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Friday, 12 January 2018

Friends: Question: My friend cannot bear to pop balloons. What's wrong with her?

Friends: Question: My friend cannot bear to pop balloons. What's wrong with her?

Question: My friend cannot bear to pop balloons. What's wrong with her?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:00 PM PST

Question: Did she friendzone me forever???

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:55 PM PST

My name is Kevin and I really like this girl Tamara, we met at work 6 months ago. We don't see each other much at work since we work in different departmens, but we still stay in contact once a while. Later on I began having the feeling she might like me, so on Monday I wrote her a long text. I told her I had the biggest crush on her, she said "AW I never knew you had feelings for me, I find you super attractive and your great But after my ex boyfriend I need some time. I hope you understand, plus I still wanna hangout with you soon :) "......we haven't talked since Monday because I don't want to look desperate. Do you guys think I still have a chance with her???? Please help

Question: Would I seem desperate for friends if I ask an old friend to hang out?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:43 PM PST

I have a friend who I was pretty close to last school year, we'd talk to each other almost every day and we hung out outside of school sometimes. Anyways through out the year we eventually just went our different ways, but still made an effort talk here and there. We were both grounded at different times over summer so we never got a chance to hang out and after that we both just stopped trying, we had met other people though so it was justifiable but I wish I made more effort becuz we grew apart a lot. I'm asking if it would be desperate to for me to ask to hang out with her because I'm really trying to branch out this year and be more open to people. Last year fell into a crowd that wasn't good for me so that's why. She has a really tight knit group of friends who I know, but some of them are a little snobby. I know it sounds stupid but I'm afraid she'll think i'm weird or they'll think I'm desperate if I ask to hang out with her all of a sudden, especially since she has always been a lot 'cooler' then me but i guess that didn't stop us from hanging out last year. I don't really know what to do.

Question: I shouldnt try to become friends with them right?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:24 PM PST

so there are these twins in my class who i wanted to be friends with but now im not so sure. the reasons why are i feel like they are gonna reject me as friends, also cause one of them is dating someone and even though i dont plan on dating her i feel like the boyfriend wont want me to be friends with her, and finally they want to be friends with everyone even if they dont have anything in common but i dont want to be friends with them if i wont have anything in common with them

Question: Why do girls complain and moan about catcalling?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:17 PM PST

It's free speech which is protected under the first amendment so they have to deal with it, not mention it's a compliment

Question: Do girls typically like their backs scratched?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 05:00 PM PST

I'm 17, and I was hanging out with a girl (same age) at her house. We were watching a movie on Netflix (actually classic TV sit-com reruns). I started to casually scratch her back, and she scooted closer to me as if she wanted me to keep doing that. A minute or two later, she grabs a pillow, places it over my lap, and lays on it face down for me to keep scratching and tickling her back.

Question: Is it normal to feel hurt and betrayed when your cousin decides to ditch you for a party? And Not even tell you about the party?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:54 PM PST

Question: Is Swagga McDaddy a good pimp name?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:42 PM PST

Question: Is this restaurant owner nuts or? (Roanoke, Va)?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:26 PM PST

I was at a small chinese joint in Roanoke, Va called "Golden Wok" it's located on 6443 Williamson Rd Roanoke, VA 24019 I have been a customer there for about 6 months or so.. I would like to hear people's opinions on this incident. I usually would order food by phone then go to the restaurant and pick it up. Generally no problem at all.. and very tasty food.. sometimes the owner "Rick" would be talkative sometimes he wouldn't.. My most recent 2 times going Rick the owner was extremely talkative and tried to share his morning routine with me, telling me he had gotten tired of using his old toothbrush and wanted to get a new toothbrush lol.. I simply told him "well go get you a new one". he didn't like the short reply and told me "you should give me a longer reply, that's kind of rude" then he did a complete 360 and asked to snap a photo with me. I said no.. and he said "Your kind of a rude person". I said "don't you realize I'm a customer"? He didn't say anything and handed me my food. I paid and while he was finding my change, he said "next time we can snap a photo together". I said "maybe"nervously. The next time I went to pick up food, Rick asked me "so when we going to snap a picture, buddy"? I just ignored it and asked my total. He got visibly upset and said "my wife would never say I couldn't take a picture with her" I said "that's your wife" he said " I know" then he said "I don't understand you. I take pictures with several customers" I paid and left.

