Hello, I had a friend a friend in 6th grade, I guess you could say she was my best friend and her sister was my older sisters BFF for life until. She was my friend until my sister told me that she told her that I was weird, wore to much black, and I was super quiet and weird, I was surprised she knew I had social anxiety, and that was the reason why I so quiet but she was quick to judge, I remember getting an anxiety attack, my sister said it was my fault for being quiet, not really my fault that I suffer from this it's hard. Anyways I got mad at her didn't really show it though, few weeks later I forgave her. Anyways in 7th grade I ignored her I just continued with my life despite her being rude and bitchy to me, now recently she told my friend that I changed a lot, which I'm like how?? She said I was mean to her yet didn't do anything To her, also forget to mention that our sisters stopped being friends due to drama, anyways she still bothers me I don't wanna be her friend like I said her sister steals, vapes, has sex at church and other disgusting things, She says I stopped talking to her which I did Idk what her problem also their younger siblings keeps adding my sis on snapchat, my use to be friend followed my sister on insta, like??? I really hope she stops bothering my family, she talked bad about me to my own friend!! She then says she is nice to people that are nice to her but when I never did anything she talked bad about me, shoved me meanly.

My best friend is gonna host a sleep over for his Bday. He invited me, and a ton of his other friends. Thing is, some of his other friends are quite homophobic. Some of them are real cool, but there are a few. Anyways, he wanted to make sure I felt comfortable, and he wanted me to be prepared with comebacks in case anyone said anything. There's especially one kid who is a loud mouth and won't hesitate to say something. So humor me 😂 what would be some good comebacks to use if anyone says something rude to me. For example: Someone calls me a f*gg*t Someone tells me to leave the room for an activity (like talking abt girls or whatever) Stuff like that. What should I say back?

i always went out with these two girls on weekends then another girl started coming and i slowly started getting pushed away. They started always inviting her out and didn't let me know they went out. This girl does weed and then they started doing it, but i don't want to do weed, they are f*cking 14!! One of the girls boyfriends broke up with her after 2 years because she started doing it and refused to stop. It's not that though, when i do go out with them i'm just constantly being left out. The same girl with the boyfriend posted on her instagram spam account "faves" with the two girls and the other girl. I was there the day they took that. I'm starting to feel like i'm not good enough, nobody likes me and i feel proper boring, it's making me really upset and making me start to not like them, but it's not just happened with these people. It happens to every person i become close too i'm sick of it

So I've had the same best friend for about a couple years now, and I'm a bit confused about our friendship. We always have been super close (being best friends.) we used to hangout ALL the time, but now she's been with this other friend like constantly, instead of hanging out with me. What's strange is my best friend claims this other friend who she hangs out with now, is "annoying" and basically, was just acting like she didn't really like the other friend. But now, I don't understand why my best friend is choosing not to hangout with me but the other friend. I know I didn't do anything wrong AT all, and my best friend still acts like we are best friend despite this whole situation. I don't understand why she's doing this. I feel like I can never get a hold of her to hangout with her for just a bit, since she's always with the other girl who she claimed was annoying and stuff. Please help me.

I'm a 27 year old female and I have a best friend that is a lot older than me and she is basically like family to me and I asked her if she thought it was ok if me and her go months without talking and then she said no because she likes to check on me and she has a couple of other friends that are around her age that she talks to but she goes months without talking to them so I am kinda confused on this and I also have a social disability of some sort so I get confused about friendships. How would I be any different from them?

I had mastectomy to save my life. I feel it was poor timing for her to have a surgery to enhance her breasts. She talks about her breast augmentation a lot and flaunts her large chest whenever she can. It makes me feel very insecure and hurt because of the physical and psychological damage a mastectomy caused me.

I cant understand her behavior She is always very aggressive to me without a reason If i am always nice to her then why she always tries to kill my self esteem and bring me down?? She tries really hard to make me feel worthless and ugly

My friends from a summer camp I went to in July invited me to come to a devil worshiping gathering in one of their houses tonight. They say we'll be dressed as chickens and saying all sorts of crazy things. I have nothing better to do, do you think it's wise to go?

I cant understand what i am doing wrong I am female 25 with lots of years of depression and i was a victim of very hard bullying when i was a kid at primary school Then i had friends as a teenager but also then some other teenagers used to hate me nad make fun of me Now i am a grown adult who tries to be a member of society but things are still difficuld Why i make friends but after time they leave me??? I feel so sad...

