Family: Question: Do people have sex after prom?

Question: Do people have sex after prom?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:53 PM PDT

So hello guys im a guy and this girl i like is going to prom with another guy I dont want her to have sex with him because i want her to be mine one day. She is really beautiful and sweet. What can i do? I accidently ask her if they gonna do that and she says no. Am i worried too much

Question: How can I convince my mom to let me go to the mall with someone in my age group?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:52 PM PDT

For my upcoming 15th birthday, my aunt wants to take me shopping. And I'm perfectly fine with that, but I think it would be more fun if I had another teenager to go with as well. There is a 15 year old and two 16 year olds I could bring with me, but she thinks I should spend time alone with my aunt for some reason. My aunt doesn't care, though, just my mom. Anything to convince her?

Question: My little brother HATES ME!?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:41 PM PDT

My little brother is just 8, but he already acts as if he's in the puberty. While he was still 7 he was so kind with me and all, always doing stuff for me and defending me. But things changed now, to the point that he doesn't stop insulting me , calling me ugly and stuff like that. (I'm going through depression and its even harder) when I do something wrong accidentally he doesn't miss to hurt me in some way. Like today we were playing hide and seek in a really dark place and I accidentally bumped into my brother and the guy who was seeking found him. He grabbed my pinky finger and twisted it really bad, I couldn't move it. Before I thought it's normal but rn I'm really worried he probably hates me... Yesterday I was so angry at him and I said 'UGH I SHOULD PROBABLY JUMP OFF SOME BRIDGE SO YOU CAN BE HAPPY' and he was all like 'go ahead'. I'm really worried, what should I do?

Question: What can you do when u live with someone who you literally cant stand to be around???

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:37 PM PDT

I live with my moms friend and i cant stand her. My mom wont consider moving and i definitely am too poor to move out i have no frends so i cant stay with anyone else all i want is to get out of here!!!!! Dont get me wrong i am thankful to have a place to stay but the only reason she lets us stay is not to be nice but bc we help her pay rent without us she would be struggling with her own rent. I cant be myself here bc my moms friend and her husband is so judgemental i am constantly wearing a mask so i dint get harrassed

Question: Why mother nature of michigan is a big Stubborn *****?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:17 PM PDT

Question: My parents won't compromise and they try to control everything I do. I hate them and don't know what to do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:17 PM PDT

Question: I hate my parents. I'm 16 - they monitor my clothes and phone/computer time, won't let me date or or have a sc. What do I do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:16 PM PDT

Question: Do I go to "fathers" funeral? He did not like me and I was excluded from family functions etc.?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:11 PM PDT

Question: How do I get my parents to change things so I can rotate and see both parents on holidays?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 12:06 PM PDT

Right now my mother gets me all holidays (my birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter, etc...). She will tell me she is sorry my father has no interest in seeing me for a given holiday but then when he offers to she gets mad and says no, "I am the parent and you are the sperm father". How can I get them to make it so I can spent part of the holiday with my Dad also for whichever holiday it is? Both live 20 minutes apart. I am 15 and a boy. My parents divorced when I was 7 and my mother hates my father with passion.

Question: What kinds of things are said, or should be said, in an intervention with a drug addict?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:58 AM PDT

My parents are staging an intervention in the next week with my brother, a drug addict. What kinds of things are said? I am uncomfortable sitting in on it but said I would supply a letter. So what things are covered in a letter on this other then just saying please get help. Knowing my brother he is going to go to rehab but then relapse a few months after returning. I should add my brother is 22 and has had serious conduct problems since about age 14 and the drugs have gone on for two years now. He always experimented with them for friends but only seems to be addicted for the past two years and he is addicted to prescription drugs (not sure how he gets them). He also is a womanizer. Our cousin (my mother's nephew) died 3 years ago from drugs and that doesn't even seem to have stopped him.