Question: What do i do with my friend who refuses to delete our facebook conversation?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:17 PM PST

How do i get her to delete our fb conversation? Whenever she needs a help, i am always there for her and i always help her whenever she has a problem or something.. i told it is very unfair towards me. She doesn't even open my fb messages. I also suggested her giving her fb pass, after i remove the conversation she is going to change it and i also send her steps (with pics) how she can delete it.. ps i had a rough day today and i explained all details and i dont want her to have that as a conversation.. just in case someone hacks her profile! Any tips about what can i do?

Question: What’s this white privileged mean? I’m white I have no privilege my parents are loser alcoholics how is that privileged ?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:10 PM PST

I've never seen or had white privileged my whole life as a drug dealer to where I'm not never any privileged the judges threw me in jail like anyone else this white privileged is bullshit

Question: Will good dick have you stalking the guy's whatsapp and checking his "last seen" or is it just me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:10 PM PST

Am i alone here? If not share your experience if you dont mind. Thanks in advance.

Question: Female friend only seems to smile when she is around me. Can I assume that she likes me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:01 PM PST

We're friends with benefits. She has always had a crush on me but we chose to leave it at that since we always seem to be caught up in some kinda relationship. Anyways, someone hinted to me that she is always smiling when around me. Thats when i noticed it. Even in photos, she is only smiling in the photos that i snapped. She asked me recently if i think that her face always looks mean. I told her no. She says that people say that to her. How come she smiles only around me. Should i attempt to take the friendship further? Although she says that she has a boyfriend.

Question: Does this sound more than a friendship? Is this flirting? Any advice what to do?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 03:06 PM PST

So my best friend and I have a very close friendship. We say that we're soul mates because we're very close and have a strong connection. Lately, I've been feeling a little more "love" than just a best friend towards her. So, the other day I decided to tell her. She said she wasn't weirded out and all and if she was gay we would already being dating by now. She'll sometimes say she wishes I was a guy but then if I was the love wouldn't be how it is now. She'll joke and say well maybe who knows, but since I've been developing a little crush on her I take it literal. She said she never cuddles with anyone like that or compliments anyone like that. She will lay on me and say I'm the cutest thing ever. A few months back I did ask to kiss her and she said well are you and it was just a quick peck and the last night I kissed her again and I said wait you're not kissing me back cause she didn't move her lips and she goes well you're kissing me. Which true, but I am confused cause she didn't pull away, but she also didn't kiss me back. We again have a really close friendship and love eachother deeply, but idk what to do because she didn't disagree with what I said, I think it's maybe we both have a little crush on how much we love eachother? She even will say things like well definitely get married if you get a boyfriend then I'll say leave him. She says she's serious and that she would get jealous even though she's not a jealous person. But what does all this mean?

Question: Help I need some good advice on life right now I'm lost and don't know what to do anymore?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 03:02 PM PST

I'm struggling currently with life. Life has really been treating me with crap lately and I really just need some advice . I left all my friends because they were fake and back stabbed me and started rumors. My grandma isn't doing so good I have a feeling it's coming to a end . My grades in school are bad and I'm struggling. Lately I can't take this idk what to do I need someone to help me please anyone give me some advice

Question: It seems like my friend doesn't really want me to be around her friends. Why is that?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:56 PM PST

Question: What does it mean when someone says that you look exotic?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:44 PM PST

Question: Am I jealous?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:38 PM PST