I'm 26 live away from my parents. I come into town to visit them from time to time, but they're divoced so I try to make enough time to see both of them, as well as my old friends. My mom is unsufferable. She has no friends except for my stepdad who has confided in me that she makes him feel unfomfortable as well. Since she has no friends, she is incredibly posessive over me and my step dad. If either of us want to enjoy time with anyone else she will make a passsive agressive remark, cry, get angry, give us a dirty look, or just say something to make us feel bad, or very loudly talk **** about us to the other person in ear shot. When I go back to town i want to see everyone. What I was thinking of doing, is maybe visiting all the other people I want to see first, not telling her im in town, telling my stepdad when I'm coming in so I can arrange a time where she's at least not working, and then stopping in for a bit before I have to head back home. She'll guilt trip me probably but i'm honestly just trying to find the best way to do this. Talking things out with her is not an option. She either walks away, hangs up the phone, or breaks down crying immediately and groveling that she's sorry but then doesn't change. So if I wanna deal with her, I just have to be tolerant and have a "game plan." Like I'll bring my boyfriend so there's a buffer. Do you guys think this would be a good plan or would it make things worse?

I have two jobs. Both teaching but one working after hours on a heavy schedule basis. Coteacher at this other job rescheduled AGAIN. I was livid, due to this cutting into my personal time now. My boss, a friend as well, was talking to me about it. I was venting a bit and wrote a scathing msg about the individual. Then realized I sent it to the group chat of my other job. Tried to delete it but too late, was seen by all. I followed up with a "sorry, this was meant for my other work. New teacher on site keeps rescheduling." Now. I thought I was okay but low and behold, some think it was about them. I ve tried to explain that "I know it could be taken as anyone, since I didn t put names, but it literally was not about you. I apologize if you think so." How do I dissuade this negativity here? I m trying to shrug it off/laugh at my own stupidity/etc. My anxiety is kicking my *** on this though.

My friend is ignoring me after I got defensive after he personally bashed my boyfriend. Is he worth trying to salvage a friendship for? I'd like to add that my boyfriend took no offense to the comments made and agrees with me that this situation is silly (the context of the argument between friend and I was very childish). What should I take from this?

My close friend stole 200 sum from a friend of mine last time we were all together and spent it he found out and he told me I'm just as responsible for it as my friend who stole it i never meant to hurt him I would have never allowed him to take from him. I keep saying I'm sorry and I didn't know anything this is the only friend I've ever had I could relate to I feel so heart broken my life is hard enough and I hate losing good friends I need to gain his friend ship back trust anything at least on good terms. I told him the truth I told him I will even take my own money out of the bank and he still won't accept my apology I never did it I never stole from him I'm not the one who did it so why is he mad at me. I'm 16 and a girl I've only known this guy for 2 months and I care about him so much he's a good person but I feel so shitty about my friend doing this to him. I know I should just give him time but he has trust issues all the way and it's going to be so hard to regain his trust what can I do

I just met this guy (26 years old) from India about a week ago. We only communicate through private messaging on a popular penpal website. He does NOT know any personal information about me other than my first name, my hobbies, and that I'm an American female (also 26). I randomly asked him when his birthday was, and when I told him mine (coming up soon), he told me that he's going to give me a grand birthday wish, skip all his work duties that day, and persistently focus on my birthday.... why would he do this? Why would he go above and beyond to the point of skipping work for the birthday of someone he hardly knows and who lives on the other side of the world from him? And to focus on it like it's a national holiday? I'm honestly paranoid right now. What could he possibly have in mind for my birthday? Please help me?! What would you do in this situation?

My best friend and I were suppose to go see scary stories in the dark on Sunday but now she went out with her other friend to eat. Then they went to see scary stories in the dark tonight. She told me I told him that we re suppose to go see the movie but he already bought the tickets.

I know this is a dumb question, but I'm serious. Whenever I see other people brush their teeth, they can brush their teeth neatly without getting toothpaste all over their lips and chin. Yet when I brush my teeth, no matter how neat I try to be, it's all over my lips and chin. How can I brush my teeth neatly without getting it all over my mouth and chin?

I've never had a lot of friends, but many people who I had regarded as good friends seemed like they were using me. Like they would only call when they wanted something. Like a ride or money. A lot of them do not give gas money or only about $5 for gas. And many times they would not pay the money back that they borrowed. I've cut these people out of my life, but how do I move on and make new friends and be able to determine if they are real friends or just using me.

I ve been having some issues recently with figuring out emotions. One thing that I can t understand is if I actually care about someone or not. I have a group of friends and I am worried that I don t care about them. These friends are online, I know I know, online friends are risky. But these guys are great. Anyway, we play this group game and they are higher ranks than me. Never really thought much about it until a week ago. I started thinking and wondering I cared about them or just cared about my rank and what they can do for me.. How do I know if I actually care for someone? Also, I fear that I don't care about other peoples emotions..

I have a friend that does not think it's ok for me and her to go months without talking and I have another friend that thinks the same way and one of the friends that I am talking about I just hung out with her yesterday and she told me that she goes months without talking to a couple of her other friends but she said that it's not ok for me and her to go months without talking so is it healthy for them to think this way?

She got mad at me because i hang out with my female friend alone and i set my instagram profile pic of me and my female friend. Don't you think she is insecure and jealous?