Question: 2-3 Girls 2 Boys?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:54 AM PDT

Hey i'm a 14 yr old girl and l know l'm young to be thinking about this but of course l'm going to walt l'm not gonna do anything dumb and lk having children ls plenty of work.. just to be clear.. anyway At first I didn't want any children when l get older first when l was younger lt was because l dldnt want to go through pregnancy and giving birth then as l got older lt was simply because of the pros you have when you don't have any.. lt saves alot of time and money and stress. My aunt and uncle are very wealthy and don't have any children and they got lt going on. and l still wasn't really up for pregnancy and birth then I was on and off about it for a while saying who knows and l was changing my mind lf l dld or did not want any then I thought maybe, if my spouse wanted to and I was already out of college in my career but the other day in school I was bored as usual so I started daydreaming/thinking then I thought that if I decide to have kids I want 3 girls and 2 boys (when married and out of college in my mid 20's w/ good career) then l started enjoying the idea having my 2 boys in sports and boy scouts and my mom finally having the grandson(s) she's always wanted. (my older sister has 2 daughters) and then having my girls ln whatever :) I discovered that sounds kinda crazy, I told my parents and my dad was like smh 3 girls and 2 boys wow that's money how about 2 boys 1 girl lmao l was curious about how lt ls being a mom of 4 or 5 (and what number ls better anyway?)

Question: Define your ideal husband?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:39 AM PDT

Job, age, looks, height, body type, race, interests, parents, religion, type, and any red flags.

Question: Why is my dad such a dick?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:36 AM PDT

He constantly yells at me like it's his job. He thinks he is perfect and he can do nothing wrong. he acts nice in public and everyone thinks he is nice but at home he is the biggest dick in the world. And he tells me if i ever tell anyone how he acts at home he will whoop my ******* ***. And I am a straight A student and every time my report card has all A's and he just says "congratulations you have seen another day." And every time i argue back at him because he is wrong he says WHY ARE YOU ******* ARGUING WITH ME? And he hits me. And he thinks he is always right. And I always ask my mom why did you marry him? And she says he was nice back then. And one time it was 51 degrees outside and i turned on the heater and my dad was like IT'S ******* SUMMER WEATHER OUT THERE WHY DID YOU TURN ON THE HEATER? And i said it's 51 degrees out there, it's not summer weather. And just to answer your question, no, we are not poor, we are like upper middle class. And my parents said they are saving money to pay for my college tuition and if they get sick to pay for their surgery or something and if they don't get sick what are you going to do with all the extra money?

Question: Is it just me or is it weird that a mom controls every aspect of her sons life? and hes 22?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:33 AM PDT

my finance s mom to me goes a bit overboard i understand she cares about her son. hes 22 and she controls everything his car milage,his bank account his schedule for work. For example if he spends money on his credit card she calls to question him. I m sorry but to me thats odd because its like why do you care what he spends his money on? hes a man he lives on his own. She also freaks out when he doesn t go to work she calls and yells at him and questions him about it.. I M sorry but that to me is way too controlling and weird.

Question: My mom keeps changing her mind?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:26 AM PDT

We're selling my Leopard Gecko today because my mom thinks I'm un-responsible. So we were getting ready to move the stuff out and all of a sudden she starts crying and talking about how I "Told her to sell him" when she was the one who wanted to. What should I tell her to secure her in the place of selling him as it is already too late to turn back?

Question: I caught my mum cheating on my dad, im 19 years old and i moved to London to go to uni 7 months ago?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:25 AM PDT

i haven't seen my parents in 4 months so i decided to go see them i decided i would make it a surprise visit my mums birthday had just past and shes 34 she had me when she was 15 my dads 2 years older and they have been married for 11 years when i left they had been getting along great as per usal, but when i got to the house i walked in on my mum having sex with another man he just got up got dressed and left the first thing my mum said to me was please don't tell dad, i said to her how could you?, she burst out in tears telling me how things have been, how shes only ever been with my dad and wanted a change i was disgusted in her, how could she do that to my dad, she kept reapeating tayla do not tell him please. he came home 20 mins or so later and she was acting so happy with him and i felt ashamed of her knowing that she is doing that to him stringing him along acting like shes loyal and i know shes not, she told me its only happened twice with the same guy and she said to me i need to understand it from her point of view shes only ever had one guy going out with her hes the only guy shes had sex with and she "needed a change" im so disgusted in her and want to tell my dad but then she used the whole your dad wouldn't beable to cope with this with his brother just passing away and you living in a different country, it would break his heart more, i know it would break him but i still think he needs to know, i need opinions, would you tell, should i tell him?