Okay, So there's this girl at school;she doesn't like me and I don't like her. She dresses nice, has a lot of friends, and is pretty popular, etc. and I am not popular. I am a quiet nerd with zero friends who dresses nice too, but in a nerd-ish-y manner;) I don't even know why she loathes me. There is absolutely nothing about me to be jealous about.( For her to be jealous about, anyway.) I mean, the fact that she doesn't like doesn't bother me, but what bothers me is the thought of me being jealous...of her. I mean, am I jealous? Yes, I like the way she dresses and she has friends and I don't, but I could care less about that. This is bothering me. I really need to know. I've even tried admitting It out loud, but it doesn't feel true and right (. I'd know if it was right, but i feel like I need someone else's opinion on the situation So tell me what you think, and if you have any advice on how to deal with aggravation, annoyance, and the loathing of others; that's be helpful too. Thanks

Question: Friend doesnt wanna hang out anymore?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 02:14 PM PST

Okay so me and my friend got into an argument and then he said he doesnt think we should hang out anymore when just a few hours earlier he was saying that he hopes me and him get to hang out soon and that he wants to hang out, so was he just saying that because he was upset or annoyed?

Question: Help: do I have an ebony fetish?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:51 PM PST

I'm a 28 year old white guy and I'm deeply attracted to black and biracial women. I've tried dating women of other races but it just didn't feel right. I love black Women's hair, skin, and facial features. I see myself marrying a black Woman. It's a dream of mine to marry a beautiful and smart black woman and to raise biracial children with her. I've never dated a black or biracial woman but I know what i would like. I love the movie Monster's Ball. The redemption of Billy Bob Thornton's character really touched my heart. I love how he did what made him happy in the end. My mom is fiercely opposed to interracial dating. I don't need her approval but it hurts me how she can't find a way to accept my choices and to try to be happy for me. Is it weird that I would want my future biracial daughter to look like Halle Berry?

Question: Can you suggest any ways of meeting new people?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:41 PM PST

To make friends as an adult. Money is very tight so it limits things like finding new hobbies. I've no kids so nothing like playgroups. I'm not religious so no churches etc. I go to the gym but you don't talk to people at the gym, you're just there to work out. I volunteer but not many people really suitable to make friends with and I'm mostly there to work (trainer, peer support for ex-offenders, admin in an office) so not much opportunity to sit around talking to other workers.

Question: Should I still get hurt by this?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:33 PM PST

For the past year I've had some friend trouble. They have just been real jerks lately and it hasn't changed. Now recently they've started to all hang out and not invite me then post pictures on social media of them hanging out. Today for example they were all at the lunch table talking about hanging out tonight and not once did they ask me if I was interested in going. Not once. They even asked me questions about where the place was! It's stuff like this that has really started to hurt my feelings and make me feel like crap but I also feel like I shouldn't be bothered anymore. The stuff they do is stuff I'd say no to because is not something I'm comfortable doing so I'd me pointless. I usually say no to things so I can understand why they wouldn't but I always try to invite everyone even if I know they won't want to. Should I just not be bothered by this?

Question: Would it be weird of me if I contacted someone I knew a while back by searching her number in the internet?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 01:16 PM PST

When my youngest son was 3 yrs old, six years ago, I used to take him to a Mommy and me class. Ther we met another mom and her son. We hang out a few times mainly in the class and a couple times had lunch somewhere in our neighborhood. We became buddies or bffs in fact our friendship became short lived when we lost touch in Facebook. We never tried to contact each other again. I saw her once with her family at a Kohls dept store. They were just going in while we were on our way to our car. I think she also recognized me but we never said hello. Fast forward, I found her number on-line and her facebook too through her husband facebook where she was in his friends list. She was using a different name which didn't sound like a normal name, like as if she wanted to hide and not want to be found. On top of that, her profile photo is that of the ocean, not her face. There is no way I would have found her using here real name. i found her phone number. Will she think I am weird to suddenly call out of the blue after all these years? I think so!

