Hello. I'm a 16 year old female turning 17 in 4 days. I'm about to be a senior in high school and I don't have a job. (I'm trying to get one by the way) So my family and I went out to eat yesterday and I usually eat slow (im sorry) I was the last one eating and I was barely 2/4 of my plate till one of my sisters goes "I want to leave", the other one goes "just hurry up and shove it in" and my mother goes "stop poking your food so we can leave" even though my dad was telling them to stop. I was like "you know what let me stop eating and let's just go then." You see I'm anemic and my parents get mad if I don't eat but when I'm finally eating my mother tells me that? What do you want me to do if you guys keep complaining when I eat? I have terrible anxiety and depression, so it's hard for me to talk or even go outside. That was the only day out of the whole week I've gone outside but I got treated like this.. I'm just scared for no reason.. today my dad asked me if I wanted Subway, I was like yes please. But my anxiety self is just terrified to order so I send a message to my dad on how I want it. Then my mother and sister goes "poor dad". I felt really bad after they said that bc I didn't go with him to order. My sister that said that has a car, has a lot of money for her age, but she still asks my dad to drive her and get her a coffee.. EVERYDAY. I don't go outside at all and this was the only time I've ever asked him for something.. Why are they so negative towards me?

Last week I went to the gym and told my bf. Usually I'd say I'm done with the gym but I didn't this ime and he was the one who texted me 3 hours later saying he was going to the library(where I got everyday) he was pretty cold then I discovered he got jealous and was wondering why I didn't ask him to come to the gym. So on friday I was going to the gym and told him he said ok baby I'm working have a good workout and kiss. I got upset and said alright thanks. Then unlike him he said alright? Thanks?. I said yeah when I don't ask you you get upset when I do you don't come. He said you know I have a job and if I can't come there's a reason. I said ok which is why I didn't ask you last time. He was like ok you won. I said what's with the attitude s d he said it was coming from my lack of effort to his kids and response. He's usually not aggressive or looking for a fight. Anyway I was like I'm done with this attitude of yours, I don't know where all this is coming from. He said there's no attitude. If you're done ok. I wish you the best. I said okay likewise and he sent a thumbs up. He usually doesn't fight with me or anything but the pay week I was sensing aggression. He even had bought me a 1000 dollar purse that week too. This was on a Friday. Is it strange how easily it ended and I haven't heard from him? He also knows I'm going out of the country tomorrow. He got weird the first time I didn't invite him because he got suspicious that I was with the trainer like last time.

She says she regrets it now (True Story) but voted for him in 2016 even though she said he was not her 1st choice of Republicans.

So the father of my 4 year old son left my son with my step mom in February. Said it was just till he got his income taxes back because His mother had kicked him and my son out. ( which the father of my child happened to still live there till he moved out of state) Well My Ex then decides to move to maine and has had no contact with my child at all in over 6 months. I was Manipulated into thinking that my step mom had managing conservator of my child. I just recently found out she did not so i went and got my son for him to stay with me. I have to go to court in september and am going to have to fight My step Mother and the father for my child.

My son has always been very reluctant to go with his grandparents on his fathers side. I dropped him over earlier this evening and as soon as he saw there house he started to whine. When I got out of the car to knock on the door, he was hiding behind me. When his grandfather opened the door I had to pick him up and hand him to him but he was holding onto me like he didnt want to go. Him hiding has also happened when his grandfather has stopped by just to visit and he does the same with his dad when they go visit his grandpa. He s not like this with My side of the family, but we visit with them more often than we do with his fathers side. My son is with me a majority of the time so I m wondering if its just anxiety, or if I should take this as a sign of something else? I should add that he is very cheerful and says goodbye to his grandparents when they drop him back home. Am I being paranoid? A million bad things run thru my head as to why he acts this way and need advice.

I just got back home from a 5 week vacation at my family overseas. But I have to cry about every tiny thing. From food I bought there to not having family around. Knowing I won't be seeing them for 2 years (maybe 1 but most likely not) really breaks my heart. How can I get over this sadness?

I am 19 my brother 26 my father 66. They don't know anything at all but very proud of themselves and my brother threatens to beat me up. He is just scared I will call the police or send him to a madhouse. they don't know anything AT ALL. My father told my brother (the router and phone splitter) doesn't do anything. My brother came and said the same thing. then I said splitter makes phone and router work both. then he said don't get on my nerves( basically shut up or I will beat you up. everything I say is true.) splitter is connected and phone and router work both. just because they are male and higher age they think they are in a higher position. also some years ago I bought a laptop. my brother used it .and when I didn't want to give it he choked me. he didn't want to even buy a laptop for himself. I bought him. I go out with my mother and bought it. can buy online too. he basically likes this: I will use her laptop. if she said something I will beat her up. I don't need to buy a laptop. and then she will be scared and not come close. and father will take my side because of my age and gender) also another time I asked him what torrent means. he said. then I said ok enough. he throws the cup at me I dodged. basically thinks beating up and breaking things or yelling at them will scare them so they will not do it anymore. WARNING: IF YOU WRITE BAD ANSWER I WILL REPORT YOU.

What do you think?

My son has always been very reluctant to go with his grandparents on his fathers side. I dropped him over earlier this evening and as soon as he saw there house he started to whine. When I got out of the car to knock on the door, he was hiding behind me. When his grandfather opened the door I had to pick him up and hand him to him but he was holding onto me like he didnt want to go. Him hiding has also happened when his grandfather has stopped by just to visit and he does the same with his dad when they go visit his grandpa. He s not like this with My side of the family, but we visit with them more often than we do with his fathers side. My son is with me a majority of the time so I m wondering if its just anxiety, or if I should take this as a sign of something else? I should add that he is very cheerful and says goodbye to his grandparents when they drop him back home. Am I being paranoid? A million bad things run thru my head as to why he acts this way and need advice.