Question: I attacked my dad?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:20 AM PDT

so my dad has been an alcoholic my whole life and basically treated me like **** the whole time. yesterday he was drunk and he came into my room after ripping the baby gate off the door and slamming it to the ground. he really barged in there, like stormed in. he started taking his shirt off and said he was gonna kick my *** so I slapped him as hard as he could and he grabbed me super hard and asked if I wanted to fight. I did. I'm 115 pounds he's a grown man but I snapped finally I slammed him to the wall and then to the floor and punched him over and over. he needed four stitches in his face afterwards. I feel really shitty about it but I also feel like I am not in the wrong because he's been shitting on my my whole life. my mom is so ******* upset. do you think I'm in the wrong? and what should I do?

Question: Is it ok to feel this way?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:19 AM PDT

ever since my brother got married to his wife 2 yr ago, I felt like hes been drifting more and more away from me. It feels sort of like I'm not part of his close family anymore and I miss the old times we had very much. Hes gotten so distant to the point where I think he doesn't even really care or love me anymore. I just feel like I'm losing my brother in a way. I don't have anything against his new family but I just want things to be the same between us again.

Question: How can I be open to my mom about anything??

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:10 AM PDT

Question: Why wont my grandma stop CRYING ?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 11:05 AM PDT

My grandma has had 8 strokes i think and after the last one she stop talking and started crying its been going on for 3 weeks now and im so sick of it ! My mom take care of her but i be at home alone with her atleast 6 hours, i keep telling my mom to put her in a permit home but she wont ! its becoming so much that nobody wants to be home & i can see that its stressing my mom out but she's not saying anything. i try so hard not to be a selfish ***** but man im just tired everyday i catch a head ache and everyday i just want to run away ! thiss **** is so stressful ! before my grandma got sick she barely even talk to us and now she sick we have to take care of her iits not fair !

Question: My brother has blackmail if me cursing on Skype. what do I do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:52 AM PDT

I cursed over a year ago, he found out a week ago. He is saying stuff like I'll tell dad unless you...... What should I do? He has an iPhone 6 Plus with a passcode

Question: Any good places that take lots of change?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:44 AM PDT

I m not talking thousands or even hundreds of dollars worth. I m just talking 20 or 40 bucks. I took it to a credit union that I go to and usually it comes out right. However, one time I was shorted 20 cents and they wouldn t recount it because it doesn t allow them to. I was thinking of taking my coins late at night to a convenience store where and when it s not busy. That way, they can count it themselves and confirm that I have what I said I counted. And I'd rather go to a place that won't charge a fee.

Question: What can I do to help my sister with a brain condition after she graduates from high school? Does she need a therapist or psychiatrist?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:37 AM PDT

I m 17 years old and I m graduating from high school this year, my sister who is 19 years old is also graduating from high school around the same time. She was born with an under developed brain meaning she finds it a lot harder to do things others can easily do by themselves, and even though she is 19, her brain works similar to an average 14-15 year old. She has no friends and barely has any social skills, I tried telling my dad to take her to a therapist because as much as I try to help her, i can never truly understand what she feels, though he never cared enough to help. Now that she is graduating, she is also looking forward to attending college, unfortunately my dad feels that there is no reason for her to do that. I disagree with my dad entirely, but I don t know what to do! I want her to be in a place where she doesn t feel like an outcast all the time and that could teach her to take care of herself and be more confident. What should i be looking for?

Question: What would you name this Southern family?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:37 AM PDT

| you can changes spellings | first + middle names Surnames: Abney, Bullington, Cauley, Du Bois, Embrey, Farnham, Guswiler Mom: Adair, Caroline, Georgia, Hazel, Abagail Dad: Gabe, Colton, Brody, Houston, Lucas Daughter 1: Collins, Adelaide, Maebry, Josephine, Audrey Husband: Jace, Josiah, Wyatt, Micah, Austin Twin 1: Annabelle, Delilah, Savannah, Brynlee, Madelyn Twin 2: Audriana, Faye, Blythe, Clara, Addison Daughter 2: Elizabeth, Cathryn, Bridgett, Emmeline, Hannah Husband: Beau, Hayden, Jacob, Finn, Samuel Daughter: Colette, Elodie, Daisy, Ava, Lucy Son: Mason, Lane, Holden, Nolan, Grant Daughter: Esme, Paisley, Sadie, Millie, Lillian Son: Cash, Clayton, Owen, Huck, Sawyer Son 1: Weston, Quade, Keaton, Gaven, Jackson Partner: Dalton, Emmett, Ian, Gregory, Preston Son 2: Wade, Zane, Bennett, Miles, Tristan Fiancee: Hadley, Eliza, Eloise, June, Leanna Daughter: Reign, Vivienne, Stella, Zoey, Isla Daughter: Reese, Jessie, Olivia, Presley, Jill Daughter 3: Callie, Katy, Lauryn, Margo, Finley Boyfriend: Keegan, Trenton, Cooper, Hudson, Colin Son 3: Blake, Chandler, Easton, Bryce, Jesse . Caraleine Hazel Embrey + Brody Lucas Embrey Audrey Josephine Du Bois + Wyatt Jace Du Bois Savannah Madelyn Du Bois Clara Faye Du Bois "Claire" Emmaleine Elizabeth Cauley "Emma" + Hayden Samuel Cauley Ava Lucy Cauley Mason Lane Cauley "Mace" Lillian Sadie Cauley "Lily" Owen Sawyer Cauley Gaven Jaxson Embrey Ian Preston Abney Myles Tristan Embrey + Eloise June Farnham Stella Reign Embrey Presley Reese Embrey Finley Margo Embrey + Trenton Colin Guswiler Chandler Blake Embrey