Question: How to be happy? I really hate myself and my life.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:50 PM PST

Like I've been broken down multiple times in my life. I keep waiting for something good to happen. I like to believe that everything happens for a reason but it's seems like I'm just going through hell for no reason. I have broken down praying to God to help me but nothing... I have been depressed on and off for years. What did I ever do so bad that I have go through this? I don't think I can take it anymore. The other day I actually thought about killing my self. I don't know what to do. I'm over it.

Question: Should I go to hangout fest or a fancy trip for my senior trip?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:36 PM PST

I cant decide if i want to go to hangout fest in gulf shores or a fancy trip out of the country. If i go to hangout fest, i will be staying in an expensive house with all of my friends. We will be doing all the senior trip things like partying every night etc. We would go to the hangout fest and drink and dress all cute, surrounded by everyone in my graduating class. It would basically be one big party the whole time but theres sure to be a lot of drama bc im not really friends with that many ppl in my grade anyways. So do i want to be surrounded by most of the ppl i hate but have a good time anyways? If i dont choose hangout fest then i will be taking a fancy trip to and island somewhere with just my parents. If i go with my parents i definitely feel like i will be missing out on all of the fun bc my parents are kind of strict and kind of boring. But I wont be taking another fancy trip until i pay for it on my own...so thatll be a while. Hangout fest we are basically all on our own partying and having a good time but a fancy trip is also memories that will last forever. So do i go to hangout where there will be constant partying or do i go on the fancy trip where the memories will last forever? WHICH ONE SHOULD I DO?

Question: Did this make her jealous?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:19 PM PST

A girl's close friend offered me a ride home and at first said no but had no choice and took it and she's hesitant. This girls close friend has witnessed most of our interactions. Well the friend tells her everything about me every small detail so she goes up to me on it. The girl chimes in to conversations with others as well as other girls. I stared at other girls as a joke and she told me to stop when I wasn't talking to her or with her. She told her that she gave me a ride and today tells me that she knows her friend gave me a ride. Why would the close friend offer only to be hesitant.

Question: How does this email to my old teacher sound?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:14 PM PST

Hi, how have you been? I used to be a student back at Academy and I left around 2016. I recently visited the school and found out you left for another position, which made me sad because I've been wanting to catch up. I enjoyed talking to you in high school and just wanted to know how you've been doing.

Question: My friends are leaving me out?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:56 AM PST

So its the holidays, and I have been hanging out with my friend who I will call John for the past few weeks with her sister and sometimes his neighbour Jill. But one day, , John's sister's friend starts hanging out with us. In the beginning it was fine, but after a while I was getting left out. So first, i was at Jill's house, all 5 of us. Even though I was planning to hang out for the entire day, they forced me to leave so they can play the Game of Life and eat icecream. The next few days, it would just be the four of them, having fun, eating delicious stuff, fishing, and I was never invited. The only time I was able to play with John was when the other people wanted an off-day, a day where they rest. And on that day, John told me about all the fun they had, which pissed me off even more knowing I couldnt come even though I had time. The worst part is that John is a close friend who i always hang out with. Now, whenever I call them if I could come, they just say "Sorry, I dont think you can, maybe another day". I cant hang out with the, I cant fish with them, I cant even come at night to hang out. Which leaves me to staying home all day, feeling sad and bored. Im starting to get pissed off at them, and I want to know if its normal to feel pissed off at them or if it is my fault. John's sister's friend just butts in and replaces me in the friendship circle.

Question: Is my friend narrow-minded?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:43 AM PST

I have a friend who's a little younger than me and hasn't experience some of the things that I have. So when I tried to give him advice, or if anyone else, he will ignore and just suffer the consequence. Ex. despite our cautions of switching from a move theater job to a restaurant job, he still took it. Now he hates it.. Also he believes there is no faith in humanity. He believes crime fighters "superheros" with the right training CAN actually work despite my protest in it can't. And he can become uptight in a lot of situations because he only perceives it his way

Question: Friend doesnt wanna hang out anymore?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 11:30 AM PST

Okay so me and my friend got into an argument and then he said he doesnt think we should hang out anymore when just a few hours earlier he was saying that he hopes me and him get to hang out soon and that he wants to hang out, so was he just saying that because he was upset or annoyed?

