Family: Question: My mom heard me masturbating?

Question: My mom heard me masturbating?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:41 PM PST

I thought no one was home but then I heard my mom in the living room. I moan pretty load, there's no way she didn't here me. WHAT DO I DO!!

Question: My parents act like buying groceries is a burden yet they eat out everyday like 3 times a day. what's the deal?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:28 PM PST

I take a portion of my paycheck to buy the groceries for the household and no one eats anything except for snacks. My dad doesn't get any groceries unless it's basic stuff like bread, eggs, or butter. He mostly just gets TV dinners or either goes to Burger King and subway on a rotating basis. My dad believes that fast food is cheaper and cooking is too expensive but I digress but I have cooked many meals that have been significantly cheaper and lasted me up to 4 days. We are a family of five. Another excuse for why my dad or anyone else won't eat my cooking is because they said they don't like it. I was like " I cook a verity of things, different things everyday. It's something for everyone". Like one day I might make pasta and garlic bread and the next day I might make taco salad, the next day I might make chicken and the next day I might make baked beans and maspotatoes etc etc. I cook a big dinner of well rounded food and my parents will still frown their nose up and go out to Burger King or KFC. My mom will go grocery shopping once every blue moon but only get thing for herself : our oven is broke so i mostly do my cooking on the stove and my dad was like " that skillet food isn't good for you" or whenever i will use different seasonings for my chicken to make it taste good he will be like " you use too much seasoning on your food. all you need is a little pepper" and i was like " its gonna be nasty if you dont put proper seasoning on chicken thats what the seasoning was made for" also whenever my dad buys bread he buys the cheapest kind that ends up getting moldy after only 3 days. the milk he buys is the cheapiest kind as well and goes bad with still half a carton left

Question: Should I talk to my mom again?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 01:24 PM PST

I'm 30 years old. and in may i left on a 4 day trip and came home to my mom calling me every insult, screaming at the top of her lungs (w*** bi*** sl** etc) for leaving and for doing so without telling her. Shes very conservative and everything to her is crazy. This was 7 months ago and we havent spoken since. I'm leaving for school in a month and my therapist said that it would be good to speak to her before you leave but i still can't bring myself to it., and she hasn't tried to speak to me either. My dad told her to speak to me before but she just said i was a bad daughter. I really don't feel like talking to her. I know she's not likely to change and i cant have a relationship with her like this so i dont know wht to do

Question: I got sexual abused when i was 8?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:56 PM PST

So basically i was 8 when my step dad would touch me he tried rapping me but never really did. I was only 8 and i was scared. My own mother didnt believe me. She left him 2 months later. Eventually it was reported to Child services when i was 10 but by them my step dad moved to Mexico and nothing was done to him. Im 17 now and i still go to counseling. Only some people know. But my real dad has never deen in my life as much as i wanted him to be. I want to tell him what happened to me but im scarwd he might want to kill the guy or might not look at me the same. My question is should i tell my dad what happened 9 years ago.. I blame my real dad for not being there to protect me. And i want him to hurt just like i did... He dont look for me and i don't ask for money nor do i want it. All i ever wanted was the attention from the one man that was supposed to be there.

Question: Why are they taking the words mother and father in schools!?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:51 PM PST

out of schools

Question: Any advice for someone who wants to move out of state with little to no resources?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:33 PM PST

First, I'd like to state that everything I say here is 100 percent true. I've been a homeless woman (24) for some time now (1 1/2 yr). I lost my job & eventually my apt & car. I have very little family & the family I do have is not close knit. My closest relative is my mother but she isnt in a position to help really. She has a drug habit & lives with an abusive, drug dealer, drug using boyfriend who isn't fond of me, to say the least. He wont let me come over. He is not my biological father. My mom & I speak occasionally when shes available though. Anyways, in the beginning of my homelessness, I was living off of my savings in a motel. I live in a bigger city where shelters fill quickly so it was hard to get in one. So after I ran out of money, I slept on a few couches then eventually on the streets. I found a few jobs but it was difficult to maintain them because of my instability. So I turned to the streets to get money for food/shelter. Stripping/prostitution was not working for me. It made me wish I was dead. So I quit & finally got into a womens homeless shelter. A month later I was thrown out for fighting. I know. Now I'm back on the streets. I want to change. I want a fresh start. I don't know what to do & I need some advice. Please, if you're gonna judge me, just don't say anything at all. I know ppl will say "well you'll be alone in a city you don't know well." But I'm alone now, so I don't think there'll be much of a difference. I feel like I have nothing to lose.

