So I went to a restaurant with my friends and had a drink. I come to pick up my husband from work that night and he asks me if I had anything to drink. I told him no. I didn't want him to worry about me having a drink and driving so that's why I told him that. Am I wrong to lie to him about this? Should I tell him I really had one? Or let it go?

which she hid until now, thereby and making him feel awkward on the wedding night

I'm talking about courts like probate and divorce. Also, If your will was prepared in one state and you die after being a resident of a different state but not updating your will in that state, what happens? I'm assuming that regular married people (no common law) move all the time and the new state recognizes their marriage, but if they get divorced or die after living in the new state, the results of what happens falls under the laws of the new state where you are considered a resident.

I'm in an online support group and because there are men in it my husband said I'm not allowed to be in it. He said he considers it cheating. He has actually cheated on me. I feel so sad and alone. Is there anyone else going through something like this? I am preparing to leave him.

so recently my husbands friend has came to live with us due to the fact his parents kicked him out and he has a warrant for his arrest. My husband and I have been having marital issues before his friend came to live with us. I did leave temporarily to get away for a bit and told him the only way Ill come back is if his friend leaves, he agreed and I came back. A month later and his friend is still there. His friend comes up with excuses. Of course my husband allows him there and our landlord lets him stay as well. We rent a room with 7 other people. So the house is already filled with people our landlord is 55. His friend uses my husband as an uber and for shelter. He has my husband drive all the way to LA to pick up money and weed and leaves my husband in the car for hours. He doesnt pay rent or work or has any means of transportation. We are all 21-24. All day my husband will smoke and drink with his friend and now inhale NOZ. My husband neglects me and leaves me alone at home for hours while he does this, not only that but hes always tight on money and I have to pick up his slack with bills. His job counseled him about smoking at work and cut his hours. Ive argued with him about kicking his friend out and stop these shitty *** things hes doing since he cant control himself. He yells at me and threaten me so I just packed my **** up and left and been sleeping in my car and sometimes sleep at my moms house. this has disrupt my work life and school life. What should I do ?

She doesn't get it. She thinks I should feel love by holding hands and snuggling.

She is offering it up to me on a silver platter. I go see her almost every day (early morning) to make prints for my businesses, and we talk a lot. Her husband is an over-the-road trucker. She is in her late 20s where as I am in my late 30s. I really do not see how I can stop myself from taking advantage of her offer. Unless you can talk me out of it. I am not married.

My very married co-worker is often in my office chatting with me. We are never doing anything inappropriate and rarely need to change topics if someone happens to pop in. But the last several times, he's been in my office---his boss comes in and starts making joking remarks about "why is he in here!?" or he'll tell him to stop sitting with his legs gaped open because that's a sign that he wants more kids. This boss never wants anything from either of us (he's not my direct report) but he seems bothered that my co-worker and I spend so much time in each other's offices.

It's like everyone has something about them that just irks me. Like my uncle. It's like he puts his wife's family before his own family. Even his own kids from previous marriages.

My husband and I are both college students. Today at school, someone walked up to my husband and asked him if he had siblings. He said yes, and they asked if he was the oldest and again he said yes. They then proceeded to tell him that god had prepared him for fatherhood. What does this mean? We are trying to have a baby, and it's really ironic. We don't know who these people are.

I was attracted to my girlfriend in part, because she was a single mother and knew the hardship of being the provider for her family, however after we got married she lost her job because of her own attitude toward her boss. Now she is angry with me, because I can't just absorb her bills, because I still have my own obligations from before we married. Why do responsible stable girlfriends turn into such irresponsible wives?

Whether you are married or g/f or b/f . Specify how long you've been together.

Is it a sign she is not feeling great about her relationship, or wants to give out the impression to others that she might be available?

Why are husbands always doing this?

We've been dating for 3 months. We used to have sex multiple times a day for hours at a time. I screwed up the last 2-1/2 weeks so sex went down to 1x on the weekend (We only see each other 2x per week). How can I get the frequency of sex to go up to how it was 3+ weeks ago?

I m recently going through a separation, and I ve been married for twenty four years. She has been cheating, which isn t surprising in the sense she is way prettier than me. She done this once before, five years ago, and it really hurt...so bad that I took xanax, and ran a garden hose from my exhaust into my car. I was busted halfway, in a stunt I kinda knew wouldn t work. I went to hospital, and was released three days later. Anyway, this time, I just moved out instead of playing the game, after a month she admitted to cheating for the last four years. OK, its been two months now that I ve been in my own apartment, I left everything behind for my two boys, and wife. Home, tools, puppies, guns, memorabilia, just everything. So everybody knows its obviously a very dark hour for me, yet not a single soul around me cares enough to ask. They don t stop by, they don t call, they don t worry. Nothing. My boys (16)(21), don t care at all where I am, or what I am up to...ever. Obviously my ex, only comes around to make sure I feel like ****, or to make sure I want her sexually. Hard not to. My mom, Dad, sisters, brothers, cousin (best friend in the world), my nieces, and nephews who ultimately mean the world to me, all of them a complete no-show. I committed to never self-harm again after leaving the hospital. However, they don t know that, and its honestly like they are waiting, and wanting me to off myself. They all know I battle with my conscience

So I'm 30,been together 4 years and live together. I had an important appointment to see a specialist for my wisdom teeth and really wanted my bf to come with me for support and he said he would take the day off work. So day before appointment he says he has to work now and has an important meeting and can't come. He knew how much it meant to me and I basically cried the whole night and he didn't even budge. It's not the first time his done something mean. I feel it's emotional abuse Is this a red flag??

the husband wants Thai, should the husband yield? If the wife wants a blue ceiling in the bathroom, but the husband wants a white one, should he budge from his position to keep the peace, and to keep her?

My boyfriend tells me I am materialistic and I do not know what it means to truly love someone. Of course I find that highly insulting because I never dated my boyfriend for his money, he was a custodian (did not make much), it was his character at the time. But he has changed so much in the last 5 years. Recently he quit his job on the fly and now wants to be a professional poker player. He's tried this before (with little success of making more than 900 in 3 weeks). Since he lost his job, he moved away with his family (he's thousands of miles away), and considering moving back home to be with me. I told I am nervous about him moving in because he doesn't have a job nor has tried to get one these past 3 months he's been off. He's been going to the beach and playing card with little money he has left. He kept saying how if roles were reversed he would take care of me and let me pursue what made me happy. I know he would do this lovingly, but I also would be actively seeking a position before I got there. When I told him where would he get this money to support himself he said he would use all his retirement money. All he told me is our love should be enough and love conquers all, and he doesn't want to be with someone who worries. He kept saying how he wants a woman who would sleep on the streets with him and that their love is enough. Am I really that irrational here?