Question: DO ANY OF YOUR FAMILY members HAVE A FELONY. if so, do you look down on them?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:35 AM PDT

Question: Why my mom always neglect me and love my sister. (My sister is older and I am boy)?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:35 AM PDT

I am 16 and my sis is 20 this year. It is clearly visible that my mom always neclect me and give superior position to my sis. Well thats not a concern. But as we are from the same mother s womb so we both have the right to get the same i.e 50/50. But I see in every case that my mom always give more share to her (in big cases). But in very minute things like dividing a chocolate she may give me the big size. Well I am not a child that I will just be happy with just a piece of chocolate. What to do? Thanks in Advance

Question: Write & print?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:24 AM PDT

Shirley Puhala, Winslow died peacefully in Glendale, California on March l6, 20l6. She was born Shirley Corbin in Syracuse, N..Y., August 20, l933. Two husbands, Charles Puhala and Alan Winslow, and a grandson, Sean Mehelic, preceded her in death. She is survived by her two brothers, Joseph and Leo., five daughers, Lynn, Peggy, Jeanette, Noreen and Terri, six grandchildren and three great grandchildren. She will be especially missed by her favorite grandson Clint, Morgan Holliday, who fondly referred to her as lightningl Shirley, for her driving skills around Naples, Florida. Never one to shirk an adventure, she moved to California when she was 80, with her daughter and grandson, where she enjoyed many good times.

Question: Help, my brother lives away from me who lives with his father who beats him when he does not have drugs and the police won't help?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:24 AM PDT

Question: Please tell me if I handled this situation correctly?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:20 AM PDT

I got a call from my ex mother in law June that she needed help. She said the company where she worked was installing a new computer system and they told her she had to upgrade her computer skills to keep her job. I really liked June when I was married to her daughter Jan but I had not heard from her in over a year. She knew I was into computers and she wanted me to train her. She said she would pay me for the training. I told her I would be happy to train her and I don't charge my friends for helping them. I went to her house each Saturday morning and gave her the training. She kept her job and even got a promotion and a raise. She insisted that I let her take me to dinner at a nice restaurant as her way of saying think you. We had a great meal, great conversation, and great fun. Then I got a call from my ex wife Jan. She ask me not to help her mother any more. When I ask why, she said I was so nice to June that she may start to have feeling for me and it would be too kinky to call her ex husband dad. OH CRAP. How do I get out of this mess without anyone getting hurt? I told Jan her mother and I were just friends and that is all we will ever be. If her mother wanted male championship Jan should introduce her mom to single men her age. She would make a trophy wife for someone. I hope I handled this correctly? Did I?

Question: I hate going to my dads house?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:17 AM PDT

Im a teenager and every weekend I have to go to my dads house, which is technically my grandmothers house. They smoke so the house smells and my skin gets really irritated and breaks out, I can never see my friends because the house is an hour away, and my pets, belongings, everything is at my moms (her house is like my home). Every weekend I always feel so upset and sad bc I have to leave and go to my dads it's so boring and I can't take it anymore. I don't know how to confront him about this problem and what compromise we can make.