Question: Why would I feel compelled to see my foster parents?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:31 PM PST

I haven't seen my foster parents for 8 years due to my anxiety issues. I visited them the other day and it felt so good, I cried and puked when I left. I have no other family like them. I grew up with them from 15-17 and they provided for me. If I go through there town I have this strong urge to pass by no matter what I am doing and when I don't I get a lump in my throat, stomach feels nauseous. I used to do my laundry over there and it was a great opportunity for me to hang out with them, one day about 28 the father told me I should start doing my laundry in my apartment building and that was years ago. Why do I have such a compelling urge to see them. I have spent the last 7 Holidays alone due to anxiety. I don't want another miserable year. What is going on here. I try to find a shrink and it's so hard. Please, any advice would be great. I don't have a relationship with my mom, dad, sister, and brother.

Question: How do I get over the anxiety about whether or not I will see my Dad on Christmas?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:09 PM PST

I have to see him for Christmas to feel full plus by mother acts like "see, I told you he doesn't love you" years he doesn't see me. He is an alcoholic and my mother divorced him because of it. Christmas was hurtful when I was a kid because my Mom wouldn't let us see him. As a teen I broke free of that and she ungrounded me from him (let me start seeing him) but some years he was free and other years he was drunk and wouldn't see me. Now I am 25 and there is this uncertainty if I will see him or not. I feel very empty the 4 years he has not due to drinking. Plus my Mom rubs it in with "I told you, he doesn't love you or anyone". I guess this is what she was trying to protect me from when she grounded me from seeing him as a kid but that made things so much worse. When we don't see him we don't get to the see the rest of his family either other then maybe an individual visit a few days after and they are usually too busy for that (they have younger kids).

Question: SENDING NUDE PICS TO FAMILY MEMBERS. have you done before and reaction?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 12:04 PM PST

Question: Should I tell my co workers to mind there own business?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:59 AM PST

There is only one way to describe my mother in law (Pam). She is beautiful. From looking at her, you would never know she could have a daughter my age. She is also one of the nicest persons you ever will meet. Pam and I work in the same office building. Occasionally we have lunch at a local restaurant. Sometimes when my wife can get off work, she joins us for lunch. At the last lunch, it was just Pam and me. Some of my female co workers who know my wife saw us and when I got back from lunch, they got on my case about me being a married man and having lunch with a beautiful blonde. I told them my wife was OK with me having lunch with this blonde. They said "Typical man". "No wife would approve of her husband having lunch alone with such a beautiful woman". I thought I would explain she was my mother in law but I decided they would probably not believe me anyway. Gals, am I right about this? I knew these women would probably call my wife and tell her what I did. That should be a fun conversation to listen to. I think they are going to be embarrassed when they find out that blonde was my mother in law. Should I have told them I was having lunch with my mother in law?

Question: My Dad is an alcoholic and wrecks Christmas. My Mom smokes cocaine. I am an adult so can I avoid them?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:56 AM PST

Question: How do I trick my Dad into loving me?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:56 AM PST

He has never wanted a relationship.

Question: Does what I did seem reasonable to you?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:55 AM PST

My ex mother in law Pam called and asked to come see me. She said she needed some help. I liked her a lot when I was married to her daughter Shirley so I said sure, come by any time. Pam told me she was on the layoff list where she worked and she wanted my help updating her resume. We worked on her resume one afternoon. I used my business contacts to get her 2 interviews from business associates that I thought might have an job opening for her skills and experience. She got 2 job offers and accepted one. I thought everyone was happy with the outcome. Pam got a job she likes, her employer got a good employee and I felt good about helping her. Pam was VERY grateful for my help. However everyone was not happy with the outcome. I got an email from my ex Shirley telling me that I should not be helping Pam as I was not family anymore and it made her and her new husband look bad because Pam did not think Shirley and her husband could help Pam. She ask me not to help her mom again. I replied to Shirley and acknowledged I was not family BUT Pam was my friend and when a friend ask for my help, I help them when I can. I told her that if she has a problem with that she should take it up with her mom not me. Does what I did seem reasonable to you?