Question: I have a toxic friendship.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 10:56 AM PST

I have a toxic friend... I have known this for a while but never done anything about it. We used to be best friends and to be honest i still feel like we are. But she gets mad at me about things that do not even matter... She has this Instagram photography account and she got mad at me when i wanted to make one. When ever she gets mad she puts me down and then acts like she did not do anything. She will say things that hurt my feelings then out of anger i will be mean back. I always end up apologizing first. I took a break with her this summer but it didnt help. We probably argue once a week but we normally make up the next day. Its really tiring. I have a lot going on and i don't know if i can handle it. I have anxiety/panic attacks and normally when we fight i get a panic attack. I always feel like i am doing something wrong... The reason i dont want to end the friendship is because when we do hang out we have a lot of fun. We also have a lot in common. What should i do/ how should i do it. (i have talked to her about how i feel but she never does anything to change/help)

Question: My best friends older sister bullies me?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 10:06 AM PST

I've been best friends with this girl for over a year and since we started middle school we're in the same school as her old sister. (We're 13 and she's 16) and for some reason her and her friends are mean to me. I can't understand why they hate me. But I'm starting to think that my best friend bad mouths me when she goes home and that's why. Shes mentioned before she wants to stop hanging around with me but then when she didn't make any friends she stuck sith me. I'm starting to think that she told her sister that she doesn't wanna be my friend and I follow her around everywhere when I don't! Anyway should I ditch her? She doesn't seem to care.

Question: I walked in the break room at work & it was me, my friend, and a female co-worker. So I said hello to my female co-worker.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:42 AM PST

And right away my friend says aloud, "she's not going to give you any of her P***y"! WTF! Seems kinda strange he would say that to me right in front of her. I don't won't her, I wonder why he would say that?

Question: Friend doesnt wanna hang out anymore?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:31 AM PST

Okay so me and my friend got into an argument and then he said he doesnt think we should hang out anymore when just a few hours earlier he was saying that he hopes me and him get to hang out soon and that he wants to hang out, so was he just saying that because he was upset or annoyed?

Question: Why is he always looking at me???

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:19 AM PST

I'm a dude and there's this guy at my work who is always staring at me, he doesn't look gay but It feels awkward. Even when I'm in the caff he keeps looking directly at me, he doesn't look mad or anything, he looks normal. I'm 22 and he's maybe 26 years old.....can I get advice please, why would he keep looking at me???? Plus we work for different company so I don't think it matters to him if I'm doing my job right.

Question: I want to contact my old high school teacher?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 09:11 AM PST

I live right near my high school that i used to go to, i graduated in 2016 and found out my favorite teacher left to go teach at a different high school (i never had his class sadly but we would talk often and he seemed cool) I want to contact him because honestly I would like to catch up but I'm not sure if I should do it or if it would be too awkward? if i do contact him, what do i say? im afraid he wont even remember lol. if i do contact him, how should i do it? through email?

Question: Sony XAV-AX100 Question?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 08:36 AM PST

I just have a quick question about an issue I've been having with this head unit I've purchased for my 2008 Chevy Impala. When I go ingot the tuner section to listen to the radio if I find a station I want and I'm driving down the road this screensaver type image pops up and it displays that the unit is both Apple CarPlay and Android Auto compatible. I love the unit and its not a major issue but just an annoying quirk that catches my eye every time it pops up

Question: How to meet a lot of people as a (sort of) transfer student?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 08:29 AM PST

I started my first semester of collee abroad with 300 other freshman going to my school. I made a few good friends there but was excited to meet new people at our school. When we got back, i quickly realized that my school is NOT very social. Parties are only available on weekends and if you have connections (which i dont have since i was away first semester!!!) i dont want to join greek life because thats just not me but i really want to meet people. Classes havent helped much. People really dont reach out and im a relatively shy person who also doesnt reach out. Help!!!