Question: Is it OK what my husband is doing for my mom?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:16 AM PDT

The first few years we were married my mom helped us out financially. That was several years ago. We are in a MUCH better financial position now and my husband Jim feels it is his moral duty to pay back mom for her help. If mom wants something no matter how small or large, Jim gets it for her. It does not matter what it cost, if she wants it, he gets it for her. He also insist we take her to a very nice restaurant each month, something mom REALLY enjoys. I am happy we are doing this. Mom is happy with this so I was surprised that there is a problem with what we are doing. The problem is with my sister and her husband. They say Jim is making them look bad because they don't have the money to do the same thing with mom and they want Jim to stop buying things for mom and taking her out for a meal. I tried to tell them what Jim is doing HAS NOTHING to do with them. Mom does not love my sister any less because of what we are doing with her. I discussed this with my husband and he says what were are doing is the morally right thing to do with mom and my sister and her husband are just going to have to live with it. Can someone give me some advice on how I can handle this problem with my sister? Are we doing something wrong here?

Question: Did I do the right thing to stay out of trouble with my wife?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:12 AM PDT

My wife and I were at her mother's (Judy) house. Her mother had lost a lot of weight and had bought a new wardrobe. She wanted to try it on for me and tell her how she looked in it. After she had shown me several outfits, she ask me how she looked. I told her the truth. She looked great and had a great figure now. She wanted to know if she could find guys that would want to date her. Again I told her the truth. She would have NO trouble finding guys that would want to date a beautiful woman with a great figure. She said "I have not dated in over 10 years". "Do guys still want sex on the first date"? I did not want to answer that with my wife setting at my side. Luckily, or so I thought my wife said "Mom, just because Bill (me) and I had sex on the first date, that does not make it right". You should not have sex on the first date, the second date, or even on the third date". OH MY GOD. What is my wife doing, trying to get me in big trouble? Her mom had a way to put the whole conversation in prospective. She said "If I had had a date with your husband, I would have had sex on the first date with him. He is a great looking guy. I thought I had better get out of there or I was going to be in big trouble with someone, so I left. Was what I did the right thing to do to keep out of trouble.

Question: Why didn't my mom tell me about this?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:09 AM PDT

I was hanging out with my cousin at my aunt and uncle's house and we were looking through their photo albums. They had several pictures of my mom when she was in high school. One was of mom in her cheer leaders uniform. She sure looked cute in that picture. Another was her when she was homecoming queen. She was gorgeous. I think she was the prettiest female I have ever seen. Was she ever beautiful? My aunt said "Did you know your mom was homecoming queen all 4 years she was in high school"? I had never seen these pictures and mom had never mentioned she was a cheerleader and homecoming queen. I asked my aunt to make copies of these pictures for me and she did. Can anyone think of a reason mom would not tell her daughter about her being a home coming queen and a cheer leader? Mom has a birthday coming up next week and is having a party and many of her friends will be here. I want to make a large birthday card that say "Happy Birthday to my beautiful mother". "I am proud of you". "Your daughter". I would like her friends to see how beautiful she was as homecoming queen. I plan to attach these pictures to the birthday card. Mom has NOT gained a lot of weight and still looks the same as her high school pictures. She is still beautiful. Please give me some feedback what you think of my plan.

Question: I wanna live with my aunt and uncle but my mom won't let me or sign any documents what can I do ?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 10:08 AM PDT

Question: I hate sharing a bathroom?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:59 AM PDT

I know there's nothing to do about it, but I share a bathroom on the main floor of my house with 3 people. My parents share with my brother also, but everyone's always using my bathroom since it's on the main floor. There's probably nothing to do with this situation, but deal with it. The only other bathroom is the basement one, but there's no bathtub or shower. How do I deal with this, or what can I do to make sharing a bathroom not as bad.

Question: Can I get my dad arrested for not caring that the neighbor hit me?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:43 AM PDT

my neighbor stares at me whenever I walk passed his house. Hes always in his front yard doing stuff. So today I said to him to stop looking at me. It's not the first time I've had to tell him. And he said he'll look at whoever he wants. And said he wishes my family was still on vacation cuz they all had a great time while I was away. That annoyed me cuz I don't even do lots of bad stuff on my street. So I went into his front yard with my dogs (I was walking them) and told them to poop. They know what poop means. You just say it and they usually do it. Now they didn't poop!! I think they knew they weren't suppose to do it there. But this neighbor go crazy. I thought he was gonna attack my dogs so I let go of their leashes and I just stayed where I was stood. The neighbor pulled my arm and sorta yanked me back and forward a couple times and I fell into his gate and he slapped me. The fcking neighbor slapped me! I ran off and toad my dad and he said I deserved it. He wouldn't go out and hit the neighbor for me. He said I should learn something from this. He's let a stranger abuse his kid and don't care. He even toad my uncle he's glad the neighbor hit me cuz now he's can use that next time the neighbor complain or threatens to call the police. He should call the cops now. I toad him to and he said go to your room u little sh-t. Wtf. I was attacked by an adult! Can I get my dad and the neighbor arrested for child abuse Also one of my dogs was barking at him when he was pushing me into the gate. And he said if that dog bites him he's gonna have him put down And my pomeranian is still missing. As soon as I dropped the leash he ran off someplace.