Question: Am I being over protective of my daughter?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:48 AM PST

My 15 year old daughter's room is being remodeled so she will not be able to get in it for 3 days. I told her she could sleep on the couch or I will put a cot up in the den. She said that will be uncomfortable so she will sleep with her brother those 3 days. Her brother is 18. I told her NO WAY was that going to happen. She told me not to worry. If he tried anything no appropriate, she would cut his dick off. I told her again, she is NOT GOING TO SLEEP WITH HER BROTHER. My son heard me telling her that and told me not to worry. He said he would not do anything sexual with his sister. He said that is incest and it is disgusting. I again told them they are not going to sleep in the same bed EVER. My daughter thinks I am being over protective. Do you think I am?

Question: Mu cousins may be my half brothers/sister..Should I get dna?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:47 AM PST

So I found my dads brother may be my father and found out after his death by his daughter, then we had a long call stating my mom was going to see this brother as they lived close to one another all my life my mom stated that this brother was the best looking one of them all.. when he died she stated the very thing like for real.. then i confronted her and i get where did you hear this i dont know what your talking about i want answers and my mom always favored my brothers and ignored me even accused me of sleeping with my now step dad eww gross i was 14 pregnant with my yes now and still husbands baby

Question: My Dad is on fire with love for my new step-Mom. Should I call 911?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:42 AM PST

They got married Thanksgiving Weekend and his Christmas Card said he is on fire with love for her. I dont know if he has an extinguisher. Do I call 911 or is it too late since the card was mailed last Thursday.

Question: Does cannot be excluded as the biological father still mean that the person is the father?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:39 AM PST

Question: Is it wrong if I beat up my mom because?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:23 AM PST

My mom is a whore but I love her she cheated on my dad multiple times and I just found out she slept with my husband. I was so pissed off when they confessed it I managed to punch her 5 times. 2 in the face and three in the stomach but then my husband stopped me. every time I see her I still feel like killing her

Question: Does he have any rights, can he stop me?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 11:10 AM PST

My daughter (who s almost 13) hasn t seen or spoken to her dad in almost 4 yrs (and he lives 15 mins down the road). It s completely by his choice. He stopped picking her up for his weekends, stopped calling, has made no attempt to see or speak to her at all (phone number is still the same and still live in the same house for over 14 yrs). I ve never stopped him from seeing her and never bad mouthed him to her. Nothing. When he did take her, he d leave her with friends or family members to watch her while he was out drinking and getting high. He has no permitted address, hasn t given me a penny in over 6 yrs to help with her. Now my question is.... My brother wants me to sell my house and move down south to be closer to him and his family. Because our dad passed away and her and I have no more family here. If I decide to do that can he stop me even though he s made to effort to be apart of her life in 4 yrs and hasn t paid child support in over 6 yrs?

Question: How do I get my parents to disown me?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:54 AM PST

Honestly I'm sick of the **** my parents are giving me and I just want them to fvck off out of here so how do I get them to absolutely not want anything to do with me. I'm 16

Question: My 18 year old sister is in possession of Alcohol ?? what should I do ?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:52 AM PST

I'm her 20 year old brother and not very close with her... should I file a police report? what would the penalties be if got caught with alcohol under the age 21 ?

Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad and i dont know what to do because its near christmas and i dont want to ruin?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:31 AM PST

my parents always seemes close they only fight once a month at the most so dont know how to tell my dad.about 3 months ago i saw a message on my moms ipad to a man i dont know she said things like when can i try that and then he asked can i see a photo of you and it wa her boobs and then she sent a picture of her with my dad cropped out then today i looked on her fb meassanger and saw more texts to more men and it was the same stuff and like im waiting with a rose and when i asked her where she was she made something up i dont know what to do because its near christmas and i dont want to ruin it for my family by telling my dad ask for more details if needed please help me p.s im sorry if tis dosnt make sense i think im in shock well im crying so yeah oh and btw im 12 going on thirteen and my brother is 16 going on 17

Question: If my 18 year old sister hits/attacks me and i'm 20 year old brother does she get a penalty ??

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:30 AM PST

I'm living in North Carolina and I want to get an idea of what would happen to my sister if she suddenly attacts me even though she is not a minor and she decides to attack her 20 year old brother??

Question: Can my parents get rid of me?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:25 AM PST

My parents really seem to hate me I mean I give them a lot of **** I know that but that's only because they give me a lot of ****. Is there a way they can put me in a institute or something like that? I'm 16 years old btw

Question: How can I do it......?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 10:16 AM PST

I want my parents to be together... again like a couple..... how do I push them together my parents were together until I was three... my father has rejected my mother sense... my mother sleeps over every night so I can see her but there still not together how can I get them to be....?? I'm 11 now...

