There is this guy I work with and I think he may like me, not sure why he would be interested in European women.

You just know how she looked then, and her approximate age now and her pet-name for her toddler son at the time you knew her.

So I'll explain sort of a backstory on this real quick. Last year we went to Hawaii for the first time. We walked into it thinking it was a once in a lifetime trip and we wouldn't be back. But we all loved it so much that my parents decided to make that our family trip. Except this time around I feel embarrassment instead of excitement. What will people say about the fact that I'm going to Hawaii two years in a row? I haven't even told my friends yet. They didn't like when I talked about Hawaii, it made them mad so lord knows how they'll talk about me when I say I'm going back. To make matters worse, my sister plays on a traveling volleyball team and we're going to lots of different states, one just days apart from Hawaii. I'm also going to Europe for my senior trip but I know my best friend will be pissed off about it. I wish I could talk to my friends about these trips I enjoy without feeling guilty. Telling my friends about this second trip to Hawaii feels like I'm telling them something horrible. I don't feel like I brag about my trips besides to show them pictures but my other friends do that too and nobody gets upset! Does anyone else feel this anxiety about telling friends about trips? Is it normal?

So lets make up a name. Tom. Tom gets into short term relationships with peoplefor convenience and placeholdership. He treats these people affectionately and close. When the partner wants to take the next step, Tom starts to plan on leaving them..but whilst being affectionate. Eventually he breaks up with them, but insists they stay as just friends. He even waits till the partner is 'over-it' to be like "okay, can we be friends now?". He treats all these exs like...like sisters to him. He even introduces new love interests to them, wanting to hang as a group, hang out, etc. Rinse, repeat. Is his tendancy to desire keeping his exs in his life as friends admirable and sweet (cause I know many cant do that) or ..the opposite

About a month ago I posted abt how my friends dad molested me. Once again I'll say the backround. This girl is my best friend. I have known her for 9 years and her family has taken me on many of their family trips like to their lake house, camping in their camper, and even to Disney. Well I was at her house and while she was in the shower her dad went up my shirt and into my bra. Yea I won't get into it but like ugh that was a bad couple days the next day a guy tried to blackmail me into nudes with the fact that he molested me. I got out of that but anyway. I'm stuck. It's been a month. I have told many people but none above the age of 16-I'm 14. Every time I tell someone what happened it's like they don't really care. Like they react but not really. I think it's just because no one knows what to say to me. Well I told my friend. She was a wreck. She was crying and she felt like absolute crap and she kept apologizing and it's not like it's her fault. This hole situation is messed up. Before I thought it was dumb people don't tell their parents about this stuff. But now I understand. I want to call the police 🚔 but like I want to tell someone Anonymous. I don't know how. If I did they may think it's a joke too. Idk what to do but the last thing I want to do is tell parents

I just moved from California to Kentucky in June, to live with my grandparents. I am sick of being in this house just using the computer all day, and playing video games all day. It gets boring, I feel like I don't have a life anymore, i'm just suck in this house. I wanted to make friends before the summer starts, I have went out on my bike and went around the neighborhood but I don't know how to approach any of the other people my age (i'm 14). Would it be weird just to go talk to random people? I don't know why I feel kinda shy.

So, me and three others girls online started talking about 8 months ago and now me and one of the girls, who claims she is 19, and I talk on the phone every day. And the other day she did something that I considered very unsettling. I had been wanting to buy xbox live for a while and she offered to pay for it for me. She gave me her card number, address and everything, but since she lives in the UK it didn't work. She says she's bought xbox live for people in the past. She also says she's terrible with money and sent her bank statements? (or how much she spent a day) to our group chat. She's very open from what I see and she told me the other day that she gets really attached to people as well as that she is depressed and we talk when her mom is asleep because she does not want her family to know. I know she's a real person because her stories add up (like if she adds something, it flows with whatever she had mention a little while back). The next red flag that I caught today was that she was - what I think is - joking around telling me that I should call her tonight because she knows I want to and we can play xbox together and stuff. When I told her to stop, she acted like she didn't know anything. There was also one time where I signed in on her account to my xbox and she said jokingly that she could hack me. Very unsettling. Though, there has been no mention of anything sexual. In the group chat we have talked about all of us meeting next year, but that seems fine over 1:1 She seems real though because she shows her face when we call (I do not). She's never pressured me to show my face or say anything I don't want to say. She walks around her house too and brings her phone with, so I don't doubt WHO she is, I doubt her intentions. Long story short: the two red flags are her trying to buy me something and talking to me pretty much constantly over the other people in our group chat and it is a private conversation. How should I proceed without making it worse?