Question: Why does my dad get mad for no reason at all?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:41 AM PDT

Im 15 So my dad has been getting mad at my mom for no reason at all (my mom wanted to go to Zumba class and then my dad just starts yelling about how it s stupid and it s a waste) and they end up not talking for a whole week. This has been happening more and more often and my mother has talked about divorcing him. I hate divorce, but now I feel like it would be the right thing. I m always uncomfortable hanging out with my dad when he is mad because he always says rude things about my mom. For example yesterday, I got home from school and my dad was there and so was my mom. My mom was getting ready to go to a welcoming party and my dad was going to fix a car (he s a mechanic) and he asked me if I wanted to come and I said if he needed my help and he said no. So he then tells me that it s fine, and that I don t have to go with him. Then he leaves and my mom says if I want to go with her and I say no I wanna stay. But my mom insists I go so I have no other choice but to go. While we re at the party I get a phone call from dad, I pick up and he sounds angry. He tells me that why did I go with my mother and not with him, then he tells me and my mom to screw off. And now I m afraid to talk to him, what should I do?

Question: HOW SHOULD I DEAL WITH MY PARENTS?? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:34 AM PDT

Okay, so my parents have already decided that they're going to take me back to Cambodia for summer vacation. I'll be there for about 2 months, and will then return back to the states. Obviously, I'm Cambodian- I was born there, but went to america at a young age. I've went back there when I was 10. Now, I'm 15. Ugh, cambodia is a really poor country so I do not want to go back there. They also drive motorcycles there. Goddamn it! Why couldn't I have been Korean or Japanese? I mean, they're rich countries with anime and kpop. I know that cambodia has a lot of temples, like thailand and vietnam and loas. But still... I'm a freaking 15 year old girl. I do not want to see a bunch of bald-headed people in orange jumpsuit in ancient rock buildings! I'm a U.S. citizen, but my mom still has a cambodian passport, so I just can't go to japan or south korea without her!! I've already told them that I don't want to go but my mom said that she wants to see her family(who lives in cambodia.) How do I deal with this?! OH, AND THEY'VE ALREADY BOUGHT THE AIRPLANE TICKETS!! ****!!

Question: Should I feel bad about what I said? Please help?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:28 AM PDT

At school, my class walked by a trash can and as a joke I said "Look it's our school" and someone said "your mom is a trash can"(not in a mean way) so I responded with " your mom AND dad are trash cans" The kid said he doesn't have a dad and said sadly his parents are divorced. I apologized and then we forgot about it Should I feel bad about it?

Question: My mom kicked me out at 17 and I have no where to go. Im turning 18 in 3 months but right now im basically homeless. What do I do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:25 AM PDT

I live in PA, if that s helps at all.

Question: My aunt gets my messages help please?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:24 AM PDT

My aunt sees everything I do on my phone, as she says .. how do I stop that like I want my privacy and I don't want her lookin at my businesses .. She said she got text or whatever but I need help she has my Apple ID user and pass but how do I get to the point where she can't see anything please help

Question: Why is my mom so crazy?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 09:03 AM PDT

i am 17 years old and my mom grounded me for getting a 58 on a chem test which means i cannot go out all weekend. that is understandable but 2 days later she grounded me for not eating my breakfast. but she made the punishment worse. she said i cant drive to school and i have to walk home from work in the pouring rain. and that i cant go out with the boy i like next weekend. shes ruining my life and i dont know what to do.

Question: Is my granddad really my dad?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 08:27 AM PDT

I am very suspicious lately, because when we go out places together everyone assumes I'm his son. I'm 15 and he is 55. When my mom is with us they assume my granddad is my moms husband. Shes 34. My mom has always been a single parent and we live with my granddad. My grandma is dead. This seems strange.