Question: How do I get my brother to give back my Christmas tree he took?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:55 AM PST

Yesterday my brother took my Christmas tree without me knowing. I told him to bring the tree back and even offered to buy him a new one. He replied that it's already decorated. I told.him decorate the new one. He replies that it is already decorated and he tool that knew because he wanted a tree and didn't want to spend the money on a tree this year. He would bring it back after Christmas and I'll have it for next year. How do I get him to give it back

Question: One aunt isn't close to the family on my Mom's side so she doesn't come to Christmas. Does she not really count as family therefore?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:53 AM PST

I know she is a relative but she is not very close. My grandparents go to see her New Years and otherwise we don't see her kids other then rare occasions like one funeral. She comes through town twice a year so we see her but are not close to her. She is distant from the family and at odds with her siblings (mostly her own doing). So do she and her kids not count as family even though they are relatives due to DNA? The rest of the family is very close. She's missed the last 4 Christmas' (counting this year), Our cousin's wedding, two baptisms, a great-aunt's funeral, My sister's wedding, and my grandfather's 80th birthday. The only events she has been at in the past 5 years where we saw her family were a 2nd cousin's funeral and once they past through (4 years ago). So are she and her kids family or just distant relatives? She began pulling away 6 years ago after her divorce.

Question: Does my mom disown me?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:46 AM PST

I don't know really, I like her. But sometimes she's getting too overboard, whenever I ask for food she would yell at me and always complain about how hard she works and how tired she is. Actually, she's always complaining how her body aches, dizziness blah blah every single day to excuse herself to not do anything for me. I'm guessing that she's expecting me to do everything and understanding that her work is very hard. I understand that. I only know how to cook noodles and rice. I'm not even allowed to cook for myself where there is no adult in the house. I have to eat the same single thing whenever she's resting, I get sick of it most of the time so I only eat 1 meal a day. She thinks I can't do anything by my own, even though I'm all grown out now.. I'm not making her look bad, I'm sick of her. I usually ignore people when I'm angry and guess I have to do it for a whole month now :/ I have no one to rely on, speaking on this shitty house.

Question: Since my mother hates my in-laws who do I pick for Christmas (she won't come if they are there)?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:40 AM PST

She is stubborn this way but I will never hear the end of it if I say "tough, grow up".

Question: I am worried my alcoholic Dad won't want to see me on Christmas because he's been drinking and I won't be able to shake off the sadness?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:32 AM PST

What do I do?

Question: Restraining order and arrest?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:30 AM PST

My cousin got divorced from her husband in NV.During school my cousin dropped her child off before work,her dad picked her up until he had to go to work.Then my cousons ex husband got remarried.The woman is well off,like really well.Her family is a bunch of lawyers.One day when my cousin picked her child up,her ex husband had ran to the gas station and wasnt there.The new wife provoked my cousin by telling the child, she could tell the school at show in tell that now she had 2 mommy's.This lead to a verbal and physical argument, my cousin punched the new wife.My cousin took her kid and went to her mom's who lives right over the state line in CA.She didn't think anything of it,just going to her mom's.Her ex husband got a restaining order against her for him,his wife,and her own child.She lost custody too.They're calling her "an unstable flight risk with anger managment issues"Even though that's the first time she ever hit anyone!She moved back to her mom's in CA.But now she's getting arrested!The new wife calls the cops saying she's scared because she "heard" my cousin is coming for her and going to take her kid.My cousin was escorted from her job one Friday and spent the weekend in jail.This has happened a few times. Funny thing, none of this is on her record.How can they do this?Did the wife's new family call in favors?Are the cops being paid off?I mean wtf?My cousin is a mess right now and about to lose her job too.How can her ex's new wife just destroy her like like this?

Question: Working mothers how many Children do you have?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:04 AM PST

Question: Why Do Old People Try To Push Their Ignorant and Antiquated Ideas on To Youth?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 09:03 AM PST

My grandpa tells me daily how medicine is fake and a scam and doesn't work, that black people are subhuman races of apes, and that the Earth is 4000 years old and that dinosaurs were fake and spread by the lies of Satan. And he actually believes this stuff and tries to brainwash me with it. Is ignorance bliss?

