he got home from work, I could tell he still had an attitude. Within minutes he had picked a fight and ran to his bedroom saying he was done with me. He's been hiding out since then only coming down to go to work, eat, and use the bathroom. When he walks by me on the couch, he ignores me. I still don't know exactly what set him off and feel so confused. This time I'm ignoring him back and refuse to let his attitude get to me. I think he likes when I get angry so I'm focusing on doing my own thing and ignoring him too. Advice?

Me and my husband have been married a little over two months now and things have been very complicated for me on my side. We were dated for three months before we got married I believed he was the right one now I'm seeing different sides of him that aren't too great. I still believe my husband has some feelings for his ex-girlfriend who he was with before we got together. Two weeks ago he told me he had a dream and in his dream he told me that him, me and his ex-girlfriend were having a threesome and that his ex(another woman) was kissing all up on him. When I told him I was not happy about it and that he was obsessed with his ex he got mad and blurted out and said to me, "I miss the sex with my ex-girlfriend." When I confronted him about it he said he didn't mean it and said it out of anger to hurt me and make me shut up. Although, he has stopped talking about her I still feel so depressed and not too confident in this marriage. I'm trying to let it go and move on but I can't. When I tell him I'm still hurt he gets mad and says it's in the past and to just let it go because he's married to me now and ignores it.Ever since then I have lost interest in being intimate and romantic with him because I'm still upset and hurt. Ever since we started dating and up until we got married he constantly compared me to her sometimes he compared my body and personality to hers and even talked about the sex they had together and how she hurt him. Something doesn't sit well with me still

Husband is a professor, I don't want to work because it makes me sick, just want to be a good mom and make lots of babies.

32 M, wife 30, we have a 3 year old son. For the past couple of weeks, I've noticed she doesn't want to be intimate with me. She won't have sex with me, or even let me touch or kiss her. We work pretty long hours so most of the time when I come home she's usually asleep but it's getting too much now. All she does is sleep with the boy on our bed and hang out with him pretty much every time she's home. I haven't done anything wrong and I've tried talking to her about it but she just seems detached, except with our son. She'll hold him and cuddle him and he even kisses her on the mouth but she won't let me do it. What do I do? Anyone have any idea why she may be acting like this?

My husband has 1 friend and he's getting married and having a bachelor party in las vegas. I'm soo nervous about him going, i don't think he'll cheat, but the idea of him being around drunk half naked girls that are screaming and throwing themselves at everyone at pool parties, strip clubs and night clubs just make me want to vomit. He never goes out or does anything to make me not trust him, but he is so set on going because "he doesn't want to but feels obligated to" since this is his only friend. I just think it's partly an excuse because come on, which guy wouldn't want to go to a bachelor party in las vegas??? The fact that I told him i'm not comfortable with it and he is still going makes me soo anxious. As much as he says he's not interested in any of the "activities" and will probably just have a few shots and talk to the guys makes i'm still uncomfortable. I mean, wouldn't ANY MAN LOVEEE to be around drunk girls and strippers? ughhh.... Update: It also scares me because i know he will come back and say nothing happened, but I will never know for SURE, because obviously i won't be there.... My QUESTION is: Is this a deal breaker? Would most people divorce over this? I'm so torn...