Question: Why are people so horrible, is it because we're poor?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 08:24 AM PDT

People are so mean to my sister and Iike WTF did we do to these people. It s not like I m sitting here feeling for myself and being petty. People are really mean. My sisters friends regularly cut her off from things like when they go out. She s 14. She also has a heart condition so she has to be on medication and stay at the hospital for long periods. She had surgery a few months ago and I walked in on some of our family members making fun of it. Thats not normal, right? Thing is its just me, my mom and my sister. My dad left when we were much younger and we have never really had money, it s always been a struggle even now with me working and contributing. It s not like we re poor because we re trashy or something. We just don t have money, not everyone is going to be rich. People are so immature FF

Question: Was public education better when my parents were in school?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 08:17 AM PDT

I m 17 my mom is 48 and. My dad is 49. American public education

Question: How to have a good relationship with abusive parents as an adult?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 08:13 AM PDT

For everyone who had verbally/physically abusive parents growing up how do you forgive them and pursue a relationship with them as an adult? what are proper boundaries? how do you let go of your anger when they mention things that are memory triggers? How do you explain these boundaries to them without them getting irrationally angry, yelling at you, or calling you names?

Question: I want a sister so badly?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 08:08 AM PDT

I'm a 13 year old female who has two brothers. I am the middle child too. My brothers are annoying, especially my little brother. They always keep to themselves. They are always on their electronics locked up in their rooms and so I have no one to talk to or communicate with, which leds me to staying in my room always on my phone because I'm so BORED. I have always wanted a sister because I feel like her and I would communicate more and relate to each other better, you know? I always get jealous of my friends who have sisters because they are so lucky. Whenever my cousins come over I get so so happy because they actually hang out with me and talk to me and whenever I'm with them it's never boring. I don't know what to do, any advice or tips?

Question: Why is your dad so special to you?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:57 AM PDT

My dad and I had a very rocky relationship my whole life and it progressed to a point that we could not be in the same room together. I just recently woke up and found peace in loving him unconditionally. It was the most freeing moment. I love him for who is.

Question: Anyone hate parents evening I hate it!!! My dad then talks to me at home about my grades and then how I can improve them?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:38 AM PDT

Question: HELP, my parents found some ash in my car?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:37 AM PDT

My parents found some ash in my car. What excuse can I tell them? I'm thinking along the lines of telling them it was something else, like dirt, but what do I say?

Question: HELP, my parents found some ash in my car?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:35 AM PDT

Question: Why do i feel so out of place in my family?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:32 AM PDT

I feel like I m the outcast of my own family. I feel like everything I say makes my family really mad and that all I really do is upset and ruin my families happiness. Any advice on how to at least feel a little happy?

Question: My father is calling me a stupid and anorexic?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:29 AM PDT

I am a 15 year old female..My father calls me anorexic and says I am a re-ard along with other horrible names on a daily basis. I am not anorexic as I make sure to eat at least 1400 calories a day, but I work out for a couple hours. I lost 9 pounds this month ( and feel great!) and now I am at my recommended weight. The thing that confuses me is he tells me to eat more so I'll stop being "cranky" (he is the one that makes me cranky). However, he yells at me for eating too much. Last night I ate a banana and half a pound of strawberries as a snack and he made me pay for them after he yelled at me for eating everything... which I had to give him $10. He continued to yell at me afterwards too. I am jealous of my brother because he is 18 in college... he hasn't paid my parents for a single meal, doesn't have a job and doesn't do anything for my parents. AND he gets gas money and allowance from them. I clean their house, do laundry, make dinner, take care of their dogs and pay them for the food I eat! I do not get any allowance. I wouldn't even care about the allowance if my brother wasn't getting any. I feel like they are ( especially my dad) treating me badly and unfairly. How can I get them to treat me fairly and kindly?

Question: My brother is gay and he's gotten really unhealthy, what do I do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:29 AM PDT

My brother is 15 and he's gay. He is. We're sure of that, it's not an issue or a problem. My whole family is plenty evolved. The problem is, he has been getting a lot of crap at school ever since he came out. So, to cope with it apparently he's been using food. He's actually gotten rather fat. It's getting bad. His boyfriend left him over it. I'm not mad at the guy. Teenagers are like that. But has gotten even fatter since that. I saw him without a shirt and his belly is huge. I got him to get on a scale. He's gained 35 pounds since this started happening. What do I do? What kind of support can I give him? Do I just let him handle his weight on his own? I'm supposed to be there for him.