Question: My mom never treats me fair and doesn t care about my opinion. I feel so trapped and am concidering suicide.?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:59 AM PST

Whenever in any way I Stand up to her she yells at me and calls me the worst child ever and points at me in the most hateful ******* way ever. Like today I like to game a play wow because it s a hobby of mine and it s what I generally love to do and she wanted to make a schedule because she says If I game to much I will become one of those fat disgusting weaboo slobs. So she says she is thinking of giving me two hours because she doesn t want me on all day I ask nicely if I can have 3 hours and she completely shuts me down says two only and she ONLY HER will solely decide on my schedule when in the first place she asked me to help her decide. I feel like what I say doesn t matter to her and i feel like trash and want to die all the time. Then also I have sibling who she treats like gods and can never do no wrong on this earth it s always me making HE mistakes and ruining everyone s day. She makes me pick up their messes all the time while they do nothing but sit on their iPads all day and watch tv and play. They are 5 3 and 2 like I know a 2 year old can t do much but a 5 and 3 year old could at least pick up their play dough messes and put their dishes in the sink and put away their toys. Then whenever I tell her about how unfair she treats me she says she would NEVER make me pick up my messes when I was little and always did it for me. ( she was always on the computer and I was always alone all she did for me ever was make food. I always picked up my messes)

Question: I'm 18 trying to get a job and live on my own but my mom refuses to give me my information.?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:35 AM PST

I turned 18 a few months ago and I moved out with my friend and her mom. My mom refuses to give me my social security card, birth certificate and insurance card. What do I do? I don't want to file for a new one because I worry my mom will steal my identity like she's done with my older sister. Please help.

Question: My mom has lots of enemies can I add myself to the last because she puts me in the middle of her feuds?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:22 AM PST

Question: My uncle traumatize me as a child I'm scared of him to this day what do I do as I have to see him for Christmas next week?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 08:21 AM PST

He inflicted great pain on me. He would spray me with a water gun. He would tickle me non-sexual. He would say he was going to throw me in the lake as a joke but I was terrorized he would drowned me. He closed the door in the room on me as a joke for about four seconds it seem like four years I was stuck in there. He did not try to drown me like my great uncle did to a cousin of my mothers side of the family however he scared me and scarred me for life. How do I get over this fear as I have to see him for Christmas next week and I am terrorized and frightened and shaking. I am now a 41-year-old adult male. He now does these things to his nine grandchildren

Question: My sister used to be hooked on heroin I think she still is???

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 07:47 AM PST

What are some ways I can help her this has been ongoing for many years she has a ten year old daughter and that's mostly what I'm worried about . A year ago she got on methadone to get off of drugs she was actually normal for a few weeks she was going to leave her husband then she started acting like the old drug user she cancels plans we never see her she's always moody and blames everyone else she's never kept a job and her husband is on disability and that's how they live they live with his aunt and idk how to help her anymore she used to live in hotel and I don't want to see that again . My niece says she sleeps all day I'm just worried are there any programs to help or any suggestion from anyone who has felt with this

Question: How do I get over the hurt my Mom and her family caused at Thanksgiving and just enjoy Christmas?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 07:06 AM PST

I am 20 year old guy and I went to see my Dad at Thanksgiving and was late for my grandmothers. My Mom and her Mom (my grandmother) and even my aunt berated me for being so disrespectful as to be late and see my Dad when he caused all the hurt he did 12 years ago. I got nothing but grief and went home crying that night. I was told how disloyal I was to be 30 minutes late when all I missed was some socializing (dinner was another hour later and no one minded my uncle was late also). The real issue I guess was that I was with my Dad who is seen as "the devil" by my Mom and aunt. I am so worried now I have lost them as my Mom told me not to come to Christmas unless I can renounce my Dad and his family for what they did. All my Dad did was to please my mother's demands he lied about finances which he said was wrong. And he was a little bit of a partier (everyone says he smoked pot daily but he says he only did twice when married). My mother's family has destroyed me over the past month and there was always tension that I am nice to my Dad and his family. All but two of my cousins on my Mom's side have now taken me off Facebook (one never had me on anyway as she's only 11). My Mom even says I may as well call her Linda (her first name). So how do I get over this hurt? I will be with my Dad and his family only for the time being. People say "be glad your free of these lunatics" but they are family. They are lunatics but still family and they have good aspects.