Question: Thoughts on Manhattans Elite teenagers?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 07:33 AM PST

Question: Life's hard. Start a thread and talk about life, help each other out. <3?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 07:28 AM PST

SPIDERS SPIDERS SPIDERS, guess who they are octopuses that live on land. :))

Question: Should I remove friend from Facebook?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 07:14 AM PST

My best friend flirted with my ex boyfriend when we were still together. I found that they are still in contact even though she has a boyfriend of her own. We've have fights before due to trust issues. I'm thinking of breaking it off once and for all. Should I remove her from my Facebook as well?

Question: My best friend always tries to make me small and remind me that i am a big zero with her way all the time...why does she do that?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:59 AM PST

Question: I have a long time friend that is now starting to show a different side and I can't put my finger on it.?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:27 AM PST

They have strange analogies about common happenings. A few examples; I found a few dollar bills in my front yard bushes and assumed the mailman lost them while digging in his pocket. My friend says most likely a drug dealer who threw money out of the window because cops must have been following. My friend says it's a common thing. Same friend says you can't get good connection in hospital because they are afraid you will upload evidence of their dirty secrets. I had an accident and adjuster didn't get back to me right away, so friend says adjuster is friends with the person who hit me. It's it just me or is this all paranoid behavior and what does it mean when someone thinks this way? I think some people make life more complicated than it should be. I'm wondering if this friend is narcissistic and thinking they sound smart, as if they have the answer nobody else would come up with?

Question: How to stay home from school ?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:13 AM PST

i hate school because im getting bullied i went into high school with confidence now im at a -100 i have no confidence in myself and i hate everyone there except my "friends" there not really even my friends i heard them talking about me and how im ugly i told my mom about this 2 weeks ago and she said we will talk and we never did i really dont want to go to school today i fake sick so much that my mom doesn't believe me anymore i told her that my stomach hurts and i have diarrhea but she thinks im lying which i am but i acted it out real good stayed in the bathroom for about a hour and was holding my stomach groaning she doesn't believe me im really depressed and i cant stop crying and thinking about everything they say about me im having a mental breakdown i cant go to school today i just cant help ?

Question: I like my besties brother.. what do I do :(?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 06:08 AM PST

Question: Does a 25 year old women really need a 38 year old women interfering in her business?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 04:31 AM PST

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Question: Anyone know any good websites or apps for making friends with people in forgeign countries?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 03:19 AM PST

Question: I feel bad that my son is not getting along with some kids in his class. What to do?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:39 AM PST

My son is in 3rd grade in the same school he started at in kindergarten. He found a best friend in 2nd grade. They were inseparable for quite awhile that year until another boy came into the picture toward the later part of the year and broke their friendship. The boy did not get along with my son and he put a wedge between my son and the best friend. When summer school came in July, my son made friends with a boy who was going to start 3rd grade at my son's school. I was glad that he found a friend just in time for the start of 3rd grade. They were going well in the first couple months until the boy started getting rude at him. I had a serious talk with my son about friendship. It seemed the new boy was no longer interested in being a friend. When my son would bring up something, this boy would say "I don't care" to him. On his bday party next week, out of the 12 boys we invited, only 6 are coming. Is it normal for boys at 9 years old to have conflicts that damage friendships? What advice do I give to my son about what to expect when trying to fit in and making friends, sometimes with those who are not interested in being friends wih him?

Question: Who is the best girl friend or just friend?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:34 AM PST

Question: Friend talks to me a lot vocally but seems closed-off through text messaging?