I was told by the I was hanging out with what happened because I don't remember the incident. In the area across from where the fire works go off by the baseball stadium there was a concert and I guess these young high school girls were of being obnoxious and dancing on each other and pushing back on my female friend. I guess I told him to chill out or whatever and one of them what kind of like what are you going to do about it and I said back the hell up and kind of laughed at her. She kind of turned to walk away and then turn back and swung her leg back landing a kick right to my face, which knocked me unconscious before I hit the ground apparently. I landed with a thud and was laid out cold. My friend said shekind of went at one of the girl but there was two of them and they kind of pushed her and swinging her a little bit and then she went back and attended to me. She also told me the girl said that's what his pussy *** gets and her friend was like holy s*** you knocked his *** out. The one that put me out also yelled damn bro you got knocked the f*** out by a girl and then they ran off before other people converged on what happened. My friend called an ambulance because I was unconscious for about 15 minutes and I went to the hospital that night. There was no fracture anyting but I did lose a couple teeth and had a mild concussion. I'm also kind of try to impress my friend and how do I get past this from the embarrassment? Also how think legal action? No trace of them

one of my best friends is really sad for a very personal reason. she wont talk to anyone nor hangout with them. should i talk to her or leave it be? im scared ill make her worse

It'll take awhile for things to get back to where they were with us?

Whenever I have female friends they love calling me on the phone and talk about their problems for hours with me. But when I invite them over they don t come. They never invite me anywhere. They don t even invite me to their weddings. They never want to do anything with me but talk about their problems for hours long. Why is that? I m a heterosexual female by the way. Should I stop listening to them whine?

So basically we're 16 and I was at my friends house for a sleepover and while she was asleep I found her wallet and took 500$ out and I also took her iPad and some clothes and makeup and I went home the next morning and she texted me asking if I took the stuff and I told her I didn't do they are looking through cameras and stuff and even filed a police report because they think they were robbed. I'm worried I could get in legal trouble could I

I sent this guy a sexy picture of me covering my breasts and replied with smiley faces.

I have a group of 3-4 close friends that have become so important to me since I've gotten to know them. We all work together & we hang out sometimes & talk pretty much every day. They have all known each other a long time & are actually related in sort of a round-about way. Meanwhile I've only just joined the group a little over 8 months ago & I'm not related so I'm kind of the odd one out by default. We have really similar interests & senses of humor & always have a great time together & they've told me I'm like an adopted part of their family now. I've even met & hung out with most of their extended family. All of this makes me feel incredible since I've never had any kind of relationships like this before. But they also do things all together with just them, without me. I try so hard not to feel bad or be jealous because I know they are close & are family, but it still stings to be told how I am "part of the family" & how they're always here for me & yet not be invited to do things. & of course they can do whatever they want and are obviously not obligated to spend any time with me but they know how anxious I am & remind me they choose to be friends with me & hang out with me. I think it kind of especially hurts that they will mention things they are doing or say "you should come next time we do this" or whatever, but yet not invite me the next time they go. I know I am overthinking & overreacting, but I can't seem to help it, it's just who I am and it's driving me crazy.

Let's say a friend of yours posted that they were feeling suicidal. After that, they stopped being on social media. So the next day (after they posted the suicidal thing) you texted them asking if they were okay and they didn't reply. And they hadn't been on social media ever since they posted that they we're feeling suicidal. Would you be worried about them?

Ok, so from the beginning of the year, my roommate and I seemed okay. We would talk a little bit and stuff, but as the semester went on, she NEVER talked. I would sometimes try to be friendly like offering her cookies. She would say, "No, I'm good." She didn't smiled enough, and when she did, it looked fake. Then, mid-semester, she started doing things that bothered me. She didn't take out the trash as much as I did, changed her pads in the dorm room and threw them in the trash. I know this because we would change under our lofted beds at our desk and one time I heard the wrapper. I will say that she did wrap her sanitary napkins in tissue, but I still knew what they were when I saw the trash. She also left her desk light on way too late/early, which disturbed my sleep. Sometimes she left her laundry basket in the way, too. Eventually, we had bed bugs. She was super grumpy the day we had to bag our stuff and slammed the door. She also glared at me a few times. Honestly, I had enough and told the RA everything she did. I didn't want to confront my roommate about all of the stuff that piled up, so I told the RA I didn't feel safe. The RA talked to my roommate and we eventually had a meeting together. My roommate was super irritated because I didn't confront her first and told the RA I was scared. 2nd semester, she apologized and brought me oreos. However, my guy friend started talking to her even after I told him the weird stuff she did.

im kind of drifting away from my only friends. they never invite me to events or hangout with me a lot. i have a lot of best friends but im no ones favorite. what should i do? maybe talk to them? i dont know.

Sometimes I lack social skills. My college roommate sent me this long text at the end of the year, confronting me for what I said to her. She basically said I had a condescending attitude. For example, one time (in person) she said, "I'm not trying to avoid the room or anything, I'm just not here most of the time because I've been working a lot." I said, "Oh, I don't have a job because my parents have good jobs, and I got lots of scholarships because I'm smart, or at least that's what people say." Does that sound that bad? She also was talking casually about her skin one day, while getting for an audition. I was like, "let me see." She says, "uhh no...." I was like, don't worry I won't judge." I get up in her face and look at her skin and said, "Oh, you just have large pores. I have small ones." She also showed me her theatre headshots a different day, because she wanted her top 20 chosen to edit. She was like, "I love this one." I said, "I would edit the red part on your forehead, and then sculpt your cheekbones, but idk what the acting industry likes." She didn't say anything after that. Those were just a few things she confronted me about in her text. Did it sound that bad? She's a junior and I'm a freshman, so idk why she'd feel intimidated by me.