Im 16 & a junior & i got asked if i wanted to go to a party today that started at midnight. of course i wanted to go but knowing my parents they probably wouldnt let me go. I asked my parents what age would i be able to start going to parties and they said until i was 17. I think it's unfair though because my sister's both started going to parties when they were 17, but their birthdays are earlier in the school year(october and november) and my birthday isnt until april, so i would have to wait until 2019 to be able to go, not to mention april is the 2nd last month of school until the school year is over so i would miss out on even more parties than i already am. Another thing is that my parents wont let me go to sleepovers but they let my sisters go with friends to cali or to another city and stay theyre for 3+ days(they're 19&20) . They also always ask me to do stuff for them which is annoying. Like they always ask me to give them massage, or to help clean the house, bathe the animals, etc. but they hardly ask my sisters! And when they do ask them to help clean they usually throw tantrums and yell at my parents and then like 2 hrs later they would ask to go out and they're allowed to but when i yell at my parents or get mad they threaten to take away my phone and wont let me play video games. I dont know if theyre like this because im the youngest or because they just favor my other 2 sisters more(you're lying if u say parents dont have favorites).

When we were little my sister and I were not the best of friends. She was just very annoying. When we were older she would fight with me and she even ended up scratching my chest and my mom didn't care. In fact, she scratched me so hard that it created scar tissue and hasn't healed since. That was two years ago. After a while I realized that she would always get me in trouble so I just stopped talking to her. My mom then got angry at me because we are so close in age, (me 12, turning 13 in december and her who just turned 11 in july) so we need to bond like "she and her sister did back in the days". I am trying to be nice to her and do nice things, but she ends up telling on me. For example, if I tell her constrictive criticism, she'll tell on me and my mom will say it's the tone of voice I was using that got her offended, but that's not true because i just told her normally. Today I asked her to wash the dishes properly because she always leaving particles of food on the dishes. She responded to me very rudely and said "I do" in a very rude tone. My mom also happened to be in the kitchen at that time, and sided with my sister. My sister is also always being disrespectful and yelling at me to do things even though I'm older. She also verbally abuses our little brother who also has a disability. When I tell my mom she confronts my sister and tells her to stop and she does but only for a few days. I don't know what to do because she is so disrespectful to me and won't listen.

What do I do to try and get my devices back? My mom found out that I watch/read porn and fifty shades of grey, and took away my devices (phone's iPads) away "for life" I paid for all of them, but she says that it was my fault, I don't get what's so bad about me (I'm 14 and a female) viewing this content? I just want my devices back, but whenever I try and engage in a conversation with her, it just ends with her in a bad mood and noting changed.

i am under 18 and is there a way i can have my dad taken away he is emotionally and verbally abusive towards me and my mother.

We are not together but he tries to control me and uses our kid as an excuse to pop up at my house when he wants and I have caught him stalking me a few times. He does what he wants, he doesn't want to be faithful to me when we are together but wants to try and tell me what to do and does what he wants when he wants? I am tired of it! I am tired of him popping up at my house unannounced and stalking me if I don't answer his call when he does call or text you can best believe I will have 20-30 missed calls and text waiting for me. What should I do? Should I be concerned about his behavior?

She says beautiful women get the husband and she hits me once in a while. My mom is in her 50s, but I cant stand her. She says woman means beauty.

I came home early from a sleepover and I caught her with some other man kissing in the kitchen. That was a week ago. Ever since then she has begged me not to say anything and has offered to get me anything to keep quiet. My heart feels broken. I genuinely thought that she and my dad were happy and it hurts whenever I see my dad look at her like she's the best thing in the world when he doesn't even know. It's so uncomfortable to the point where I avoid my mom at all costs. I have no idea what to do now. Part of me wants my dad to know the truth but the other part doesn't one to cause his heartbreak. I don't want to do that to him, I just can't. I cannot be the one to do that. Please help.

My sister wants us all to disown him. My brother says just to pretend it is fine and then it won't bother us. I am in the middle. Mom is with me.

Hi I'm 27 and my mother wants me to get a job so I can move out. The problem is, I don't think I'm quite cut out for a job. I'm still a virgin and I think that I should get laid before I get a job and move out so that way I have someone to buy a home with, but most girls don't like me for some reason. I'm horny all the time and I don't wanna take away my time from pleasing myself because it's kind of a burden. I can't even go to the grocery store without having to wear baggy pants because I'm hard all the time. She also recently found my hentai collection and threw it all away and I was super pissed because I worked hard on drawing it. I also don't wanna take away from my gaming time because I have a passion for Fortnite. My mother also said I need to go on a diet and even signed me up for a gym membership. I only went to the gym once and it was super lame so I never went again. I don't have many friends so I do get kind of lonely but I MAINLY wanna get laid so I can feel accomplished in life, y'know? But the main thing my mom wants me to do is get a job. She called me pathetic and told me to get my lazy *** out the door. My dad left me when I was 5 so I can't contact him. I miss him sometimes. I was so young and innocent and he left me and it messed me up and for my mom to have the audacity to wanna push me out. I think my mom needs a dude around not in a sexual or weird sense because my mom is pretty ugly but just because my dad left.