Posted: 12 Jan 2018 12:31 AM PST

Hi so I befriended this guy half a year ago and when we actually speak vocally to each other, he's very easy to talk to and we have a great time. But whenever I chat with him thru messaging he seems so closed-off like short responses and seems uninteresting.

Question: What can I do to feel better?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:34 PM PST

I've been really lonely lately and I feel as if my peers mock me and hate me but at the same time act like they love me and are my best friends in their eyes, I get made fun of a lot and people always make me feel low or as if I have no group of friends, it makes me upset because at Lunch I have nobody to talk to and all I do is walk around clueless wanting to just beat the crap out of one of my bullies or go home and be alone, On top of that it's many other personal issues that effect my life, any ways to deal with this huge amount of stress? Thanks so much, 5 points best answer

Question: Is this weird?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:15 PM PST

I'm a 27 year old female who is pansexual. I'm very much in the closet and always will be because I have always leaned more towards guys and I plan to spend my whole life with a biological male. I didn't know about being pansexual when I was younger and would get crushes on females (mainly older women like teachers), but my feelings for males were definitely stronger. I had a teacher back in high school who was 25 while I was 17. She was PERFECT inside and out!!! So beautiful and sweet and I wanted nothing more than to be just like her lol. A little over a year ago, we reconnected via Facebook. She's been very, very sweet to me and we're friends now and she has implied in the past she sees me as family. I actually haven't had an actual crush on a female since high school, so I don't think about my sexuality much or her much. Recently, she sent me a message thanking me for something and we replied a few times and in all of her messages, she sent a kissy face emoji. I'm not going to lie, she was killing me with that LOL! Is it weird to still have such admiration for her? In May, it'll be 10 years since she was my teacher. I've seen her a couple times since then, though. She was so happy to see me both times. And no, she's straight and happily married to a dude lol. I think deep down, I'll always have some sort of soft spot for her. She is my idea of the perfect woman though, honestly lol. yopflop or whatever your name is, you're 15. Screw off. I never mentioned watching porn or being perverted and at 27, I'm allowed to be any way I want to be. Get off Y!A and get back to your coloring book.

Question: I was in a "fight" at school yesterday, and I need some help...?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 11:00 PM PST

First of all, no we did not get caught. Ok so this is what happened, me and three of my friends were joking around with some kid, um I'll just call him S . He suddenly went berserk and launched at me (he tries to headlock and f*** with other people too). I didn't even fully comprehend what was happening until I was running with him five feet away. When he caught me he just put me into a chokehold, so I elbowed him but he ended up pinning me and choking me. Choking me, I mean come on why would you do that. At this point, I was done so I started to punch him but I was on the ground and he was like a foot above me so I couldn't really pull back. During this entire thing a bunch of people stopped to look, which was really embarrasing. Any ways, when he got up he tried to grab me by my sweater so I tried my best to grab onto his neck and/or sweater, I don't really remember. I tried telling him to calm down, which is when one of my friends finally ended up pulling him off. I don't really know what happened after, but I feel like a really big wimp, but in the moment I was just really surprised and didn't know what to do. By the way this is in High School, and I will be taking this question down tomorrow.

Question: Songs about drifting apart from friends?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:40 PM PST

there are a few love songs about drifting apart, but i kinda need some ones about friendship. does anyone know one about friendships going bad? "sick of losing soulmates" is kinda like what im talking about, but im not picky about genre. thanks a bunch

Question: Is my friend talking about me behind my back?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:38 PM PST

So I have this friend who always is complaining about her friends, and talking about them rudely. And I m the kind of person to want to be there for people whenever they need to rant. But then I realised, if she talks **** about all of her friends, then it s quite possible she does the same to me with her other friends. I mean, I can t be that one special friend who s the only one she doesn t hate right? Don t get me wrong, it s really fun to hang out with her, and I ve known here for so same long. And my parents like hanging out with her parents too, so it would be kind of impossible to just stop hanging out with her....what should I do? Do you think she s talking about me behind my back, or not? And if so, what do I do about it?