My friend accused me of stealing something. That I never knew he had in his house. I never even seen it. And I told him I didn't take it. But he said after I left it was in a different place. And I said maybe you forgot where you put it and you misplaced it. Me and him stop talking for two years. Now he wants to be with me but in the back of my mind. I feel like it's weird that he accused me of stealing something important to him in the past and I can't get over you? Should I remain friends with him? Just need advice

I'm glad I decided to go out with you. I would have missed out on a great experience. I appreciate how nice you were to me, I like that you were a gentleman.

Is this the best they have to offer excuse me while I laugh!!

I've been on Facebook for 5 years now. Never not once have I felt the need to announce anything. Why do people do this? For example, my friend just posted she got promoted to be a manager at her job. Why share it?

my friend told me i am fat because i ate 2 big carrots and 2 grapes in a day. She said that is why i weigh 160, but i only weigh 109 ;( im 13 . what do i do to contain myself from eating so much

I have multiple friend groups, but I don't think I could really call any of them a best friend or truly someone that cares about me. It's like they call me their friend but I'm never invited to hang out with them. It may be possible that I am just not fun to have around or maybe I'm just making a mountain out of a molehill, but I truly feel like I am alone in this world. This along with me moving 800 miles away from the city I grew up in for 15 years (FYI I'm 16) I feel I left no mark on my community and my friends. I don't think they're going to remember me when I'm gone, which is horrible because even though we butt heads multiple times I'm going to miss them a ****-ton. I keep thinking of the quote by Horace Mann, "Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity" and I think that applies to social victories i.e. relationships and good times you gave people. Is there anything I can do to cope with this? I know it's very specific, but I keep thinking about it.

I was playing with him on a video game today. I accidentally made a mistake on the game and he started randomly yelling at me and calling me bad at the game. Also, on the game he always randomly insults other players or says unnecessarily rude things. I think he does it because he thinks its funny. He got married recently and he just seems extra grumpy all the time. I don't really understand it. He always acts rude to people for no reason. I feel like I just highly prefer being around friendly people. I think I'll definitely talk to him less and I might unfriend him. I don't really understand why someone would act like that. He used to be more laid back and didn't act as rude.

My friends and I were walking together at a social event. We stopped by an empty table because one of our friends, Callie, was talking to a server. As we were standing there, a cute guy squats down to Stacy, a 8 year old that was walking with us, and starts talking and joking with her. I thought it was the cutest thing so I smiled. As I was smiling, I look over at Callie and she's giving me a death glare. I instantly felt as if I did something wrong. So I quickly went back to my seat. I keep playing it over in my mind and I ask myself: "What did I do? Did I embarrass myself? Did it seem like I was flirting?" He didn't even acknowledge me. I want even nicely dressed. Why would she glare at me?

Mainly it is when his wife is around they actually both will completely guiet around me as if I don't exist. But you can cut the tension with a sword really. It gets pretty tense and they start whispering. But when each of them is not together they will speak actually she seems to really like me. He gets nervous and seems to say my name everytime he sees me with a hand shake and an awkward smile. At first I thought it was in my head but it happens every encounter. He is also in his late 40s I'm in my 20s she is in her 40s too. So I'm just confused and uncomfortable about the whole thing. I can't help but notice either

My friend put out their hand sideways towards me and I thought they were trying to give me a friend hug like a fist bump where you hold the person's hand and then body slam. I did that but then we hugged instead. It was awkward and I laughed and said, I thought you were trying to do a friend fist bump hug. We laughed and then my friend hugged my other friend with a proper first bump body slam way. I didnt mean to be awkward about it, were they being awkward? Usually when people want to high five they put their hand up. I was confused as to what my friend was trying to do?

I'm a 21 year old guy. So, I have a girl friend. I actually had a crush on her but she didn't have the same feelings so it never became a relationship. Plus she has a boyfriend. Anyway, can I ask her to set me up with one of her friends? A lot of her friends are pretty too. I just don't want to offend her. How can I angle this? She likes me as a person, and as a good gentlemen, so maybe she would be open to this? Look, I got gas in the tank and money in the bank. All I'm missing is a girlfriend to cruise around town with and love me.

I am a furry and I recently converted my boyfriend into a furry as well. It was easy because he already loves Animal Crossing and anime, but my roommate is not very online. How do I make him into a furry??? help!

I have a friend that has two Facebook accounts. As far as I know this is against Facebook rules. She recently blocked me and gave no notice or reason whatsoever. Furthermore, she has not responded to any text messages. Should I report her to Facebook for having two accounts to get back at her?