Question: What can my dad do?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:29 AM PDT

I'm just a teen, and my mom is moving me to another state with her, I want to. (She has full custody) And my dad says he is not going to let that happen. What can he do?? I want to leave.

Question: Full time job on weekdays and part time on weekends? .... Moving out ... Need advice?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:28 AM PDT

Im 20 and I'm currently working part time mom-fri but I have applied a few days ago to work full time at petsmart mon-fri and I was wondering would that be a good idea and then work the weekends at my part time job which is a daycare at a gym, it's from 9am-1:30 which isn't that bad and will give me some extra money. Me and my BF ( he lives in Maryland ) I live in Virginia and we are trying to move in together by next summer. I've been applying to many places and now I'm waiting for one to call back. My parents don't like the idea of me moving out with him and my mom hasn't spoken to me at all since I told her, she's been verbally abusive too ever since I've told her. Our goal is next summer because that's when my parents are moving to Hawaii since my dads in the military. He says I should move in with a girl so my feelings and emotions won't get in the mix?! I just want them to be supportive and respect what I want to do. They just recently started listening to me about it ( well my dad has ) my mom hasn't talked to me at all.

Question: I want to quit 4-h but they wont let me?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:09 AM PDT

I really, really want to quit 4-h, but my dad won t let me. I m in my third, maybe fourth year and I just have so much going on right now, but I can t tell him because he won t understand. I want to make him happy, but making me do things I don t want to do, such as 4-h, is too much. I ve been wanting not to move away and leave everyone behind, but I can t (I m 13). I m afraid he ll spank me like he used to when I was little and did something wrong or didn t listen to him. What do I do?

Question: My grandma keeps talking crap about my dad. Suggestions?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:04 AM PDT

My parents have been married for almost 28 years, & my grandma has always been kind of mean to my dad. She always finds something to b*tch about. He's not good enough for her. Anyway, last summer my dad got fired from his job for drinking on the job. I know, he screwed up. BIG TIME. My mom and I were extremely pissed, still disappointed, but that's over and done with. He's still looking for a job, but he visited his old workplace, and they said they might hire him back. My grandma had field day with this. Whenever I go over there by myself, she starts asking what my dad is doing. I say he's at home. Then it starts. "He's so stupid. What will you guys do. Why isn't he looking for a job." etc. Yesterday she said the usual stuff, then she said "that's why I don't come over because I don't have anything good to say." So you can't come over to talk nicely with your daughter and granddaughter? Meanwhile, she still talks to her ex- son in law. She even said he's better than my dad! He cheated on aunt, he would come home drunk and kick her and the kids out of the house, and he abandoned the family for 20 years. Now he shows up when all of my cousins are grown up, and he has a job, and my grandma thinks he's an angel. Meanwhile my dad never cheated on my mom, never laid a hand on us, and worked for years to care for us. My dad was bff's with my grandpa, but he passed 9 years ago. I wish he was here to protect him. My mom & I just ignore her because we don't want trouble. Suggestions?

Question: Should I feel guilty and should I tell my parents?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 07:03 AM PDT

So my parents partially know about this but i changed up the story a little bit. So like 2.5 - 3 years ago (I was probably 14 maybe 15) me and my homie and his little brother all got really high. Well his little brother had something poking his buttcheek and had been trying to get it out. Well my homie went into the bathroom and showered and while he was in there me and his little brother were laying down in a huge warm bed cuz we were freezing. His little brother was trying to get that pokey thing out his butt and while he was I was like hey man lets get it on. And I kept acting kinda weird and like hey man lets do it in da butt. Well him being 12-13 was old enough to realize this was mainly a joke and just laughed. So I never touched him anywhere and he never touched me anywhere. Now my memory is a little off cuz I was baked out of my mind, but the most that would've touched was my dong on his buttcheek. I told my parents he was trying to get something out his *** cheek and I went over and thrusted and pushed him over lol. Should I be trippin about this cuz I've just been feeling really weird and guilty and I feel like I should tell my parents the whole story

Question: What are some REAL methods for locating a missing person?

Posted: 09 Apr 2016 06:50 AM PDT

Trying to bypass the silly "FAUX" methods advertised on the web. I've tried those and they only waste your time and tell you nothing new. We are trying to find my uncle whom we lost contact with 20 years ago. Are there any LEGITIMATE resources available to amateur searchers? Can you direct me? How would you start? .