Question: Algeria better in summer or winter ?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:45 AM PST

1. So my parents are going to Algeria for a business and family reasons in winter Janurary. Should I go with them or go in July when it's summer ? Im planning to stay from 13 July until 5 September. 2. Also are there nightclubs in Algiers ? And do the girls love foreigners? I'm an Algerian who was born and raised in Australia

Question: Am I wrong for not going to my fathers funeral?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:38 AM PST

So my dad passed on thanksgiving of this year. We did not have a relationship at all. I'm turning 22 in a few weeks and I haven't spoken to him since I was around 9 years old. He never reached out. No child support. Nothing. The only memories I have of him is him being an alcoholic and being abusive towards me and my mother. (But mainly towards her). I remember being around 4 years old and just wishing he would die because I was afraid of him and I was tired of him hurting my mom. We moved out the city a few years later. And he kept contact for maybe a few years. ( maybe a call twice a year). And then eventually all of that stopped. And I can honestly say that I was never sad growing up without a father. I feel I came out to be a normal, well rounded person with no "daddy issues". I just didn't care. I never went without, and have my mother and grandmother to thank for that. When my mom told me the news there was sadness...but I mean, it's always sad when someone dies right? But to me it was nothing deep. I was able to go on with my day just fine. But now my grandmother(his mom) will not speak to me or anyone on my side of the family. Me and her are not close at all. She keeps contact when she wants so that says a lot. But now it has me thinking. And I'm feel kind of sad. Was I wrong???

Question: What happens if the whole family turns on me on Christmas?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:06 AM PST

If they turn at me and begin assaulting me verbally and casting me out to the outer darkness. What do I do? It happened at my Mom's at Thanksgiving to my cousin Peter. I am worried they will do it to me next as I stated I like Peter (he is now cast out of the family at only age 14). Peter's offense was his parents are divorced and he was late for Thanksgiving because he was visiting his Dad (aunt's ex). Since his Dad is our sworn enemy for the divorce we hate all who associate with him. The daughter does not associate with him but Peter does. As a result we are obliged to our loyalty to our aunt to hate Peter now. We have done nothing but bad mouth him since Thanksgiving and he is banned from Christmas. So what happens if they turn on me for liking Peter? Everyone else blocked him on Facebook but I did not. I don't think he should be required to disown his own Dad even though he was a shitty husband. So what do I do if they turn on me?

Question: Mother steals from me is it ok ?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:05 AM PST

I moved back into my parents house and My Mom took a very valuable piece of my jewelry out of my packed stuff. and admitted she took it, doesn't want to give it back. My Grand Mother (her mother ) gave it to me when i was 16 yrs old. how can i get it back. my Sister says Mom, can do whatever she wants if my stuff is in her house?

Question: How do you feel about this?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:01 AM PST

i took two old pictures of my Dad when he was 25 yrs old. without asking anyone if i could have them. i took them 38 yrs ago. out of the house my parents and i lived in.

Question: Is anyone a single mom on Christmas, being out-gifted?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:00 AM PST

This happens to me every year. My ex is re-married and he got the house. Mom is the one with the 2 bedroom apartment that doesn't allow pets. Anyway, dad is buying our daughter a puppy for Christmas. I am not trying to compete with this because I can't. However, he is also buying her a phone and a tablet (his words). Last night, she told me in her own words "If dad buys me a dog AND a tablet, oh man he will be the best parent ever!!!" I tried to explain that we don't love people just because they give us things and it went right over her head. She basically laughed and rolled her eyes knowing I can't out-do him. She is at the age where she is playing us. I am about to get her absolutely nothing. Maybe a card that says "sorry there is no dog in here, mom can't buy you love". Thoughts? 12

Question: Why won't my son marry the girl we chose for him?

Posted: 13 Dec 2016 06:00 AM PST

We're Indian, but we raised our son, Rana, in the USA, Illinois to be specific. Unlike most Indian parents, we were very liberal. We didn't make him eat Indian food all the time. We let him date. We constantly reminded him that when he was an adult, he would have an arranged marriage. He always get angry and storms off, but I thought that it was childishness only. Now, he's 27, which is very old to get married. We've been urging for him to marry a girl we choose, but he always put it off. He has a girlfriend, Alex, who's white. I can see why he likes her. She's his "type" (brown hair, brown eyes, tan) very sweet and pretty polite. I have nothing against her, honestly. Unlike popular belief, we're not racist. It's just that the cultural contrast is very hard to live with. Let's say Alex and Rana get married. She's Christian. He's Hindu. She drinks. He doesn't. She eats meat. He hates the smell of meat and doesn't like being around it. She doesn't know how to cook any Indian dishes. We won't be alive forever, and what if Rana's craving indian food? They don't currently live together, so these things aren't a problem. If they do get married, it'll become a problem really fast. So, we're saving him a lot of trouble by trying an arranged marriage. However, he won't agree with it. Why os he acting so crazy?

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