Question: Is my best friend interested back? How can I tell? Is this a normal friendship? What do I do?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:25 PM PST

So my best friend and I have a very close friendship. We say that we're soul mates because we're very close and have a strong connection. Lately, I've been feeling a little more "love" than just a best friend towards her. So, the other day I decided to tell her. She said she wasn't weirded out and all and if she was gay we would already being dating by now. She'll sometimes say she wishes I was a guy but then if I was the love wouldn't be how it is now. She'll joke and say well maybe who knows, but since I've been developing a little crush on her I take it literal. She said she never cuddles with anyone like that or compliments anyone like that. She will lay on me and say I'm the cutest thing ever. A few months back I did ask to kiss her and she said well are you and it was just a quick peck and the last night I kissed her again and I said wait you're not kissing me back cause she didn't move her lips and she goes well you're kissing me. Which true, but I am confused cause she didn't pull away, but she also didn't kiss me back. We again have a really close friendship and love eachother deeply, but idk what to do because she didn't disagree with what I said, I think it's maybe we both have a little crush on how much we love eachother? She even will say things like well definitely get married if you get a boyfriend then I'll say leave him. She says she's serious and that she would get jealous even though she's not a jealous person. But what does all this mean?

Question: Why am I upset?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:14 PM PST

I just stood up to the people who have been making my life miserable ever since I became friends with them five years ago. I considered these people friends since I was nine but I finally realized why I was never happy. Now that I stood up to them I feel like I lost my best friends even though they hated me. Why am I so upset about this?

Question: What do I do?!?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 10:09 PM PST

I have Anxiety & I'm having it REALLY bad right now! I got into a fight with someone who doesn't necessarily like me, but I used to have a crush on him. Long-story-short, a LOT of things were said & now I'm scared to go to school in 5 1/2 hours (it's 1:02 am) I think he basically said he told on me & maybe also my friend. He said, "I'm not the type of person to snitch buuuuuuuuuuutttttt yeah. Get reked" Something happened, I asked if we all good now with an emoji rolling its eyes. He replied "Oh no to late not on her on you" ("her" as in my friend) I'm so freaking terrified to go to school, but I don't want to tell my parents because they'd probably scold me for something. It's been almost 2 hours since his last message. We have school in the morning, him & I have 2 classes together & I'm just so freaking scared. Also, earlier today (I guess now it would be considered yesterday) I got into a fight with one of his friends. I just need help, I don't know what to do at all & it's extremely difficult to breathe. I'm so scared because I don't want to get in trouble, but I also want to hurt him because he said things about my friend & I.

Question: I don t think my new suitemate likes me?

Posted: 11 Jan 2018 09:52 PM PST

I just moved into a dorm at college. I am a spring transfer student so these girls I moved in with already all knew each other. I didn t know any of them before moving in. There are five of us altogether but none of us share a bedroom. We just share the two bathrooms. I get along really well with all my suitemates except one. We seemed to hit it off well at first but now she s very distant. She s mentioned a few times that she s very introverted but would go to the dining hall with the rest of us at least once a day. Now she won t even acknowledge me or another one the suitemates. (She will still acknowledge the other 2) Someone brought up that she might be jealous because I have become close to the one suitemate who she would hang out with one on one. (Who she is now ignoring) I have invited her more than once to come join us to workout or go to the library but she always says no and stays in her bedroom. The suitemate who she s close with even mentioned that she seemed moody the last couple days. I m worried that I somehow caused it since I m new and moved in the last couple days. She seems like a great person and I would like to be friends but I don t know how to get her to join us or hang out one on one. I m worried that I might be overreacting though because I seem to be a little more extroverted which is interesting because I always thought I was introverted until I met my suitemate. Any advice? Thanks

Question: I have a friend who interrupts group conversations by starting up conversations with other members of the group. What to do about it?

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